₦airaland Forum

quentin06:
Someone somewhere is waging a war against this country. A economic war.

I think so too

inoki247:
Make dem dey enta dere thing alone I go dey enta bus put my life for God's hand Life na risk before.....


Wen man no kuku fly plane before man no die so if man stop now e no fit die still....

200k??

E choke oooooo

Na to go enter bus fiammm
200k wey me and my family dey take chop for 1 month na him i go take enter just 1 flight

Dem try.
Na massive sacking go hit that sector

BigBashiru:
That's not how God or mother nature made...its not the same in the north or in muslim countries...its this way because men failed to assert their rights.... and ur post makes a lot of sense.... most men and women dont realize the reason there are issues in their marriage today is due to the past of both the guy and the girl...

I hv a question for you....by the special grace of God, im well to do guy (financially OK but not rich)... my family introduced me to 27 or 28 yo girl for marriage - the girl is "ready" but unfortunately is from a very poor background..... i am not comfortable with it because i feel she wants to use me as a Poverty Alleviation Scheme but also i feel i will hv a lot to rehabilitate.... Marriage isnt fun for guys....to take those 2 burdens, whats the gain for me!!

Bigbash, in one of your comments, i noticed you said nobody should discourage you about marrying because it is what you want.
You said the girl sees you as a poverty alleviation scheme and also a rehabilitation home.... well
What can i say? since your heart is made up, go for it.
Atleast you have been in this group for long to know what and what to expect and how to deal with them when they arise.
You are not walking into marriage blindly.
Give it a trial and putting in your best to make it work....Shallom

luminouz:
I posted that shola screenshot (on mood issh) on my status and 87% of those who viewed are women and no one even said pim, coz they know say I be werey. Na men dey come tell me say make I take am easy...that I'm too harsh blabblabla.

I told those niggas to fuq off!!! These days my vawulence is mixed with fearless.

Hahahahahaha

Lumi

Abeg take am easy with them

Laduet:
Please I'm in need of a traveling companion. Nothing complicated, just hoping to spend my official leave period traveling and exploring new places, you take of your bills and I will handle mine as well. Love nature and would prefer a serene location. Planning this for the month of September, send me a DM if interested. Thanks

Hello

When are you going for another vacation?

ifyjobs:
I am happy that young people are beginning to explore and travel around the world. I am a travel enthusiast and have a travel buddies club on WhatsApp where I plan and share budget vacation trips with my friends. we travelled to cape verde in jan 2020 and just got back from obudu june 2021...I will like to connect with you.

Bro can we connect? for vacation planning

sharrp:
Already booked it for October

WWaooooooo

Please keep me posted for future travel plans.
Will pm you so that we can talk offline

sharrp:
Lol , it’s clearly stated that the person will fund the trip , it’s my first time visiting Mauritius and would love to go with folks . Travel
Package agencies are I’ll overcharge and chose date for you

This is more of a DIY

@ the bolded is very true.
Travel Agencies are too expensive.
Have you visited Mauritius?
I am planning one between December and March.
If you don't mind, let's work towards it.
Options on ground are Dubai, East Africa (Rwanda, Uganda, Kenya, Tanzania and Ethiopia package), West Africa (we start from Senegal/Gambia down back to Nigeria)

ayinba1:
Space saved


Just a chronicle of a different type of vac.

Hello,

still expecting your chronicles

RedpillAnalyst:
True.. Fatherless girls are to be well vetted out before any real commitment. I am yet to see one decent fatherless lady.

But here's the twist. If her dad died when she was young, her fatherlessness was robbed by death. Not that her mama was loud and uncooperative that papa had to leave and not stay with her mama.

If she has a masculine figure around after the demise of her father and she is femine and cooperative give it a try. If she has more than 2 red flags talk to your leg.

orchin:
Men are stupid, very stupid when it comes to sexual relationships...
Why will you marry, pay a price for a non virgin? Why? Even the religious books doesn't support it....
The game the women are playing is clear, (hook up culture, FWB etc)...they don't want marriage, buh men are still bringing it to them...haaah. it's so sad.
Makes me sad when an olosho dey even talk about the standards she wants in a man when she wanna settle .

For me, have made peace with the way things are.

Maybe that is how God or mother nature designed it because if you are to look at the situation of things logically now, many women are damaged.
Using Marriage as a Poverty Alleviation Scheme is bad enough, now making it a Rehabilitation Center should have been the final nail to the coffin.
Many women today are damaged - they smoke, consume hard drinks, engaged in 3some/4some/orgies, numerous sexual partners, multiple abortions, bang guys who use hard drugs to sex them thereby turning them to nymphos etc Bro, the list is endless
Now, 10/15 years down the lane, these women will want to settle down with a lot of baggage they are bringing.
If you can satisfy them sexually......people will call you out for not been man enough to satisfy your wife and you need to buckle up.
If she is having regular mood swings (which comes with a woman who has slept with many men) - They will tell you sa a man, it is your duty to make sure your home is in order, you are the head of the family and it is a duty God has ordained on you to do.
Just name it -
She will compare you financially with her Ex, sexually with her Ex-bedmates,
Nothing you do will really entice her (let me expansiate on this) - A lady that has been flown on air, lodged in 3/5/7 star hotels with chiefs, alhajis or politicians, received 50k per night or more, expensive phones etc from her previous bedmates will always feel irritated and angry by a hubby who only brought pad and bras to her on her birthday. She will never appreciate anything you do.
And it is your fault according to most women for not making your (Damaged) wife happy.
Reason why i said Marriage being a Poverty Alleviation Scheme for women is bad enough (where your properties - car, house, land money etc becomes Our Own but when life happens, she ditches you and run away citing she is tired of the marriage), now making Marriage a Rehabilitation Home (to correct our past mistakes, where you don't have to look or judge her past that will still come to hunt you anyway, where we just need to look away for a woman who has engaged in prostitution, smoking, drinking, clubbing and as turned to Sister Kemi in the church) for many many women is totally bad deal for any man presently

orchin:
Most just want sex, puccy to dig all night long ...
But I love women. It comes with a cost
1. Your resources
2. Your freedom
At 30years, dey realize, oh, life's hard, I gotta pay all this bills? Not a bad idea if I settle now and have a slave foot all that, I just gotta drop puccy, and even withdraw the puccy if he doesn't comply ...

Another one.
She is my SIL
Very beautiful during her prime and even still beautiful. I think she is close to 40. No husband nor kids. Frustrated and always crying and praying to God for hubby even though she has been changing men like diaper...........my wife claimed it is the men who are not serious for relationship and just doing chop and clean mouth.....okay now
When in her prime..... she was carried away by the beauty and regular attention
Then, she was very selective and materialistic (not a bad quality if you ask me anyway)
Red flag ..............she stays at Omole estate alone in a 700k apartment.
Who does that ?
Even me wey dey do better work is a salary far more than her own no go try am.
She works with FIRS and i will guess her salary is not more than 150k. Unless there is something i don't know sha.
When i pointed out that red flag, wife told me she has a side business now .......buying and selling of gold abi jewelries from Dubai... Okay now
During one of their conversations, she blurted out that she is tired of paying the yearly 700k, that is is taking a toll on her. So she can't wait to just get married so that the man will be the one footing that bill.
It is all about the mindset of the modern woman.
It is never about how to run an effective home/family rather how to use a man.

orchin:
Most just want sex, puccy to dig all night long ...
But I love women. It comes with a cost
1. Your resources
2. Your freedom
At 30years, dey realize, oh, life's hard, I gotta pay all this bills? Not a bad idea if I settle now and have a slave foot all that, I just gotta drop puccy, and even withdraw the puccy if he doesn't comply ...

I know of a lady at ibadan, she graduated 4/5 years ago.
She has been looking for work but for where. The ones she even got are private school teaching jobs of 15/20k.
She coded sleeps with married men now out of can we just say frustration.
During our discussion, do you know what she told me? That she is tired with the rigorous life she is living and she is eager to marry.
Atleast, she won't be staying in her father's house or asking him for stipends .... in other words, she is looking for a slave to shoulder her problems. Mostly financial.

orchin:
Most just want sex, puccy to dig all night long ...
But I love women. It comes with a cost
1. Your resources
2. Your freedom
At 30years, dey realize, oh, life's hard, I gotta pay all this bills? Not a bad idea if I settle now and have a slave foot all that, I just gotta drop puccy, and even withdraw the puccy if he doesn't comply ...

Totally correct bro and unfortunately, that same pussy has been ravaged by previous guys with little commitment, yet a brother will be very happy to personally secure it for himself which comes at a very very expensive price of slaving throughout is remaining life.

Reason why the lower class and upper lower class of women would fight vigorously against men who are kicking against marriage because it is their retirement plan.
It is not a bad idea to have slave after all to do the rigorous job of looking for money.

ThierryJay:
On a counter attack, when Vitinha passed to Messi rather than him, he then stopped running and started walking away almost like going off the field in frustration.

He collected PSG's first penalty from Neymar and missed it. When Messi won the second penalty for them, he then went to Neymar again and asked to take it. Neymar refused and scored and celebrated wildly.

Several times he tried to dribble too many players when passing to a better placed teammate was a much better option. Distorted the existing chemistry between Neymar and Messi.

He gave Messi a slight body shave at the shoulder while walking back from a missed opportunity. Messi gave him a "what was that for bloke" look

And finally, after the match Neymar liked a fan's post criticising Mbappe's selfish behaviour.

Overall not a good picture for a team trying to make a mark in the UCL.

Waoooooooooooo

Thanks for taking your time to explain the situation.

This is not really good for the club.

heartofcity12:
Majority of them get severely fvcked and have several abortions in between their tertiary education to working class period, it’s a wise decision when men only want to associate with virgins(who are needles in a haystack) alone for a serious thing and this notion really hurt these damaged women so much, but who cares..

It is true and tbh, if i am to become single today due to any factor (be it death of wifey(God forbid) or infidelity or she just decides to leave because she is tired of the marriage), whatever the reason may be, bro, i am categorically telling you i will stay far away from marriage.
Don't get me wrong - i am not trying to mislead the upcoming ones nor am i having any issues or problems in my marriage nor am i discouraging guys t marry.
This is just my personal opinion, i will stay away from it.
I don't have any issue with the institution but with what have seen so far, it is messed up. Too many damaged women.

BigBashiru:
Why do men celebrate so much on their wedding day Donnt get me wrong il be happy & smiling but not excessively happy like most guys typically are...@ the bolded most guys these days dont even care so d girls are smart and eat their cake in youth and still hv it in marriage....

Why do men celebrate so much on their wedding day Tbh, i don't know also.

@ the bolded most guys these days don't even care so d girls are smart and eat their cake in youth and still hv it in marriage - To this question -
1. Most don't know. They are not aware about the past of their spouse else they would have taken to their heels.

2. Let's be frank, most men out there are sexually starved and invincible to women. SO when a man sees a lady that is even ready to give him attention, to give him a listening ear, they fall over heels to have her and finally secure her from the preying eyes of many sharks lurking around like you BigBashiru (lol)

Do you know how many guys who have never received any gift from ladies are very high? even here on nairaland, i can bet more than 50% of guys have never received gifts or money from women. Something an average lady gets regularly.
There are many things to say but just have to leave it here

BigBashiru:
If i dont get some of the prime years then why should i stress myself financially for the so called wife?? I hv no problem marrying a 30yo but these are the conditions:

1. She cannot restrict which girl i talk to or sleep with.

2. She needs to fend for herself financially....

Lol

When we say Marriage is a bad deal for most men of today, some ladies will come after mean that i am a bad man and don't want others to marry despite being married myself.

I only pity the men coming me, many women are damaged and not family-oriented or inclined even if they think they are.
The foundation of most are nothing to write home about especially from the university days to working class period....it is mostly littered with to many sexual encounters

CaveAdullam:
Lol.

Thank you sir.

Uwc bro

BlaqFaze:
E reach like that o

The problem started when Neymar found out that Mbappe was the one who wants Neymar sold... then the penalty issue.

It's well.

Let them sort themselves out.

BlaqFaze:
him and Neymar were close to throwing blows in the dressing room

Haa haaa

E reach like that?
Na wa ooooo
Players are like women. Immediately they set their eyes and minds on another guy, it is better to let them go.
If continue begging or pressuring you girl not to leave you, it always end in more abuses from them and more arrogance.

temi1290:
He walked away from a counter attack just because the ball wasn't passed to him, you can check for the video on twitter

Hmmmmmmm
PSG should have released him to Real Madrid.

BigBashiru:
Also there is a reason why girls do not want to get married until 28-30... the reason is that they always believe a better guy will come until they start to see significant changes in their body + dwindling attention which makes them get desperate in late 20s....

so the 22 year old is almost hard to settle down with since she is in her prime and is receiving attention left right and center. I hv known 23 yo girls on the brink of marriage call of their weddings because they expect a better guy to come...... most keep expecting a better guy until they get old.....

thanks for this nice write up tho! So where do you think such ladies can be found? I dont think such ladies exist... I think the only ones available are the ones their parents force to get married early which is non existent these days since most parents want their daughters to finish school and get a job....

At the bolded...in other words, LOVE is not really that blind as we were meant to know.
So, women are view Love, Relationship and Marriage from a logical lens and not Emotional.
If ladies are holding out to late 20's so as to get the best deal, isn't that a manifestation that there is nothing like LOVE? just an illusion. No wonder we have high infidelity rate and divorce rate.

BigBashiru:
brethren of the pill, please I hv a dilemma - i hv been confused for a while... i want to get married (pls dont discourage me as its what i want)...however, most young gals dont wanna get married until they are 30.... and i cant be stuck with a 30 yo all my life... i need something young.... so im now forced to get married for children but no delight in fuckkking the woman cos no sex appeal... those girls 25-26 still dey select and still think they got a lot of time.... the whole marriage institution is disorganized.... and actually young girls do not want to settle down....it appears marriage is a secondary market for used up old women.... what redpill advices do you hv for guys that want to get married to YOUNG women...

Break time....................Welcome to 21st century relationship bro
This breakfast will go round.

CaveAdullam:
1. A man must build himself for his well being. And as a result, he becomes a person people respect, love, fear and want to relate with.

If you don't respect yourself as a man, nobody will. Self-respect will always culminates into general respect.

But I do disagree with you on some cases.

Let's go.



2. Do you still remember alpha fvcks beta bucks?

Who impregnates women and make them single mothers and baby mamas? Is it the guy focus on his study or business. Of course you know, many of these men are players, bad boys, thugs, jerks. A man of self-respect will not.

Who are the men that are friend zoned? The ones that want to deal with women from a self-respect level. They want to always take things cool and easy with women.

Please, don't interpret me wrongly. I'm not saying self-respect is not important when dealing with women or for you to fvck women you must turn into a bag of shit. But what you must understand about women is that they don't view things from a moral and ethical point of view. They go where their feelings dictates. They don't care.

All of us have guys who are called "street urchins" in all of our environments, these are guys you will not want mingle with because you carry yourself with self-respect, however, they are the ones impregnating sister angels.

3. Do women respect self-esteem and high value men? Yes. But that isn't going to their pvssy. They must be stimulated emotionally and sexually for you to fvck them. If they really care about self-respect, guys would not be complaining of being friendzoned.

4. "COME TO MY HOUSE" is a direct game. He cares for nothing. It shows that he's on the pedestal and will not waste time jumping around texts and phone calls just to get her attention. He shows that he respects himself and time.

5. For example: I have a female friend in another state, we've known for close to 5 years now online. She has been asking me for some help, and I have told her several times, that if she wants anything from me, she should COME TO MY HOUSE. She always say that if she comes she will not go back the same way, and I always tell her is just one baby noy in her womb. Has she come to my house? No. Have I been preaching about sex to her? No. Have she received a dime from me? No. Does she respect me? Yes. Do I respect her? Yes (at least she has sense more than the average Nigerian girl).

6. Commanding what you want from a woman at a short period of time reeks self-respect for your time and well-being. It doesn't mean you are a bag of shit.




7. You built yourself because of pvssy, and you said you were not pvssy focused?

This is not meant to be a mockery but an evolutionary sexual instincts. Whatever women desired in men, men evolved to become that thing. And same for women.

"COME TO MY HOUSE" is a command.
"I'm a self-respect guy" is an attitude.

Both boils down to pvssy. What matters is one or both not metamorphosing into something stupid just to get pvssy.



8. If you know your worth as a man and have an understanding about women, by virtue of your worth, women will help you filter themselves. If you are a man of self-respect, you'll encounter with idiotic women less because you're not always around idiots.




9. Maybe you are misconstruing that every woman a man sets his eyes upon he must fvck. Will men want to fvck any woman? Yes. Will a particular man fvck all the women he comes across? No.

If the women that helped in you in your areas of life opened their pvssy for you will you fvck them?
Sex may never had been an open objective dealing with them, but that sexual instinct was lurking under your skin.

10. There are gender roles. Women nurture, clean, cook, serves as companion. Men provides protection and provision.

Women have nothing to offer because a man can get everything a woman provides on his own. Even other men can do it for him. The only reason for women is sex and reproduction.

Except for independent women, women can't protect and provide for themselves and kids. Even the state is made up of men who provide and protect them on a macro scale. Women can't get commitment or provision and protection from other women; any different men. And they also need men for sex and reproduction.

Men want women. But women desire and need men.

A woman can't boldly say "all what a man can give is just provision and protection" - because they are expensive, everybody desires it. Any woman that says that is a pathetic liar.

But a man can "say all a woman can provide is sex", and he can get it from different women.



11. Men can't care less about sex because they are damned by the hormone testosterone. You can deny it but you can't erase it.

It was even men of old that care much about pvssy, they became hunters and warriors to secure more women.

According to recent statistics, marriage rate is declining, the rate of active sexual men is declining. Incels are on the rise. MGTOWS are on the rise.

Men are not desperate for sex per se, it is an evolutionary instinct that makes them desire women in a haste where the sexual market place is deregulated. In ancient times men can easily get women because the rate of inequality was low compared to this day. Women will settle for men in their community because they don't have social media to scan men from different geopolitical zones.

The seeming desperation is because, 100% women are only focus on 20% of men in the society totem pole and are not interested in the other 80% of men.

Is self-control important yes. Is self-respect important yes.

Refer to 8 above.

Thanks.

Authority: Self-Respect

Nnemuka:
I don't understand people ooo...
A man who patronises olosho is blameless but the olosho is bad?

As long as you patronise them, be ready to be married to one or have a daughter who will continue the trade from your home. You can't continue that lifestyle and expect karma not to visit u.

At the bolded………I guess it is how Mother Nature works.
There is always a down side of being at the receiving end.
While being the receiver is sweet, like every other thing in life, it has it’s own consequences.
The receiver will always be the one to be shamed and not the giver.
Sorry I can’t change that.
Ask why NDLEA are always going after the smugglers, harassing them and not the drug users? Are both not supposed to be shamed?
Why going after rice smugglers when we all know we all buy and eat it including the govt/politicians themselves.

Chuvin22:
Exactly.

I registered with an anonymous ID, started scouting for the females nearby. See uniport girls chai! Full time 20k, short time 10k. I know many of them. Most of them from faculty of education and humanities. Dirty girls wey nor sabi book sef. They Just wear bend down select, bleach face dey disgrace their family.

Pls fellow Nairalanders,
If your sister is in faculty of education uniport. In fact uniport. Pls watch her closely.
Bad influence here is too much. They wh.ore without conscience. Smoke weed and take tramadol like say nah food.

Na wa oooo
And na future wives and mothers be all these one oooo

Men don suffer abeg.

Kilishihunter:
He's the major reason why I don't see them ending their UCL slump anytime soon. This his nonsense egoistic behavior has been evident since before the Euros with that his incident with not wanting to pass to giroud, And to think he's just 23, Maybe he'll help us slap Al-kheilaifi someday you never know

I think Messi plays better without him in the team.

ThierryJay:
Can't ever remember a 23-year old player showing on the pitch like he owns the club and can do anyhow. Not Maradona, not Messi, not De Lima, not even arrogant CR could dare to stop playing football just because a teammate passed to someone else other than him. Or twice asking to take penalties from the main penalty taker after having missed once. Or hitting Messi by the shoulder.

PSG management don buy market.

What really happened bro? i think i missed the party

Just followed the match scores on livescore.com

pansophist:
Instead of begging online, why not go work? You created a topic since May, begging even for hundred naira, and over three months later, you're still begging.

Even if you're broke and have no money to start anything, you can sell your time and labour, such as working for someone or hustling by yourself in marketplace, it's more dignifying than begging all over the place.

Hopefully your ego is not bigger than your need to survive. Because jobs people usually look down on will feed them, teach them technical skills and prevent them from being a nuisance to themselves and to others.

I don't know why begging is so rampant in nigeria of today.
Is it laziness? or the school/education failed us ? because our forefathers and fathers never begged like this.
I went through the asewo beer parlour thread ..... bro, it has literally turned to Asewo beg parlour.
Hundreds of youths begging and dropping account numbers for a popular moniker their who also feels like a God dropping crumbs to them.

We have a very very long way to go as a nation and continent because i don't know who failed who.

MJBOLT:

a finished man

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

heartofcity12:
Not at all, not to women. A woman can respect you and still cheat on you, they cheat for different reasons. A woman can be disloyal or cheat on anyone, it doesn’t matter if you’re a redpiller, beta, alpha, sigma, don, purple piller, simp, preacher, p.imp or whatsoever.

Reason why I said I don’t take relationship serious.
I enjoy it while it last.
If it last, fine but if not, I take a bow. Finish
Since no matter what I do, they will/can still cheat.
It simply means my actions or commitment can’t influence her decision making.
She does whatever she wants to do after all.