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Does he always have to wear that boring suit everywhere he goes?
Who wears suits to beaches anyway? Weird.

E be like say dem wan carry am bid for higher revenue allocation.

What duh FUCCK!!!

Eko Ile: Obviously, the only reason AGIPA people voted and put this man in office for is to talk, talk and talk. When is he going to build one single classroom?


All this attention seeking and constant need for acceptance is a sign of the AGIPA insecurity and low self esteem traits....

How long has he been in office? Has it been up to a year?
Cuz as I remember, you only started posting those sycophantic Fashola articles of yours in 2009, TWO clean years after Fash had assumed office.
Now, tell me: Doesn't this simple piece of information just betray each and every syllable of the pointless stuff you just typed up there?

This site layout is hurting my eyes, goddammit!!!

ITbomb: This is worse than waking up in the morning to meet a new fuel price.
In spite of all our suggestion , Almighty Seun still arrogantly went ahead with this Blindness prone site.
This is the heights of insensitivity , let occupy till he revert to the old price sorry site

Would you like some palliatives?

Oduasolja = Alj Harem.

It didn't take long for this desperate parasitic pauper to really expose himself. I dey laugh

Besides, I doubt Prof. Sagay factored in the Service and Informal sector, which the SE and SW dominate heavily.

bittyend:
The OP is a clown!! Why edit the quote to include SE? - when the Prof Itse Sagay NEVER mentioned SE?? You're just being disingenuous!! I don't know qhy you Ibos like tagging SE to SS - these are two different zones. 95% of the oil in Delta State belongs to the Ilajes and Itsekiris - and Prof. Itse Sagay is a proud Itsekiri and Yoruba man.

This is the original quote from Prof. Itse Sagay:

"The northern part of this country does not contribute anything to the national purse. If the area that produces the resources has just a token of 13 percent, the remaining 87 percent is free gift to the entire nation, particularly the North that has nothing to show for its existence. At the Political Reform Conference in 2005, we went to the Federal Ministry of Finance to get figures and facts about what each of the zones contributed to the commonwealth. What we saw was amazing; the North-West brings nothing, the same with the North-Central and North-East. The South-East and South-West brings minor but the South-South contributes 91 percent."

Whatever the case Bittyend, the fact that the South East and South West at least bring something to the table makes them less irritating than the dead-weight Northern parasites. Seriously, I wouldn't mind having them in the same country, as long as the illiterate, worthless Northerners are NOT included.

The South-South is the most exploited and cheated region in Nigeria! We should secede

Chi mo!

Goldieluks:
OP like inkie has rightly stated, it is better you sit her down and tell her how you feel.
Feel free to aks her the question but not in a direct way, use other means and if you
are really serious about having her as your other half, then it is better you make
your feelings known.

It appears there's no way around this. So maybe I'll just have to take those risks  
Here goes nothing.

[quote author=~Killz~ link=topic=890821.msg10369376#msg10369376 date=1331375965]Bro, i don't know about you, but i think an extrovert would have told you all about that if she really had such a past. If you care less about her past, why not go all the way? Having an abortion previously doesn't mean she cannot have babies, unless her womb is lost. . . Errm, why don't you just ask? Hard, but then. . . If she's honest like you portray her to be, she'll spill.[/quote] Not about baby-killing, mehn!!
You don't understand. This girl is just extremely fragile. Her emotions work on some bizarre domino-like order. Little misyarns get her weeping and fighting with me! Yes, I've accepted she's not perfect; and I've found other 'corner-corner' ways to get around her moments.
But I just seem to have reached a dead-end with this abortion issue. I don't know how to go about this without getting her hurt; so here I am on the internet looking for 'mgbor'.

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=890821.msg10369368#msg10369368 date=1331375844]Lemme ask you something OP, do you have asëxual past as well [regardless of the number of people you have been with or what kind of sëxual acts you have or haven't been involved in]? If not then you shouldn't be taking on the task of judging her based on her sëxual past.[/quote]Yes, I do. I've had girlfriends, 'physical acquaintances' and the rest, but none of that has involved cradles. You see, it's not about myself or what I'd feel about it (Cuz hell, I'm no saint. Not by a long shot - I admit it); but it's the disgrace and humiliation that comes with it. . . from the family, to the outer circle. This is a strong Catholic family, and divorces, separations and second marriages (barring widowhood) are seriously frowned at.

As for her having/not having an abortion, if her ability to have children is truly a concern of yours then only way you could find out is if you find out from her DIRECTLY or if she goes to a gynecologist and is examined. Aside from that, there are no other ways to find out. Don't just rely on hearsay as a means of trying to find answers because in the process some [if not all] of the things people may be telling you could be false. Also, her being your girlfriend doesn't mean that you should try to strong arm her into telling you. If you truly care about the likelihood of having children in the future then you must ask her yourself!

I was rather thinking along the lines of 'spotting' from external physical signs than confronting her openly, cuz like I said, she's a very emotional person; and asking her anything related to this would destroy her self-esteem, AND the relationship.
But I guess life is all about risks, hey?  

Okay. . . I need to be honest.
My girl and I have been dating since the late '05. I've introduced her to my older siblings, not as a "future wife" or anything, but as a girlfriend at the time (you know what I mean).
In our relationship though, I've been a bit conservative with 'questions' regarding her past, because I'm too careful (to a fault) in order to avoid making the people around me feel 'uncomfortable'. All the things she's told me about herself have been out of her own free will; because in our relationship, she's the extrovert (while I'm the opposite). She's adventurous (sexxually), but also emotionally fragile.

But my real problems began this January.
There's this mounting pressure on me to get married; both from parents, siblings, cousins, and even the girl herself (She hasn't been blunt per se, but I can tell from her recent talks about all her friends, roommates and colleagues getting hitched up). And even taking into consideration some sacrifices she's made for me, I'd find it difficult to forgive myself if I didn't make our union official.
However, I still have my doubts about her checkered past. Stories from my female cousin who went to the same Igbinedion Secondary School boarding house with her in her hometown back at Benin, tell me about her very loose sexxual past; about her evening sneak-outs, her 'tag-team' blah blah blah and the rest of that craap. You know, all those freakishly nasty things some people would rather forget about themselves. I wouldn't have given a damn, really, if my cousin hadn't finished it up with one final disturbing question . . . "How sure are you she hasn't even washed some out?"
Now, I'm not one to punish or treat people badly about things they long did when our paths hadn't crossed, but mehn! I was raised in a staunch Catholic family, and our views regarding the marriage institution are rather extreme - "If you can't do it in one take, don't even try at all."
I don't want to ask her these nasty questions, but it would suck if such a hideous secret only starts to gain visibility after we've wed. I could care less about how many men she's slept with (cuz I wasn't exactly Mr. Squeaky-Clean myself in my 'dorm dayz'); but it's this abortion thing that really bothers me.

What if she's lost her ability to have a child? How would I know? I don't want to ask her these troubling questions, but I also don't want to live without this vital info.
Please, ladies and enlightened peeps, are there any 'physical signs' through which I can find out?
Abeg, I no wan chop disgrace 

SMH. My last post on this thread was on the first page.
I come back 2 days after, and look at all the nonsensical hateful banter that has happened in here. Bigotry really seems to keep this site going.

emmke:
yeah, if y'all are true to yourselves you will know that kidnapping isn't boko way.

Before the UN bombing, suicide bombing wasn't the "Boko Way" either. Infact, no-one ever believed a Nigerian could engage in such. . . Suicide bombing, that is.
You see, as people evolve, so do sects, malevolence, evil and insanity. You treat it with kid gloves, it consumes you. . . and everything in its path. There is no stopping it at this point.
Which brings me back to the issue. Could this message be from Boko Haram? I vehemently disagree. I think this is Arewa. I think this is Arewa trying to protect its asss. I believe the foreigners were infact killed by the sect; however, the denial comes from Arewa. They realize the implications of the deaths of the foreigners.

[img]https://www.nairaland.com/attachments/658887_article-2112215-12162DE2000005DC-294_634x478_jpg260973203ae23815eabbf69ebc62d8bc[/img]

They realize. . . the North could very well be on its final lap in the sanity race, should British and Italian troops be sent in to "search for terrorists" on their soil.

Absolutely pointless garbage! I'm still reeling from buying the iCrap 2, which, like this one, was meaningless junk!
Can you believe Apple-to-nonApple Bluetooth connection is a luxury in that overpriced piece of horseshit?
Anybody who keeps falling for this Ajebutter con is a mugu.
Apple sucks, bro!

The Imo guy Okorocha drives himself sometimes sha. Like I remember when he had a minor car clash with a white Primera, December last year. His daughter sustained minor chin injuries.

Aigbofa:
Your father is pathetic. Does it matter who is doing the pollution? Creek rats or Shell?
Idiots like you always like to throw jabs and then cry when it is reciprocated.
I am pathetic but the dingbat who started this thread (and several) others is not?

With the highlighted statements, I now conclude you're a drooling reetarrd. You went around posting pictures of gas flares in communities of people who have to go through the worst forms of environmental degradation and human rights abuse in order to feed you worthless, rotten asss; and you did this to massage your inferior, insecure, battered ego all because a poster asked a simple question: "Are there creeks in Lagos?"
Really, how stuupid are you? You ask about who did the pollution? Now, I ask: WHY NOT POST PICTURES OF NIGER DELTANS DUMPING THEIR REFUSE IN THEIR CREEKS AND ALSO LIVING IN THE REFUSE-RAVAGED CREEKS LIKE THE LAGOSIANS, you shameless coward?
Now, you talk about people throwing but crying? I dey laugh ooo! Were you not the same mooron who opened a thread about Otonononono 1 a couple of months back, and when the posters in there showed him exactly how stuupid that piece of junk was, he went tribalistic like the coward he was?
Oh niggga please! 

gidiMonsta:

EQ and Angola better than Nigeria You've got it twisted man, these countries are poo-holes. You need to visit some of these African countries to appreciate what we have here man.

So does India and China, does that make any of these countries better than them?

I think I'd rather expend my energy on making things right in Nigeria as a nation than living in a war torn 'BALKANIZED' country.

Thank you!

Excellent!

Very good!

By the way, Onlytruth, take no offense, but I think you're unnecessarily sentimental and easily deceived.

I think Fani-Kayode is just a chancer (my opinion)

[quote author=ekt_bear link=topic=888860.msg10360909#msg10360909 date=1331256744]Even Burundi.

Lmao.

i'm choking with laughter here

Maybe laughter is the only thing that can keep one from crying [/quote]I think Nigeria is doing this poorly in the ratings as a result of the North. Should there be a South Nigeria (although I'm seriously against it), we'd be trouncing all those African countries in the HDI tables.
However, the things you've posted do not change the fact that Equatorial Guinea is a complete hell-hole at the moment, ruled by a dictator with absolute powers. Did you follow my links? People are getting slaughtered there for speaking their mind. All the so-called cash is controlled by the man and his family. His son is ALSO a minister, and goes around blowing cash like there's no tomorrow. Atleast we don't have that happening in Nigeria.
I know it's become fashionable to paint Nigeria with any brush we can find; it's fashionable to say we'd be better off under Hitler, Mugabe and all the other craap leaders we can think of n' shiit; but there really comes a point where we should draw the line.
EG is an unrivaled African hell-hole. Let's just leave it there. No need for the unfounded comparisons.

mkmyers45:
It will be at cut throat prices in the beginning but it will stabilize in future.

In 2001, my father bought his SIM card at N13,000.
In 2011, I'm buying mine at 200 card

So you see, Dapo, mathematical per-capita does not always reflect what's really on ground.

Even more

turtlebay.foreignpolicy.com/posts/2012/03/05/unesco_backs_away_from_obiangs_millions

And even more pressenza.com/npermalink/oil-rich-equatorial-guinea-povertyx-torturex-extrajudicial-killings-Bleep

More on Equatorial Guinea:
africandictator.org/?p=3022

Err.
Angola and Equitorial Guinea are
WAYYYYY better than Nigeria is
now.

Please, my brother, don't say this again. It doesn't say much about your enlightenment. And I mean no wrong.

hrw.org/world-report-2012/equatorial-guinea