₦airaland Forum

rokiatu:
The dude is not stressful. Like I said earlier on, they are happy. Very much happy.

Love is not all about sex.

I don't disagree. If he is happy, then good I'm not being sarcastic either, it is a good thing to have that much patience, self-restraint, and will-power. He is a much better man than I am.

ogugua88:
Roki the guy in your dp get bosoms past you sef lol.

Man I said that, and she was like, "he works out." I'm thinking in my head. . . well, I work out too, but I don't have C cup boobs

Na wa o

Hotie Tima:
is every woman that comes with wahala  oohhhhh pls not only us  

Lol, true.

rokiatu:
She just doesn't seem emotionally ready for marriage. And she wouldn't give in until the wedding night.

When will she be "emotionally ready"? Is she more ready now than she was before? Like, are there signs of improvement? Or it might be year #20, and still not emotionally ready?  

I'm just glad my own life is simple and stress-free, not complicated like this dude's, lol

[quote author=Ms. Potato link=topic=643679.msg8114753#msg8114753 date=1302664583]U actually think this is real love? On NAIRALAND? Tell me, would u even wanna find a lover on nairaland to begin with?  [/quote]I thought maybe you both live in the same city somewhere, and both just post here or something. . .

I've only recently been visiting this section (a few months ago), so didn't know the whole story  

Excuse my ignorance, I'm a bit gullible

African women. . . too much wahala

Or maybe it is just Liberian women

Why is she waiting

What is her problem? What needs to change for her to make up her mind?

Is she waiting for him to have more money? Her/him to finish school, get a better job, move somewhere? Bride price? What can it be after nine years?

You know if she'd been knocked up at the start of the relationship, she'd have an 8 year old by now. Just to tell you how much time has passed.

I'm fine with any decision that the excellent leadership of my beloved party takes. I know they'll put a lot of thought into it and not act selfishly or foolishly.

Ride on, ACN!

^-- Same here. Before I was like, "WTF, why would you be flirting online with some chick who you'll never meet in RL anyway, when your GF visits this same site too?" That to me would be so dumb.

But if it is all fake, no harm done

I am confused.

So this was all fake?

Man, exactly like a reality TV show. . . fake

rokiatu:
You are so cruel Ek Bear.

Are you trying to make my friend guilty?

I should not even be the one to make her feel guilty. You, her other friends, her brothers, her sisters, her papa and her mama should be the one pressuring her to give it up after nine whole years 

kind of joking, but also half-serious

IYA NGBALI:
any time i see her pics i always have a hard on{i need deliverance}

Go seek Jesus!

If it were me being told nine years and the girl were worth it, i might do it. But I'd probably become an alcoholic, cocaine user to make up for it  

I'm even wondering about this girl, that she went w/o for nine years. . . is she a human being, or a robot?   

@rokiatu: Haha, my bad. I misread

And yes, there are of course guys who want to marry virgins. But most of those guys also don't want to date the virgin for a decade before marrying  

Some Mormons I know will get married very young and not take too long with the dating, just to avoid having to remain w/o sex for so many years  

rokiatu:
Why is the sad smiley for?

Err, it was sort of putting myself in the dude's shoes a bit. 9 years. . . damn. I think that deserves a sad smiley, doesn't it?

rokiatu:
Na you one sabi we they are living hapily.

You are a very cruel woman, rokiatu 

What on earth are you waiting for? If you are not ready now, why will you be ready five years from now? Be more humane

Anyway, maybe I shouldn't complain on his behalf. If he likes waiting that long, who am I to speak out for him?

My brother. What is wrong with you? You are making me sad here. Can you please, for the love of God, break up with this woman?

You will only have unnecessary heartache and pain, the path you are going.

Women are so indecisive. What is she waiting for?  Is she not ready because she is waiting for him to do something (e.g., have more money)? Or just the usual women not knowing what they want in life? 

Anyway, I salute that brother. He is a better man than me

He probably needs to give her an ultimatum to force her hand, I dunno. Or maybe he needs to petition the parents to force her to get married  

Also, what type of woman keeps a man in a relationship for 9 years w/o marrying him ?!?!?!

I think latest by year 3, you should have a good sense of whether you want to marry or not.

rokiatu:
LOL

I know a guy who has waited for 9 years and is still waiting.

He is either self-servicing or receiving something from somewhere. It sounds too fake to me

It would be like someone telling you they've gone nine years without eating a meal Would you believe such a story?

So APGA has actually complained loudly? I remember reading some allegations of rigging by Abagworo, but OnlyTruth rightly pointed out that there wasn't an uproad by APGA.

Though truth be told, given that APGA rigged out ACN in Anambra, I'm not sure I have much sympathy for them

Kwara I hope gets resolved properly. Still want Benue looked into as well. . .

How long would I have to wait though?

A man has got certain physical needs

I think I could do six months or a year. But what if it was five years?

I could see if it is was in my 60s, when my libido goes down at a lot. But right now? 

I'd probably cry

How long is this dude expected to wait? A month? A year? 5 years?

Really sucks for that guy

Physics, you are a hilarious dude 

Rokiatu, you seemed fascinated with Indians. Why is this? I'm just curious. Are there a lot of them where you live? (Not saying there is anything wrong with this, just wondering how it happened.) Did you watch a lot of Bollywood movies as a kid or something? 

dasa:
1.   Ribadu supporters will be split between GEJ and Buhari. Most of Ribadu's Northern supporters will go to Buhari

Ribadu doesn't really have any northern supporters, lol.

while the souttherners will mostly go to GEJ.

This I disagree with. Ribadu voters and Buhari voters are pretty similar. . . in part because Ribadu and Buhari offer the same things as candidates.

2.   Because of the late timming, millions of Ribadu/ACN supporters especially in the rural areas will not get the info or understand it.

A) Information percolates VERY quickly, at least for my own somewhat rural village. . . we listen to the radio and pay attention to politics, and vote in large #s.
B) SW Nigeria isn't that rural (compared to say the middle belt or the north)
C) Populace is pretty literate and informed. Only a small fraction will vote for Ribadu by mistake.


Anyway, it might fail to give Buhari the victory. But it will greatly help his chances, in my opinion. Probably 70% of Ribadu supporters will chose Buhari. The other 30% will choose GEJ. Net winner of that scenario is Buhari.

PDP will have a strict majority, so unfortunately he cannot be Senate President unless he decamps to PDP.

If Buhari wins though and enough PDP senate members defect to the CPC (probably likely at least for the northern senators) to give the ACN/CPC a majority, then perhaps he can get that slot.

^-- This is why at times I don't have hope for Nigeria.

Imagine waiting 5 years+ for a road to be fixed/expanded  Where I live, if they need to fix the road, it is a two week project.

If they want to CONSTRUCT a brand new highway, 2-3 years, max.

5+ years for not just a road. . . but the most important road in the country? I don't get it.

You can cut the drama and tension on this forum with a knife!

I cannot wait til the first season of NL Kokomansion happens

Will be interesting to see what INEC decides.

Go Ngige go!

kandikane: I dunno how effective this might be for you, but if you want to quite smoking you might want to spend 5 minutes looking at pictures of the lungs/teeth/etc of smokers. Pretty scary stuff. . .