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Alesh Keem: plz let this go to the front page
https://www.nairaland.com/1569766/special-present-all-nairaland-lovers
i spent 17-18 hours doing this.
THANKS!

I've suggested it already since yesterday. It's in the hands of the super MODs now.

What exactly is the nature of what you want a designer for... maybe you can get a good designer that can work with you online. Ibadan is not exactly a designers' haven

Dude, this image is an obvious manipulation. If you take your time, you'll see the picture isn't genuine.

CAN... a serious menace to the society. Now they are questioning the rule of law. Now are they not also blood thirsty hypocrites? What happened to turning the other cheek when slapped? What happened to paying evil with good? What happened to forgiving those that offend you 77x7 times?

These are all clearly stated in the bible, yet the highest Christian body in the nation isn't living by it. Sad!

God help the lives of those who see these ones as role models and mentors.

Sunglow: So in other words your father beelped your mum before marriage during olden days?

I know you are just trying to get on my nerve but you'll have to try harder to make me forget my morals and hit back at your parents. I respect my parents and I sure know your parents are older than me so I'll accord them the same respect.

Check this thread out maybe it will be of help.

https://www.nairaland.com/1507301/lets-draw-hand-lessons-how

As a lady... first of, kudos. I'll go for the first considering it's simplicity and it can somewhat be represented easily anywhere.

Won't mind making something for you when I'm chanced though.

Once again, kudos... and all the best.

I see people asking the OP to go ahead with marrying him for the child's sake and I know as well as you know that that's a very wrong move.

Let me ask you. Do you think your child deserves to be in an unhappy home? Because a home without love can never be a happy home.

You want to marry him for the sake of your son, don't you deserve happiness too? How will your child be happy when you are not happy considering you'll influence him more being the mother. Or are you planning on raising a sadist?

The best you can do for your child is save him from an unhappy home. His father should support him if he wants to but please don't let your happiness and heart pay the price because it will have a rippling effect on even the child you are trying to protect.

jimmy4x: Honestly they are, and u made sense posting them but the point still remains that, you can't do it your and ignore God's way, u myt or still gonna be in regrets.....ok, aren't there other very, really important aspects that could cause you headache other than, body odour, vagi.na odour, spiritual husband nd d other aspect you emphasized on
I go into sins at times nd beg for forgiveness buh ow long I'm I gonna do that, what if I no longer have the grace to amend my ways, what if I die today, what if Christ's coming caught me unawares? These are things you should always think of before going against the words of God.

Sir, I'll like you to understand that not everyone is a Christian and some people believe more in rationality than religion. Going by the statistics of marriages that have failed due to sex related issues, you'll discover the OP has valid points.

When a Christian comes and says his/her faith doesn't agree with such, I understand. The part I can't tolerate is trying to force their belief on others. For Christ's sake, respect the opinions and beliefs of others.

Christians are not tolerant of others at all and it's a very bad trend. Going by the years of psychological and mental torture muslims have been put through by Christians over the centuries, sometimes I ask myself if they should be blamed for their violent stance.

The essence of the whole jargons written up is for us to accommodate others regardless of our beliefs and association. If anyone feels they are superior, they should preach it to their members and family and not always try forcing it down the throat of others.

Not all those that call me father, will see the kingdom of God.

gunners160: my man dis is nt abt religion bt misleadin of information besides let me put it 2 u .weither a lady is sexual active b4 marriage dat does nt mean she wuld b gud at d bed dnt we hv some ladies dat hv being havin sex since jan til date bt yet dey r nt well exposed.marryin a virgin does nt mean u wont enjoy ur sexual life.men sha

Sir, different strokes for different folks.

farem: WHEN I READ THRO THESE YOUR 'REASONS', I COULDN'T HELP BUT SHAKING MY HEAD.
HOW ON EARTH CAN YOU CONFIRM THESE BY JUST HAVING SEX WITH A GAL?
HAVE SEEN A LovePeddler/FORNICATOR WHO GOES ABOUT WITH DIRTY VESSEL?
ARE U NOT AWARE THAT MERE OPENING IT FOR U SUGGEST D 'WIDENESS'?
SO SPIRIT HUSBANDS WILL BE DETECTED BY COMMITTING FORNICATION?
SO A GAL WHO BENDS ON MARRYING U WILL COMPLAIN SHE IS NOT SATISFIED BY U?
You came here promoting the way of Perdition through your warped upbringing, exposure, orientation and inclination.
I have never seen any one as deceived!
YOUR SOLUTION (If you are not willing to listen to d voice of reason): Marriage is not about sex, go out and be free with prostitutes

I'm sure you know you are referring to his parents and family with the bold part... I'm proud of your parents, they brought you up perfectly.SMH

bluuu: i hope you tell ur daughter to let herself to be tested by every guy that comes her way wen she grows up.
is it sex that guarantee a successful marriage??

I don't know if i should call you bro or sis, but whichever you are... sex plays a very important role in marriage. Maybe you should do a little google research and see the number of marriages that have been destroyed on sexual grounds. Check statistics and see that it is a serious issue in marriages, or why do you think people commit suicide for being impotent and sex enhancement drugs sell so much?

Note: I'm not supporting the OP but as much as you guys might want to bring religion and sentiments into this, the guy has a point.

gunners160: dis is nt abt being a virgin or nt bt misleading people is totally akward hw wuld u fil if a guy shuld do dsame 2 ur own sis?

Are they kids? Everyone has a mind of their own and God blessed us with brains to think and reach conclusions.

This is someone's personal opinion and you guys are acting like its more than that. Or is there a form of guilt pricking you somewhere?

No one is asking anyone to agree with anyone, its a free world. There's a reason God gave you freewill, so that nobody can force you to do anything against your will... Use it accordingly.

nneh1: this is not how born to be great people reason.you can never be great with this reasoning.

And how the hell do born to be great people think? Why don't you just respect people's opinions rather than judging them without even knowing sh*t about them?

You go talk this kain thing for public, person go tear you slap, you go con dey form victim up and down.

Next time when you got nothing reasonable to say, kindly read, shut the hell up and close the f**king thread.

Peace!

Damn! World War III just started on this thread.

Mr Stunna, abeg calm down. You don't need this. Neither of you needs it. The problem has been solved, no need to create unnecessary enmity and utter such hurtful words. This isn't a good way to end the year.

Please you guys should let peace reign and respect each other's opinion. God bless us all.

Merry Christmas and a happy new year in advance.

Mr. Stunner... I really don't know why some people chose to attack you even though your story clearly stated her intentions.

I thank God for you that you ended up knowing the truth and gave yourself freedom.

I can give you numerous stories of men who were unfortunate enough to come marry a Nigerian lady and move her to America. Some even ended up being hypertensive due to what these women put them through.

Nigerian girls have really upgraded. Even those of us here who sleep and wake with them still have to minor in psychology to figure them out, let alone you over there.

Just follow your rational mind next time. When things seem abit confusing, imagine what's happening to you is happening to a friend and see what advice you'll give him as a third party.

And please don't let anyone recommend anyone to you for marriage, they can recommend for friendship though.

Stay sharp and safe, God will protect everything you've laboured for and provide a woman to appreciate you for who you are and not what you own.

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I'm single and seriously searching too

Kanwulia: But children are too young to understand. Let them enjoy the 'DELUSION'. I use it to my advantage for now.
I will wait till God does not pay their school fees!

Kanwulia: Right now I let them go to Church like I was tortured as a kid. I want them to EXPERIENCE it all. As soon as they are ready aka when they have their first crisis in life, I shall help them understand the fraudulent concept of religion. For me, going to church provides an avenue of socialization. I love my home QUIET for 2 hours EVERY SUNDAY!!!!

When the time comes, I would ask them to examine the lives of 'religious' people compared to mine. If any religious person lives better than I do, then they have it made!

Lol. Isn't that a little direct. All my dad did was just let everyone be at a certain age. Harmless religious discussions arose and he made us see how irrational and hypocritical religious people can be though indirectly. We made our decisions and we are better for it.

Kewt: Moral standards. Largely because what is morally right can hardly be religiously, socially or lawfully wrong. infact, most religions draw up standards from morals.

it also helps the child have a balanced view instead of eventually turning out to be a fanatical bigot.

Hehehehe... These bigots are really bad business for any society still trying to achieve some level of development such as Nigeria. They have very myopic views that can do nobody any good.