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PoliticsRe: Drama, Confusion As Wike Makes APC, PDP Campaign Council lists For Bayelsa Guber by ehissi(m): 8:32pm On Aug 29, 2023
Nemere2020:
Nyesom Wike's name appeared as Number 12 on the PDP Campaign List and appeared as Number 6 on the APC released Campaign Council list.
Wike is this, wike is that. Na them dey rush am now like today bread.

Tony aneinih successor has arrived..... grin
Foreign AffairsRe: Chadian Army Proudly Displays Nigerian-Built Armoured Personnel Carriers (Photos by ehissi(m): 12:42pm On Aug 28, 2023
Ritchiee:
The problem of INNOSON is longthroat and it might affect him negatively.
He registered as a vehicle manufacturer but if dem talk about aircraft,him go put mouth,go meet him China partners,dem go give am.
If they talk about armoury,him go put mouth,go meet him China partners,dem go sell am fake ones.
INNOSON does not have the facilities to produce these things but ojukokoro dey worry am.

Reason why most of our Eastern brothers' businesses don't last up to 40 years.
PROFORCE sells to UNO,Belarus,Rwanda,Chad etc.
They are quality personified and they don't make noise.
COMPETENCE is the word.
God bless you for just being forth right in your contribution here................Innoson had the opportunity to take the Nigerian market but they bungle it with greed, their vehicles are one of the most expensive but they dont even have after sales service like, what the hell is that?

For brand new vehicles? I think was NAN had issues with their buses that almost lead to court case one time


https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/more-news/577091-nan-returns-new-innoson-bus-says-its-faulty.html

Those guys have poor quality control abeg
CelebritiesRe: Steve Harvey’s Wife, Marjorie, Cheated On Him, Wants $200M Divorce Settlements by ehissi(m): 6:44pm On Aug 26, 2023
Reinamaria:
Let us begin from where Steve Harvey cheated on his former wife with her, shall we?
And he cheated on his first wife with the former wife.......
CelebritiesRe: Steve Harvey’s Wife, Marjorie, Cheated On Him, Wants $200M Divorce Settlements by ehissi(m): 6:38pm On Aug 26, 2023
cool
CelebritiesRe: Steve Harvey’s Wife, Marjorie, Cheated On Him, Wants $200M Divorce Settlements by ehissi(m): 6:37pm On Aug 26, 2023
AImiron:
Source
Steve is lucky Kevin samuels isn't alive to witness this, he warned that much of what Steve was saying about relationships was bullshit but......
HERE WE ARE!!

How will he ever recover from this one.......?
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Manchester United Vs Nottingham Forest (3 - 2) On 26th August 2023 by ehissi(m): 3:30pm On Aug 26, 2023
JUSTICE FOR MANCHESTER UNITED, 2 GOALS IN FOUR MINUTES IS TOO MUCH.....

THEY NEED TO SET FIXTURES SO MAN U CAN BE PLAYING TEAMS LIKE WATFORD..... grin
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Manchester United Vs Nottingham Forest (3 - 2) On 26th August 2023 by ehissi(m): 3:12pm On Aug 26, 2023
jojothaiv:
Make dem beat MUFC today sef.

As a promise I intend keeping, I don remove MUFC from any of my betting slip, make wetin no good spoil the whole thing wey man dey take hold body.
Idan gangan!!

You have finally proven yourself to be a wise man!!

Man U now dey play the game whey arsenal dey play last 2 seasons....
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Manchester United Vs Nottingham Forest (3 - 2) On 26th August 2023 by ehissi(m): 3:10pm On Aug 26, 2023
God ooh!!God ooh!!God ooh! God ooh!! grin cheesy

2 goals in less than 5mins!!

Chisoooooooos!!
CultureRe: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by ehissi(m): 10:42am On Aug 26, 2023
bestman09:
Every tribe with their traditions. In Anambra state where I came from, at the death of a husband, the wife is still married to the family. If the woman wants to leave or remarry, the bride price must be returned. If the woman bears a child with another man without returning the bride price, the child legally belongs to the dead husband.
BTW, official bride price in my area, nnewi south is N5000, and the bride's family may take N200-N2000 and return the rest to the groom because we're not selling the woman.
Taaaaaaa!!

Who dey collect official bride price for Nnewi.......nobody dey collect official bride price for Nnewi, all of them na padded budget them dey give man whey wan marry from their side
CultureRe: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by ehissi(m):
fineboynl:
I’m in a serious situation. i have been dating this young widow for a while now without any issues.

But From the day I slept with her i have been noticing some things i don’t want to talk about.

Many things have been going through my mind concerning her.

From the igbo/Yoruba and all other cultures in Nigeria. What should a widow do before she start sleeping with another man? Should she returned the bride price?

Because I’m considering cutting ties with her and go for deliverance.
She doesn't have to return the bride price but..........their is a big but.....

Even on the death of her husband, she is still part of his family and traditionally remains under their care and that connection needs to be properly severed......

There is first of all, the traditional length of time that she is supposed to mourn her loss.....no freaky freaky during that period.

Also, she is supposed to take permission to date/remarry so that the husband's family can properly disengage from her gradually......

For example, if her husband owned a house she is living in or properties in her possession, her continued access to those things are her right as a member of her husband's family and constitutes family care.

So she needs to let them know so they can advise on whether she can hold on to them personally, especially in the absence of children/heirs.....

Because another marriage means the extended responsibility of care has shifted to her new husband's family, you cannot date/marry a widow and be doing freaky freaky with her in her late husband's house.

You will not need deliverance, its brain transplant you will need Because deliverance won't give sense......you don't know if the late husband was a kanayo O Kanayo and the Spiritual products of the man's sacrifice are after you (please this is a joke).....

The fact is, check your intentions towards her first, if they are for a serious relationship (and not smash and dash). If she has observed the period that she is expected to mourn her husband's loss and has kids that can inherit assets of her late husband then she should inform her husband's people (particularly the head of her husband's family) so they can give their blessings and permitt her to carry on seeing other men......to avoid unintended Consequences.....

But if you know that you are not ready for a serious relationship, biko leave her alone, whatever is disturbing you will leave after you have left her......

Let me say it again, do not freaky freaky in a dead man's house, with his wife!!


Also local traditions play a role too in these matters sometimes. In Edo culture, (though some villages/towns have reversed the negative consequences to the woman), if a married woman has an affair and continues to maintain normal relationship with her husband, it will cause the husband to be sick and if the matter isn't resolved, he can die in the process......


So if for instance Madam was doing freaky freaky with another man, while her husband was alive, wasn't caught and the man dies and she now still continues with that issue unresolved, the new man whey she dey climb will also be seeing things that don't make sense......

That one too dey, though like some villages like Uromi have reversed it, if a married woman has an affair now na she go kpehme!!

So before you tell her anything, think ooooh! No be say you get your own wife, you dey use another family wife dey do wrapper, if you know you wanna take her home to Mama, please tell her to go and see the family of the man and take their permission so that see can start seeing other men (and by other men I mean you).

Also Tunubu say I should tell you people, "no matter how you people protest oooh, he will not bring back subsidy".

Thank you
RomanceRe: My Wife Has Set A Timetable For Sex For Me. What Do I Do? by ehissi(m): 5:27pm On Aug 24, 2023
addmole:
I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.

Anyway sha, lets move on...

5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.

Omo...
The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.

I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.

I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.

ANOTHER PART OF HER:
My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.

There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.

We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.

I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.

I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.

Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.

i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.

Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.

She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.

What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.
First of all, I didn't see anything said about children from my speed reading, anyway, choose a day in the week and sit her down and make it clear to her just as you have itemized it here, the problems with your relationship with her.

Let it start from the sex angle, 35 is too early in a woman's life to be dodging sex duty or having low sex drive, some women are called cougars for a reason, it could be trauma related or hormonal, whatever the case maybe, she needs to seek help from a license professional not a pastor on this issue because hatred of sex at 35years old is a problem, get it clear she has a problem not you. You have 50year old women putting their husband waist under pressure then 35year old woman dey squeeze face,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

If she tries to make light of it or insult you, make it clear that you would rather get a new wife who is serious on working on herself and her relationship with her husband and marriage than fornicate. Sex is her sacred duty recognized by law and all religious faith/institutions under the covenant of marriage, its the one thing no woman can do for her so if she is playing with it then she is a very unserious and irresponsible wife...........and for the record, denial of sex is a strong ground for seeking/getting a divorce both in court and traditional setting.


And no, you are not a goat, you are a full blown man with a healthy sexual appetite, she should be grateful that you dont have a problem in that department and not use her family to manipulate/disrespect you into not asking for sex when the hunger for it has come upon you..................

Then you will need to seek out a licensed phycologist/psychiatrist and the 2 of you should go there and seek counselling and work it out. Take note, it is not a family problem and it is something that should be worked out between the 2 of you, but refusing to work it out is a serious marital problem and by extension it is a family problem..............

This hatred of sex sometimes is a matter of low sex drive and maybe hormonal, so she will also need to go for test and check her progesterone levels and if possible engage hormonal therapy.

Start from there first and thank me later............

Ask any doctor if they can refer you to physchologist/pyschiatrist..............

Make it crystal clear that she needs to change otherwise she will need a new husband and you will be needing a new wife, you cannot cope with a frigid wife, she needs counselling from a trained professional not a pastor.

She should see a Doctor and have her hormones checked, she is probably low on progesterone.

And for the record marriage and relationships in marriage takes 2 to work, dont accept this "you are a man bullshit". She must just be willing and ready to work on your marriage as you are just as willing to understand.

If she refuses to accept to seek professional help, then start the process of disengaging and seeking a new mate/wife and give her distance. If her family call you, it will be on record that you sought professional help for her mentally and physically and she has refused, timetable for sex is denial of sex and that is a marital war crime. Even in court that wont fly........................

Its left to you, to be pitying someone all in the name of being nice who will insult you and disrespect you without a moments hesitation..................why stay in a marriage with a woman who doesnt even want you or is even attracted to you sexually in anyway? Get help then invite her follow you to get checked, she refuses then stop listening to her, stop eating from her and start the process of disengaging legally from that marriage......

This is my take, no emotions no sentiments...................
Music/RadioRe: FM Radio Presenters In Nigeria In the 1980s, '90s And Early 2000s by ehissi(m): 8:18pm On Aug 22, 2023
hmmmmmmmmmmmmm...................back in the days before agbado started hitting hard
PoliticsRe: “No More Cows Grazing In Abuja City Centre.” - Wike by ehissi(m): 1:40pm On Aug 22, 2023
Penguin2:
You don’t have to like Wike to agree with him on this.

I guess it’s time to stop elevating cows above humans in Nigeria as was obtainable in the last administration.



https://gazettengr.com/no-more-cattle-grazing-in-abuja-city-centre-fulani-herdsmen-should-take-their-cows-out-wike/#:~:text=Mr%20Wike%20said%20this%20during,as%20FCT%20minister%20on%20Monday.&text=Nyesom%20Wike%2C%20newly%20sworn%20in,grazing%20outside%20the%20city%20centre.
Ikwere! Ikwere!! Ikwere!!! Zam zam!! grin
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Crystal Palace Vs Arsenal (0 - 1) On 21st August 2023 by ehissi(m): 8:16pm On Aug 21, 2023
kennyz247:
Arteta is very insane with this useless formation...
what will you bench Gabriel for worthless and money miss road Havertz..
Gabriel get knee injury naaa
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Tottenham Hotspur Vs Manchester United (2 - 0) On 19th August 2023 by ehissi(m): 8:04pm On Aug 19, 2023
Adesina18111:
Man U is going to win...another clean sheet for ONANA
As una hype Onana like say na one kind messiah na still 2 dem wipe Man U.

Chaaai!! Diaris Goooood ooooooh
FoodRe: Check Out This N4.6million Naira Barbeque Fish (pics/video) by ehissi(m): 2:52pm On Aug 17, 2023
Harlomahh:
Someone should please ask the guy how much is ordinary shark.
grin

Which one be ordinary shark...shark na ordinary... grin

You whey dey talk, where dem dey buy shark and how much for the shark.... grin
FoodRe: Check Out This N4.6million Naira Barbeque Fish (pics/video) by ehissi(m): 2:51pm On Aug 17, 2023
Zonefree:
Nonsense!

That amount can get you fish farms in six different locations in Ogbomoso.
That guy is a celebrity griller based in abuja - I think!

He does some real good grilling. He has done #500,000 beef and chip grills, #1,000,000 beef grills....

He is all over tiktok, that's his brand and he is making it......

Na the packaging be the koko
PoliticsRe: Wike Is FCT Minister, Umahi Works Minister - Vanguard by ehissi(m): 9:03pm On Aug 16, 2023
nairalandkachy1:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/08/breaking-tinubu-appoints-wike-minister-of-fct-umahi-minister-of-works/
Tinubu is a master...he use FCT Ministry to give baba small power at the same time give him a constituency that will keep him close.....

Baba oooh

NDI IKE!!
AutosRe: Toks 2015 Highlander Xle - 15.8m Only!! by ehissi(m): 12:53pm On Aug 16, 2023
Autorush:
2015 Toyota Highlander xle
Condition: Foreign used
Full option
Price: 15,800,000 naira only
Location: Lagos

To book an inspection, or for inquiries;
Call/WhatsApp: 07041468482
any engine pictures?
CrimeRe: Nigerian Brothers Extradited To US Over ‘Sextortion’ Of Young Men, Teenagers by ehissi(m): 11:55pm On Aug 14, 2023
Well, at least they got free visa to the USA. No be beans, that is a serious achievement inside the life of crime they have chosen,,,,,,,,, grin
SportsRe: Governor Ademola Adeleke Receives D'Tigress Star Adenike Olawuyi In His Office. by ehissi(m): 8:20pm On Aug 13, 2023
naptu2:
Gov Ademola Adeleke @AAdeleke_01



https://twitter.com/AAdeleke_01/status/1689955493798645760
I can assure you, it took the grace of God not to dance as he saw this hoooge babe....... grin

Congrats to the star athlete.

I can see you are going places already..... grin
AutosRe: Registered Acura MDX 2008 by ehissi(m): 5:36pm On Aug 12, 2023
Jcomtrader:
Lol he should thankful for 2.5
Dude thinks its a lexus
For E mind na gwagon promo
AutosRe: Registered 2003 Toyota Matrix XR by ehissi(m): 8:43am On Aug 12, 2023
Alvin007:
Registered 2003 Toyota Matrix XR with extremely chilling air conditioning system, very good transmission and a fair engine (not smoking, nor oil shortening), good legs, and 70% first body (both sides and rear bumper has never been painted since it was acquired as ‘foreign used’).
However, the bumper edges are torn.
Please oooh, you forgot to put price, abi you just wan show us car whey you dey use gyrate? No be say you wan sell am
PoliticsRe: Nigeria Army Generals VS Niger Army Generals. by ehissi(m): 7:40pm On Aug 11, 2023
Ikaeniyan0:
Nigeria military will crush Niger military. It's an insult to even compare the two countries military
As powerful as the USA military is, na Vietnamese ragtag military na e give them Nightmares......they were crushed by those fellows

Don't play with a people who have nothing to lose going into a war......
AutosRe: Distress Sale C 300 2009 For 3.3 by ehissi(m): 9:13pm On Aug 10, 2023
rtdCivilservant:
Pls op, don't fall victim by giving WildChild00 further details about the vehicle, I saw he asked for pics, pls don't divulge too much to him as he did same to my friend, after which he went and procured fake documents for my friend's car. He is a scammer.
No....you cannot drop half story. Tell us how this happened so that beware properly...................
Foreign AffairsRe: Craig Robertson: Man Threatening To Assassinate Joe Biden, Shot Dead By FBI by ehissi(m): 11:05pm On Aug 09, 2023
DigitlAssets:
FBI don't take nonsense..


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When a woman during trumps presidency went and did a video with a caricature of a beheaded donald trump, what did FBI do? Forget abeg..............
Foreign AffairsRe: Mohamed Bazoum, Niger’s Ousted President Reduced To Eating Dry Rice by ehissi(m):
FreeStuffsNG:
The coupists are under tremendous pressure. They have not gotten him to resign amidst rumour of counter coup and punishing potent sanctions by Ecowas. Check my signature for free stuffs!

Niger needs Nigeria. They can NEVER do without Nigeria. That coup Leader knows there is nowhere to go than to do the wish of Nigeria.

The moment you see the same people who supported Mr Peter Obi , Mr Nnamdi Kanu etc supporting the coupists, I knew the coupists are jinxed with bad luck of not getting their wish. Nobody or nothing they support ever ends well
True, Niger needs Nigeria. But you forget something, as bad as they may need Nigeria, they didnt need Nigeria's support to pull off a coup.

All they needed was Russia.

Tell me, If you were a military dictator, about to stir up some trouble back home, whose support will give you more confidence, Nigeria or Russia?

They cut off Niger's electricity, but the upstream flow of River Niger flows through Niger. A gentlemanly agreement between Niger and Nigeria makes it necessary for Nigeria to continue to offer Niger electricity and in exchange Niger doesnt build a dam. All Niger need is support from Russia to build a dam and some of Nigeria's Major dams will be immediately useless, dams such as Kainji Dam built in 1968, Jebba Dam built in 1985 and Shiroro Dam built in 1990..

Also, there is a $13bn pipeline in the works that link Nigeria to Europe through Niger that will supply gas to Europe, if Niger decides to blow it up nko? What can tinubu do?

Lets not forget that the shortest flight path from lagos to London is via the GMT line which runs directly through NIger's airspace, so the current closure of Niger's air border's means flights to london from lagos go add money, as airlines will have to go and turn around Niger.

So we also need Niger as much as we think they need us................

Only a fool fights a battle they cannot win against a nation whose cooperation guarantees their survival.

Even USA with all their sanctions against russia, still collect their steady supply of uranium from russia with Niger as backup. Their sanctions no reach that side.................Let wisdom and diplomacy lead.
SportsRe: Liz Cambage Denies Calling D'tigress Monkeys - Nigerian Players Reacts by ehissi(m): 3:28pm On Aug 09, 2023
tundetech5:
Nigerian players react on social media after Liz Cambage denies calling D'Tigress monkeys.

Following Australia's Liz Cambage's explosive interview with Taylor Rooks of Bleacher Report the Nigerian basketball social media space has been on fire.

In a lengthy interview with Taylor Rooks of Bleacher Report, Cambage addressed claims that she racially disparaged Nigerian players during a warm-up game for the Opals' 2021 Olympic campaign.

Cambage confirmed she had been involved in a physical incident during the warm-up game and that there "were words exchanged" before withdrawing from the Tokyo Games due to mental health issues.

The interview has brought back memories of the situation that a lot of people put in the past.

Liz Cambage's initial response to monkey speculation
When the accusation was first made was a statement by Liz CXamage that apologized to the Nigerian team.

She said, "The incident that took place in the pre-Olympic scrimmage with the Nigerian national team was handled privately almost a year ago,

"I am very disappointed and hurt by the events and accusations that have unfolded in the Australian media.

"The account of what took place is inaccurate and misleading. I did not use the racial slur toward the Nigerian team that has been circulating.

"After I unintentionally fouled a Nigerian player on court, I was then physically assaulted by this player on the sideline of my bench.

"I was hit in the face and pushed to the ground, but I walked away. ... We did not have professional referees to manage and prioritize both teams' safety during this highly physical scrimmage.

"This is not an excuse of justification to the events that unfolded or my actions, however, I feel that a full picture of the environment that led to this outcome must be shared.

" I have taken responsibility and accountability for my involvement in what occurred. I genuinely apologized to the Nigerian team and I once again am sorry that these events are being rehashed.

"I truly hope that I can move forward from this incident and apply actionable effort to be my best self."

Liz Cambage explains D'Tigress monkey chants from her perspective
Cambage spoke on her hesitation to compete at the Tokyo Olympics when asked about the claims and why her side of the story is so different.

She said, “A lot of girls don’t like me and a lot of times I say no to something, people really want to make me look like the issue.

“I never wanted to go into that Olympics. I spent the whole week going into that bubble saying I don’t want to be in the bubble.

"I’ll show you text messages between me and Sandy Brondello [saying] I do not want to go to this Olympics, I do not want to be a part of this Olympics, I do not believe in this Olympics.

“I feel like the Tokyo Olympics is everything against what the true Olympics is. Like the Olympics is about nations coming together, not weird bubbles.

"I’m not a bubble girl. I have anxiety and I need to be able to leave situations like that [snaps fingers]... there is so much pressure.

“This is the pinnacle of sport. This is the Olympics. I’m already struggling mentally and physically. I’m open and honest about everything...

“This one girl that has been saying I called them monkeys... I’ll call you a b***h. I’ll call you a dumb b***h. That’s what I say to people I get angry with,” Cambage said.

“I don’t really lean towards racial insults. That’s not how I go. I’m very pro-Black. I did not say these things. This girl that is saying all these things had a lot to say about me.

“Leak the tapes. I’ve never owned the tapes. Leak the tapes. Y’all want to see the truth, leak the tapes. Everyone in Australia that has seen the tapes, still lying about what is on these tapes, leak the tapes.”

Liz Cambage issues statement after new tape
A section of the tapes has now been revealed on social media which has sparked more wild reactions on social media.

Liz Cambage has issued a statement following the release of an additional video showing their confrontation at a pre-Tokyo Olympics scrimmage.

She denied racist slurs, though, and added that she was "pretty annoyed at all the fake news and lies.

A opposing player was elbowed in the head by Cambage during a practice match in Las Vegas that was played behind closed doors, as seen in the footage

After the altercation, the newly released video shows Cambage leaving in the direction of the Australia bench while also appearing to speak with Nigerian players nearby.

In response to what Cambage stated, a Nigerian player then rushes toward her and appears to punch her as the two teams converge.

The statement by the 31-year-old said, “In light of the circulating footage from the 2021 scrimmage between the Opals and D’Tigress, I want to provide clarity on my recollection of the events.

“Before the scrimmage, I had expressed concerns to Opals staff about the unacceptable playing conditions within the COVID ‘Bubble’ they were imposing.

"The circulating video portrays a highly physical game with no officiating, resulting in me being attacked and sustaining a concussion.

"Contrary to false claims, I did not use racial slurs or refer to anyone as a monkey, which is evident from the footage.

“To set the record straight, I never stated that I had officially joined the Nigerian national team. Instead, I expres

"I had discussions with staff members about the necessary steps to become eligible, and thought I was doing them. I extend my best wishes to all players on D’Tigress.

“My dedication to fostering positive change in the sport I love remains unwavering. I have always taken pride in representing the game throughout my career.

“I kindly urge the media and fans to fact-check before publishing and to avoid spreading unverified claims. I also send well wishes to all my former teammates. Looking forward to seeing you all on the court.

“Love and light.”

Liz Cambage claims Nigeria wants her
In the interview, a statement by Cambage that went viral was her saying the Nigeria Basketball Federation (NBBF) want her to dump Australia.

She said, “Like, why does Nigeria want me to leave Australia and represent them? We’re filing for me to leave the Australian team so I can represent Nigeria. I’ve been in cahoots, I’ve been talking with them since all of this happened.

“This is what I mean, people don’t know the truth. I honestly haven’t had one journalist that has written all these lies actually come to me and want my side of the story. There’s a whole tape with the truth out there.

D'Tigress react to Liz Cambage
Nigerian basketball players have taken to social media to debunk the statements by Cambage about the incident and her international allegiance switch.

Promise Amukamara on Twitter said, “She called us Monkeys & told us to go back to our country. Yes she said that!” wrote Amukamara.

“Literally everyone from both teams have the same story BUT her, so y’all do the math! & the only person she has been in “cahoots” w/ was the former coach of our National team & he’s no longer the coach, so there’s that!”

Sarah Ogoke a key player as D'Tigress beat Senegal to win the 2023 FIBA Women's Afrobasket also added, “We are not recruiting you and you definitely spewed racist profanities against us during our scrimmage”.

There are claims that the negotiations for Cambage to switch were made by the former coach but have been shit down since the appointment of Rena Wakama.

The saga involving Cambage is not expected to end soon as many stakeholders are expected to give their opinion going forward.

Source: Pulse Sport Nigeria

https://www.pulsesports.ng/basketball/story/liz-cambage-denies-calling-dtigress-monkeys-nigerian-players-react-on-social-media-2023080906081884237
This babe is the Cristiano Ronaldo of women's basketball. You called them monkeys and told them to go back to their country.

You have seen them as winning team you want to use to lift trophy.....you just chill waiting for the former coach to name you amongst the squad....

It was when they changed coach and the new coach wasn't feeling you, you felt the urgent need to apologise and deny what you told our gals.....

See your mango head.......they better not bring this bad market to join our gals oooh, make she no go use her bad luck and her mental health issues to spoil everywhere.....

Nonsense and ingredient......
PoliticsRe: Edo Resumes Payment Of Gratuities To Pensioners 17 Years After by ehissi(m): 1:05pm On Aug 08, 2023
Larry1960:
Hello I've confirmed this for someone from a PFA and they said it would be transferred to the next of kin if the person dies
They lied, end of life of beneficiary - the pensioner - is the tenure of annuity. Only Whole or Preprogrammed payment is transferable.

If the PFA staff you asked insists that pension under annuity, is transferrable to next of kin, then riddle me this, ask them what is the process of complete withdrawal of pension funds under annuity in the event that the pensioner is deceased for next of kin..........which form do they fill and what documents do they present?

Make we know who dey play...................
PoliticsRe: Edo Resumes Payment Of Gratuities To Pensioners 17 Years After by ehissi(m): 7:19am On Aug 08, 2023
Larry1960:
I don't think that's true ooooo annuity if one dies, it's still transferrable
Not in my country Nigeria. Once you pass on, the annuity payment ends........feel free to confirm from any PFA!!
RomanceRe: Ghanaian Man Accosts A Nigerian Lady For Dressing "Indecently" (pic/vid) by ehissi(m):
Autobot05:
Use your brain before you talk
Thats a redenominated currency, the ghana cedis was redeominated by 4 digits. Meaning that the real value 1,452 ghana cedis is actually 14,520,000 cedis.............

In case you never know...................lol

PoliticsRe: Edo Resumes Payment Of Gratuities To Pensioners 17 Years After by ehissi(m): 8:35am On Aug 05, 2023
Love800:
I have a question

Is pension for life or it will stop at some point in time?
Under the old legacy system, pension is for life. That is to say government will pay pension monthly till you pass on, it isnt transferable.......

Under the new contributory pension system, you decide how you get paid. You have a pension account, just like a bank account where you see the total sum of monies you have accrued in savings plus interest accured through the PFA using your money to invest.......also you can take a loan from your pension savings while you still work.....

Based on industry best practices, under the new system you can do 2 things....

1. Demand your whole pension be paid to you either once or in instalments.....E.g If your account hold 8million, you can demand to withdraw the whole money once or what some people prefer.....they demand a lump payment of #3 million while the sum of #30,000 be paid every month until the #8million finish. The benefit of this option is that in the event of the demise of the pensioner, your next of kin is entitled to the balance of whatever money is left............

2. The second option is preferred by PFAs {Oloriburuku them}, they have what is called an annuity plan. Under Annuity, they keep your money for the purpose of reinvesting and pay you monthly interest on that investment as pension for life till the death of the pensioner. Why PFAs like this plan and always market it to pensioners is because it isnt transferable and once the pensioner dies the money becomes theirs. They factor your age, the volume of cash you have in savings and decide how much to pay every month.....Eg. you may have pension savings of #8million and hear after accepting annuity that they will only pay you #20,000 every month for life. If you factor life expectancy, football age factor in recruitment in the civil service amongst other factors, pensioner for don die before he/she receive up to 50% of that money......leaving the rest for the PFA

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