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TravelRe: If You Are Given The Oppurtunity To Travel Abroad Where Would You Go? by efemena5050(m): 9:59am On Aug 12, 2020
Alexgman1:
Most of us here in naija are seriously aiming, dreaming, hoping, praying & even fasting to have the oppurtunity to travel abroad one day. Maybe to study, work, on vacation, evangelization or probably to start living there. If the oppurtunity comes and there you are to select any country of your choice to travel to, which country's visa would you go for & what made you choose that country? Lets see/hear your favourite country apart from NIGERIA your fatherland
ISREAL ISREAL.........any day any time i dont mind fighting for them
TravelRe: If You Are Given The Oppurtunity To Travel Abroad Where Would You Go? by efemena5050(m): 9:58am On Aug 12, 2020
nijaomegacode:
Israel. I love that nation.
GOD BLESS U even me i love the country
FamilyRe: Betting Has Landed Me Into N600k Debt! by efemena5050(m): 9:30pm On Aug 10, 2020
ikechukwu150:
if you cant advice the guy,why not shut up pls.. Only God knows if you are not worse than him.. Mr Saint!!!
noted now run along pls
FamilyRe: Betting Has Landed Me Into N600k Debt! by efemena5050(m): 8:57pm On Aug 10, 2020
yocreo:
In Need Of A Serious And Sincere Advice

Hi Nairanlanders,

I would have loved pour out all I'm going through but posting about personal issues can be really boring to some people and also, some might think this is some sort of competition cos of the rate at which people speak about their ordeals lately. I have done something really terrible which I personally go crazy anytime I think of it to my mom. All I feel right now is depression, anxiety, unhappiness and frustration that I'm afraid I may do something crazy. However, I'm in need of a serious advice and counselling from concerned people. I'm willing to let everything out... I NEED HELP, I'M SO GOING NUTS!!!

MODIFIED: Since many are of the opinion that I type it here, I'm going to do it..


December 2018, a boy in my neighborhood who is also like a relative started making some savings with me, unfortunately that was the time I started betting as well. I used to be very trustworthy when it comes to managing people's money that's why he entrusted his money in my care.

Betting later got the best of me, I used part of the money to bet, that was how this ordeal started. In the quest of refunding the money I used on betting, I kept losing the more. I lost up to 90k before coming up with a lie of how the money was stolen in my forex trading account but I promised to refund the money.

While trying to refund the money I kept losing the little I had with me till I got hold of my mom's bank account, this started around October last year. I kept using my mom's money and the loss kept accumulating. I was able to recover the loss on my mom's bank account before 2019 ended. Now to 2020, the boy kept asking for his money, I had to return to using my mom's money again as I had no other hope of getting the money.. how I wish I had told my mom about the whole thing when it was still amendable. Fast forward to today, I have used virtually all my mom's bank savings from betting to forex trading without her knowledge.

When she noticed about the error in her account, I had to lie I helped her fix her account as she doesn't make withdrawals from her account  cos she's a trader who doesn't use her bank savings for her business.. I'm finished now, I lied to her the duration of the fix is 4 months and she's expecting the money with return by August ending.

Together with the money I owe the other boy, I'm in over 600k debt... I seriously don't know how I got here, I wish I can turn back time, I feel drained... I don't know what to do with my life, I feel like I have failed the woman who has always shown me nothing but love and care. I failed her, I failed the woman who has always trusted me to be a good son.  I even had to lie to her! Each time I think of telling her about everything, I get sick. I can't keep on going this way.. I just want this to end. I'm really SAD
greedy idiot ur actually looking for quick rich schemes ......u nd other idiots like ur kind think u can cash out from tht useless betting rubbish platforms that has already been programmed against you.......untill u guys realise this the rubbish betting platforms will continue to xploit ur greed...90k gone u still continue,......even to the extent of using ur simple mothers money........if this story of urs is tru ......guy prepare for the worst while hoping for the best ......
PoliticsRe: Atiku, Odili, Na’abba — The Political Careers Obasanjo Killed by efemena5050(m): 6:36am On Aug 10, 2020
MrMcJay:
The problem Atiku has is that he has a perception problem. He has been tagged as a thief and he hasn't done enough to shed that tag. Obasanjo gazetted him as a thief in a Federal Government Gazette before the court ruled that it was illegal. However, Atiku himself hasn't done much to shed that. Not that Atiku is worse than the average Nigerian politician but Obasanjo really ruined Atiku to the extent that since 1999, Atiku has ever won his own state of Adamawa.

Secondly, Atiku lacks grassroots support. The thing with grassroots support is that it is something money can not buy. As a grassroots politician, people would be willing to use their own personal resources to push your cause.

Atiku has had several chances to endear himself to the masses, but he's consistently bungled that. This current government has made several foolish mistakes and insensitive decisions. Have you heard Atiku say anything in defence of the people who are potential voters? No. But once election time comes, he finds his voice. You saw Atiku almost sleeping in the SE during the last election. When last did you see him there? When last did he visit senior SE leaders?

Atiku only plays only election politics and that is why he would keep losing till infinity. Sensible politicians endear themselves to their people and those people are the ones who are voters. Atiku needs to learn how to play politics. There is more to politics than bribing delegates and paying bloggers to promote rubbish.
very good points my child
PoliticsRe: NDDC Asks Senator Nwaoboshi To Refund ₦2.6 Billion by efemena5050(m): 8:47pm On Aug 07, 2020
Francissta:
After series of posts on job hunt that I made here, I was able to secure one finally after many disappointments and heartbreak, but my problem now is that I don't have money to transport myself to my place of work.
Please who will lend me 5k, if you leave around Awka and willing to assist, please chat me, I have a laptop for collateral, I am ready to pay interest if you wish, please I am currently down and I don't want to loose this job.
Please if you doubt me check my previous posts and confirm.
I will also be glad if someone here decides to assist and lend a helping hand, God will never make you loose an opportunity and your source of income will never run dry.
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Access.
Mods please have mercy on me, your boy needs help, I can't die in silence. God bless you.
after them marry wife give u them go still help u Bleep her so that she go born for u .....pls be useful to urself .....reply this post with sense otherwise...!!!!!
CultureRe: Olubayo Adesola: Dogs Are Not Reared In Ara, Osun State. It's A Taboo by efemena5050(m): 12:31pm On Aug 03, 2020
Kriss216:
An innocent dog helped a certain people, instead of being grateful, they betrayed the innocent dog and conspire to slaughter the dog.
But, God in his infinite mercy, turned the innocent dog to a stone. That's how they started serving the dog.


You're welcome .
lol clown
CrimeRe: Why Babakaka Shehu Ngorg Was Killed By Uzonna Maduabuchi, His Fellow Soldier by efemena5050(m): 3:50pm On Aug 01, 2020
armadeo:
I would have said you have poor upbringing but I realise that you are mentally retarded so we cannot blame your parents.

Something is fundamentally wrong with you guys, most of you.

Does the military have an exit clause yes or no. The superior officer that was shot dead any proof he was maltresting the junior soldier. So frustrated people should go about killing everyone.

Then let the police shoot us all after all they are frustrated. Let the customs kill us. Let sars do as they wish.



All you have is rage no sense.
this was thesame reason i requested u put on ur sense......go back nd read up the article again atleast this time take it slowly that u can atleast get some of the reasons behinde the ratings outburst "MUMU".....in every military command a certain officer is always placed in charge of the platoons .....now the shooter who acted on impulse have had series of encounters in terms of reportage to his superior but to no avail hence the reason behinde his miopic action.......
PoliticsRe: Governor Fayemi Tests Negative For COVID-19 After Eleven Days In Isolation. by efemena5050(m): 9:57am On Aug 01, 2020
wengerjay:
https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/headlines/406136-just-in-fayemi-tests-negative-for-coronavirus-after-11-days-in-isolation.html
useless corona .......do small work of rat extamination and fleas infestation so as to sanitise the environment the useless coro could not do ......maybe the coron a no dey see coro coro
CrimeRe: Why Babakaka Shehu Ngorg Was Killed By Uzonna Maduabuchi, His Fellow Soldier by efemena5050(m): 9:49am On Aug 01, 2020
armadeo:
Naija oh my naija.


Somewhere now a young woman is weeping because some raggedy fool just killed her husband to achieve his aim.


He should be shot dead.
shut up nd on ur sense.....50% of individuals will act in thesame fold .......imagine u being in the shooters shoe......."who no go no know"......if u try as much to find out how this superior officer act as demigods to this ratings infact acts like this becomes ineveitable....
PoliticsRe: Angry N-Power Beneficiaries Slam Sadiya Farouq, Minister Of Humanitarian Affairs by efemena5050(m): 12:17am On Aug 01, 2020
sircrabo:
Selfish people, where they expecting Life time payments? Don't they know there are others waiting for such opportunity?
You don't put your mind on what someone Promised you. What if things don't turn out as expected, should it now turn to a debt
blue goat ...
PoliticsRe: Angry N-Power Beneficiaries Slam Sadiya Farouq, Minister Of Humanitarian Affairs by efemena5050(m): 12:06am On Aug 01, 2020
Mysticwebb:
Typical Nigerians, before they accepted the job, they were told it is temporary. It will last for 2yrs. They accepted, 4yrs down the line, government that brought them in, now said, okay, it is enough.
The beneficiaries then forgot the initial agreement and start abusing the government.
shut up.....Atleast make some efforts in terms of information gatherings before typing trash.......the idiots during the exposition of the programme made it clear that the programme will run for only two yrs but to our dismay they brought up a palliative which was anchored on transition...now in line with this gimmicks they stated categorically that our pvc stood in lieu to our future employment.....they made it clear to us that the entry of Apc during the previous election will result to an all inclusive employment possibilities unknowing to us that it was a ploy owing to the currents situation on ground ....pls dont reply this just stay ur lane....bye
PoliticsRe: Ugwuanyi Salutes Muslims, Calls For Prayers Over Nigeria's Challenges by efemena5050(m): 5:07am On Jul 31, 2020
green pig
FamilyRe: Wife & Mother-In-Law Fight Over Who Will Sit In Front Of Her Husband's Car by efemena5050(m): 4:42pm On Jul 29, 2020
SAMBARRY:
All these mummy's boys sef wey their brain still dey under their mummy's armpit lipsrsealed

No maturity from the boy at all.cant he respectfully Tell his Mom to move back for peace to reign? undecided

Awon my mummy said men.... tufiaaaaaa

See them all over the thread spewing rubbish undecided

No common sense, they cannot make independent decisions without asking what mummy thinks about it.soon they still ask their mummy what part of the v@gyn@ they should put their preek inside undecided
from ur write up ur even the mummy's boy ..weakololo.....hear wat u said "for peace to raign" weakness.....pleasing a rude woman ....
PoliticsRe: Sanwo-Olu To Meet The Boy In The “Mummy Calm Down “ Video by efemena5050(m): 3:24pm On Jul 29, 2020
Angelfrost:
Mother's mission accomplished!!!... This will give rise to more dumb and pointless videos across social media. Smh!!!
more grease to ur kidney......misplaced priorities useless leaders
PoliticsRe: Sanwo-Olu To Meet The Boy In The “Mummy Calm Down “ Video by efemena5050(m): 3:22pm On Jul 29, 2020
A305:
I want to meet him too

I just want to adopt him as a junior brother; Not too many people know the importance of the bilss in being CALM.

As a stoic that I am, the young man just impressed me and am willing to buy any toy, schohol materials or anything of his interest.

How do we see him please?
they r beggers nd around ur area make do with that first.....charity begins at home
CareerRe: I Earn Over 300K Monthly... But I Don't Love My Job by efemena5050(m): 6:05pm On Jul 28, 2020
engrrichie92:
funny

because I am the only person in this world that earns over 300K and hates his Job
show off.... resign u refuse u hate ur job....confused infendibulum....make pple know say u dey earn 300k ....black man mentality ,,,,,,,
CelebritiesRe: Meet Desmond Chuchu: Angela Okorie’s Fiance’s Identity Unveiled In New Photos by efemena5050(m): 12:12pm On Jul 28, 2020
offset67:
No one gives a F U C K , it will end in tears
lol blue goat .......pray for ur enemies
FamilyRe: Wife Breaks Bottle On Husband's Head After He Slapped Her-neighbours Hail Her On by efemena5050(m): 5:35am On Jul 28, 2020
vastolord4:
Nothing can break that relationship! That's called violent love.
lol purple goat
HealthRe: Proper Way To Use Face-Shield & Face-Mask - Federal Ministry Of Health by efemena5050(m): 1:06pm On Jul 25, 2020
hopefulLandlord:
But my pastor told me You don't need a facemask or facesheild or nosemask to protect yourself from Coro. All you need is believe in the protection from the blood of a Jew who couldn't survive ordinary 3 nails and screamed to ask why his dad forsook him 2000 years or so ago
ur thunder still dey toilet dey shit when him finish just wait him dey come meet u...........BLUE GOAT
PoliticsRe: Anambra Police Receives New Helicopter For Surveillance (Photos) by efemena5050(m): 9:17pm On Jul 24, 2020
Itohanprefa:
I saw it In that field Near Amawbia Governors lodge, Something just tell me to run go enter inside fly am comot....it was a strong urge grin
stop watching too much cartoons atleast it will help to finally grow up.....if u must reply this please nd please be matured cus i dint cus u.....
RomanceRe: Why Did She Lose Interest Suddenly? by efemena5050(m): 4:50am On Jul 24, 2020
MOnkeyBabe:
who stole the meat from the cooking pot?
see jamb question
RomanceRe: Why Did She Lose Interest Suddenly? by efemena5050(m): 8:35pm On Jul 23, 2020
alaribe1992:
I am an undergraduate of a high institution in Owerri, so I've been home due to the closure of schools Nationwide.

There's this girl whose mom owns a drinking bar somewhere around my street, she's an undergraduate too, but she's been home too during this lockdown. I've been seeing this girl for years but started developing feelings for her suddenly.

I approached her as a sharp guy and collected her number. She wasn't using a smart phone then, so we communicate through phone calls.
At first our conversations was smooth and sweet, and it was like a match made in heaven, we haven't gone out for a date due to she always stays in her mom's shop and her mom is a very strict woman. Her dad is late. I told this girl my mind, that I'd like us to date and she agreed.

To cut the story short

After a week she started acting strange, sometimes she wouldn't pick my calls and she won't call back, she got a smart phone and was back on WhatsApp. She replies my text late after seeing them.

On Sunday afternoon I called her and she busied my call, a friend of mine who lives opposite their shop called me on phone telling me the girl was outside their shop and was over the phone with someone for a long time. I called her again and she busied my call again, I texted her on WhatsApp to ask her what her problem was.

After a day, she replied on WhatsApp that she's sorry. Well today she just texted me that she's no longer interested in the relationship that she just wants to be left alone. Note that we haven't even had a time together all this while due to the fact I didn't want to rush things with her and she was always at her mom's shop.

I want to know how someone that likes you before just wakes up and all of a sudden no longer interested in you again without any provocation.

Thank you
she hear ur story how u bin dey tif meat for pot thts y........meanwhile stating the obvious that girl became indifferent towards u due to ur simple nature
RomanceRe: Why Did She Lose Interest Suddenly? by efemena5050(m): 8:33pm On Jul 23, 2020
alaribe1992:
I am an undergraduate of a high institution in Owerri, so I've been home due to the closure of schools Nationwide.

There's this girl whose mom owns a drinking bar somewhere around my street, she's an undergraduate too, but she's been home too during this lockdown. I've been seeing this girl for years but started developing feelings for her suddenly.

I approached her as a sharp guy and collected her number. She wasn't using a smart phone then, so we communicate through phone calls.
At first our conversations was smooth and sweet, and it was like a match made in heaven, we haven't gone out for a date due to she always stays in her mom's shop and her mom is a very strict woman. Her dad is late. I told this girl my mind, that I'd like us to date and she agreed.

To cut the story short

After a week she started acting strange, sometimes she wouldn't pick my calls and she won't call back, she got a smart phone and was back on WhatsApp. She replies my text late after seeing them.

On Sunday afternoon I called her and she busied my call, a friend of mine who lives opposite their shop called me on phone telling me the girl was outside their shop and was over the phone with someone for a long time. I called her again and she busied my call again, I texted her on WhatsApp to ask her what her problem was.

After a day, she replied on WhatsApp that she's sorry. Well today she just texted me that she's no longer interested in the relationship that she just wants to be left alone. Note that we haven't even had a time together all this while due to the fact I didn't want to rush things with her and she was always at her mom's shop.

I want to know how someone that likes you before just wakes up and all of a sudden no longer interested in you again without any provocation.

Thank you
she hear ur story how u bin dey tif meat for pot thts y........meanwhile stating the obvious that girl became indifferent towards u due to negative info about either ur family or about u.All of these can be traced to her strict benefactor or perhaps any of her confident
BusinessRe: Kenyan Professor XN Iraki: Nigerians Are Taking Over Our Economy by efemena5050(m): 4:45pm On Jul 23, 2020
Corporate2020:
Kenya better keep shut before we overun them. A country ruled by father and son. Backward bastards of 50 million nitwits. They better be grateful that Nigerians are coming to liberate them.
i beliv if them keep millions for book u no go ever open that book ...the man dey praise our stupid country u dey curse am .....may sense locate u nd deal with u ......
Jobs/VacanciesRe: N-Power Beneficiaries In Peaceful Protest In Abuja: "Please Don't Send Us Back" by efemena5050(m): 4:38pm On Jul 23, 2020
Trayceey:
The government should give them permanent employment. Where are the jobs? If they disengage them just like that, where will they get job? Is it in this same Nigeria?. Government better act fast by employing them. Just imagine 500,000 graduates jobless. Especially in these hard times. Kidnapping, armed robbery, internet fraud and so on. Why did they promise them permanency at the end of their 2 years contract? Why didn't they disengage them that time? They used them to win election and now they want to put them out in the cold. No way! They should fight for their right. God will help them. Let all Npower beneficiaries pray with PSALMS 35
may GOD embarase u in the gutter of blessing nd may u fall in the toilet of love where GOD'S love will be smelling over u......in fact i prophesy tht u will be stoned nd flog with iron rod of God's power.......sister tnx .....
Jobs/VacanciesRe: N-Power Beneficiaries In Peaceful Protest In Abuja: "Please Don't Send Us Back" by efemena5050(m): 4:33pm On Jul 23, 2020
ojun50:
Nothing, dey should go and start a business
green thunder fall on ur soup nd may u eat from it ......shay na u go provide the money for the businesshuhhuhhuh? perhaps make them start sell mess for mkt since e no go need money .just mess nd sell
PoliticsRe: Akpabio writes National Assembly, denies saying lawmakers got NDDC contracts by efemena5050(m): 2:01pm On Jul 23, 2020
i swear nigeria don't hv good winches,thieves,kidnappers youths,serial killers army, bcus if they do these bunch of egocentric constituted rubbishesss will only be coming out but at the weeeeeeeeeeeee hours of the nite
PoliticsRe: Akpabio writes National Assembly, denies saying lawmakers got NDDC contracts by efemena5050(m): 1:55pm On Jul 23, 2020
Dotherightthing:
21. Please spell words correctly when you post, and try to use perfect grammar and punctuation.
blue goat
TravelRe: Boat Accident At Okrika Kalio Rivers, 16 Persons Rescued Alive (Graphic Photos) by efemena5050(m): 1:51pm On Jul 23, 2020
FlamieB:
what's disturbing in these photos that you added ''graphic photos''?
this one don watch horror film tire....chai so to him for something to be graphic the graphic must be in capital letters ....."GRAPHIC" wetin saw.....and silent hill don cuz....
TravelRe: Boat Accident At Okrika Kalio Rivers, 16 Persons Rescued Alive (Graphic Photos) by efemena5050(m): 1:43pm On Jul 23, 2020
Asquare84:
This is the reason why we need to see pastor for prayers before embarking on any journey
who pastor help. rubbish.......instead always commit ur life into God's hand before every step.....50% of pastors r now egocentric......disclaimer..... to whom it may concern...this is my own opinion so stay ur lane rubbish....

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