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EmptyGarden:
We billionaires children are always judged unfairly.

blingxx:
this one should be "I BELIEVE I CAN FLY "

RiyadhGoddess:
Done ma'am
Good morning

RiyadhGoddess:
Really ma'am. Pls DM

purples25:
Thanks sis, I'm glad you understand. Who won't want to train their kids? But even with those kids that were not trained, they are not the cause of the problem at all. We shouldn't be telling the victim to behave because of the predator.

Predator should be kept in check so that children can be free.

purples25:
Sis, he is not talking about guidance like you think, he is not talking about wrong and right like you think. Do you know what he is saying?

He is saying that wayward teens and kids can be held responsible as a part of sex between kids and adults. That part of the problem is that the kids were not trained well.

Don't you think any pedophile will come up with this excuse? That it was the girls and how ill trained they were that led him to sleeping with them? We cannot blame this on how parents are training their kids! That is like saying a rape victim is responsible for being raped cuz she wore short clothes.

No matter what, is a man supposed to see a teen or young girl and lay into her? Lets stop giving these men excuses , if we are before God, can any man born of woman open his mouth to say 'I used girls because they were greedy, because they were not well trained'......do you think such an excuse will stand for any man?

BigJoe19:
So when exactly do the children have sense of responsibility 16,17,18,19,20 yrs?

ItsTerah:
I know I'm going to get alot of insults from you guys and that's why I didn't use my original Nairaland account for this, but please hear me out and give me good advice.

I'm the kind of girl that doesn't love easily. I don't think I've ever fallen in love before. I have dated just one guy and I broke up with him when he tried to rape me. I'm still a virgin and the reason is because I have trust issues. I know that if I have sex with a guy I'll become very attached and my heart can easily be broken. So I'm waiting for a guy I can trust.

I recently just started dating someone. I'm not in love with him but we've been very good friends and when he asked me out I just had to say yes so that I wouldn't lose him. I've still not had sex with him and I like that he respects my wishes. My boyfriend loves me and although I don't love him equally I've opened up to him about how difficult it is for me to reciprocate love.

Then there is this other guy I just became friends with. I won't lie, I'm sexually attracted to this guy. My sexual attraction to him intensified when he opened up to me about his kinks which are similar to mine. He told me he has feelings for me and likes me alot and can't get me out of his mind. I admitted I am sexually attracted to him but that I don't have feelings for him. I know he is sexually attracted to me and has made advances at me and even asked for nude pictures all of which I refused. But I still talk to him. He knows about my boyfriend and is aware of my situation. Occasionally he flirts with me but I try not to flirt back. I've tried to bury my sexual attraction to him but he is just so physically appealing. I've made it clear that I want to be just friends and he seems okay with it. I know I'm principled enough to not allow him have sex with me I'm wondering if it's safe being just friends with him. I enjoy talking to him and don't want to end our friendship.

Tra6ix:
Good evening my fellow nairalanders
I'm not new here, I just created a new account to hide my identity for few reasons.
There is this guy in my class (final year) who have been shooting his shots at me since our 300 level first semester but I turned him down. He is tall, slim, fair in complexion with a dimple I love especially when he smiles. I turned him down the first time because I thought he doesn't have any plans for his future, I looked down on him then but when this lockdown started, I realized he has a bright future ahead, he has great plans for the future. Although I started falling for him after rejecting him last year, my friends didn't like him, they made me believe that he is too low for my standard.
We stopped chatting, we only viewed each others status on whatsapp that's all. During the lockdown, I lost someone so dear to me and the people I thought would stand by me never did, but when this guy realized that I lost someone, he started comforting me, he called and texted me at least twice daily aside from the chats on whatsapp, he even visited me, he made me get over the death, we became best of friends and I guess he was still feeling something for me, he started shooting his shots again but I pretended it was a normal thing, I was already in a relationship with a guy I am still regretting ever accepting as my boyfriend. When he (the guy, not my boyfriend) was tired of giving me signs that he still loves me, he told me that he love me and that he couldn't continue keeping it to himself, I told him I will think about it but I can't promise him anything, he reduced the chats, he stopped sending me the love poems and he finally stopped calling or sending me texts. I love him, I just wanted him to be a little bit patient with me. I have made many enquiries about him, he is from a good home, he is even an exco in the school SUG, he makes research and writes alot, I've read some of his research work and some of his stories. I have been monitoring him on whatsapp to see if he is already taken but it seems he is still single. Please how do I tell him how I feel for him, I am dying daily, I need him, I love him seriously. He once posted a happy birthday poem he wrote for one of our coursemate and I felt so jealous. I have tried to chat him up but he is not giving me that vibe and energy he gave me then. Please advice me on how to go about this. Please mods help me push this to front page

tightpussy156:
very intelligent an decent girl.even with her beauty an sometimes her dressing some people taught she will be loose but she is dicipline.hope these foolish slay queens an loose girl who jump from bed to another because of change when them go give you will learn from this.you can make ur own money without warming men's bed.A bitch will.always be one.this kind babe her husband fit leave am go abroad for full year his mind will be at rest because she have a decent wife.not the one go give you hypertension.

Horerku:
Hi all, i have been a guest on NL for a long time but seeing this thread https://www.nairaland.com/6069700/look-too-young-find-it makes me want to come out and share what has been giving me serious headache.

I will be 28 in a month but i have not been able to hit puberty fully. Can count how many strand of hair on my pp, no armpit hair, no facial changes used to be short then i start growing from like 5.7' to 6.5'. No lies it's a very big disgrace when kids that will see my junior brother and bow their heads expect me to call them egbon.


But I have worked on my self esteem, gave myself confidence by reading inspirational books, learnt boxing, build my body, learnt dancing and i can very well say all this have really boost my confidence, i built my confidence by writing job application to jobs i know im over qualified for and intentionally bully the unlucky hr that will interview me �. I am able to read people and give good advices, as a matter of fact, i (despite my baby face) take adult Sunday School at church and I'm able to take my classes like a piece of cake (With God enabling me btw).

Never dated or toast before not cos im scared of being turned down inface i have a lot of babes that really show me emotions but because I'm scared of how the girl will act towards me when she find out my secret and i am gonna keep it that way because i can't really take heartbreak because of something i can't control. I
already have a good paying Job and finances not my problem so this is my only headache but will i still become normal? Have you overcome something like this? Or do you know how i can correct things?

I have been a guest on NL for more than 7 years. Try be a troll first y'all taught me

TheCork:
Kaiii. See booobsi . Honey, did I mention I drive expensive bmw wit alloy will & I live rich area of London call pekam were only millionaire people leave in(juss in case u ask). Anyways was your nomba & please can u cook n clean?

GLYCOLYSISS:
[b]Ene,you want me to be honest with you ?
I will advice you to leave these thread.
You can't stand your innate disposition in the mirror.
It's not hate,but the harsh reality don't give a rat arse about our emotions

GLYCOLYSISS:
-- Women are obsessed with claiming they/their gender has a mastery over qualities that they scarcely possess. Eg: logic, maturity, thoughtfulness, introspective self-awareness

Chii59:
If all women are the same, YOUR MOTHER is no different. Ignorant, confused, scheming, manipulative, deceptive, greedy, cheaters name it... She's part of us. A true daughter of Eve.

iyatrustee:
This subject gives me headache. Mere looking at some mathematics question is enough to trigger migrane for me

My sec school maths teacher made me hate the subject

morhsuud22:
I think most fathers food tastes good because they don't manage ingredients like mothers since its a one-off thing.

morhsuud22:
I think most fathers food tastes good because they don't manage ingredients like mothers since its a one-off thing.

IntersexSherry:
I really love him a lot, still can't get my head off him, i knew he was poor from the onset but still accepted him, i gave him money to support him, gave him foodstuffs but it seems all my efforts were in vain because he kept on doing his yahoo business and i just can't be with someone that scams people of their hard earned money. I told him to stop and he said he doesn't give a Bleep so i cut off the relationship and he blocked me immediately. I have been waiting for him to even call to give an apology or unblock me but he never did. I miss him so much, even sent him text messages begging him to come back but he never replied back. I really love him a lot and want him back
Update: This is someone i can die for. Now i understand the reason why some people still date criminals. If you ever witnessed true love, you will understand how i feel and how hard it is for i to let go. I loooooove him pass my life. I can't even think of any guy except him. Apart from doing yahoo, he is really a sweet guy and cute AF.

SmellySperm:
nice advert..

PrimadonnaO:
It's part of my name!