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My dear sister.
Compliments.
Please I wouldn't advice you to rush into another relationship you hardly know what the end point will likely be.
To start with,
-What is Dominic's family saying about his non caring attitude lately?
-What is Mary saying now that she has lured you into this arranged marriage?
-What is his line of biz over there in abroad?
--Do you think sleeping around will be the solution to your marital issues?
-How long did Dominic promise to stay before coming around again?
- Your own family what are they saying?
Am so sorry for all the questions but if you think about it deeply,u will find out that you really need answers to these questions before chosing to be sleeping around.
Again,sleeping with a colleague in the office is dangerous and not advisable.It might cost you your job in the end most especially if he is a senior colleague.
You really need to use your brain.
Out of sight most a times means out of mind.He must have forgotten about you or be in some sort of troubles over there in Asia ,u can't really say for sure.
Be wise...be wise....be wise.
Don't double your problems young woman.

thelostchronicl:
"Dear Nairalanders

My name is Buchi, a 28-year-old married. I must say that I am very unlucky in marriage as my husband who lives in Asia has been away for the past two years, leaving me all alone.
I met Dominic through his sister who is my good friend. Mary had told me that her brother who had been out of the country for many years needed a wife as their family had been on his neck to come home and get married.
They did not want him to get married to a foreigner and so, they were on the lookout for a wife for him, particularly an Igbo woman.
I had been friends with Mary since our university days and she felt I would be the right woman for her husband. I was not particularly interested in an arranged marriage, especially to a man I knew nothing about.
But Mary kept assuring me that Dominic was a good man and would make a good husband for me. Aside from that, she also told me he would take me abroad as soon as we got married. »
I told her that I would like to hear from Dominic himself and after she sent him my number, he started calling me and we would speak for hours. We also connected on the social media and would spend the whole night chatting and exchanging pictures.
Dominic changed my mind about dating someone I had never met before as he proved to be very caring. He would wake me up with his calls and text messages and before going to bed, he would call just to say good night.
Gradually, I began to fall in love with him and would wait breathlessly for his calls just to hear his voice.
Two years ago, he came to Nigeria and came to meet my parents. He wanted us to get married before going back and within two months, we got married and he left a month later.
And for two years now, the man I got married to has made no attempt to come back. His calls have been infrequent, neither does he send me money like he used to do.
It could take six months before Dominic would send me money and whenever I call, he would be evasive, telling me he would call and would go for weeks without calling.
As if that is not enough, he has left me sex-starved and needing attention like every woman. When I tell Dominic that I am Hot, he would tell me to endure it just like he is doing but I know he has been sleeping with women wherever he is.
There is this guy in my office who has been asking me out and with the way things are and the way I am sexually starved » , I am tempted to give this guy a chance, at least to have someone to satisfy my sexual urge.
I have tried some intimacy gadgets but nothing can be as satisfying as having the feel of a real man inside of a woman.
I know many people out there will say sex is not food but I am still a young woman and I have sexual urges too. I am married but it seems I am not.
I need help fast.

My dear sister.
Compliments.
Please I wouldn't advice you not to rush into another relationship you hardly know what the end point will likely be.
To start with,
-What is Dominic's family saying about his non caring attitude lately?
-What is Mary saying now that she has lured you into this arranged marriage?
-What is his line of biz over there in abroad?
--Do you think sleeping around will be the solution to your marital issues?
-How long did Dominic promise to stay before coming around again?
- Your own family what are they saying?
Am so sorry for all the questions but if you think about it deeply,u will find out that you really need answers to these questions before chosing to be sleeping around.
Again,sleeping with a colleague in the office is dangerous and not advisable.It might cost you your job in the end most especially if he is a senior colleague.
You really need to use your brain.
Out of sight most a times means out of mind.He must have forgotten about you or be in some sort of troubles over there in Asia ,u can't really say for sure.
Be wise...be wise....be wise.
Don't double your problems young woman.

thelostchronicl:
"Dear Nairalanders

My name is Buchi, a 28-year-old married. I must say that I am very unlucky in marriage as my husband who lives in Asia has been away for the past two years, leaving me all alone.
I met Dominic through his sister who is my good friend. Mary had told me that her brother who had been out of the country for many years needed a wife as their family had been on his neck to come home and get married.
They did not want him to get married to a foreigner and so, they were on the lookout for a wife for him, particularly an Igbo woman.
I had been friends with Mary since our university days and she felt I would be the right woman for her husband. I was not particularly interested in an arranged marriage, especially to a man I knew nothing about.
But Mary kept assuring me that Dominic was a good man and would make a good husband for me. Aside from that, she also told me he would take me abroad as soon as we got married. »
I told her that I would like to hear from Dominic himself and after she sent him my number, he started calling me and we would speak for hours. We also connected on the social media and would spend the whole night chatting and exchanging pictures.
Dominic changed my mind about dating someone I had never met before as he proved to be very caring. He would wake me up with his calls and text messages and before going to bed, he would call just to say good night.
Gradually, I began to fall in love with him and would wait breathlessly for his calls just to hear his voice.
Two years ago, he came to Nigeria and came to meet my parents. He wanted us to get married before going back and within two months, we got married and he left a month later.
And for two years now, the man I got married to has made no attempt to come back. His calls have been infrequent, neither does he send me money like he used to do.
It could take six months before Dominic would send me money and whenever I call, he would be evasive, telling me he would call and would go for weeks without calling.
As if that is not enough, he has left me sex-starved and needing attention like every woman. When I tell Dominic that I am Hot, he would tell me to endure it just like he is doing but I know he has been sleeping with women wherever he is.
There is this guy in my office who has been asking me out and with the way things are and the way I am sexually starved » , I am tempted to give this guy a chance, at least to have someone to satisfy my sexual urge.
I have tried some intimacy gadgets but nothing can be as satisfying as having the feel of a real man inside of a woman.
I know many people out there will say sex is not food but I am still a young woman and I have sexual urges too. I am married but it seems I am not.
I need help fast.

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LesbianBoy:
As if, if he comes for you now you won't OFF pant for him... Nonsense!

Abeg take it easy on her ooo.
Lol.

An olosho is always an olosho.u can't change them.pls bro,play the recording to her hearing and see all she would say.

An olosho is always an olosho.u can't change them.play the recording to her hearing and see all she would say.

Good for her if she is now married

Can you imagine that,she is calling herself fine girl.
How many trips have u embarked on to Dubai.

go ahead and tell the husband that you dont like the wife"s attitude.

Foolish woman

My dear sister,you urgently need to sit your hubby down and have a discussion with him based on the chat messages.
If you didn't do that on time it will be a worse situation very soon.
Ask him what he feels he is lacking in his marriage that is making him look outside in home.
Tell him the dangers of keeping extra marital affairs now that you are heavy.
Talk with him softly,I strongly believe he will apologize to you based on his words(I owe u no faithfulness in this marriage).
I believe dialogue is the best answer here.
Remember u r pregnant,fighting is total out of this situation.
If he is not talking to you when u approach him gently then you can summon a family meeting(either your mum/dad or both) and his mum/dad or both) to come to you house and settle the issue so that it will not escalate.
Pls apply caution in all your actions,marriage is an institution where one can't graduate from no matter how brilliant you are.
We are all learning in it.
Thanks.

What exactly is the world turning into?
Bad wife planning to sell husbands properties instead of protecting it.
How are we sure the husband is the real father to those innocent kids.
God help us.

Another job well done by the Nigerian police

Keep it up bro.God will bless u for it.

Be patient madam,be submissive.
Again try to inquire from him why he is saying no to all your suggestions

Pls my brother letting his wife know will compound issues.
Try ur best to make ur wife know that she will destroy her marriage by still seeing her ex.
Her removing the wedding ring because you looked on a lady's ass is so funny.
Instead of involving her ex's wife,I think is better to call the guy and threaten him that you are going to tell his wife what has been going on BTW him and your wife.
If you do this I bet you the guy go use him hand run 44T from your wife.
Again y will ur wife tell u jokenly that she went out to make love with guy's with bigger dick,I think you need to properly investigate that statement of her.
She might be passing info to you but you fail to notice it.
Cheers.

Can you imagine that guy wearing pollo with inscription; ORTOMATIC 2019....psychophants

Okowa my towns man why are you oweing workers?
Does it mean you r not getting allocations or what?
Remember AGBOR people are not happy with you,nothing you have achieved 2 years is gone.

Someone should remind okowa to put AGBOR in his agenda.
Don't make the mistakes Jonathan did by not developing the south.
Remember AGBOR where u hail from.

The guy must be a glutton for killing just because of food.

The boy must be high on cocaine.
A man with clear eyes couldnt have done such.

What is the world really turning into?
He will surely be sentenced to death if found guilty in law court.

What is the world really turning into?
What would have warrented this act?
He will surely be sentenced to death if found guilty in law court.

if wat u,otobo said about d man of God is fabricated.you are done for.better confess before u repeat.

na wao for d cook.him nor even wait make him collect salary.hahaha

How long can buhari hide his true state of health?
Funny govt.

This criminal want to hide under APCso that his sins will not find him out.
He knows that his days are numbered.
Whistle blowers all ya go him house for ochendo close.
Discover stollen abia state funds.

This criminal want to hide under APCso that his sins will not find him out.
He knows that his days are numbered.
Whistle blowers all ya go him house for ochendo close.
Discover stollen abia state funds.
Devil's incarnate.

This is very cruel

A big congratulations to him.

U forgot to include the hip of refuse at upstairs line.
Umuahia is gradually turning to aba.
ASEPA donot have their on trucks to carry the refuse littered all over the road.
They have resort to hiring tipa to lift the refuse.
What a state