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FuckTheWorld:
This is what you get when...
Quickly go for an x-ray

Your profile pic is even upside down little wonder u are thinking upside down

FuckTheWorld:
This doesn't make any sense.
Is that not we are have many gay bishops, ritualist pastors, rapist and pedophilē prophets?

We should focus on everything.

Do u no dat wat u wrote up there makes no sense at all

PrimadonnaO:
Yes. That you’re dulling... too rigid... Miss goody-two shoes.

But time will tell.

exactly after buying wigs worth 100k in their youth they end up looking for 5k when they become babymamas to useless babydaddies

FuckTheWorld:
There's nothing nice about his write-up. The guy is a Hypocrite. Pusṣy worshipper and Pusṣy ass niggà. Don't be deceived.

He might be a pussy ass nigga as u said but at least he made sense. focus on the message not the messager.

PrimadonnaO:
Yes, it goes both ways, but a woman’s situation is more delicate.

She’s fated to be the disadvantaged one depending on the choices that she makes.

So she’s got to be extra smart and careful about the choices she makes.
I feel so sorry for girls who are wasting the prime years of their lives getting into meaningless relationships... partying away... and spending all their money on frivolities!

They’ll wake up one day, the good men are gone... no career to fall back to, no tangible investment, biological clock ticking, womb destroyed, or saddled with a baby they’ll keep struggling to raise.

Foolishness is too costly!

You've said it all like really if u talk dey will say u don't know the in-thing or u are a JJC

Adunny07:
Please I just really need someone to talk to about this and I will like your candid advise..

So since my older sister got married I always come to her house and spend few weeks or months and go back. Al·through my university days, whenever school is not in session I always come down here to spend time with her and her husband.

Truth be told the husband is a very nice man and has helped me always financially, anytime I come here once my sister welcomes me the first day like this, from the second day she leaves all her house chores for me, I mean everything and she just relaxes. At times I get really tired and don't even feel like doing those chores but because most times when I come visiting she is heavy ( pregnant) so most times I just help her...

Thing is my sister doesn't appreciate all my effort, most times she complains self its the hubby that tells her that I am hardworking and at least she should give me credit for all I do.

Now the reason why am writing this is because am done with service (NYSC) and as it is its like I have to stay in her house because the state where she stays has more job opportunities compared to where our parents live... She stays in Abuja...I have been down with malaria for few days now and I have been on treatment, just because I can't do certain house chores because am not too strong my sis started complaining saying I can't be living in her house and be waking up whenever i like... Mind you I was always the first that wakes up when I wasn't sick, in fact I will wash the dishes, sweep, mop daily, cook food, bath her children and all those things.

The only thing she does is to bath her youngest baby, but now because for these few days she has been doing those work I do daily she is already saying she can't tolerate me sleeping and not waking up on time.

My question is this, does she have the right to be so angry at me because she is doing her house chores? I feel its her house and so she doing her house chores herself shouldn't be a problem since am not too strong to help her do it. She herself just sweep and doesn't mop, but she expects me to sweep and mop everyday.

Should i just go back to my parents house and get a job there? Me renting my own house is not an option because am a lady and am just 22...

Please i need you guys advice, what can I do?

If she really is ur blood sister try to do those work with ur heart while looking for job opportunities.
Situations like this build you up to be a better person.
Have had cause to stay with relatives who made me work too hard but today i realise those things helped me to be strong.
Besides their prayers still works for me today.
we can't run away from pple tomoro u myt need to put up with troublesome in-laws wat will u do then.U can't run away all the time see it as a test to build up ur endurance level.
Btw some women are more quarrelsome wen pregnant.
When u are sick show it well so that she will even be afraid to tell u stand up sef.

Toks2008:
The outward beauty of a woman is measured by the degree to which it is aesthetically pleasing or beautiful in terms of sexual attractiveness or desirability. However, every lady is relatively attractive in a very unique way but there is no denying the fact that whilst some ladies are conspicuously attractive, some are just average in standard outward beauty assessment...

Nevertheless, I strongly believe that there are huge benefits for ladies with average physical beauty cos in most cases...

1. Most guys prefer to marry them.

2. They are more emotionally and physically available.

3. They give their men peace of mind cos they are naturally submissive and loyal.

4. Academically they are mostly at the top of their game and rarely get tangled in sex for grades since lecturers don't find them too attractive.

5. One fact no one can dispute is that they make it better in life cos they work extra hard with their brains...little wonder why most of the great achievers are of average beauty.

6. They are more productive cos they don't slay on social media or offline and are less prone to depression over lack of likes over their pics or display of nudity.

7. They usually have very good character and other great qualities the very attractive ladies lack...

8. Cheaper to maintain cos they don't get obsessed with trying to outlook other ladies in looks or spend foolishly on cosmetic enhancement...

9. They have very high self-esteem and confidence in themselves cos they don't have the pressure or fear over their beauty fading away...they have come to understand that "Lookism" is essentially the same as racism or sexism and nothing to do with reality at all So they care less what people think or say about how they look.

10. They are very good in the bedroom act. Whilst most very attractive ladies can be very boring in bed because they don't want to be roughly handled, the ladies with average physical beauty care less and would throw all caution to the wind ... I guess it is a way of making up for not being too hot and this is why many men find them sexually irresistible.

Do you agree with these?

N.B : This is a fun thread so no spoilers biko.

There is an element of truth in this
But u no in every rule there is an exception though.
Moreover our world today make u believe being beautiful as a girl is enough compensation for other things so why bother.

mrfranky:
Please Mods help push this to front page i need more advise please...

Have been caught up in a difficult situation. I have been dating this my lovely girlfriend for more than a year now. She is beautiful, humble, kind and a good girl. She is from a good family too. The parents are not too rich just average and doing very well. They are 2 girls and 3 boys and the elder sis is more of a slay queen i.e so beautiful and refuses to marry so the mother is hoping on this my girl to settle down, always encouraging her to settle down.

Now I am 29 years and I really love this girl and she loves me more than i actually love her, always ready to do my biding. She is just 22 and I wish to marry her someday but my finances are low. I have met the father and he said he doesn't need anything from me only things for the kinsmen or whatever but my parents are the opposite. Infact my dad won't even entertain my thought of getting married now because despite am staying alone, i still get small stipends from him monthly so he knows am not financially independent.

To cut the long story short.. My girl is pregnant again after several abortions in the past and she is refusing to take pills. She wants to keep this one and is urging me to come pay her bride price so we can move in together. This was not my dream way of getting married. I don't have a problem with her keeping the child but I just cannot marry now with my monthly salary of 40k which am struggling to feed and pay bills.

Please I need advice.
Pls no insult I knw the abortion act is wrong n never intended for her to take in again but it keeps happening...

Help me please i dont want to lose this lovely princess because she promise to end the relationship if she has to take another pill.

Oga u are still looking for ur dream way of getting married when u refuse to do d ryt thing by having protected sex or abstaining.
Stop thinking about urself for once put urself in the shoes of this girl u claim to love so much cos if u really loved her u won't allow her destroy her future.
If this gal has good qualities beta go ahead and marry her, just make sure u pool resources together.
Have u asked urself should u ditch this gal wat if later on u have all the money u want but can't find true love and happiness.won't u be filled with regrets.

Really I swear this things get me so angry,lyk am mad over it.
At times I ask myself is it d same body I have that these girls have.How can u have multiple abortions for a guy all in the name of what?
u will be d one to go through the pains and most of the time these guys don't care all they want is just to satisfy their pleasure and u are busy destroying urself for this.Most times these girls don't end up with these guys.
like someone said earlier a girl has everything to lose in a sexual relationship and a guy nothing to lose.it is what it is.
I always say this,
This life we live it once if u miss it ,u miss it forever.
The fear of poverty alone is enough to give sm1 sense sef.
Pls Ladies let's try to use our sense abeg,if u damage ur womb he won't marry u,y risk it.

Lolzzz
You guyz should know the op is just trolling na
Am surprised it made front page.
This one dat most of the mods are following her.This might just be an alternate moniker of one of the mods used to cause controversy.
Well wat do i no

Being an intelligent girl back then in school most of my teachers liked me so I was close to them and they were mainly male teachers in my school. At a time rumors started going round that I was dating one of them,a corper.
i later got to know it was one of my supposed friend that liked him that was spreading those rumors.I felt bad,even my principal come be dey use one eye dey look me sef.

This is very dicey if u really plan to come to Nigeria take this cue.
You can know a person character by watching how dey treat others esp those who have ntin to offer them.it myt be a waiter, a dirty shoemaker, an haggard looking woman,a poor bike rider e.t.c
limiting urself to an age gap lessens ur chances tho.

weird things let's see
1.I don't enjoy an article/book when I read slowly I read so fast that by d tym am thru with a page I won't remember details of wat I read.lol
2.when am alone I start imagining things.
3.when am not in a rush I play old blues while bathing and I take my time
4.i hate to sleep early even if I ave ntin to do I manufacture one
5.I can't eat without pressing fone or reading.

Forget about ur mates it is not how fast but how far.Those friends u are looking at might graduate and still struggle to get job for years.



we all can't be at the same level rather we just make sure we are on the ryt path.

I have a friend who was studying optometry but was still vying to get medicine,he finally got admitted to study medicine in 400level.Do u no wat he did,he left for medicine and today he never regretted that decision.


Do you know that 10 yrs from now u may not regret the decisions u made rather d chances u did not take.u will look back nd realise how young u were.

The most important thing is ur level of determination.
Btw for a guy U still have age on ur Syd,try anoda institution.

What are the benefits of getting married in Nigeria?
forget about the Nigeria part
They have sold this country
we all are on our own o

The only thing society put in place is to pressure u to settle down so that they can call u mama dis or papa dat

lekki1444:
Now if by now you are not aware that we live in one big computerised electromagnetic space full of executable coded programs and we are biological computers syncing into the electromagnetic programs to execute the commands laid out by the super programmer called GOD then I have to say welcome to the atlantean new age where wisdom downloads has been allowed and permitted to be accessed by some. And these programs front-end is presented as Zodiac houses but the back-end is full of codes and programs. And so in accessing these codes and programs we can see the types of executable manifestations that happens when two people try to interact and unite as one.

There are 432 executable programs that are manifested as humans try to unite as one in unions and marriages and today I am going to talk about only one of the 432 executable programs and that is a woman under the Zodiac house of Cancer. Now only 3 types of men can interact favourably with a Cancer woman without falling into the abyss of Nothingness and degradation and these will be men under the alpha cycle of Scorpio, Sagittarius and Pisces. The alpha cycle meaning the first 7 degrees in these houses. Every other man will fall into the abyss both literally and Spiritually. And so it is important for people to understand that in joining with each other as partners we are activating cosmic executable programs that will affect our lives and so you must consult with a spiritual scientist like myself before you try to get into a union so you can know what you are getting into and should you decide to proceed how to counteract the executable programs. Send me a comment on my blog if you want a consultation.

And now here are examples of men who fell into the abyss and their fortunes changed for the worse as they joined to Cancer women

1-Khloe Kardashian the Cancer joined unto Lamar Odom a stellar great basketball player in the NBA. As soon as they joined together he forgot how to play the game and became crap and was kicked out of the team he was into a lower team and eventually kicked out of the NBA after which he suffered several strokes and mental health problems. The man is now a shell of himself today

2-Khloe Kardashian the Cancer also joined unto a stellar basketball player in the NBA called Rashad Mccants after which he got kicked out of the NBA and disappeared

3-Khloe Kardashian joined unto another NBA player Tristan Thompson after which his fortunes and knowledge of the gane perished and he went from being on everyones lips to a nobody

4-Pamela Anderson joined unto Tommy Lee Jones one of the most famous rockers of the nineties after which he fell into oblivion and no one has heard of him ever since

5-Pamela Anderson joined unto the most popular rocker in the early 2000s named Kid Rock after which he crashed and burned immediately and disappeared

6-Lil Kim joined unto Biggie and a short while after that he was cancelled out of the earth realm into the abyss

7-Princess Diana joined unto Prince Charles and heavy occultic wizards in the royal family told them their fortunes will drop if Charles continued the union and so he quickly bounced so that the Royal family does not fall into the abyss, after which she joined unto the Fayed family who owned harrods. She end up taking the Heir to the Fayed throne Dodi down into the abyss with her as they both crashed and burned after which the family had a downturn in fortune and they lost the famous Harrod store they owned in London and now the family that used to be a household name just disappeared into the abyss and into the night.

And the conclusion here is that woman and man interaction is a dangerous game because you are dealing with executable cosmic programs that will manifest in your life. You need to consult with a spiritual scientist like myself before you get into these dangerous murky waters of 432 executable programs.

mtchwww I thot it was real CANCER sef

ibawon:
It doesn't matter how much you earn but when you marry and you loose your job, tell me what's next?

Bros y u dey pray for bad thing na

hmmmm

simplepee:
lol. It's not about having much but knowing how to use the one available well. Still, it's not ALL about money. Any guy that has money with no sense is not allowed in my life please.

As in u just spoke my mind

But how about a bit of both

Hathor5:
In sickness you want to do her? Tell her and her family before they accept the bride price so that they know what kind of person they are dealing with right from the start or before that.

That is why I always tell Ladies,choose carefully the man u get married to.

if you are going to become joined to someone make sure its someone with sense and not a beast.

Ariza:
BTW Op's relationship is baseless, meaningless and lifeless. you don't end a "good thing" because of some stranger's post.

You are ryt
That relationship was already dead on arrival, they were just looking for a good excuse to end it.

so girls has been falling my hand

Nl guys food don done 4 una

BabaJoe001:
I read all the stories on here. And I had to pity the ladies Stop being desperate! Men will never respect you if you are . It doesn't matter whether you are 30 or anything. Those that married in their early 20s are regretting and wished they had chilled down a bit. Because their dreams and freedom are taken away from them seems you don't know that marriage is a bondage. I have a lady that married at 24 got divorced at 32 and said she will never marry again. She has 3 kids already. She said the biggest mistake she made was getting married early. Now she is the happiest woman in the world. Raising her kids if you like Call her a single mother, that's your headache. She is a happy single Mother. living well.. no troubles....Men came for marriage she chased all of them away.. all of them well to do. They will be begging. Because this lady is very responsible.. she has found her voice and found meaning in life within 3 years. But she will tell me she doesn't need Men anymore . The reason why those still married cant leave is because it's their husbands that feeds them. They are scared to leave. am a Man, but I can tell you Most Men are useless. A man go show you love but once u are married, then he changes.. he will be telling you what do you want again.. you are eating .. he is paying bills ..as if that's all marriage is made for
Well thats a topic for another day. so back to our "desperate" ladies ..please it's Rubbish. Don't be desperate.. look for money... Get a skill. Then you will be amazed it's Men that will come to propose. The only beautiful thing I see in marriage is children.. others na scam.. Because Men go show their colour.

So true
when you are dependent they start thinking u ave no choice

mikolo80:
why USD called desperation They can't help themselves

Am not judging anyone at least do it codedly .Don't beg outrightly. Rather make yourself irresistible

Blackmann001:
Mine is different ooo... Just to date her, sh took me to a lab for HIV, hypatitis, blood sugar, genotype and other STDs....

Guyz line up for this lady door all kneeling for her attention. Instead of shakara wey I dey read here by the guy, I am being hopeful sh says yes sef...... Sh dates me alone ooo... But rivals of docs, pharmacist, working abroad, etc full road....

Na me dey even remind her of us and settling down, sh is 26 ND very pricy cuz sh did her own job on time.. Intelligent, beutiful, tall, speaks fine, works hard both domestically and at work place. Earns enough.

Na God hand we dey for her matter!

I love this

Sinistami:
Thanks. This means a lot.
Thanks. This means a lot.

uwc

southniyikaye:
one of them is on this forum right now, we've chatted, she is extremely desperate. I know she will see this. She is ambitious and very desperate. You would've even come across her post on numerous occasions

oga don't use me to settle score o

btw how are you so sure of her age

gaius01:
am so sorry please accept my apologies I didn't know

No problem

gaius01:
I was in amusement when I notice her urge for marriage, am just woundering Sir

pls oh don't turn me to a male

Destiny in Edo language is "ehi"
while laugh or smile is "gie"

gaius01:
lol my experience wasn't horrible though, well I start datin this girl, besides we are still young, I can't fathom why she was so desperate to marry she once told me after our HND program Na marriage get her, and she was having in mind that I will wife, when she told me this I just stylishly ask her weather I will fit in to my utmost surprise this girl said yes, she was 21, I was 2O then, (me thinking: I go add 5-6 years before marriage, I have vow never to suffer my future wife, the little I have to take care of her and baby I will marry) she was so desperate that she asked me to visit her parents on what's ground abeg lerra I no come marry thier daughter ogun go swear for me besides me that love girls that won't be older than me. she was the best girl have ever dated but one miracle that happens I Japa for my life was that you can't disengage her from her ex that once promise marriage to her just because of his cheating attitude she broke up with, this ex bought her phone sef I was like let me hook
hand on this and break up, I just told her it's over since she can't leave this ex of hers because they do talk, chat alot of shit tire, Guy run for your life you are dating a girl that's so desperate to marry

why will a 21yr old gal be desperate for marriage

If only they knew that being desperate makes them even more undesirable.

u can't force marriage on anyone

what is the use of pinning marriage on a man just because ur clock is ticking then after d wedding u two start living lyk strangers.No happiness nothing.

in this life we are going to live only once

societal pressure has a lot to do with this.

But one should not live unhappily just becos u want to please society that will still turn around and castigate u wen things go wrong.
life is too short jare