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RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 12:25pm On Aug 14, 2022
heartofcity12:
E crazy out there gan bro grin
Really really bro.

Hmmmmm
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 11:35am On Aug 14, 2022
deniguy01:
I stupidly gave my girl y 12 pro max while o collected her iPhone 7. Now im in diaspora, I can’t take pictures til i get a new phone cos of a bitch. This said bitch posted herself flexing in a guy benz with my phone . I was so pain . This is like the 5th girl im dating and buying phones. I just discovered this redpill page. I’m working on setting her up with some guys that’ll snatch te phone.��.
grin grin grin grin grin
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 11:22am On Aug 14, 2022
heartofcity12:
Smh
Apoooooooooooooorrr!!!!!!

Na real auzubillah minashaitan nirajeem
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Fc Barcelona Fan Thread: "més Que Un Club" by emmaodet: 11:19am On Aug 14, 2022
OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Some people say Xavi is biased. Alba no suppose play dis match reach 82mins...dude was having an off day right 4rm d 1st mins...it was ridiculous wen he removed pedri instead of busquet...

Busi, Alba are not sure starters. I'll take Pique over short Eric Garcia who don't knw how to defend.
Hmmmmmmmm

It's well.

i will keep observing the team and be giving my opinion on their performance on a monthly basis.
Let's give them time
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Fc Barcelona Fan Thread: "més Que Un Club" by emmaodet: 10:17am On Aug 14, 2022
OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Pedri & gavi midfield no dey work. Xavi dey stubborn.

Wen we go start to dey bench slow busquet. We no dey go far 4 ucl with dis guy as a 1st eleven material.
Tbh, I don’t know why we keep using Busquet and Pique as starters in that team.
It is really annoying.
AgricultureRe: The Hidden Profit In Storage Business by emmaodet: 1:14am On Aug 14, 2022
shariff84:
This year storage we have started it with Agusi:-we are already happy,me and some nairalanders that trust us!!!
I advice some nairalanders that this year Agusi price may not falldown like last year.we started buying @13k,Some 14k and some 15k.As of today price of Agusi is already 22k!!!
What impressed me more was one nairalander that visited me last three weeks ago in Niger State. I told him even if he comes we buy together I will charge him my 5% service fees and he said no problem he only want to see everything with his eyes. He came and I advised him to start buying in that week no matter how much the price was, normally our target price is 10k but when we realized we can't get it at that price we started buying at 13k and this is biggest smartness we did this year before hoarders started buying,we already bought one trailer.He paid me my 5% without any argument and guess what?.lolz
Within three weeks of his investment,his capital is about to double!!! Iam so happy for him because he also a nice man.
Note:-
this year Agusi storage is closed!
Hallelujah!!!!!!!!!!!
Mr Sharrif, thanks for everything

I am the one who bought Egusi 3 weeks ago from Abeokuta.
That I told you to keep it in your store.
Let’s wait and see how far the price will go.
Next is maize by November.
RomanceRe: Is Marriage Misery For Men?(photo Attached) by emmaodet: 12:51am On Aug 14, 2022
cayorday89:
You did not lie sir, and there is this kind of unnecessary ranting from most married men, shouting unnecessarily at their children for things that is not worth it, I have several children who are fond of me, I no too get plenty problem to think about and I hardly take offence but caution them, so they play and are always free with me in a way they will never try with their fathers and now I can underatnd with all the expenses listed up there that it is enough to make a man frustrated and take offence on little things..

I bought a new Earpiece yesterday and one of the ears spoilt today just because I paid a family visit after about 3mths and the children did not let me rest they were just all over me till they ended up spoiling the Earpiece, but if their dad was around they would have been calm or tell me to come join them in their room.
Yes, that is true.
It’s well bro
RomanceRe: Is Marriage Misery For Men?(photo Attached) by emmaodet: 12:34am On Aug 14, 2022
cayorday89:
Hmmm, my father had a chat with me this night, let me say an unfriendly chat and I only chose to listen as a mark of respect and it's about getting married and having children unless one is unfulfilled for coming to this life, and you listing all these lifestyles of bachelorhood is tempting and so great for one to reason marriage and for my case I have not even experienced 0.1% of all that freedom, so it will be jumping from frying pan to fire which is taking orders from my parents and doing their bidding all of my life only to get married and still not have the freedom I so much craved for all on the altar of being a husband and a father... I will screenshot this and always show it to whoever my father will report me to at any point in time and ask them if they were in my shoe, will they get married so quick..
Hahaha

You want to screen shot my comment?
No problem bro.
It is the truth.
The life a man is very very simple but when married, the expenses goes up.
You need a bigger apartment whether renting or building unlike a self-contain that is enough for a bachelor.
Just imagine all you have to worry about is building a self contain, that means even if you are earning 100k per month, as nigeria hard reach, you can conveniently buy a half plot of land in the low part of my area and build a self contain all within 2m

A am earning 100k will achieve that in 3/4 years but when married…………..building a house may jump to 7-10m and you know how many years that will take.
With 100-150k, you can decide to go use 3-5 days in ghana.
To and fro transport 30k as at last time I went. Don’t know the current price but shouldn’t be more than 40/50k
Hotel….7/8k per day
Other expenses ….. make that 50/70k and there you have it.
A good nice vacation and experience but I can’t say that for a married man.
RomanceRe: Is Marriage Misery For Men?(photo Attached) by emmaodet: 10:04pm On Aug 13, 2022
Raalsalghul:
Someone might see this and say you are hating on women but I've seen this stuff happen in real life: very close to me.

It still surprises me up till today: feel for the guy though.
It is very very very common bro.
Just don’t have the time or power to start giving examples
RomanceRe: Is Marriage Misery For Men?(photo Attached) by emmaodet: 10:04pm On Aug 13, 2022
MALIGNANTGuest:
Don't mind them. They are still KIDS.
It takes MARRIED PEOPLE to give such counseling.
In the Roman Catholic Churches, Reverend Fathers who never get married pilot the affairs of marriage classes. How does such sound...?
In most of their marriage classes, mothers rarely get involved. Imagine Youths trooping into such without hearing from both experienced Genders.
I won't blame them.
Most Married men will tell they lost a lot the moment they got married.
The woman whom they taught was harmless & powerless became a viper.
She drove all their siblings away.
Kept their friends away.
Scared away business partners & many more.

That's the singular reason TIMAYA openly said he won't be getting married, after all he's got kids.
They only come to Nairaland to yell @ people.
Listen to men with experience.
We now have new breed of Ladies, unlike our mothers who were highly respectful.
Even if you must marry make sure the LADY loves you far more than you cherish her.
Gbam !!!

You have said it all bro
RomanceRe: Is Marriage Misery For Men?(photo Attached) by emmaodet: 9:33pm On Aug 13, 2022
jeromestarks:
If I tell you what's on my mind the mods will block me. Let me just keep quiet.
grin

I don’t blame her.
She is a woman so it is understandable.

Women will fight violently to keep the marriage scheme going.
It is a massive retirement plan for many women who never planned their lives or who are busy enjoying today, clubbing, banging different ducks with the hope that somewhere, somehow, somebody is busy reading, enduring, hustling, discomforting himself today so as to make his own future better tomorrow for them to live in.
Somebody has to and that person must be a man and we must not discourage him or enlighten him about the situation of things.
He has to be kept in the dark with the hope of getting an over used woman as compensation which he must even be grateful to have i future.
RomanceRe: Is Marriage Misery For Men?(photo Attached) by emmaodet: 9:22pm On Aug 13, 2022
MALIGNANTGuest:
I am married, and it's good u asked but I meant what I typed. I rarely attend weddings diz days.
It's not worth it these days. IF you can't get the quality of our mothers in your Financee (undiluted respect from your wife to be) then the marriage is already marked for extinction.

Let's take Flavour, David & Wizkid... for examples.
Let's also take Genevieve for example too.
IF these People had gotten married ab intio, their marriages would have collapsed.
The more advanced humans become, the more complicated they get.

Our LADIES are now empowered & advanced.
They can no longer take shit from men. IF you can't take shit, why get married?
Mere glossing over spouse's phones for side chicks have led to numerous avoidable deaths.
I don’t know why people always throw that jab of -“ you are married” to we married men when we talk against marriage.
It is as if they just want to shut us off.
If a single guy talks about people not getting married, they will throw the jab of “when you get married, you know better or you are not in the position to advice singles about what you don’t know or have practiced” yet when people who are married are to give the same advice l, they will throw the jab of “but you are married”
Who is in the best position of advising younger ones not to marry if not a married man.
I don’t have issues in my marriage doesn’t mean I don’t know many have issues or if am to take a statistic of marriages around me, I don’t know that the probability of the guys coming behind me running into such problems is high.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 8:50pm On Aug 13, 2022
ProphetJeroboam:
Solomon Buchi the male feminist is getting tossed by women all over Instagram and Facebook with receipts. He fell off the moment he made that post about his wife. He laid his bed now he is laying on it.
grin
RomanceRe: Is Marriage Misery For Men?(photo Attached) by emmaodet: 8:41pm On Aug 13, 2022
Faber:
Like tomorrow wey be Saturday now, from 3:00pm, I don dey entertain myself for my house with EPL, for Night La Liga go show. I go anywhere I want to go. Come back anytime I want. Sleep anywhere I like, groove and wear anything I want.

I pay my bills, food dey for my kitchen, no strength to cook them, I just look at them, smile and go to any eatery of my choice and enjoy myself, nobody dey drag remote control with me.

Tomorrow now, a lowlife from God knows where will come and be giving me orders in my own house based on say na my wife. Way be say na me use my money go buy the headache from her papa house. Carry another man stubborn daughter come put under my roof.

The thunder way go fire marriage ehn, God never create am sef
Honestly, I envy you barchelors a lot.
I don’t have any problem with my married life but tbh, I missed bachelorhood.
That freedom - to go anywhere you like, sleep anywhere, travel for days without anybody calling or nagging, you can even lose your job and no shaking, you just drink your Garri silently while looking for another job. Nobody knows or care about what you are passing through unlike when you are married - depressed, worried about what your wife will say or do or your kids.
It is a very cheap life to live.
You don’t even need to worry about building a big house - 3 bedroom or duplex.
Just manage buy half plot and build a room and parkour self contain and you are good to go.
Should we talk about vacation? With just 500k, you can decide to travel to east Africa - Rwanda, Kenya, Uganda, Ethiopia and Tanzania or a low cost pocket friendly vacation but for a family man, he will start thinking about wife and kids and the cost may shoot up to minimum of 1.5m.
t the end of the day, if he looks at the money to spend 1.5m plus other expenses lined up for him as a married man - school fees, house rent, clothing, feeding, other unseen emergency expenses, he won’t have a choice than to cancel that vacation. For how long will you continue doing that?
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 5:08pm On Aug 13, 2022
Danycrusoe:
Let's see how it goes
Ok
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 8:10am On Aug 13, 2022
Regex:
Another set of people we should learn how to say no to is our guys.

Your guy go lie bill you and you pay only for him to use it to carry woman.
True....and that is why i look at people who criticize guys spending on women, saying if their guys come he won't help.
There is one funny/bad attitude about humans in general, when you help them, they keep coming back when they need more.
Their brain won't tell them enough or to reciprocate first before asking for another.
It is always a one-sided relationship and not balanced or mutual....Always parasitic.
I have many of them who have dropped their asses.
One always ask me for money.........He is wise enough to be spacing it every 3-3 months so that it won't look obvious.
Every time he will be sharing experiences of ladies he has banged. I don't have a problem with that, just don't put your burden on me because i am not putting min on you and i am trying my best to plan my life so as not to put my burden on you. So if you don't plan your life, don't disturb who is planning his.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 8:03am On Aug 13, 2022
Danycrusoe:
So I was discussing with a lady who used to claim no sex before marriage on her WhatsApp post and at the end of the discussion I discovered I haven't done 1/3 of her sexual adventure.


Heck I couldn't even say anything cus this is someone who's in the chorister and no nonesense. I was shocked not because I expected her to be a virgin but because I wasn't prepared for all I heard. Lol

So same lady has bleeped and be fingered in church, one time on a Sunday in her choir regalia. Done foursome, wanted tirisum with two guys and also had a lesbian partner.

She has been laid by two siblings and also said she has a body count of ten. She is 24 and claims born again since last year.

Don't worry o bros ur wife is a choir and sings every other day. She never see dick before and of course "no sex till marriage".


Hoe phase is real and ladies are not innocent.


MODIFIED
Tbh, i can't stomach what some ladies do tell me oo when it comes to sex.

Men dey learn where women dey for sex.
It is not their fault though, it is very hard to withstand the temptation of not having sex when you get paid or gifts to do it.
Imagine the rate at which men are having sex or want to have it despite paying through their nose to have it.
Now imagine men being paid to have sex, many of us go cut rope.
Many men want to fvck their problems away, they are tired of hustling and stuck in endless poverty and generational struggling or working hours that puts their life at risk or about to break their neck.
They want to fvck these problems away or at least use a ''Pussy Bail-out'' to reduce the stress and suffering drastically.

It is very very hard for women to resist sex bcus they get paid for it. Most will ditch it if they have to pay for every sex they receive or the their body count will drop drastically.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 7:49am On Aug 13, 2022
Danycrusoe:
The last part is very funny but true, that's when u hear friends ask her but I thought u hate that guy, how come u two are now together..... Lol
Bro, you stay in Abk.
Don't mind if we connect?
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 7:39am On Aug 13, 2022
Danycrusoe:
Whether she hid the truth about doing it or not is what I don't know but from her tone and everything, that lady is someone very adventurous and she did all this while being a key worker in church. Hallelujah somebody.
@ the bolded.....Ameeeeeeeen Brother Dan
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 9:20pm On Aug 12, 2022
ubunja:
"you made me spread my bad side with you"...
That's all women are looking for. A man to show their darkness to. Women spread their darkness to other women all day long. If you have ever eavesdropped on that girl chat you'll know women are very very explicit in their sexual talk, like Indecency explicit, and they use the most vulgar terms ever,, but when they interact with men they switch to clean vocabulary. But they really love a guy they can be explicit and vulgar with. So when they find such a guy he becomes valuable. Now to learn later on the guy was just faking everything,,,, well it pisses them off.

What we fail to realize as men is that the world is like one big prison for women. It's a man's world. Women can't speak, dress or live the way they really want cause they've to project that image that will be favorable with men so they can benefit from men.

Which means women ,for the most part, live fake lives to impress men. So that one man who has it in him to allow a woman to express her truth and show her darkness, that man they'll love. It's one of the reasons why women will always have a special place in their heart for players, thugs and lowlife jerks. Those guys are not fazed by female nature. They have the darkness to match the darkness of women. And in them women find a kindred spirit.

Remember women are drawn to men more depraved than themselves because 1)no judgment 2)women feel at home around these men 3) women feel a moral superiority 4)women get to satisfy that "beauty saving the beast" instinct in them by trying to purify the man.

Many times a woman will dump a good man and go back to her lowlife ex boyfriend who has no morals and lives a depraved life cause she feels at home in that moral darkness and there's no judgment. Where the good guy had a moral superiority over her and she kept trying to live up to his standards,,,, with a lowlife thug SHE has the moral upper hand and the jerk has to struggle to live up to her standards. For many women this is a far better setup than having a man who's morally better than you who makes you look like the devil of the couple. Women want to be the angel of the couple.
Hmmmmmmmmm
FamilyRe: Unusual Behavior Between My Step Brother And My Wife by emmaodet: 8:08pm On Aug 12, 2022
Ecos:
grin Because of your brother knacking your wife u come write all this epistle and u expect me to read it. Oga be a man and pursue ur wife before them connive and kill u with otapiapia
I don’t think the step brother is banging his wife.
I think the step brother knows something the hubby doesn’t know and using it as a leverage on her.
Like he caught her with a man in a hotel or coming out from hotel with a man. Something like that or similar and it has made the woman to be scared and fear him.
She believes by being on the man’s good book, he won’t spill her secret to the hubby
RomanceRe: She Has Gone Worst by emmaodet: 5:23pm On Aug 12, 2022
TMTR:
Op be sincere to yourself, is this the kind of girl you want to end up withhuh someone that starts making out with your lecturer visiting for the first time immediately you stepped out, someone that has cheated on you multiple times, insults you at will including your parents, op don't you love yourself or you have low self esteem and afraid you won't get another girl if she leaves.

Do you hate yourself so bad that you are planning to end up with such a vile and toxic woman, or are waiting for when she makes an attempt on your life to kill you so that she can be with her lover when you marry her cause that's what is going to happen, op I am sorry to say this but you have no self respect, dignity or pride, tell me what is it she has over you that you are still with her.

Op you really hate yourself for wanting to end with such a woman, you don't love yourself at all.

Just wait till she gets pregnant for her boss and pins it on you, maybe you go get sense by that time undecided

Op I repeat, you don't love yourself at all and you such a weak man

Honestly you disgusts me, yes really

Someone insults your parents and you still with her, Dem never born that bitch may go try that nonsense with me undecided

All the red flags are there, now tell what are you still waiting for to dump her stupid ass, is it until she kills youhuh

They are billions of women out there, now tell me why you choose to remain with a vile, toxic, disrespectful, cheating harlot when they billions out there waiting for the taking.

Op I repeat you don't love yourself,if you love yourself you will break up with that hoe like yesterday undecided
Billions of girls out therehuhhuh

Are you really serious?
Do you know how messed up the dating market is presently?
The billions we hear is just on the paper, a large percentage of them are not family oriented bro.
If all the women are to go round to all men today, I can safely tell you at least 50% of men will end up with toxic, damaged, washed-up women.
Believe me. The future of good women for men is scary.
RomanceRe: She Has Gone Worst by emmaodet: 5:05pm On Aug 12, 2022
4teenblaq:
Op embarassed embarassed embarassed I had been a simp in my life but not up to this level..

What is f.uck is wrong with you?

Dump her ass and get a sensible woman to be with.. There are many fishes in the river bro..

You are the trophy, na she supposed to dey endure no be you...

Get your ass together and block the bitch from your life and focus on your future with another girl..
Lol

And you actually think we have enough sensible women to go around?
The world is short of that.
RomanceRe: She Has Gone Worst by emmaodet: 5:00pm On Aug 12, 2022
Profperfect:
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No sir not what you think. The thing is I won't lie too, I will be very honest she has been very very nice , she was all there for me in my darkest and lowest times , ever supportive , wanting to see me make it , she can sacrifice her grain to see that I make a tree or even a forest , its just this aspect of her. You won't believe she is all am saying if you meet her for the first few times in person I am the only one who knows her secrets
Lol
RomanceRe: She Has Gone Worst by emmaodet: 1:18pm On Aug 12, 2022
Profperfect:
Dear Fam,

Please help me out(advice) on this , I am writing at this odd hour because I have lost my peace and I can't close my eyes and sleep .

My relationship has not been a rossy one at all, I have my faults (though am not a womanizer or a cheat) God bears me witness, but believe me, the girl I'm dating and almost settling down with after some years of dating has been hell, trust issues, disrespectful, someone who told me she can never respect or submit to me in her life, I have endured and endured her, she always overrides me. I can't talk or complian of her wrong doings , she will react badly, very insulting (countlessly insulted my father and mother but I have never ever retailiated, does care about what I feel or how I feel.

Should I talk of sex? I have never cheated on her for the past 6 years plus since we met (started dating) at a young age at uni and after uni, I respect her even in her absence, but she has mingled with different guys that has cost out relationship, in all these she claims she has done nothing wrong.

The main issue of all right now is that her boss, she once worked for who she was consciously sleeping with inside office once others are not around, always, hotel, even when they (claim) or go to conference or meetings together, knowing that he is a married man, called her yesterday to give her a job offer to return . This is a boss she served years back, even during uni he kept calling and always wanting to have her, during and after NYSC he kept calling her for him to have a bite, same boss she was pregnant for and aborted for him, though she hanged it on her boyfriend as of that time and the guy didn't know . She never told me all these her self, but I won't like to share here how I got to know.

The same man she has been avoiding for years, that she doesn't want to go back to sin or her past life, but just yesterday she even took excuse sneaked out of office and went to see him and accepted the offer, then came back home called me to tell me this and that and before I could talk she said she has accepted it, was shocked and trying to reason why she did that, she asked me if there was anything wrong in her decision, she began to yell at me on phone, as usual I kept mute and ended the call. Please would I be wrong if at this point I take a bow and leave now?

Please help me push it to the front page. She is a Nairalander too, she sees nothing wrong in the wrong things she does. Let the world hear my story and correct me if am wrong on taking the decision.
Na wa ooooooooo

So upon all the TRP messages that has been flying around this forum for nothing less than 5 years, we still have male nairalanders like this?

Abeg, I don wash my hand commot for this thread
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 9:52am On Aug 12, 2022
heartofcity12:
You have the answer to the question.. The ball is in your court.
Hmmmmm
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 9:50am On Aug 12, 2022
heartofcity12:
Y’all know what comes next after that.. billing. Beware cheesy
grin grin grin
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 9:49am On Aug 12, 2022
heartofcity12:
This is why it is better to be chosen in the first place but it’s understandable that we can’t all play the same.. smiley
Bro, even being chosen won't save a man, it will only make the relationship easy for him.
Let's take a moment and roll back......We men have always being the one choosing our women. They dress up and walk in the street, we see a lady we like out of many and approach her which means a pre-selection has been done by us.
Does it make the lady immune to our approaching another woman? No
We go to the mall, see another lady that falls within our range and approach again. School, church, events just name it.
A lady may like you and give you greenlight today and next week meets Jide who just came back from abroad...handsome, good looking etc and next month meets James at an event who falls within her pre-selection too.
To me, a woman giving you greenlight or selecting you is just for the moment, it may change next week or next month or next year
Just enjoy relationship and don't take it too serious is my own motto
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 9:40am On Aug 12, 2022
heartofcity12:
Spot on
Even with the last paragraph, she will still cheat n the masculine man on the long run if he can't meet-up in other areas.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 8:00pm On Aug 11, 2022
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 6:53pm On Aug 11, 2022
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 6:52pm On Aug 11, 2022
heartofcity12:
...
i see Hoes, I see Hoes, Hoes everywhere

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