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The guy was just thinking out loud

Jakumo:
This is the carnage a shotgun blast inflicts on flesh, when fired from a distance of less than ten feet. Buckshot tears away chunks of flesh and bone.

Very messy and devastating indeed. This guy would have been stone dead, before his body hit the ground.

Somebody hated him in a very personal way, and wanted to make sure that he joined his ancestors with immediate effect.

A job at the CID awaits you.

Misslilbootay:
I am not a virgin because the guy I dated before made it seem like sex was the only thing that could keep him.
Unfortunately, that is another story of its own.


Recently, a friend of mine came and asked me if sex was necessary to keep a relationship. She told me the guy has given her everything she needed in a man but he couldn't stop asking for sex. She said that she wasn't ready to compromise her faith that premarital sex was a sin but she didn't want to lose this guy as he felt that her refusal to have sex with him meant she didn't love him.

The question I'm throwing now is
1. Can a man stay without sex in a relationship and wait till she is ready. (As in this case, she wants to wait till she is married)
2. Why is sex so important to men in a relationship? Do they see it as reciprocating of love especially when they spend heavily on the lady?
3. Also, most men wants a decent lady. Here is a lady who wants to keep herself for her husband but the boyfriend sees it as she manipulating him. Since you guys want a lady that isn't a borehole, why do you demand for sex when you are not sure if it will work out?

Your intelligent opinions will be appreciated.

U said u weren't a virgin because ....
That's a big lie. Truth is, u made that choice yourself or were u raped? Well, that's a question for another time.
Forgive me if I go by asking you questions as a way to answer your As.
1. Can woman stay without her needs or wants being met until the he is ready to marry her?
2. Why is money so important to women in a relationship? Do they see it as their gains upon having sex knowing such was for mutual satisfaction?
3. Almost all ladies want an accomplished man. A typical man is one who wants to save up, invest so as to plan for his future but when he doesn't satisfy for monetary needs, she sees him as being stingy.
Since you ladies don't want a man that is broke, why get him to satisfy your needs when it isn't sure you would be with him to the end.

@OP, I don't like the picture u are trying to paint. The girl is just as guilty as the guy. There are ladies out there and men out there who respect themselves as regards these issues because they ruled out making demands.

Neddstark:
If I were there, I would confront the soldier. Infact there are many people there that are ready to confront the soldier for harassing the woman. This could be someone's wife, sister or mother. But the lady dressing improperly made it quite difficult for someone to put up a fight for her. The military needs to re-orient its soldiers.

Confront ke? Baba, it will be a winter without Arya stark cos everyone whey dey your back go discharge

Holiegrail2:
Chief of staff, spraying money.
It's alright.

Friends of Kanayo O. Kanayo

rottennaija:
Seeking attention

she would love to be used for money ritual

Best comedian of the year
You're way too funny

ILoveDemMANNA:
Read it again.... this time SLOWLY .... and hold the phone with your left hand!!

iamyemiakins:
The dog looks confused, wetin una do this dog now

better than those ones helplessly salivating everywhere in the house

MasterDreamz:
Fine man like that, women finish for world?

Nah, he just couldn't cope with their problems.

slimthugchimee2:
I can never have a heart attack because my heart is not stupid enough to attack me

Guy, i dont think u know just how funny this your statement is. Really cracking me up here.

Omoolami100:
Can't you read or something?

no brotherly! I can't. Was just trying to make a pun on supposed thought

Omoolami100:
RIP Legend. I thought he had a successful brain surgery a while ago

. Brotherly, so the brain surgery was supposed to stop the heart attack?

Ever8090:
the children of a billionaire..now who are you?!!!

some questions will remain unanswered.

NNEWIsuper:
Maybe he just used the nwakaego just as anyone would have used iyabo or something like that

Haba! Can't an Igbo girl come from a Muslim background? I believe u know some Muslims are Igbo. Don't know about her really per say

baralatie:
imagine Nigerian launching space rocket and land on the moon and mars

and we hang out green white green flag

Am still imagining when electricity poles in our streets will stand straight, not like the ones standing like they are always gossiping.

theFilmtric:
Must you always do this
Aren't you meant to be in church?

Besides what country isn't a shadow of its former self?
Infact Nigeria's shadow is a penumbra
A very very blurry shadow of its former self

theFilmtricsay

Nigeria got no shadow. There was no past glory really. Its been corruption and pain since time immemorial. Forget the pictures people try to paint.

Barka00:
I pray the supreme court will rule in favour of Donald Trump.

Trump does things that supports the freedom of his people but many are blind to see.
Joe Biden/Obama would have made face mask compulsory hence vaccination will also be mandatory. But Trump let people do what they believe in.
He didn't impose lockdown because the crash of the nations economy will domore harm that the virus itself

There is no right reason to hate this man. We all know he is not perfect but he is the only person in the right position to prevent some inhumane things from happening. In Reality they are after us not him, he is just in the way.
Trump 2020.

Have u watched the news lately to see the COvid 19 figures of that country? Did you not hear he contracted it too, for obvious reasons? Guy! We know that country ain't ours, but with the way that man is currently misbehaving, I am beginning to think he might just be a distant relative of HITLER.

Shelumiel:
This man may have a point. There is something ungodly about that woman.

Guy, don't... And I mean just don't...
How many lives did his ministry of aviation took compared to the ones she has taken?
He is among the devils in this country that needs to be taken "care of".

Life no balance, could have just tied a rope to the keke and let the horse pull it.

ORIENTATION101:
6G has been launched any conspiracy theory for it

virginprincess:
I created this tread because of those of you insulting in a created by kranediggy, i want to make my explanation more clearer............. haven't you people seen in a situation whereby a man married a woman then ask her to sit at home to start bearing children for him even though it is not the woman's choice, you guys were attacking me like i said something bad or strange....... i also said a woman's money is not suppose to be shared, i meant it is not suppose to be shared between her and her husband, i am not saying the woman should not spend on her children, she can do stuff like buying of clothes, taking the children out and so on, but core responsibilities like paying of the children schoolfees, house rent and so on is supposed to be for only the man, if not why is he called the head of the family? you guys should learn to read and understand before attacking someone, .

@ OP, you didn't fall from heaven, you come from a family and all the answers you seek are staring at you in the face.
There is a reason your mom is called your dad's wife.
Let's just say all what you mentioned was your dad's responsibilities. If he didn't have at the time, and your mum had, would she not save both of them the SHAME, DISGRACE accompanying his inability to pay, let's say your school fees, house rent given she had?
Would your dad in his right mind refuse to do all those things if he had the money, even with his Ego at stake? Haba! (We have some exceptions though )

Pls, don't make me believe your way of reasoning is a painted picture of what went on in your home cos ladies, most especially don't know they indirectly TELL OUT what goes on in their life without really knowing.

I heard of a woman who got sick and died.
The sad story was that she had money to treat herself but remained adamant, insisting her husband must be the one to pay the bill bcus the last bill she paid, her husband was yet to return it. She released the money but it was already late.

@OP, nobody is arguing with you, people insulting you may just want you to intelligently know situations that may demand you play the part of your husband.


Do you know that in a pride of lion, it's the lionesses (females) that hunt for food? If so, find out yourself why at some points do the lions(males) ASSIST the females in hunting?
Do you also know that in some settlement not just in Africa alone, women were the ones who fend for food? Find out why the table later turned.


@ OP, Please, i meant no disrespect putting your parents in the pix, I just wanted to paint you a direct picture so it plays before mind's eyes. Sleep well!

Dreyton36:
Can you pls do us the favour of shutting the fvck up ?
You're being a nuisance in here pls

Be wise to recognise a weird fellow, else you may be considered his friend.
That guy is just like a piece of bone stuck in your gut.

Agbegbaorogboye:
The way you confuse English eehn?!!
Seun should install a translator so you can be more comfortable since you're hooked on this forum.

You just made my day

urchcoded:
Uncle jona borrow trump your phone, that one Dem Dy use concede defeat, congratulate your opponent. But wait oh. This US election na ABACUS Dem use Dy count am? I no come understand again

They voted by ballot and by mail. The increased mail voting is giving them concerns

Ever8090:
He shouted and walk away unharmed, if na for my country only God knows how many bullets for enter him body...

Let a black man try it in that same country, you will see what will happen

Amotolongbo:
We don’t wanna hear it, we wanna feel it

Ajegunle, Apapa enjoy virtually 23hours of light per day. No be lie..

pablobellins:
this will happen when the gods get angry and send a plague to lagos

gods whey no see Ebo chop, which strength dem get to take wan send plague?

Madibah:
LMAO
No chills for this country

Dem don finally blind the man!

ODJ124:


The oba of Lagos has been treated unfairly...




Thread seen...

Believe u mean, of all the nonsense going on, when I see any story about him, I begin to laugh hard. The gods have gone for check ups. Something is definitely wrong with them.

J111333:
...and I was about sympathizing with the Oba over his burnt palace because he is neither a politician nor has a hand in Nigeria's bad leadership.
Why keep palliatives in his house?

That man is more politician than a politician and far worse in comment than a bad leader( remember the Igbos will be drown in the lagoon? Yea, that was him).
Well, in the palliatives issue, I believe he kept it just for the fun of seeing it. A lot of craziness comes with old age, so I wouldn't blame him.