Foreign Affairs › Re: Court Orders The Arrest Of Ex-President Zuma For Contempt by emperorAY(m): 11:02am On Jun 29, 2021 |
A country with strong institutions |
Romance › Re: by emperorAY(m): 4:20pm On Jun 20, 2021 |
Omo I Sabi cook that jollof rice of a thing .. |
Romance › Re: Girl Slaps Boyfriend For Breaking Up With Her In Public by emperorAY(m): 9:58am On Jun 05, 2021 |
If a girl dares to slap me ,she immediately loses her privilege and I'm slapping the shit out of her too. Well i don't even see this happening |
Nairaland General › Re: Benin Electricity Distribution Company Is Frustrating My Life by emperorAY(m): 7:53pm On Apr 28, 2021 |
customer service delivery is terrible on Nigeria |
Politics › Re: Sanwo-Olu To Perform Ground Breaking For Massey Children's Hospital by emperorAY(m): 3:31pm On Apr 28, 2021 |
Valkan: can't you see the 3d concept art or abi wetin 3D concept are done by architects, that is what im pointing out to you |
Politics › Re: Sanwo-Olu To Perform Ground Breaking For Massey Children's Hospital by emperorAY(m): 1:00pm On Apr 28, 2021 |
Valkan: The 3d modeller that did the building did well.
Let construction start first the architect* there is no profession in construction called 3d modeller |
Celebrities › Re: Cancer: Helen Mccrory Dies At 52 by emperorAY(m): 10:54pm On Apr 16, 2021 |
OjukuwuHusband: Wow....so this was Bobby axelrod's wife Bobby from billions... RIP to the dead |
Romance › Re: Blood Covenant. How Real Is It by emperorAY(m): 5:50pm On Apr 16, 2021 |
ignorance is bliss most times |
Romance › Re: Fooled My Girlfriend Of 4 Years To Thinking She Was Going Out With Another Guy by emperorAY(m): 5:43pm On Apr 16, 2021 |
surprise her and go for the date... well she still free to explore other options since you're not married yet |
Romance › Re: A Mother Of Three Is Wiliing To Make Out With Me by emperorAY(m): 8:15pm On Apr 15, 2021 |
married woman?? run o, uhmm run |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Prince Philip Worshipped As A God In Younanen, Vanuatu (Photos) by emperorAY(m): 8:56am On Apr 13, 2021 |
Now that their god is dead what next? |
Politics › Re: El-Rufai Announces Plan To Lay Off Public Servants In Kaduna by emperorAY(m): 8:54am On Apr 13, 2021 |
Most agencies of government are just revenue guuping avenues. They are redundant, unproductive and portray a danger for the future. take an example of the ministry of works in most Nigeria state , they still contract out common road maintenance and most government rot away without basic maintenance. Then why on Earth do we have that agency if all they do is sign papers and sit in the office to gossip.
Nevertheless, the political class needs to take the first step in cutting the enormous cost of government before they can lay the burden of the incompetency on the masses. |
Politics › Re: Performance Survey: Rate Your Governor by emperorAY(m): 8:43am On Apr 11, 2021 |
jide sanwo olu:4/10 ( almost average, with the resources of Lagos State he should be doing more)
yahaya bello: 0.5/10 ( very terrible governor) |
Romance › Re: Thrills Of A Lagos Babe by emperorAY(m): 11:26am On Apr 10, 2021 |
thank you for this story, I've been reading for the better part of 3hours. please we all need the concluding part |
Crime › Re: We're Investigating Source Of BombFound In Primary School - State Government by emperorAY(m): 4:13pm On Apr 08, 2021 |
ok o |
Politics › Re: Elebuibon: Let Our Children Wear Hijabs, Traditional Beads To Schools by emperorAY(m): 4:10pm On Apr 08, 2021 |
here we go again |
Romance › Re: I Slept With My "Bestie"! by emperorAY(m): 9:40am On Apr 08, 2021 |
bestie talk is pure nonsense. |
Romance › Re: Guys, How Do You Show Love To Your Woman? by emperorAY(m): 9:19am On Apr 08, 2021 |
baba na redpiller |
Romance › Re: Help!!! Please How Do I Handle This Situation???? by emperorAY(m): 6:27pm On Apr 01, 2021 |
Terry44: Hello nlander, Had to create this account for anonymity sake.
Kindly forgive my Errors.
I am a guy in my late twenties, at least I can say am doing good for myself in this Buhari's next level. I've dated this lady for two years and I'm almost considering walking down the aisle with her before I started noticing some changes with her, mind you she is 24.
Issue all started when I left Abuja for Lagos for a contract job, before then she had been a very good lady and faithful too. For the time we dated she never demanded from me untill she lost her Step-mum, even at that her demands were untypical of a Nigerian lady, because she always fended for herself unless I willingly intervened.
Problem started when she first visited me and I noticed her long unusual calls, I confronted her but she convinced me with the normal just a friend stuff from female folks. Fast forward to the present day, she has kept her profile of been a good lady before me and family. I even introduced her to my people and from time to time she spends reasonable time with my ailing father and younger siblings.
The actual trouble bothering me is this, toward the end of completing my contract job, she had accommodation issues and I couldn't lend a hand due to the fact that I had a lot to take care of financially and such emergency spending was not budgeted for. She was so much desperate that I couldn't help looking at her. So I had to use part of my younger brother tuition fee and also borrow from my colleague to help her secure a self contain apartment as well as everything needed to make her feel comfortable, she collected the money from me to give to the agent who was supposed to source for the apartment. She resolved to squat with a friend pending when the apartment would be ready and acquiring necessary furnitures.
Almighty God been so good to me, I got a permanent job offer in a multi-national firm in Ogun state. She came to visit me and I had to pay for her flight ticket to and fro, she just left my house on Tuesday after spending two weeks with me. During her stay with me I found out that the friend she told me she was squating with all those while has been her Ex-boyfriend. And the same person we started having issues over previously due to the fact that she was having sex chat with the said Ex and also another guy who is a member of their family church, which she told me is nothing to worry about that the ex was disturbing her that he his still having problem moving on .
I'm at the cross road and unable to decide whether to end it or wait for her to apologise. Though, I haven't told her of my findings, truth be told she's everything of a good woman and has really supported me except for my latest findings.
Am as confused as hell now, I be not even confronted her, my mind is playing games with me. Pls somebody should talk to me. All the thoughts I have in mind are so far futile.
NB: no insults please. I'm really unstable at the moment. i will advise you to break up with her because you might never forgive her. apologies don't wash away the sins of a cheating girlfriend |
Politics › Re: Failure To Register For NIN Attracts 14 Years Imprisonment - Pantami by emperorAY(m): 6:07pm On Apr 01, 2021 |
adanny01: I know there are many Nigerians below the age 18 and those in remote areas who have not registered. Having said that, if we double the number of people that have been registered, 102m, it gives us a fair estimate of the population of Nigeria.
Remember, our voters register has 82m. Voter turnout last time was less than 30m.
That 200m estimated population of Nigeria is grossly far from the actual I've carried this line of thought with me and I've concluded in no way is Nigeria's population over 150 million at best. the estimated 200million is a very organized scam from the pit of hell |
Romance › Re: Fear Girls Don't Allow Someone To Use U by emperorAY(m): 3:35pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
you are doing nothing wrong bro |
Romance › Re: My Experience Today At Coldstone,port Harcourt. by emperorAY(m): 3:11pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
xxxXXXxxx: You tried, perhaps you could have timed the process and only initiate a convo with her when already doing payment transaction. In that way you could have gamed her, anyways there are many more available ones out there another tactical angle |
Romance › Re: My Experience Today At Coldstone,port Harcourt. by emperorAY(m): 3:08pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
why on Earth did she expect you to pay? so much for gender equality. you are the real man. |
Romance › Re: After All The Trauma She Put Me Through, She Said This by emperorAY(m): 3:04pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
o boy focus on your book and stop having emotional troubles at your very young age |
Romance › Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by emperorAY(m): 2:59pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
simp simpleton simple maga. |
Romance › Re: Opinion: Women Are The Reasons Men Treat Them Badly [My Experience] by emperorAY(m): 8:33am On Mar 28, 2021 |
marriage is a dangerous thing in present day Nigeria, with the frequency of divorce nobody deserve to Marry out of pity or because they've dated for 100years. back to your topic, you did well not copulating with her but you also gave her a faint hope by allowing her perform wifely duties . |
Romance › Re: What Women Fear The Most (this Scares Them). by emperorAY(m): 8:22am On Mar 28, 2021 |
for avoidance of heart break, don't go through your partner's phone. |
Politics › Re: El-Rufai: Kaduna To Stop Relying On Federal Allocation Soon by emperorAY(m): 5:50pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
b |
TV/Movies › Re: Reps’ Bill Empowers NBC To Decide Tariffs For DSTV, Others by emperorAY(m): 8:43am On Mar 02, 2021 |
while I think price control is a good economic policy DStv subscription is Monopoly driven |
Politics › Re: FG To Flag Off Eastern Rail Project On March 9th by emperorAY(m): 5:19pm On Feb 28, 2021 |
rail technology should be the future of the transportation in Nigeria. for a city like Lagos with 20 million people not to have a metro rail line is appalling. |
Celebrities › Re: Bobrisky Blasts Nkechi Blessing Sunday Over Tattoo Saga (pictures) by emperorAY(m): 2:35pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
this ashewo work hard o, them fit drag your ass 20years later self |
Celebrities › Re: Moyo Lawal: It Took Me 20 Minutes To Wear This Jean Despite Losing Weight by emperorAY(m): 9:59pm On Feb 24, 2021 |
nonsense and ingredient |