sundayabuo47: A lady caused quite a stir on social media after she opened up about catching her husband in bed with her sister four days after their wedding.
In an emotional TikTok clip she shared, the lady said the shocking discovery broke her to the point that she stayed in a hotel for a week without bathing or stepping out
As she returned to work, her hubby and her sister came to apologise. She would later block their numbers
The lady said she also blocked her mum and mother-in-law's phone numbers because they told her to forgive them
She said she later moved into her best friend's house. Fixing the pieces together, the lady noted that little wonder her sister wore a white dress to her wedding.
Babara1994: We met on Facebook, exchanged numbers and few days down the line, she asked for a date.
Fine, I obliged, but she didn't know I'm always on Dutch mode when it comes to dates. LOL
So we got the place. A very expensive eatery. She was well-dressed but was all bleached - a big turn-off. I actually like light-skinned women, but not the bleached ones.
Okay, fine. She ordered a plate of rice, a bottle of champagne, a cup of ice-cream and three pieces of meat-pie. I began to wonder if we came for national eating competition. Anyhow sha, I ordered a plate of rice and a bottle of malt.
When it was time to pay, I paid for mine ONLY and told her to settle her bill. It led to an argument and all eyes were on us. I left the place and insisted she settled her debt.
A big lesson to all women out there. If you come across me, I won't pay a dime until you're my wife. Why should I act like I'm your husband when you aren't my wife?
And if you're a guy reading this: Spend what you're OK with and don't make yourself a fool. If you go broke tomorrow, you'll be forgotten.
PS: I'm not a redpiller and I'm not a feminist; I'm just human. Humans THINK.
You did absolutely well my brother.. Good lesson to others
Bamrems: This is what is happening to your wife, if she is in her late twenties, there is slightly an increase in the testosterone level in her body as they start preparing for menopause. The level of oxytocin starts decreasing and they feel the effect of testosterone more as guys do in their teens and early twenties.
Most women don't understand why all of a sudden, they start losing interest in their husbands and find young guys around more attractive. They lose interest in sex with their husbands and fantasize about their young lovers. They start to develop emotional connections with these young guys and become distant to their husbands because of guilt.
Most men fail to understand or don't believe their faithful or loyal wives have started stepping out and even deny the obvious signs which most times come with abstinence from sex with them and emotional bonding with their lovers. It's actually frustrating for both parties, most women because of the high level of dopamine they get from their lovers are conflicted with either leaving their husbands or becoming angry with them.
Although it is suggested that it's a way of nature making the older eggs fertilized by younger sperms. Very soon your wife will ask for either separation or divorce if you fail to confront her to choose between you and her lover. You can Pm me I'll advice you on how to confront her and call her out, so she don't play with their emotions or gaslight you as women in this stage do to justify their cheating as being unhappy or the man not doing enough in the relationship.
I have a lot to write but time won't allow me. I see a lot of me crying here saying their wives are stepping out or leaving them because of this same brain hormonal chemistry happening in their women.
humility101: I met this lovely lady (30 yo) online 2 months ago. She is in Nigeria and I’m in the Uk. We have been actively chatting, phoning and having lots of facetime. She’s got all they qualities I need in a wife. She has also gone to see my peeps once and they said nice things about her.
I’m planning on wedding her this Christmas and she can join me immediately (UK can be very lonely without a partner) on a dependent visa.
But sometimes I pause and ask myself, I hope I’m not rushing this whole thing? I hope she is not pretending to be nice? I hope she truly loves me? I hope she is not seeing me as a means to japa? A lot of questions going through my mind. This is marriage and I don’t wanna make mistakes.
Advice me please.
You want to marry whom you have never met for the First time.. Everything you know about the girl is online... My God open your eyes
[quote author= post=118346144]On the 17th November 2022, Mr. Peter Obi, CON will be in River State on the invitation of Governor Nyesom Wike to commission a Flyover, newly constructed by the Governor.
This will be a very interesting date in Nigeria.[/quote]Wike said earlier that Obi lacks integrity by decamping to another party. Now i know that it's Wike that lacks integrity by even inviting presidential candidate from his party opponent for commissioning...
The obidient people have already forgiven you sha.... Everybody must obey this time
I married very early, that Is five years ago, immediately i started working. Immediately we gave Birth to our first child, I was sacked from my place of work in a mysterious way. All our house equipment was sold, we left a comfortable apartment to a single room.
At a time, I was doing menial jobs just for us to feed. One day, in the process of seeking for solution to get my job back, I got to a church, and the pastor asked me to come with my wife, which I did, to my surprise, the pastor asked my wife, why are you afraid for your husband to have money? You are thinking if he makes money he will marry other women, he said pls pray for your husband to succeed, he is bigger than this.
And he asked my wife to come back for deliverance, but she refused.
Secondily, I went to another place, a spirituallist, and a female, she said I married wrongly, that the girl I was supposed to marry I missed it. She said I should come with my wife, and I did, she said my wife has another spirit, that she feels the marriage will not last...but till today, nothing I put hand dey work, most times we live together but never discuss together, we just live like strangers at home, and most time I regret getting married. I don't really know what to do now, I can't support my parents like before, they are not happy with me...
pls I need advice, prayers and support.
Are you blaming your wife for your predicament.. we need to hear your wife part of the story too. Note: we have so many fake prophets out there.
captaininiobong: Hy guys, I don't know if you have been in this, my woman that agreed to be the mother of my kids as stated by her recently stopped talking to me, picking my calls because she needed a 3million naira marriage.
I told her please why not we do moderate and use the remaining for investment. She said no. The three million is even small.
When I asked her what will we use the 3million to do, she said to buy furniture for the home. Uptill now she doesn't pick my calls, reply my chat if not that no be God showed her to me I would have deleted her number off my phone but am still keeping it for a reason I don't even know.
We have been together for long, not until a friend of mine got married and I told her they did thier marriage not less than 300k, then she said it's a big lie.
Visit her and enquire why she's not picking,maybe something is wrong somewhere. But if she insist on 3 million wedding,call it a quit.
Shybeauty: Hmmm! I feel like ranting. So, there is this guy who has been giving me attention since the beginning of this year. This attention is so glaring to everyone in my department that most of the girls are beefing me. Whenever he sees me in the department, he moves into close proximity to me without talking to me. He stares at me when I'm standing afar. He makes me feel special in the department.
Introduce yourself to him na Ask him out.. Must you girls always wait for guys to talk first
Sometimes, when i catch his eyes, he smiles discretely at me. Now, it's november and he's still not saying anything. I don't know what to do because earlier in the year, I didn't have much feeling for him. But now, I feel I have something for him. There is another girl in the department that is obviously trying to get him, but he doesn't give her attention but gives me attention. I am tired. I don't know what to do? I can't ask him out, that's out of it. I wouldn't.
If you've been in this situation before, how did you handle it? Please help me as I'm on the brink of asking him so i don't continue wasting my time?
Loveisnotenough: Wait o! How do people cope in a relationship? I swear being Single has more liberty. I've hooked myself to a big Jezebel.
How we met: At a friend's house. She liked me instantly and asked my friend for my number through WhatsApp. Then we started chatting.
Note: We had sex twice the day after we met but now she's forming CATWOMAN.
Pros:
Ability to speak English fluently Has some Gangster babe vibes.
CONS:
Cannot Submit - She'll forever be right.
- She turns little discussion to arguments and anger.
- cannot care for a home. cannot do basic things in the house except when forced, like sweeping, laying of bed after sleep, this beach cannot fry egg or cook anything other than rice.
- Someone we had sex last week now Find faults when I touch her. always talking that I'm forceful, I'm afraid of being accused of rape.
- She is rude but very jealous.
- She wants me to stop speaking our native language. We're same tribe from North region.
- she always want to identify as the most intelligent and richest in the room. Person way I day send even 500 for POS.
Can someone command get this thing outta my bed, She's sleeps till 10am everyday.
Una day try for relationship o.
Na God know when I go marry for this life.
Person wey I dey send 500 for pos....This one off me
Ebukaboss: This morning me and my girlfriend went to eat at a shoprite, after the eating moment i stepped outside... I saw mum and i was shock so me and gf greeted her... She didn't anwser us when i looked straight to her eyes.... She shake her head and eye me with bad looking.... Before she comes back pls guy tell me what she meant,even me i don't understand
obembet: I don't think anybody in this great forum press phone than I do which I believe it as become something else. I can't stay 5 minutes without. Touching my phone.
I have my phone with me at all times and check it hundreds of times a day. From WhatsApp Message to Nairalander to Twitter and so on.
Please my great Nairalanders, help me, how can I reduce this attitude, it becoming something else.
Get yourself busy with other activities. Do you work?
wizzie001: Its highly lucrative my brother, considering pigs gives birth to quite a good number of piglets, some farmers manage their pigs such that they give birth thrice a year, interesting right?
And pigs hardly fall sick, just deworm them often and give them vitamin, they have a way of rewarding their owners trust me!
Thanks so much for detailed explanation. I appreciate. What about the market value? It sells right
wizzie001: Its highly lucrative my brother, considering pigs gives birth to quite a good number of piglets, some farmers manage their pigs such that they give birth thrice a year, interesting right?
And pigs hardly fall sick, just deworm them often and give them vitamin, they have a way of rewarding their owners trust me!
wizzie001: Considering you are starting at Ogun state, i wouldnt know how much renting a pig pen goes for over there. But in Ibadan here, its just 15k per/pen yearly rent. However, if you have a land or your compund is quite spacious, you can always construct few pens with bamboo to cut cost.
●Cost of rent=15k/year. ●You can either decide to get one or two weaners depending on your budget (1 pure breed weaner @30k ●Feeds that can last atleast 6months @60k ●Total @#105k
Sir, another question is how lucrative is this business
wizzie001: Considering you are starting at Ogun state, i wouldnt know how much renting a pig pen goes for over there. But in Ibadan here, its just 15k per/pen yearly rent. However, if you have a land or your compund is quite spacious, you can always construct few pens with bamboo to cut cost.
●Cost of rent=15k/year. ●You can either decide to get one or two weaners depending on your budget (1 pure breed weaner @30k ●Feeds that can last atleast 6months @60k ●Total @#105k
Thank you for given details on this.... I will make more enquiry about the pig pen.. Can i have your number sir Incase i have more questions
Sincerely, all the breeds are good considering the feeds formula and care they receive. However, pig farmers always prefer large white and landrace the most. Duroc is more expensive than these breeds.
Ogun state... I'm considering to venture into this business ... Like how much is one expected to Budget for a start
[quote author=wizzie001 post=105972863]It gets to a stage in life where one pushes himself to achieve what seems beyond reach due to the economic woes we are faced with in Nigeria.
It was a sunny afternoon, i was comfortably seated at my air conditioner office, pondering about events staring at me, getting married in few weeks time with a salary of about 150k with an official car in Lagos doesnt look right to me. Starting a family in such situation wasnt what i wanted but, but alas, this is Nigeria with limited opportunities.
I started planning on whether to start my own business in that line or venture into agriculture full time, i settled for the former... I was doing really fine, travelling across the country executing contracts until covid came, and it was like we were back to square one.
I relocated my family to Ibadan from Lagos as soon as covid subsided a bit, then i wrote an application to different government agencies seeking for a land lease, after some some few months of aggressive applications, i was able to secure some acres not far away from my abode. However, during the period of looking for land, i registered at college of forestry to attain some basic knowledge on what i'm about to venture into, i've got no knowledge whatsoever about farming, but i know i have a thing for livestock.
I was able to get some practical knowledge from a good samaritan who told me to feel free to visit his pig farm anytime i so wish. I will forever be gratful pastor, one hardly come across people like that who is willing to help. With that, i got to know there are different types of breeds in pigs, such as: ●Land race ●Large white ●Duroc ●Camburough ●Local breeds etc.
While i was waiting to complete the construction of my own pen, i rented 4 rooms pen at a farm, each goes for 15k/year. Then i bought a pure female landrace weaner at 40k, then 5 pure white females at 25k each. I placed them in 3 of the rooms while i used the fourth for food storage.
I really have interest in pig farming. Which of the breeds will you recommend someone to buy why venturing into the pig farming.
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