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SLAP44:
Remember, Mailafia told us that the insecurity happening in most parts of the south is a planned attempt by the Fulani tribe to subdue all of you by method of brute force. They are using divide and rule tactics and killing innocent people in the east and tagging them unknown gunmen or ESN, kidnapping and raping innocent women and ladies in the west, killing off innocent people in Benue, Southern Kaduna, Niger and Plateau. The number of people they have killed and maimed in the Niger Delta are uncountable. They are using killers protected for their men in uniform and attacking every state to dominate every state. - From Obadiah Mailafia. Former CBN Deputy Governor..

shot your trap, are you trying to tell us that the killing going on in the south east is done by the north of rather fulanis?
We know our politicians always like playing politics of divide and rule but the killing going on in the east is done by those seeking for Biafra and shouting seat at home.
Don't put everything on the north, your people are foolishly killing themselves in the name of fighting for Biafra.

I've been doing some thorough thinking of late and I keep asking myself. (God forbid) will I give up my kids if eventually a DNA test it carried out and the result shows that am not their biological father? The bond I have with my kids won't ever allow me give them up no matter what.
How can I just let my kids go because I eventually find out they are not mine. I don't think I can.
I think parenting is far more than biological. There is already a connecting bond.
I'll train them and keep them as mine.
If there is any adjustment to be made, then their mother has to go, but for the kids, I can't leave them no matter what.

[I started reading your write-up but I didn't go far before concluding you are not normal.quote author=Kobojunkie post=106218202]
So, you want to ruin your 15-year old marriage for the sake of your ego?
■ You go to market
■ Cook
■ clean the house
■ wash the children uniform
....
So you do these things in your own home and you expect what, a medal? The person that used to do them before, I am guessing your wife, she no be human being like you?

So your wife is interested in her career, and you are what? Against your "friend" doing well in her career or what? And let me guess, communication has degraded between you two and probably between your egos are butting heads at this point and rather than working on that, you are instead thinking of ways to end your relationship?

Look, no two marriages are created the same and no two individuals in a marriage are exact copies of themselves. You and your wife are meant to design your own marriage in a way that works for you, not go around comparing yourselves to others out there.
Die to your ego if you must and learn to grow rather than destroy your marriage over petty things such as what you listed here. [/quote]

Oboy this your analysis carry weight, perfectly scripted, you too much.

chatinent:


This scenario reminds me of Jude and Eniola Badmus that was always cartoonized on The Sun Newspaper.

That means if she were the one providing the meals, ọ ga -esiri gị ike ga ahu banana nke a rapuru fo.

Mehn..

Nothing dey vex me pass references to every little efforts you make forgetting my daily stabs to make you happy.

Most women cannot be men even for a day.

Only one evening my cousin sister took me out, I never even remove my shoe naim I read her status: “I like the woman I am becoming. Always learn to man your womanhood.”

The only thing most women tend to appreciate is credit alerts..or send your account number. They will become so emotional..they can even cry.

Let the case be the reverse.

Make she just take care of you for two days.

You go hear weeen. She go even remind you how she carry you for stomach for nine months.

“Richie, what is this na, can't I have peace after coming back from work again? How can you eat and cannot wash your plates again! What's this na!”

“Baby, why are you shouting? The neighbours are at...”

“Don't baby me. What have I not done to make you happy? Will I kill myself? Am I the only married woman in the world..what is this na.”

(You try to hold her hands to calm her down...she slaps you damn hard).

“(She is crying now..tears flowly freely). Just see what you made me do. Just see it. Everything is just wrong with this world.”

You mah wey dem slap go still go meet am for parlour where she dey cry dey pet am (and that is after checking your cheeks if blood dey comot). You go come humbly tell am say no bi you eat, say na the one she eat for morning..but anyways, you forgot to wash it.

Another matter don dey brew.

She will now come to the parlour and sit, ask you for the remote and change the football to Telemundo and mutter these words you'll never hear: “work e won't work, such a failure. It's only remote e can pass.”

You will try to look at her with your side eyes but meet her full eyes staring at you in disgust. Mumu you go come smile enter bedroom.

As you are walking into the bedroom, the volume of the muttering is increasing but it's still inaudible.

In the oza room, just respect yourself. Don't even dare..unless you want the whole world to know how you will be idle and want to kill sb’s daughter after working all day!

“oh, it's your plan, Richie, baa? To kill me so that you can now go and meet Ishilove, baa?”


Only you go dey like Stone Cold Steve Austin sleep.


It will be normal...the “honey, darling etc.” is going to die. You will be called your name...two seconds, she will stop calling your name and just be giving out orders.

Abeg, don't even remind her you are the husband. You will get the insult of your life. She will say “no, say it loud na, let mama Chisom hear you. How many husbands stay at home watching football and their wives are left to do all the work!”


But na you still dey pay rent, buy foodstuff, and children fees.

Baba, kuku collect that responsiblity back. I hate to talk much. No dare shift any of your responsibility to woman...even if she persists to want to help. E kuku better she dey do am willingly than you register her name on it.

Only women, babies, and pets are loved. Men are respected when they man up. Na the respect we dey translate to love.

Some of you people here are worse than Boko Haram.

Truthissupreme:
Nice one

They should both kill themselves



Two less idiots is nice news one in jail one in hell

[You are just a bitter soul, only you know what's eating you up.quote author=Iyaebe post=105573758]He should go and sleep abeg.The same fate awaits him over and over again if he refuse to tame his wandering dick,let him keep searching till thy kingdom comes. I hate people who don't fault themselves.[/quote]

Buhari will pretend he didn't hear this one, DSS will pretend they didn't hear him.

lonecatt:
Some brothers Sha with their overbearing entitlement mentality.you are angry that you cannot spend two hours in your brother's house,for what exactly?
If your brother want you in his home you will know ,stop bringing issue of his wife holding him down with juju.how about you going to build your own home so that your brother can come to spend 2hours there.

Don't want to take sides but Annie seems to be a patient somebody and that alone will buy people to her side.

you don't want to take side? But you've already taking side na.
Why won't he visit his brother? Because he is married to Annie? Annie's mother leaves in the house and has a room to herself alone permanently so why won't Charles visit tuface and even spend the night.
The truth is that most women don't like their in-laws coming to their home, they want visitors only from their own side and that's the kind of woman annie is.

E sweet you abi? Is like you have something personal with this guy before? Him don burst your gang before abi?

FakeUnity:
The tsunami hit Abba Kyari no be small. The guy don damage for life and e sweet me. Useless murderous thief wey dey deceive people.

E go hard for you to get sense I swear.

Rozcol:
Some boyfriend sef,why still put eyes on what she does with the money you freely gave her,not a good thing

You will be a wicked landlord if given such opportunity.

Promiseibritam:
She lived for more than 5years as agreed between u both.

You didn't gv her quick Notice, u didn't snt her parking
but she just decided to park.

Nowahala.....

If I wia u,
I won't refund the money since she cnt stay till her rent expire and I wouldn't hv worry abt the Door Net

Let her go with it.
Rent sum1 else that particular room and collect ur money period.

Ortom have seen reason why he won't pay salaries for three months now.

Shame on your boss for sacking you, you confided in him as a father and he sacked you.

Leave them, they will learn the hard way, when they where backing unknown gunmen to kill security men, what where they expecting? Now the narrative is changing they're crying fowl. Housa go show una pepper. Before I forget, the soldiers they are sending to East now no de understand English o. Na only killing Dem Sabi.

Unik3030:
When u kill security operatives n run,u have indirectly or directly put people in that environment in arms way,this isn't about buhari alone but it happened in obj tenure in odi n till today nothing happened.

Use your head n understand that killing security operatives will never solve your problem n it will never bring a solution

Many of u are still blaming buhari, DSS n co instead of telling Nnamdi Kanu to change his strategy.

For how long will u keep blaming others n turn a blind eye to the monster u made?

Bola146:
It's natural, some men are just useless maybe by curse or behavior. If I give my mother #30 million, I'll give my father #1million

Now I understand you just described your father.

Northernblood3:
innocent passerbys has been clubbed to death by the police.

You neutralized them but they burnt the facility.

How can they sneak into the facility back door when they where already surrounded by police? It shall never be well with Policemen.

why are you complaining? When your ESN boys are killing security men, you where Charing them, now that the narrative is gradually changing, you are now coming here to cry foul. You want those police men to stay and watch esn boys slaughter them like animals abi? The security men being killed are people's fathers, children, bread winners and their families also love them. I don't like Buhari and his Northern people, I support Biafra and Oduduwa but I hate what these unknown gun men are doing.

Investigation has been conducted. That man is a serving military personnel. People use military uniform to to commit crime no doubt, but in this case, the guy is a military man. Alot of military men, especially the rank and files are criminal.

zikter:
Allow investigation to complete before concluding. He may be a military man or not. So what is your proof that he is not a fake military man? Do you think it is everyone on camouflage that is a military person? Do you know how many criminals perpetrate evil using forces uniforms? Bottom line is that, don't conclude, both of you till investigation is over

Shot your trap, he is a real military personnel. I sense you are a military man, that's why you are trying to shade the military. That's how wicked some of you are. Animals in human clothes.

Tinubuadvocate:
Fake military man why you guys always sounding stupid this way.

Rozcol:
Marry a divorced man at your own peril,if he were to be a good man he wouldn't have left his first marriage to be with you

even if he was seeing hell there.

[Follow this advise, you no go lost, if you try otherwise, you might get into trouble in your work place. If you have vacancy in another place other than where you are working, you can recommend her. quote author=Pierocash post=101860580]Forget about her. Did it ever occured to her that she will need you someday?

They misbehave a lot,that was how my ex behaved too,she changed during her youth service and I had to breakup with her.

If there is no one to recommend aside her,let the space waste.

This bitches are wicked and heartless. She wouldn't recommend you if she were to be in your shoe,she has other guys she preferred above you,so don't do same for her[/quote]

You've not made any point. On what basis are you saying this? What are you trying to say? Coming here to insult people without stating their offence is meaningless.

adenine02:
At the early time Nairaland use to be filled with very intelligent people,

people who are creative

people who are constructive even in their criticism

People who don't believe in bigotry

Mature minded men and women

But this day, we only have the low intelligent sets people in here.

And the people in charge just allow them to spill their trash here.


WHAT A SHAME!!!

They will never express concern over the laws that were made in the North that is affecting other people's business, e.g selling of alcohol and rearing of pigs. but they always express concern over other people's laws that are made to keep the state at peace. Hypocrisy of the highest order. God pass you.

Ortom is hiding under insecurity to loot Benue dry. Since he became governor, no retired civil servant has received gratuity or pension. He is a criminal.

Any fulani caught should be Lynch emidiatly. Why hand over them to police?

Poorboy:
The truth is that if you work with Federal government and you have a private job you are receiving money using your bank account, you will be fished out. Depending on the Agency, there always bring a consulting firm that will check those that are collecting salary from other places.

If you work with a private firm make sure your money is paid cash not through the bank. Once they noticed you work in another place they will stop your salary.

bros you lie, I'm a living example. I've been on two jobs for almost four years now. I'm a public servant with the federal government and also working with a mining company own my a bank. Don't say what you are not sure of.
Don't say what you don't know.

Poorboy:
na lie you just blow.

so which one be lie and what's the truth?

The only thing IPPIS does is that it prevents you from taking double salary from the federal government. You can work with the federal government and private firm comfortably if you can cope. You can even work with federal and state government if you have the connection. But you can't get salary from two federal agencies. So you have nothing to worry about if you can cope.

Wait for your papa to build the company na so that you can go and work there and give them all that conditions.

Getting a computer and learning that programming is best for you.
Let me use myself as an example. Completed my secondary school at the age of nineteen, no money to further, I got a job, and from that Job I was able to pay my way through the university and also paying my rent comfortably without bothering my parent. After my NYSC, I didn't bother much looking for a job, I continue doing same Job and am growing in it. Am happily married with kids. Just completed my masters degree. If I get a better job, I'll switch, if I don't, I'll continue doing this because it's paying my bills.
Now, in your own case, get your computer and involve in something that will fetch you little money without bothering your parents for money. Manage and see your self through school and maybe something better might come your way. You already know you dad's problem, so relying on him for your education might be fruitless or even if he manage to pay your fees, you might struggle to meet other needs.
No time is ever late for one to get education.

There is nothing wrong in trying to choose a good Carrier part for her son, she meant well. How ever it must not be forced on him. Give him little orientation on the advantage of studying medicine.

This guy is a criminal and not a freedom fighter.

OldNairalander:
This guy too exposed himself
Guerrilla warfare is a hidden war and not a show of force and macho
I respect all freedom fighters.
R.i.p to Nelson Mandela, Che Guevara, Ojukwu, Ikonso and others.

I'm an advocate of peaceful revolution though.