₦airaland Forum

JayromWrites:
Alaye English teacher
Prove is a verb while proof is a noun
I know what i said, and i said what i know
Gbe body e
Inspector general of English language, nairaland Region

Take it easy

Eniolakiite:
It depletes self esteem if you compare your life to what you see on social media. Always remember that people only show you what they want. And things are not always as they seem.

Yeah this is so true,i had to deactivate my fb acct last year cos my friend list were made up of old classmates,seniors, juniors,teachers and church members whom I constantly found myself comparing my life to.It got so bad that i started feeling I was being monitored, like there are some frenemies that will just pop up after few months to ask 'what are u doing now' and its not like they are adding to my life.mtchew. I hate nonsense
Tbh wisdom and moderation is the key

Prechgold1180:
the country Nur tire u

What to do

Prechgold1180:
Now I know why Nigeria national anthem ends with so help me God

lol una too funny

No job as in he doesn't have anything going on for himself no matter how small, he just sits at home hoping for a miracle to locate him on his couch.If that's what u mean then NO LADY SHOULD MARRY SUCH A BOY(I said boy cos such a person is not yet a man) Responsibilities are what make you a mature adult and only mature adults should go into marriage.
NB:THIS APPLIES TO BOTH GENDERS

Baruwaaaaa:
Yes it is on. You pay the money through the student's JAMB PORTAL, then proceed to CBT centre to effect the change.

well I don't know abt the payment part can't everything be done in a cbt centre or jamb office.

Baruwaaaaa:
BREAKING!
CHANGE OF COURSE/INSTITUTION IS NOW ON

Is it really on like one can effect the change now

Baruwaaaaa:
BREAKING!
CHANGE OF COURSE/INSTITUTION IS NOW ON

Is it really on like one can effect the change now

RiyadhGoddess:
Ok ma'am

Pls reply ur mail

PrimadonnaO:
Will they be praying around your waist?

lol no nah
They always link it to the marine spirits that's all and people tend to see you as a loose girl

Siberia01:
at least

Drink water on top if not u will have indigestion

Siberia01:
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Mr canceller hope u are satisfied

PrimadonnaO:
If you don't ask people why they wear bracelets and necklaces, why ask why they wear waist beads?

Am sure the guy is just curious.
As for me I've always wanted to wear one I love the feel but my fear is me that like going to programs nor be say one day one pastor will be praying for me and one usher will mistakenly cut the beads everyone will now start seeing me like an ogbanje.
Moreover most people thinks its fetish so that is that.

OgogoroFreak:
What? People wear BEDS too? I haven't seen anyone like that, I swear!

Guy u are funny o,why are u deliberately finding trouble this Sunday morning

Baruwaaaaa:
Don't be scammed, change of course/institution has not started.You can only pay for the change only and effect it once CBT centres are authorized to operate.(that of course after lowdown)

Is the jamb Change of course out,how can one effect the change.

This one was from my mom and it hurt really bad,I had health issues when I was in my early teens and my mom being the religious type wanted to take me to her church(we attended different church).I refused and one night after trying to convince me time and again she resorted to mocking me about my sickness.I slept with tears in my eyes DAT night.I know she never meant it but still it hurt then.

cmrendowed:
So on point only a simp will accept no sex till marriage when you are not a Virgin only virgins have the right and the remaining hoes should keep hoeing

You are a guy

Youngpo413:
na only ladies dey carry marriage matter for head.

Yes ladies carry marriage matter for head earlier cos of biological clock but no matter how u try to paint it at the end of the day every male wants to get settled cos if u are not in family gatherings,society, at workplace pple will see u as an irresponsible person.
Do u want to know y cos u are in Africa

The lady changed the life of the boy and the boy changed her life in return

stacyadams:
Weddings wey no go last . Attending wedding no be d issue..


Shebi yesterday one husband kill him wife ,kill himself

Days lyk 1 in 10 marriages, there are many good ones,u only hear abt the bad ones cos only bad news make headlines.

Gerrard59:
As usual, the notion of people not getting married are mainly propagated by folks in their early 20s and early 30s. Yet again, in reality, I do see wedding photos of friends and acquaintances on Facebook and even people I don't know on Twitter. Although, the pandemic has slowed down everything (same thing everywhere), people will still and do get married. The notion of "get a babymama" sounds good (I had similar thoughts then) but upon research that the vast majority of well groomed children come from TWO PARENT HOUSEHOLDS than single parenthood coupled with the increasing costs of taking care of children, getting a partner is necessary. Also, in a conservative society like Nigeria, no responsible father or mother will betrothe their daughter in the name of baby mama. None! You people on social media tend to think you live in a liberal country (in actual liberal countries, the majority of truant kids come from single parent homes) where you can wake up one morning and impregnate a responsible lady and allow to be a baby mama. Before you mention Chioma and Co, those are exceptions not the norm. The vast majority of Nigerians will get married, yes; feminism is on the rise (my major issue regarding marriage in this age) but don't consider so-called Nigerian feminists as they too desire to get married (the majority of so-called feminists in Nigeria are at best fraudulent in their beliefs), the economy has declined (which will continue considering the stoopid politicians' policies) but last I checked, humans are social beings and will need a steady not one-off companion at a stage in their lives.

You've said it all, i attended a wedding last Saturday and I have another one to attend next month,so who are these getting married spirits or aliens.
Don't believe everything u hear on net cos majority of us are hypocrites

It is only on Nairaland that people seem not to want to get married. The people I know around me are all getting married.

let me not go spiritual on this one cos I know lots of folks like to be Free minded,moreover
the spiritual empowerment op is talking about only works for guys who are spiritually inclined as well.
The circle u move in matters in a lot.
As a lady u should work on your intellect, u should not just be concerned abt being sexually appealing but also try to be personality appealing that will attract the ryt kind of pple to u.I mean sit down and ask urself wat differentiates me from millions of girls out there,if u think ur pussy is swt there will surely be one sweeter than urs.so wat is unique abt u.This is where personality comes in.There should be this irresistible aura arnd u dat keeps pple on their toes.
I am not gonna judge if u decide to go into a sexual relationship but pls do not let it be all about the sex he's getting from u and the money u are getting from him, try and push him forward.if he spends on u and he has a business,give him business ideas,add to his life. a guy will neva 4get a girl who make him a better man neither can he spill thrash abt u if u eventually brk up.
That is y its better to delay sex in a new relationship cos a relationship built on friendship lasts longer than that built on bodily desires.

Hmm

pmoye:
Point 1 or 2, it takes an irresponsible woman to get unwanted pregnancy. Of course this excludes marriage/relationship gone sour

Nah it takes a fertile woman one or two mistakes to get unwanted pregnancy.

pmoye:
What exactly is the reason why Nigerian women are so much in love with abortion? It is so rampant that you get tempted to categorize abortion as another method of contraception. The funny thing is that most of these ladies involved are religious individuals... What exactly is going on?

And they always claim it is a mistake. There is no accident in having sex. You don't walk on the streets and suddenly slip and fall on a ready-to-fire di.ck. There's always a process involved in sex.

Make no mistake, this is 100% about women, in case some start feeling the need to balance the gender here.

If you're a single mother because of this-kind of mistake, then what a shame. Abortion and single-motherhood should never be a replacement for good sense.

Says the Oracle.

The truth is no lady likes abortion.
The thing is nature itself has put a kind of natural restrictions on a woman's sexcapades so that if she does it with reckless abandon she gets a result,pregnancy and being saddled with a baby is a great responsibility many are not ready for hence the numerous abortions u see everywhere esp for those who do not use protection and refuse to abstain.

Hmm

Pelxmiye:
You again ,but sadly most of them I have met believe all they have to be is to be a "woman"...for men like me..

You just repeated what I said

Pelxmiye:
You again ,why are gba gboing your women kind all over the place,I get it..

Whatever this means I just said there is an exception to the rule op wrote up there.

Pelxmiye:
Amazing..so there are still sensible reasonable woman in here...wow!..always wonder why any girl not earning over 100k would be buying hair of. 24k..like why?

They do it to appear big and make a fashion statement cos nowadays it's a competition.
Moreover there's always a man in the picture to pay.