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Fashion › Re: Lingerie! A Must Have! by EfemenaXY: 9:19pm On Jun 25, 2015

edwife:
Lol i am telling you my sister ,it's shame though....

That's why Efe some people don't get me, because i am confused myself any time i read some posts.

Does that bother you?

Some people not "getting you"?

Fashion › Re: Lingerie! A Must Have! by EfemenaXY: 6:33pm On Jun 25, 2015

byvan03:
Yes, family section's sensational gists. Like the lady whose husband is a wannabe backyard porn star .

Na real wannabe. cheesy

edwife:
Lol,i didn't even know what to say,i was just reading and laughing.That's what i do most time when it comes to this place,too many comedians...
What shocked me most is that the lady had to create an alternate so to remain anonymous and i won't be surprise if she is among the "i can't take rubbish,therefore divorce" kind of advocate.

It's not easy to have double, triple, even quadruple faces on nland na. Pity am small... cheesy

Food › Re: Paste Pics Of Your Healthy Meal Here. by EfemenaXY: 6:29pm On Jun 25, 2015

Akposy, I already voted for you as requested. Now stop spamming my mentions pls.

Thanks.

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Family › Re: Kick For Jesus: Ghanaian Pastor Kicks Pregnant Woman In Her Belly (Video) by EfemenaXY: 11:33am On Jun 24, 2015

This has got to be the most stupíd video I've come across this year.

Cringe worthy stuff.

Family › Re: Help A New Mother! by EfemenaXY: 12:22am On Jun 24, 2015

lofty900:
I have a very good supplier down here, one shot from him will make u feel like a horse. you'll love him

Lol!

Fashion › Re: Lingerie! A Must Have! by EfemenaXY: 5:30pm On Jun 23, 2015

Edwife and Chillisauce.

As I sit here, I'm just totally admiring my midriff this summer. Ahhhh.... exercising and eating clean is good oh! Can't thank you lot enough for the encouragement.

kiss

Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by EfemenaXY: 5:26pm On Jun 23, 2015

edwife:
Don't mind her,i am not coming back in this room until sambarry go to another thread or we have a new page.

She deserves a one year community service at either the London Zoo or better still, the Battersea Cats home. It would totally change her perception of animals, especially cats. cheesy

Family › Re: Five Types Of Fathers Every Nigerian Child Grew Up With. by EfemenaXY: 5:21pm On Jun 23, 2015

Chillisauce:
Is not a Naija thing. Stvpidity is inbreed.
I used to have a senior roomate who graduated with very high 2:1 in Chemical Engineering. Immediately after school she got married and started breeding galore, only for husband to open second hand okrika clothes for her to sell

My little sis saw her in the market and the look on her face .
I mean why study with such a good grade only to throw it all away. You could as well start your second hand business and give chance to those looking for admission.

But that's exactly the point I'm making.

She probably rushed to get married and to one way beneath her (in terms of academic achievement) because of the society's mentality towards young girls of marriageable ages. A society where most people believe that the next big thing in a girl's life immediately after graduation is to get married and have kids. More emphasis is placed on breeding than on further improving one's self / career.

I can't even begin to tell you how so many of the girls I knew back in Uni used to panic about not getting themselves husbands or at least fiancees by their final year. Each time we returned from holidays, the talk would be something like, "Oh, did you know that Mary / Theresa / Helen go married? When is my own happening na?"

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Family › Re: Help A New Mother! by EfemenaXY: 5:14pm On Jun 23, 2015

salsera:
Actually his post was about her going to the hospital instead of posting on NL

True.

Posts modified. Don't know what kinda weed I've been smoking of late. Need to change my supplier cheesy

Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by EfemenaXY: 5:09pm On Jun 23, 2015

SAMBARRY:
go to jail because of ordinary caty

human ritualists never go jail na because of ologbo or musu a human being will go to jail in nigeria

Na wa oh!

Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by EfemenaXY: 5:06pm On Jun 23, 2015

SAMBARRY:
yes na. It's such a spicy delicacy. Very delicious

which one is animal cruelty inside. You nor dey chop goat ni

You're gonna give Edwife nightmares for days on end, Sambarry. cheesy

Family › Re: Five Types Of Fathers Every Nigerian Child Grew Up With. by EfemenaXY: 5:04pm On Jun 23, 2015

KanwuliaJara:
You get am!
Awon "cowards-in-friends-stories"!
When I read all these SILLY stories with "my husband dis, my husband dat". . . I just shake my head and laugh!

WEAKLINGS!
Mtcheeeeeeeew!

Lol!

Babes, I get you, but look at it this way oh! IF, you hadn't left Naija, wouldn't your mentality be similar to those? Maybe, just maybe, those of us in disporia see things differently because we're not only presented with the opportunities to thrive, but are actually expected to do so. We've got the system in place to make this possible for us, but not so for many ladies back in Naija.

Or what do you think?

Family › Re: Should Husbands Pay For Items Bought In Their Wives' Shops? by EfemenaXY: 4:58pm On Jun 23, 2015

Sundayme:
In an interesting page on facebook, this question was asked. Guess what? Many of those who had repond were females, and they are of the opinion that their husbands should pay for what they buy in their shops.

Personally, am thinking it's not a must, since i'll be giving her money most of the time. What do you think?

See the page yourself, and like it if you are active on facebook. https://www.facebook.com/pages/Nigerian-Papalette/312263085651212

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Family › Re: Five Types Of Fathers Every Nigerian Child Grew Up With. by EfemenaXY: 4:46pm On Jun 23, 2015

KanwuliaJara:
I don't do a "friend of a friend" tories!
I only share FIRST HAND PERSONAL EXPERIENCES. . . . .

All this is to prove to WOMEN, you can ONLY LIBERATE yourselves from your conditions! No GOD OR JESUS OR ALLLAH can!

If you follow NAIJA MAN with ein WAHALA ehn? HE WILL OUTLIVE YOU!

Not my portion. AMIIIIIIIIIN oooooooh!!!!!

You mean the "it happened to a friend's friend" stories by these women only prove how caged they really are, even to the extent that they can't be free enough to open up and be themselves on an anonymous online forum?

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Family › Re: Five Types Of Fathers Every Nigerian Child Grew Up With. by EfemenaXY: 4:42pm On Jun 23, 2015

Stillfire:
Lol.
Wow my doff my hat to your mom.
I like hearing about strong women, not weak and beta females who [size=18pt]cannot take control of their destiny.[/size]

Preach it sister!

Stillfire:
Lol, It is here on NL, I knew who the 'real' Nigerians are.
It is here I heard single young girls cannot live on their own or move out of their father's house.
Young girls should not buy a car, a house so as not to 'threaten' a potential husband etc
I used to be annoyed at my parents then for not letting me associate with the neighbours or friends, I mean my parents literally locked us in the house , if Nairaland represents the Nigerian community I now understand why they did what they did.

Damn!

Typical controlling behaviour from a man with low to non-existent self-esteem that would in time metamorphose into emotional-->verbal-->physical abuse (eventually).

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Family › Re: Five Types Of Fathers Every Nigerian Child Grew Up With. by EfemenaXY: 4:36pm On Jun 23, 2015

Chillisauce:
Most of them are short, smelly 4days old boxer wearing gorrillas waiting to sniff stinky pussy when they are not browsing.
I mean as a young guy, you stay online 24hrs weekends?
You not married, you don't go to club or church? I mean who does that if not pyschos?

i pity people wey dey write up and down with dictionary trying to lecture the gorrillas?

I can't handle this! grin

Chilli, abeg e don do. Pity them small. It's not easy being a psychotic freak na. cheesy

Family › Re: Five Types Of Fathers Every Nigerian Child Grew Up With. by EfemenaXY: 4:14pm On Jun 23, 2015

Stillfire:
Lol

1) Nigeria
2) Yes - if we take out travelling for work related issues.

My mum was and is still the terrorist of the house. My dad threatens us with our mum sef.
That is why I find it extremely queer when I smell egotism from males on this site. I feel I must have lived in a different Nigeria with the views of males that try to suppress the female voice on this site.

The supression exists mostly on nland. Not in the real world.

Don't you know that most of the Oppressors on here can't even say "Boo" to a fly on the outside? How much more to a living-flesh-and-blood-woman out there? grin

Family › Re: Raising Kids Is Not Easy (pic) by EfemenaXY: 4:06pm On Jun 23, 2015

SirShymexx:
Lol. Just like my daddy - and you sure know[b] "dance with my father" is one of my favourite tunes.[/b]

Err, how many exocet rockets can ya belly take?

Some people don't like him and his music because he was gay.

Talented guy. Shame he left the world without any kids.

Family › Re: Five Types Of Fathers Every Nigerian Child Grew Up With. by EfemenaXY: 4:03pm On Jun 23, 2015

KanwuliaJara:
Two questions.

1. Where is your dad from?
2. Did he live with you IN THE SAME HOUSE 24/7.

No need for long explanations o.
Just answer with only ONE WORD EACH!

I lived with mine from age 0 to 21 after I graduated from the Uni. I did not even wait to finish NYSC.

The day I left, my super mom bought me a ONE-WAY ticket to the GREATEST USA! Never to return!

The man don die o. How did he die?
Shouting!

Ojoro!

My own come better pass your own small sef. I only managed to do the Orientation camp thingy. Didn't do the full NYSC stuff either. Orientation camp lasted for 6 whole weeks. Was meant to be 8 weeks but was cut down to 6. I had so much fun...apart from the malaria on the last day cheesy

How long was Orientation camp in your time babes?

Family › Re: Disrespectful husbands bringing their trash home by EfemenaXY: 4:00pm On Jun 23, 2015

Stillfire:
You are laughing, Efe? lol
There is a thread here where a journalist wrote that as a good African woman who preserves her marriage at all cost, the woman went back to her husband that ra.ped her daughters.
Which African tradition condones IN.CEST? My forefathers would have burnt him on a stake and thrown him into the evil forest shouting ABOMINATION.
So these women need to specify on which culture condone all these atrocities . No more hiding under the umbrella of African or Nigerian culture, please tell us the tribe that requires you to die in silence when disrespected.

Ewww!

That's gross! No. It's sick! sad

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Family › Re: Five Types Of Fathers Every Nigerian Child Grew Up With. by EfemenaXY: 3:58pm On Jun 23, 2015

SirShymexx:
Lol. The word "modern" sounds too cliche for me since it's interchangeable with contemporary. That said, I was just pulling ya legs by calling you "traditional", not a diss, since I see myself as being traditional-leaning and conservative when it comes to cultural values. Co-habitation might even be older than marriage since a lot of our forebears never really got married formally - just basic introduction and that's it. And those unions did stand the test of time

Oh, I know that.

SirShymexx:
Personally, I'm not a fan of divorce and all the shenanigans associated with it. And the unnecessary pressure it puts on kids. So I believe it's somewhat better to get involved something you can break-off amicably, if it doesn't work, without the need for all the extras.

Yes, mum and dad were/are ever present - I got the best of both worlds.

And you're very lucky. Now see why I said earlier that you've got a well balanced view and a good head on your shoulders?

Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by EfemenaXY: 3:55pm On Jun 23, 2015

damiso:

awwww poor kitty I know its hyprocritical since I eat chicken,goat cow but baby and domestic animals are just things I try not to picture myself eating.

Cats,dog,rabbit and one of the reasons why I find it difficult eating lamb.

You are lucky you are not here RSPCA for don jail you tey tey you cant even chain a dog outside the house like we do to guard dogs in Naija

Don't mind Sambarry with her vivid descriptions. We need the equivalent of the RSPCA to get all the Sambarry's practising animal cruelty.

Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by EfemenaXY: 3:51pm On Jun 23, 2015

SAMBARRY:
Lol @ EfemenaXY.

I prefer cats in my pot of soup than as pets

Fried cat laps with diced pepper and onions is

divine

or better still sliced cat tail inside vegetable soupIis excellent. Try it

Ayama!

Family › Re: Five Types Of Fathers Every Nigerian Child Grew Up With. by EfemenaXY: 3:45pm On Jun 23, 2015

SirShymexx:
Lol. You're so traditional.

In as much as I agree that kids should be raised within a well-defined structure - I necessarily don't think marriage should be the only prerequisite for making kids. I don't mind co-habitation, till we get to a stage whereby we think we can take it to the next level.

People do change.

And you are very modern. cheesy

Yep, I agree with you to an extent as per sometimes, a bad union or one with a faulty foundation may be best left if totally unsalvageable...and, that the most important thing to consider when bringing up kids is that it be done in an environment where they feel safe...yes...

But having said that, you were brought up in a traditional family with mum and dad na, weren't you?

Family › Re: Five Types Of Fathers Every Nigerian Child Grew Up With. by EfemenaXY: 3:42pm On Jun 23, 2015

KanwuliaJara:
Tufiakwaaaaaaaaaah!!!!!

Lol!

You get my gist. When I say "you", I don't mean you, babes. kiss

Anyway, back to the neck-bending kinda slap. Na that type dem dey use pursue person for dream. You go know say na enemies send am come. cheesy

Family › Re: Five Types Of Fathers Every Nigerian Child Grew Up With. by EfemenaXY: 3:37pm On Jun 23, 2015

KanwuliaJara:
So?
Where do you think I got my "EXORSIST AGGRESSIVE" behavior from?
My dad of course! The DUDE shouted from DAWN TO DUSK! Even in his SLEEP UNPROVOKED!
Angry DADS who are ALWAYS BROKE breed HUNGRY AND ANGRY CHILDREN!!!!

My super-darling MOM ALWAYS RESCUED US O!!!!

Amen!!!!

Lawd!! Your descriptions! I'm trying ever so hard to keep a straight face! grin

SirShymexx:
Well, I noticed a lot of Nigerian women act like their dads, acting like they have a little willy under their skirts.
Would that be because their dads communicated with them more and they all looked at them as role models growing up?

Lollollol!!!

I hate to admit it, but you've got a point (annoyingly so).

My dad used to say to me, "You aren't a man!"

But can you blame me? I mean, he brought me up to believe in myself, my abilities, he practically helped me ooze self-confidence. There's nothing I can't do if I put my mind to it. Or when people say to me, "No, you can't do that. It's impossible", I set out to prove them wrong. That's just me jare. cheesy

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Family › Re: Five Types Of Fathers Every Nigerian Child Grew Up With. by EfemenaXY: 3:31pm On Jun 23, 2015

Stillfire:
Hahahahaha. They will soon burst into this thread like drugged rams.

Lol! Then as they flood in, I'll use the fire exit. Not in the mood for long, drawn-out arguments with teenage kids still wet behind the ears.

Family › Re: Five Types Of Fathers Every Nigerian Child Grew Up With. by EfemenaXY: 3:30pm On Jun 23, 2015

SirShymexx:
I need to start making babies then.

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Lol!

Abeg make you marry first. There are kids on here jor. Don't want to send off the wrong message. cheesy

Family › Re: Five Types Of Fathers Every Nigerian Child Grew Up With. by EfemenaXY: 3:29pm On Jun 23, 2015

KanwuliaJara:
All na love abi?
Na only when I begin live for H-America I sabi say "DAD! DON'T BE SILLY" nor be curse o!
Chai!!!

Lol! You say that to your dad whilst living in Naija, and you'll get a dirty slap.

The kind that'll make your neck bend one kind to the right! grin

Family › Re: Five Types Of Fathers Every Nigerian Child Grew Up With. by EfemenaXY: 3:25pm On Jun 23, 2015

SirShymexx:
Do you think I'll be a great dad?

Still honing my skills subconsciously and getting my mind right.

Seriously?

I think you'll be a great dad when the time comes. You're a well balanced guy and you're good at assessing / looking at things from differing perspectives. Basically, you've got a good head on your shoulders.

Now don't get an inflated ego sir, as I speaketh the truth.

Family › Re: Five Types Of Fathers Every Nigerian Child Grew Up With. by EfemenaXY: 3:22pm On Jun 23, 2015

SirShymexx:
I prefer the toy-ish type of woman that can also play the role of a small mum - not sociopaths who just want to argue all the time.

Someone I can just kiss on the forehead all the time and cuddle.

Cough...cough...

#Someone's hacked into Shymexx's account!#

Lol @ sociopaths! Where d'you meet these girls anyway, Shymexx? grin

The pic that readily comes to mind is your average mouthy black girl from the hood dishing out the yabs. cheesy

Family › Re: Five Types Of Fathers Every Nigerian Child Grew Up With. by EfemenaXY: 3:18pm On Jun 23, 2015

KanwuliaJara:
Please, speak or write for yourself o!

Naija dads? Hmmmmm!
Communication? ZERO!
Afectioneering? ZERO!
We all hated our dads growing up!
Why? Every NIGERIAN child HAS THE VISCERAL knowledge of what DYSFUNCTION tastes and feels like!

The most BRUTAL, SELFISH and YEAH SCHIZOID creatures that should be castrated at BIRTH!

Ah! That's too harsh na!

I loved mine to bits. Most times, I could get away with anything...well, sometimes...but my dad was my best friend right till the very end. I miss him soooooo much!

#Sigh#....

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