Politics › Re: Nigerian Lady Finally Offers Her Kidney To Ekweremadu's Daughter by Emmacy001: 3:48pm On Sep 13, 2022 |
VictorUSA: I said it.
This must be igbo girl
Igbos and mumu are like 5&6.
That girl will still die! Because you are the giver of life.. Will you keep quiet |
Romance › Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Guys Do This? by Emmacy001: 7:59pm On Sep 09, 2022 |
Chioma4eva: I mean they toast you for weeks endlessly and try to get your love and attention and when you finally give them the attention and give them the chance to win your heart and maybe after dates and probably sex, they lose interest and go cold. Why is this so? Is love dead in Nigeria? That is Why you are not suppose to offer your self easily... You make sure that the relationship is going somewhere before you talk about sex |
Politics › Re: Umar Ganduje Might Be Tinubu's Running Mate (Pix) by Emmacy001: 6:57pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
[quote author=JEWELofHELL666 post=113603164]What do you think? [/quot
It's high time we retire both APC AND PDP... Get your pvc |
Romance › Re: Why Is It Hard For A Man To Forgive A Woman Who Cheated? by Emmacy001: 9:28pm On Jun 07, 2022 |
I don't cheat but if I find out that she cheats... My dear I will forgive you but that will bring the relationship to an end.. |
Politics › Re: Okada Ban: Lagos Crushes 2,228 Impounded Motorcycles (Video, Photos) by Emmacy001: 8:08pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by Emmacy001: 1:18pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
julie90: I have been working for this company for two years. In December 2021, there was a change in management, a new manager was assigned to my Department. Before the change in management, I applied for some jobs in November 2021 but I didn't get any response.
Things between my new manager and I developed really quickly (he is not married and he is 10 years older than me). Although we have been working together, when he became the new manager we started dating. it was mutual, it wasn't like he forced me. We liked each other and we started dating in March 2022. We kept things professional in the office. Nobody in the office knows about this even till now.
Those companies I applied to in November 2021 reached out to me for an interview. I got two offers at the same time. Both offers come with great pay (similar to what my boyfriend currently earns) and a significant boost to my career. I spoke to my boyfriend about it and being my boss he told me to reject both offers, he told me he would be able to cater for my needs that the only commitment he has now is paying for his house and once he is done paying for it, he would have more money to take care of me and I didn't need a job where they would pay me what he's currently earning and be in a role similar to his.
I told him it's not the money but it would be about moving up the ladder in my career. These are offers people do not have, now I have two, he is asking me to reject them. He told me even if I have to move the only offer I should take is the one close to the company where we work which has a lower pay compared to the second offer. I told him I would go with the second offer which has more opportunities for me. Both offers are in the same state although my preferred offer is a bit far from where I live but it is still a reasonable location to commute everyday. At one point he told me, I was too ambitious and I took it as a compliment.
I noticed he changed since then, he informed the company management that I was leaving and we began the handover process, I noticed he changed after we had the discussion about me accepting the second offer but I thought it was about him missing me. May 31 was my last day and I noticed few days to my last day he was acting strange so I asked him what the matter was. He said he doesn't feel anything for me and we should stop seeing each other.
This is a man that was really excited when we were dating, all of a sudden doesn't feel anything for me because I got a high paying job? Is it wrong for a woman to be ambitious? When has it become a crime for a woman to aim high in her career? My role will still be to support him. I have never been rude to him and I am not going to be rude to him because we now earn the same salary. I really like him and I feel disappointed that he could act this way.
Is it now a crime for a woman to be ambitious? Move on with your life jareeh You will find someone else.. Instead of him to be happy about your new job.. |
Career › Re: Help Someone Make The Right Choice by Emmacy001: 4:45pm On May 20, 2022 |
tempest2019: Someone got a job of 150k in lagos and got another job of 90k in lagos. The problem now is that the there is no room for increment of salary for the 150k job while for the one of 90k the company increases salary with 3k every year. In addition to the increment the 90k job pays 40k incentive every 3 months Location and nature of the job will determine |
Career › Re: Help Someone Make The Right Choice by Emmacy001: 4:44pm On May 20, 2022 |
tempest2019: Someone got a job of 150k in lagos and got another job of 90k in lagos. The problem now is that the there is no room for increment of salary for the 150k job while for the one of 90k the company increases salary with 3k every year. In addition to the increment the 90k job pays 40k incentive every 3 months Location and nature of the job will determine |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Left My House To Go Have Sex With Another Man by Emmacy001: 1:06pm On May 09, 2022 |
[quote author=22o62021 post=112641146][/quote]To me, the relationship is over |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Left My House To Go Have Sex With Another Man by Emmacy001: 1:00pm On May 09, 2022 |
[quote author=22o62021 post=112641146][/quote]To me, the relationship is over |
Business › Re: How Much Do You Make Weekly Or Monthly, And How? by Emmacy001: 10:50pm On May 08, 2022 |
kamez: Average of 600k per week.....
And yes I make that money right from the comfort of my house..
And it's legit...very very very legit Boss... I'm willing to learn from you |
Romance › Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by Emmacy001: 8:34pm On May 08, 2022 |
NurseMaryUSA: With so many scams going on how can an African American female find a serious African man to marry. It doesn't seem like many African men are interested in marrying us. This generation is something else... I don't even know whether people still love.. Keep trying you will find. Just that they are few... When Elijah told God that Ahab has killed all the prophets but God told him I have preserved thousands of prophets for myself in Israel... |
Romance › Re: Guys, What Type Of woman Do You wish for and the type you intensely dislike? by Emmacy001: 6:38pm On May 08, 2022 |
As long as you don't cheat, you're hardwoking, God fearing( Doesn't mean we no go dey do party o) and you love me... I'm good to go |
Business › Re: Lady Blocks Her Helper After He Mistakenly Sent N30k To Her Instead Of N3k (pix) by Emmacy001: 6:28pm On May 08, 2022 |
Ungrateful fellow |
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Career › Re: Should Get My Pilot License Or Invest In Business? by Emmacy001: 1:01pm On May 01, 2022 |
My bro Continue your trading business . Use your free time to invest in Agriculture... Nothing is like being your own boss in this life.. |
Family › Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Emmacy001: 1:55pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
janejjjjj5000: Please, I don't want to be judged. My husband is a good man. We have been married for 14 years. I am 33 years old. He is 39 years old. We have 4 kids - 3 girls and 1 boy. He has never cheated on me. Right from day 1, he has been very open. He is not the type of husband that locks phone and all of that. But I am tired. He has the habit of flaring up around the children and I don't like it. I don't want my kids to be damaged. I know some will say no marriage is perfect but at this point, I don't even want marriage again. I just want to be free and single and look after my kids. I am tired.
Anytime we have an argument, he always talks about how he did this and that for me. In front of the children. I don't want this kind of life. He hardly gets angry, maybe twice or thrice in a year but when he does, he does not have the sense to know he should not be doing it in front of the kids. He apologizes to them and to me but I am done.
He has no other issue apart from this. He has never beaten me or anything but I am tired. Overall he is a good husband to be fair and honest but I can no longer deal with this. I prefer to be single and free than deal with this rubbish.
I feel like pouring out my heart. You're sick... You don't know the value of what you have until you loose it |
Career › Re: Are You Happy Where You Work Currently? by Emmacy001: 5:09pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Not at all... being treated like slaves... Need a company that value their workers and also gain engineering experience... |
Family › Re: Woman Who Slept With Male Best Friend Following Quarrel With Husband, Seeks Help by Emmacy001: 5:11pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
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Car Talk › Re: Ever Since I Bought A Mercedes Benz, It's Been One Trouble To Another by Emmacy001: 1:50pm On Mar 23, 2022 |
TheOldGods: make I shock you small. I'm not bragging, but let me just show you something
The picture below is just a small screenshot of my contracts. Currently I charge 25$per hr, and I'm doing 3 contracts, as you can see I make 1000$ every week from the contract, if you look closely you will see a contract that has been running since nov19. That 1k every week, now the extra 3 contracts is also 1k a week, but you can only see 1 that I just started today which made it 4. I work anytime I like, I can do 40 hours in just 2 days, 20hrs per day etc. Now times 4k$ a week by 580. That's how much I just make in a week. Ask me to teach you a skill young man and stop this stupidity Teach me o |
Romance › Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by Emmacy001: 5:25pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
debbydams: Dating pool is now a mess right now, a big mess. If you are already married, God has saved you. If you are in a serious relationship with someone who's goin to marry you, you are very luck lucky.
A lot of us are in relationships but single, you think you are dating someone but the person is not even dating you. I think we need to talk about how damaged alot of us are, how materialistic we have become, how sex obsessed most of us are, how selfish?
"I deserve the best" yes you are but while you deserve the best , is your partner getting the best as well?
Our generation is just too selfish. It is always about 'you'
You want your partner to accept you the way you are but you are a bag of negativity and emotional liability, you are unstable, you are selfish, you don't look inside, you never tell yourself the truth and you want your partner to accept you when you are not even ready to change. But you want people to change for you but you're not willing to change for them in return. Isn't that selfishness?
No sincerity, No commitment, No honesty, No love, just expectations without reciprocation.
We keep blaming our partners for our mistakes..
There's no day we won't hear about divorce, domestic violence, bf killing gf, gf stabbing bf ,
How long will this continue?
It's tiring
#Lalasticla You just nailed it |
Romance › Re: How Do I Stop My Friend From Coming To Our House by Emmacy001: 7:38pm On Jan 24, 2022 |
I don't see anything wrong in what your friend did... You're supposed to make it easier for them if they are adult and also if your cousin reciprocate to her.. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: 2021 Nigerian Breweries Graduate Management Development Scheme Discussion Thread by Emmacy001: 2:03pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Ok na |
Business › Re: Online Jobs: How I Made Over $11,000 As A Search Engine Optimization Expert by Emmacy001: 5:47am On Jan 04, 2022 |
IamNumeroUno: More screenshots I'm interested in this sir. Please can I have your Whatsapp number? |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Should I Accept This Salesboy 7am-7pm, N25k Job Offer? by Emmacy001: 3:52pm On Dec 11, 2021 |
nheyol: As a salesboy there,...we start work at 7:am in the morning and close at 7:pm in the night 25,000naira monthly salary,and 200naira for food money afternoon and night,....
should I accept the offer or reject the offer No vex, What do you sale? |
Family › Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by Emmacy001: 8:05pm On Dec 07, 2021 |
Yes because you will not eat sand when you get married |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Nbplc Itf Neca Nigerian Breweries by Emmacy001: 11:44pm On Oct 13, 2021*. Modified: 2:36am On Oct 14, 2021 |
[quote author=viosky post=106682073]Did anyone get this email[/quote When did you do interview? When did you receive the mail? |
Phones › Re: MTN Subscribers Lament Service Outage, MTN Apologizes by Emmacy001: 7:52pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
Free data should be exchanged for apology |
Celebrities › Re: Yul Edochie's Daughter, Danielle Graduates From Secondary School (Photo) by Emmacy001: 4:17pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
make i follow am up for facebook |