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No matter what happens, never lay your hands on a woman”

You've most definitely heard this statement a million times. It wouldn't have been a bad statement were it not for the first part that says “No Matter what”

Is this gender equality? Is this your definition of the word? Parents advise their daughters to be strong and not take shit from any man, which is okay, but on the other hand; boys are advised to take shit from women because that's what makes them real men. Are you kidding me?

This is why we're gradually raising boys who will end up getting abused by their partners and see nothing wrong with it.

The media keeps peddling garbage quotes like "the day you raise your hand on a woman is the day you cease to be a man" but a woman dosent cease to be a woman the day she hits a man.

Now, in case you haven't gotten it yet, this post isn't about promoting gender based violence; it's about teaching our guys that it's okay to defend yourself if she starts hitting, it's okay to shove her if she won't stop hitting you.

Some people will quickly jump in and say "why don't you be the man and walk away". Let me tell you something; the only way to take care of bullies is to stand up to them, if you walk away, they'll come back for you.

"No matter what happens, never hit a woman", Anyone peddling this statement is trying to excuse abuses on one side, anyone making such statement is trying to silence the other side from standing up for themselves.

I'll always remember the story of Amber heard and Johnny depp; that's a prime example of what happens when you let abuses from the female gender linger, all in the name of being a man.

I also recently remembered something about the case; it wasn't Johnny who came out first, it was Amber. That means, if she hadn't come out to falsely accuse him, johnny would have remained silent and kept suffering.

That's what will happen guys, if you allow an abusive partner to continue, it's not going to stop until you address it.

This dosent only have to be about relationships, tell yourself you're worth it, and that nobody, not even a girl has the right to hit you, and if she does, defend yourself.

Defend yourself! Defend yourself!! The law will always excuse self defense, I don't know why so many guys don't seem to understand this. If a man tries to attack a woman, she's advised to go for the weak points, use any weapon around her to inflict as much pain as possible (rightly so), but when a man is being attacked by a woman, he's advised to be the bigger person and walk away.

It's shown in movies a lot, a woman hits a man first, and as the man's about to hit back, the woman goes "you're not really going to hit a woman, are you?"

Scenes like that make guys feel it's okay to be hit by women but it's an abomination to hit back.

Another statement I hear from people trying to excuse shit like this is "you can't really compare a woman hitting a man to a man hitting a woman" oh really? That statement is the most archaic thing I've ever heard; no matter how ripped you are, if a 13yr old girl punches your nose, or your eyes, or your throat, you're going to go down! Gender has nothing to do with it. Guys feel physical pain too

Never ever excuse abuses from the female gender. Here's the thing about human beings;

If a baby is sucking it's mom's breast, there are times when the baby tries to be naughty (usually due to boredom as a result of it no longer being hungry) by biting on the nipple. Now here's the thing, when it bites her, it usually looks at her face to see her reaction, if the mom looks at the child sternly, the child will know better than to try it again, but if the mom ignores it, or even worse; smiles, the child will bite on the nipple next time—harder!

That's humans for you, give them an inch and they'll take a mile. It works for all genders but I'm being specific here.

Defend yourselves guys, never excuse abuses because you want to be a gentleman. When I say "don't excuse abuses", it doesn't only have to be physically, if the situation allows you to walk away, you can walk away and file a lawsuit, but if the situation dosent allow you to walk away, hit back

This post isn't encouraging guys to hit girls, it's encouraging guys to hit back (if there's no other choice).

If I have sons, my advice would be "boys, the day you become the aggressor and hit a woman first, you become a disgrace to the male gender and a sorry excuse for a man. But if she hits you first, defend yourself however you can"

If you're a guy and you were too lazy to read this, at least take this home; never ever lay your hands on a woman, but if she does first, make her no longer a threat.

If she's man enough to throw a punch, she should be man enough to receive one as well. Nobody has monopoly of madness.
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If there photos, website, social media too clean, Run!!

They're just tryna impress

Organic growth is the best,

Taich:
Bank PHB that year, one day cars will run on water.

They even gave me my first glimpse of what a self driving car would be like in one of their adverts

13hrs : secret soldiers of Benghazi


In a year i watch that 6 to 8 times

Lovina , linda,
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thebosstrevor1:
The block function works only when you connect to internet, it is not as if the tv wouldn't work after stealing, you can use the tv as long as you want but don't connect it to the internet.

Did you read the article you posted?

Whats the use of a smart tv that's not connected to the internet

Where luxury

NAN

mbaise1000:
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Can you please tell us any other country it is happening? Me, I haven't seen but I have seen many too generals of other armies

It's not common, but the united states it is used not as much as here.

I also wondered but never asked, but certain I've seen it on documentaries and movies

My brother was invited by a client from thats based in the US who came for her wedding last week,
So he decided to attend, his first time in lagos.
Second day in lagos he was stopped by police, he wasn't in a car that I'll say they suspected he was a yahoo boy.
Guy was on a bike.

You mean they're fake iPhones?
That someone can't notice just by looking at the body and user interface?

Old news

ayourbamie:
They even look alike... How come they didn't know in the first 3 years

They thought it was the lords doing.
Like for like

Enceladus:
Bros I think you are the one with the half information or you are just trolling. How do you think they will get those hashes?

Bitmaps, screen data colors etc will be used to form the hashes

dangoteinlaw:
As a architect myself if i get two yahooboys client in a year I'm okay lol. Not that I support fraud anyways I'm only doing my job. Haha

Finish, no stress

I use the oraimo 20k.
Use infinix fast charger to charge it and takes 3 hours to reach the last pilot light.
But it keeps blinking.
Has never been full

FreeStuffsNG:
That privileged photographer just captured history in pictures. It's obvious that Afghans want the Talibans to rule them.
Now it's obvious that you don't need khaki green camouflaged shirt, trousers and boots to win a war. I wonder why we keep wasting billions on military uniforms not made in adire , aso oke and other local fabrics

Funny.
But those their clothes actually blend with their environment though.

fergie001:
Taliban fighters in the Afghanistan Presidential Palace hours after President Ashraf Ghani fled the Country.

images as iconic as the last supper

Fvckyouall:
So the esteemed US forces held their shit for 20 yrs but why could the US not win the war, instead they ran away with their dicks between their legs.

The 2500+ dead US soldiers and the 20000 with serious war injuries and the trillions of US dollars have all been to waste.

Am here waiting for Russia and chinkos to invade US

In conventional warfare there's rule of engagement to avoid casualties.
The soliders obey those rules.
But the Taliban Don't.
Eg, you can only shoot when a rifle is pointed at you and yoi perceive danger not just because someone is with a weapon.

Fvckyouall:
Women in taliban controlled areas are forced to wear prudah which is a hijab with extra covering for the faces hands and legs, women are also stopped from going to schools, work and using mobile phones.


US are looking at all of this and folding their hands, later they keep talking about how caring for human rights is important.

We can all agree that after the religion of piss, US is the next problem on our list

Bleep you saying?
The US is what even held their shit together all this years.

RedEnergy:
From the article, it said the bank confirmed he was their staff before he got the visa at the Embassy. And whether he remembers the name of his MD and Chairman is irrelevant. There are Nigerian senators that can't recite the Nigerian national anthem, were they removed from Senate because of that? I can bet my money on it that Buhari doesn't even know the full name of his ADC. Buhari calls Osinbajo as Osinbande, did he get removed from President office for that? The UK immigration were just being racists. And it's good the man is suing them because he will win the case in Court. God just answered his prayers because he will surely cash out

Lol, he can only win the part of illegal detention for 10 days

I just looked at that website and it's trash, basically WordPress.

MoodysMood:
More than a decade ago, these guys were already showing these things in movies meaning they were already trying it in the lab and knew it was just a matter of time before humans are cloned. I believe they're just waiting for a good-ahead before they commence manufacturing humans being, just like the likes of Toyota and Volkswagen do in the automobile industry.

Our god will do ours for us, amen.

It's actually possible to clone human too.
Its the same process as the pets DNA and etc but ethics doesn't allow that.

jumper524:
Honestly I've read the allegations made against kyari and it's not that I support his criminal acts but why on earth does the United States want kyari?

Kyari is being accused for abuse of office in Nigeria not albeiting international scam.
Honestly this is a pure local affair, Kyari should be arrested and sentenced by the Nigeria locals if found guilty of abuse of office. the USA can provide evidence to back up this claim, he kyari committed a local crime of bribery and abuse of office which is a local offense.
Honestly I don't understand why the USA needs him so badly when there's no allegation that he played a role in the international scam.
Except there's something I'm missing.
Please we learn everyday and I'm open to reasonable opinions.

I too believe there's something else that they haven't told us yet that'll make them want him there.
He's is just a case of a bribed police officer which isn't an uncommon thing in this part of the world, I'm surprised they even bothered about him.
Maybe he's way into this than we know and they're waiting for him to deny this new allegations or the government to shield him before they release the next damning allegation

Daft comparisons

By order of federal warrant, goes to tell you that whatever you doing online although private can be gotten whenever.
Wise up and stop crime.
The people you rope with fif be your downfall too.
I remember for uni when i no d too reason things, boys see my talent the use me run fake documents, ID and images i make sharp sharp money,
Until my number enter owerri, i d receive calls to work on ID n receipts, the day them hold 2 of them na d day i fear,
Since then i no the take eye see all this guys way of living.
Quick money sweet but peace no go deh, if to say popo ask those boys where them d get ID etc naso i for don join them

It's like I'm lost here,
First off is the golden gate bridge in Europe?
In as much as we all know thats heavily inflated price for such bridge how do you compare price used to build bridge decades ago with one now.

Akposy:
Kpomo
Fresh pepper
Tomato
Seasoning cube
G. Oil
Spices
Onions.

Wash and boil your kpomo with salt, seasoning and ginger/garlic till it is soft. Set aside.
Fry your onions in oil till it is fragant and translucent. Add in your roughly blended (or diced) pepper and tomato. Fry very well.
Add in your boiled kpomo. Fry for about 10 minutes or so
Serve.

Thank you,
I'll try it this week,