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FamilyRe: Married But Feeling Single: I’m Losing Myself In This Quiet Marriage by Elanqy: 1:51pm On Oct 14, 2025
Please try to be your husband’s friend. I know it’s not easy, but he’s really going through a lot right now — being abroad and jobless can weigh heavily on any man. Once he starts earning again, you’ll see a different side of him. He’ll feel more confident, more at peace, and he’ll treat you with even more love and care.

Please don’t compare him to other men. Many of those men you see are older, more experienced, and have already passed through their own struggles. Your husband is still finding his footing, and what he needs most right now is your support and understanding.

Have a gentle, honest talk with him. Share how you feel, and also listen to his side. Try to meet each other halfway — find a balance between your outgoing nature and his more quiet, introverted one.

Those first few months abroad can really shake a marriage, but with love and patience, you’ll both come out stronger. Encourage him, not by pressure, but with kindness and faith in the man you know he can become. You’re already doing so well — it’s clear you’re a good wife who’s trying her best to keep her home together. Love has a way of healing what words alone can’t.
PoliticsRe: Give My 4 Daughters A Chance, Don't Let Natasha's Issues Stand In The Way by Elanqy: 6:44pm On Mar 14, 2025
In my opinion, Natasha is an embarrassment to the red chamber. The Nigerian senate is made up of many past governors, ministers, and captain of industries. I am not surprised by her behaviour, she has not had any previous political position before she won senate election. This is what happens when you skip foundational steps and expect to succeed at a higher level
RomanceRe: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by Elanqy: 9:52pm On Nov 23, 2024
Acekidc4:
Simpleton will always support a simpleton......so because am rich, i should waste my money on a girl that was probably disvirgined with 2 indomie 2 egg knacked seriously upandan........i think you and the other simpleton head is not correct
Then stay single or marry from your tribe.
Men from the tribe aren’t ranting
Christianity EtcRe: Can A Christian Wife Use Adult Toys While Hubby Is Away For Long ? by Elanqy: 10:42am On Oct 27, 2024
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RomanceRe: How To Make A Girl Visit You Without Resisting And Giving Excuses by Elanqy: 3:53pm On Aug 16, 2024
Are you Charles Nneji?
FoodRe: How To Win Your Hubby With Edikang Ikong (edikaikong Soup) AKA Vegetable Soup by Elanqy: 8:53am On Jun 01, 2024
If my wife adds saint leaf in my edikaikong or afang or Editan. She is going to her mother’s house for 1 week vacation
EducationRe: Nigerian Students In Teesside University Ordered To Leave UK by Elanqy: 11:27pm On May 22, 2024
My school making the front page of nairaland
TravelRe: Preparing For PTE? Get In Here by Elanqy: 11:52pm On Feb 01, 2024
Please who has the materials
EducationRe: Saheed Wahab Dies 24 Hours After Arriving In UK For Postgraduate Studies by Elanqy: 1:08am On Jan 25, 2024
I will be attending this burial tomorrow on behalf of nairaland family. The mosque is 5 mins away from my house
FoodRe: See The Water Yams We Bought For 1,500 Naira In Yakurr LGA, Cross River State. by Elanqy:
grin
TravelRe: Ibom Air Receives Their First Brand New Airbus Aircraft by Elanqy: 5:26pm On Nov 26, 2023
JASONjnr:
The useless senate president is a househelp to Tinubu, rubber stamping on every loan bills passing on his table.


Now, to clear your doubts. The proportion of rich folks from your state and the poor folks from your state will result to my earlier statement.
This is the most useless and tribalistic post I have seen in ages.


Before you can mention one rich and well to do Akwa Ibom person, you must have mentioned a thousand of them mopping and washing plates inside people's kitchen.
PoliticsRe: INEC To Transmit Results Of Bayelsa Guber Poll Manually by Elanqy: 8:19am On Oct 05, 2023
Believe INEC at your own peril
TravelRe: Long Distance Travel: What Do You Eat Or Drink Before You Travel? by Elanqy: 2:41pm On Sep 24, 2023
It depends on the mode of the long distance travel. Air planes and trains have toilets 😂
CrimeRe: Police Disrupt Gay Wedding In Delta State, Arrest 100 Suspects by Elanqy: 9:56am On Aug 29, 2023
😂😂😂
CareerRe: Is It Right To Give My Company A Week Resignation Notice by Elanqy: 12:05pm On Aug 17, 2023
If I were you, I would do what is best for myself. My advice is that you tell your current company that you will be leaving immediately because you have a better offer elsewhere. If they value you then they will have to match or surpass your new offer.
Most companies have an exit policy, it’s not a must to give a notice of resignation, it is only polite to do so. So you can give a notice of resignation if it’s convenient for you. some companies might deduct some money from your terminal benefits if you don’t give them notice.
EducationRe: Apply For 2022/2023 PTDF Overseas Postgraduate Scholarship Scheme by Elanqy: 7:41pm On Aug 15, 2023
Ptdf just paid some ISS people and they haven’t come here to give their testimony
PoliticsRe: Niger: Be Careful, Don't Start What You Cannot Finish - Bode George To Tinubu by Elanqy: 9:24pm On Aug 04, 2023
Subsidy money would be used to fund a war that doesn’t concern us. Why did God decide to punish us with BAT
PoliticsRe: President Tinubu Meets With Japan Gas MD On New FLNG Gas Plant In Akwa Ibom by Elanqy: 8:54am On Jul 07, 2023
I don’t mind relocating back from the uk with my masters degree in Petroleum Engineering to work in this company. Proudly an ayen akwaibom
EducationRe: UNIBEN May Lose Geology Accreditation As Varsity Begs For N2.5m Funding by Elanqy: 2:00am On Jul 03, 2023
They should give someone honorary PhD and collect the money 😂😂
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Runcie Mike Dies Hours After Preaching At A Burial by Elanqy: 1:46am On Jul 03, 2023
A priest should be capable of officiating a baptismal ceremony and a marriage ceremony where there is celebration as well as a burial ceremony where there is mourning. The bible in Rom 12:15 stated that we should celebrate with those who celebrate and mourn with those who mourn. Unfortunately, some denominations have made it look like believers are never expected to have any course to sorrow or mourn. It’s quite shocking that a Pastor would commit suicide after officiating his first burial ceremony.

P/S: I am expecting people to drag me for this comment
CelebritiesRe: “You Are Lucky You Will See Burna Boy & Rema”, Daughter Tells Bill Gates (Video) by Elanqy: 4:39pm On Jun 21, 2023
he acknowledged 2 new cats and 2 old cats
PoliticsRe: President Tinubu Retires All Service Chiefs, Advisers, Customs CG, IG Of Police by Elanqy: 7:47pm On Jun 19, 2023
greatestdestiny:
How? You called him a druggist bah.. hmnmn
I am not Igbo
PoliticsRe: President Tinubu Retires All Service Chiefs, Advisers, Customs CG, IG Of Police by Elanqy: 7:42pm On Jun 19, 2023
I wonder if there is no Igbo Snr officer.
I can mostly see Yoruba and Hausa names.
PoliticsRe: Buhari constitutes Board For Aviation Agencies, Renames Airports - Hours To Go by Elanqy: 10:24am On May 29, 2023
olasaad:
What is Buhari contribution to Ilorin Airport. For 8 years no federal government projects in Kwara.

Port Harcourt International Airport renamed Obafemi Jeremiah Awolowo
They will definitely rename the Portharcout Airport again. Rivers people would never agree😂😂. Imagine if they decided to rename an Airport in the south east after Muhammadu Buhari
TravelRe: Canadian Express Entry/Federal Skilled Worker Program - Connect Here Part 11 by Elanqy: 7:08pm On Apr 13, 2023
Is it possible for the scores to drop to 481 again before July 😔
TravelRe: Canadian Express Entry/Federal Skilled Worker Program - Connect Here Part 11 by Elanqy:
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PoliticsRe: Profile Of Umo Eno, Akwa Ibom Governor-elect by Elanqy: 6:33pm On Mar 23, 2023
His profile is bland. I still wish him goodluck
EducationRe: Apply For 2022/2023 PTDF Overseas Postgraduate Scholarship Scheme by Elanqy: 4:17am On Feb 15, 2023
IamGoke:
Has PTDF started shortlisting for LSS applicants?
Yes
Christianity EtcRe: Pictures From The Dedication Of RCCG City Of David Trinity Towers by Elanqy: 8:31pm On Feb 12, 2023
i am looking for kofnor Ud*m Emm*nuel in the picture. He loves to attend such events
BusinessRe: Zenith Bank Replies Chiamaka Agim: ₦800,500 Is All You Can Get. by Elanqy: 4:43pm On Jan 14, 2023
Most people commenting here have not read the bank’s letter. The bank is not liable in anyway. The subject lady is not telling the complete story. The same phone was used to initiate previous transactions with her pin. I feel a close friend or family member got to know her pin. Even if she hires very good lawyers she might not be able to proof that the bank is liable in anyway
PoliticsRe: Akon Eyakenyi: Akwa Ibom Senator's Convoy Kills Couple by Elanqy: 8:43pm On Dec 27, 2022
She is not yet deputy governor and her convoy is already killing people.. RIP to the dead
EducationRe: Apply For 2022/2023 PTDF Overseas Postgraduate Scholarship Scheme by Elanqy: 3:21pm On Dec 04, 2022
Jokes apart. I am also expecting this money and it is taking too long

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