Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by erico2k2(m): 9:24pm On Apr 06, 2023 |
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Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by erico2k2(m): 6:49pm On Apr 06, 2023*. Modified: 9:25pm On Apr 06, 2023 |
gabbytabby: It’s not a crime you fit take your mouth ask for anything when requested to provide a quote 1) Transportation 2) Stipend 3) Full day pay 4) Your children school fees 5) Your wife hair weave join.
We meet those who have no logical sense of reason and call people evil for not meeting their thief demands. The mature minds will not take request that they are unable to meet and keep it moving.
no This one off me, I never said anyone was evil rather the Action is Evil. There is no way on Earth I will ask any one to come to my site from Ikeja to PHC and not give them the JOB, But that's me and how I feel about the issue wetin me sef sabi, who owns the money lost is the one that feels it, I rest my case! |
Politics › Re: Rivers, Kano, Abia… 27 States Attracted Zero Foreign Investments In 2022 by erico2k2(m): 10:11pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
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Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by erico2k2(m): 7:55pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
FEGEITOK: I am summarizing my post, the post that you quoted.
I am telling you that the bolded which was copied from the original post you quoted says the very same thing you are saying. Oh ok noted/ |
Politics › Re: Governor Wike Commissions More Projects In Rivers State by erico2k2(m): 6:20pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
TheGoodJoe: Wasting billions and using building to say infrastructural development.
We need development in,
Job Creation Agricultural growth by supporting integrated farms Revitalization and staffing of health centres with free health programs. Revitalizing local schools with quality cheap to free educational programs.
Wike is doing none of these. Just wasting billions. What state are you from please? |
Politics › Re: FG Gets $800m From World Bank For Subsidy Removal Palliatives For Poor Nigerians by erico2k2(m): 6:18pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
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Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by erico2k2(m): 6:14pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
FEGEITOK: This line above makes the point you are making.
Fourthly, no one owes you anything.
I included the rest of the story to show that one can refuse to agree to a claim of entitlement and yet kind enough to assist someone in the position of some who carry on with a sense of entitlement.
In short by being entitled, they may be missing out on more.
I am also making the point that someone can be favored who did not show signs of being entitled, but they can go ahead and scuttle the opportunity given to them and the opportunities that might have been given to others but for their mistakes. Im seriously struggling to understand your post |
Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by erico2k2(m): 5:50pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
FEGEITOK: First, business is not a charity.
Secondly, running business on sympathy is not the best way to go about business.
Thirdly, no one will win 100 percent of all the jobs he bids for. This is why we spread out tents very wide so that they will have a greater tendency to catch something.
Fourthly, no one owes you anything.
Now about your sob story.
I have been there. I understand the feeling. I treat my artisans well.
I even gave the last but one transport to come and work for me. I gave him several modus of rice (enough to feed his family twice a day for at least a week) when he was going in addition to paying him for his services. I also gave him one of my dress shirts I no longer felt like using. He had complained that he had no food to eat (and I happen to know that he is married) and did not have transportation. But to my chagrin this guy stole money from me. I kept some cash in a drawer and he touched that drawer and the money was gone. Can you imagine how I felt to have discovered that someone I did the above for did that to me? I know because I confronted him and he confessed after he had returned home. One more thing, this guy I allowed him to sleep over a couple of times in order to save some of the money he would have spent on transport back home and back to the site the next day.
My motto in life is that one must treat those he can gain nothing from as well as those he can gain something from. That to me is the true test of character.
The last one that came gave a quote I considered was too high. So I gave him 3 times the amount he spent on transportation to come and dismissed him.
I lent my plumber money when he was served court papers to pack out of his existing accommodation. He came back just last week to ask for more money to the tune of half a million to roof the house he is building, that one I am not willing to give though.
Some of us treat artisans this way because of the bad experiences we have had. But everyone is different and should be judged for who he or she is and not based on what others have done.
But you cannot blame us for refusing to act on sympathy all the time, it’s a dog-eat-dog world out there. And people are out to take advantage especially if they feel you are better situated than them.
They think, let me chop from him small, he get plenty. He no go feel am. Opportunity will never be distributed equally, some people will do better in life than others.
Even Jesus said we will always have the poor with you at Matthew 26:11.
So if I can help someone, I will help someone. Like I have said above, several individuals liked me at some point in time and stepped in to help me make the money I have made, and the position I have attained, so if I can, I will be helpful because I know that everyone is fighting one challenge or the other. Bross I think you are missing the point here, Help is deferent but when one demands it's a claim of self entitlement. ofcos you can cook from home and give to your workers on site, I done that on my build, but note they never demanded for it. |
Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by erico2k2(m): 5:41pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
dangoteinlaw: That is what they call wisdom in their book, wasting people’s time in the name of “getting a quote”. That’s how one fool made me mobilize a POP guy to his site at the end he didn’t get the job. What pained me was the pop guy left his tape rule at home and i had mine but i urge the pop guy to be a professional by getting his own tape and he spent 3k at that spot to buy a tape all because he relied on my word that the guy in question will surely award him the job. Honestly I wasn’t worried about myself becoz I knew the pop guy has been home for months because job traffic was slow. Inside my car his wife was even calling and praying for him that he will get the job and it all turned out he was just a pawn to one fool who thought he needed to “get a quote”. That is why illiteracy scares the shit out of me because for this life if you happen to be at the bottom of the food chain u go too suffer oh, your life will be used as a game of chess and you might be sacrificed as a pawn to save a knight. Its Evil bro, I agree with you. |
Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by erico2k2(m): 5:38pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Coiner: How about POP, how do you calculate sqm. 🤔 You draw the shape of the ceiling on a paper then you multiply the length by the Breth there goes ur answer. |
Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by erico2k2(m): 5:26pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
gabbytabby: Roofing carpentary. Once I got 120k, 150k and 550k and the 550k guy was the one who had done all the carpentary from foundation but because I had done roofing for a bigger project I knew his 550k was way out of line.
I went with the 150k ended up paying 200k cos of variation but he is now my go to construction carpenter (kansho). Nah I do not agree with you, I as a roofer do not need to come to your site to give you a quote. I might have a standard price per square meter if I don't, I can use your roof plan or your building plan to estimate the job and give you a quote. I can also give you a quote from a foto you sent to me next phase is quantity of materials once we agree I move to site once I get empowered. Also with windows, doors. It could also be said as a mater of fact that the Contractor/Engineer or the supervisor will already have a team he/she uses most times. Mind you I'm talking from a clients perspective. Asking someone to come from a long way to your site to give a quote and ending up not paying them for the day and giving them just T fare is evil. cos thats a whole day wasted. |
Celebrities › Re: Bros Jay Kay Dies In An Accident by erico2k2(m): 7:40pm On Apr 04, 2023 |
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Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by erico2k2(m): 7:26pm On Apr 04, 2023 |
gabbytabby: I always request 3 quotes for comparison except if he is my usual trusted and tested contractor. ok for example sake what will you request 3 Artisan in person to your site in to get a quote trying to understand you here. |
Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by erico2k2(m): 1:03pm On Apr 04, 2023 |
gabbytabby: Some are so used to taking advantage of people around them that they think it’s normal behaviour.
I would always pay for transportation and stipend if I ask someone to travel down to give me a quote. That way if I do not use him at least he is not out of pocket. We all know how Nigeria is and decide as an individual how we choose to contribute to the hardship or provide some relieve. It’s the character factor. Quick question, why would you call someone to your site and not use them? I'm curious. |
Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by erico2k2(m): 12:58pm On Apr 04, 2023 |
kalu61: A lot of chest beating in this thread. Make wuna rest abeg.
Clients and artisan get levels. The amount being debated may not even matter to some clients or artisans but in whatever strata you find yourself, just understand that life comes with some unwritten rules. Kindness, consideration and empathy should be applied appropriate as we deal with our fellow humans.
A lot of clients have gotten information given to them here free of charge by good spirited individuals. Nobody charged them. Some ended up getting jobs because this singular kindnesses.
Standard and quality comes at a slight cost. Don't hang your bag where your hand no reach.
See my profile for your building design and construction South East of Nigeria and Port Harcourt. Bross leave that thing, weather anyone like it or not, if you nor pay artisan on NL you go pay elsewhere. The fact is this, the same job you do in Kaduna another person does it in Lagos. The lagos man might not include Tfare to his cost but if you i n Kaduna is willing to do a job In Lagos, you should be ready to lower your cost to accommodate tfare if not what's the point? |
Celebrities › Re: Portable Taken Back To Prison After Failing To Meet Bail Conditions (Video) by erico2k2(m): 8:33pm On Apr 03, 2023 |
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Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by erico2k2(m): 8:30pm On Apr 03, 2023 |
sonnie10: Let me give you a story close home to me. My younger brother here in the states has two 18 wheelers. Each is mounted with a CT and MRI equipment. They service hospitals and other facilities. Many times, they would drive with that equipment to the facility, sometimes for over an hour, Only for the patient to refuse.
The law is that patient has the right to refuse any treatment even for no reason. You cannot tell who would refuse before hand. Secondly, they cannot bill insurance for a service they did not perform . That would be the end of that business plus jail time.
In those instances, the return with nothing. It is cost of doing business. A technologist is paid $40-50 per hour , the truck driver is paid almost the same. Multiply this by about 3 hour they spend on such trip.
Being a service provider, they are careful not to lose the client because sometimes, on a single day trip they could perform exams on more than 10 patients at $500 each x 10. Fact What I also see here is people being workmen only instead of treating it as Business. |
Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by erico2k2(m): 8:25pm On Apr 03, 2023 |
FEGEITOK: If I told you how much I had to spend to get contracts, travels, several times, running 30 day proof of concept, calls, bringing my team to the site without even being sure of a deal.
So like I said before Sonnie is right. But for certain people, he is wrong because they operate outside the enterprise deal circle (B2B). They deal in the B2C market in which different rules may apply.
FG, state governments and even companies do not as a rule pay in advance of signing the contract.
Until the dotted line is signed, you are spending your own money!
As a matter of fact, some have started sending a letter with the words: " Non-Obligatory Proof of Concept/Demonstration" when they invite you to come for the discussion.
These stories remind me of a guy who flew in state of the art Ricoh machines to NNPC to demonstrate and then NNPC did not end up buying.
This guy was literally in tears and reached out to me to help him sell them.
If you do enterprise deals, you will understand that even the decision to buy can take months or years, but then at the end, the deal is usually a very big one, so his ask was an impossible to fulfil one. To the Bolded I do, however I do it in the west hence I said in the 9ja context, no company or persons in the west will pay you transport money for you to come give estimates or demonstration. Then again, we post our jobs as adverts and if you chose to give a quote and asked to come execute the job, means of transport is up to you. It is assumed your T fare is amongst your billed cost. Im short form, if I come in Nairaland to say I want to do a specific door and my house is in Sambasi forest and you in Lagos says you want to do the job and we agree on your price I would assume the T-fare is inclusive what do you recon? |
Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by erico2k2(m): 7:26pm On Apr 03, 2023*. Modified: 5:57pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
twinskenny: lol chief this is totally different! People you mentioned above will recieve payment at the end of the day right? I think he is right however the 9ja mentality always come into play for fear of losing a Job and going home empty. Even FG of Nigeria only pay mobilisation once contract has been awarded. There are times where clients has paid Transport and workman went AWOL so the question is, what's best practice? |
Health › Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by erico2k2(m): 3:42pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
abobote: Both of you are wicked and selfish very |
Health › Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by erico2k2(m): 3:42pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Zeal0000007: I and my gal are planning settling down despite genotype not matching , she's AS same with me, but because of medical technological advancements, we visited a specialist who told us that we can still marry if we so desired to be together.
Just that If we can afford the cost of going for foetus testing whenever she's pregnant so as to ascertain the genotype of the child. According to him if the test is conducted and it turns out to be AA or AS, we can keep it, but if it's SS we determate, I have spoken to my gal and we are yet a decide despite this seeming goodnews that we can still be together if we choose to, she really wanted us together same with me. On my part, I have been in terrible and toxic relationship for the past 4years that almost claimed my life but God served from her. And this my current gal came along and she's exactly what I prayed God for, she's really like a gift to me, since she came I have had peace of mind I don't want to loose her because of genotype but thank God for this technically medical advancement , please I want to know if anyone have undergone this treatment before , what's your experience or experiences Look for AA avoid story that touches, when the sufferation comes even Love cant help you. Most churches wont even wed you cos they know what is involved. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Effects Of Cashless Policy On The Church by erico2k2(m): 3:40pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
blaise26abj: You carry the temple of the Lord in you . Open your house to everyone my brother Thats my House its different from the house of God, abi nor be church you talk?Una go dey study bible like blind bat, chey nah the people wey bring Christianity country I dey live for the past 23 years, them no behave nothing like Nigerian Christians and by God's grace their lives better than Nigerians own 100% and that's a fact, so my question, where did we get our own brand of Christianity? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Effects Of Cashless Policy On The Church by erico2k2(m): 1:57pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
blaise26abj: Why did you not look for a police station or motel to stay ? Why should they open the premises that has expensive gadgets to a stranger in the middle of the night? Who do you think you are ?
Try to run a small organization and return to say this nonsense again . Just yesterday I found out how much my church spends on diesel per service and the fear of God hold me . Some church workers get paid salaries because that’s what they do full time . You will carry your two tolotolo legs go church, sit in a nice environment , listen the sermon on good speakers with air condition you might or might not have in your house . Yet you want to open your mouth to condemn churches ?
How do you expect the pastors to eat and take care of their kids ? The flock takes care of the Shepard. If you don’t have money to give , go and give him foodstuff . there is nothing like strangers in the house of God ,so the good book says |
Christianity Etc › Re: Effects Of Cashless Policy On The Church by erico2k2(m): 1:55pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Fut9ure: There should be a law requesting religious organisations to pay tax
Pastors are cashing out hence there is a problem in the UK with some of our big churches |
Career › Re: Can You Work In A Place Where You Submit Your Phone Everyday? by erico2k2(m): 8:52pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
Rapmoney: It is a normal work rule for employees not to use mobile phones during work hours, except using mobile phones is part of your job description.
However, due to the fact that some employees tend to flout the rule, some employers, especially in one-man businesses, have deemed it fit to ask employees to submit their phones when they arrive work in the morning and collect back after work.
As a worker, can you work in a place where it is required that you submit your phone?
Drop your opinion. No big deal there, I am not allowed to take my phone into work due to the nature of my JOB,so if the Employer demand such from his/her employees so be it |
Politics › Re: Nigeria Has Generated Only 5000 Megawatts Since I Was Born— Femi Otedola Laments by erico2k2(m): 3:34pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
Ijaya123: It is the Transmission section that Siemens are working to upgrade currently. why U dey waste time dey enlighten them. |
Politics › Re: Nigeria Has Generated Only 5000 Megawatts Since I Was Born— Femi Otedola Laments by erico2k2(m): 3:34pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Man Dragged Off Flight For Saying Tinubu Must Not Be Sworn In As President by erico2k2(m): 3:31pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
Beolly: My peeps here total package was 7m not your miserable 5m. Buzz me ur account and I will send your remaining installments to you. package ke U must be a learner I dnt deal with low level persons like you.Like I said b4 keep hustling U might just be lucky and get to Hungary then U go realise say nah them dey sweep street for Uk kpass now foxtrot Oscar. |
Politics › Re: Man Dragged Off Flight For Saying Tinubu Must Not Be Sworn In As President by erico2k2(m): 2:41pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
Litmus: Nigerians are already believing that the man's actions were paid for by either one political party or the next. Meneawhile some claim his name is Ayekoto, which may or may not be a Ghanaian name. The man possibly will not be investigated or fully investigated to his root-foundation where the useful information for national security most likely reside.
This is yet another example of why Nigerians need to make Evidence one of thire abiding principles and not settle only for what you think or what others think. By all means speculate but never wholeheartedly believe that what you think is fact or that other peoples opinions and views are fact or informed by facts. Fact |
Politics › Re: Man Dragged Off Flight For Saying Tinubu Must Not Be Sworn In As President by erico2k2(m): 2:40pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
Beolly: Yes I wanted to get to Hungary through a friend some years ago. We were all at a stage at some point in our lives. You dey UK wey almost every d1ck and Harry From Nigeria dey use school package enter. I don't have a UK account. Send me your dollar account domiciled in Nigeria and I will buzz you u MF. U nor reach bross.nah from N5meter up dey enter my account anything less nah reject. people wey dey use school levels enter Uk get at least N5m in their bank they nor broke like U. |
Politics › Re: Man Dragged Off Flight For Saying Tinubu Must Not Be Sworn In As President by erico2k2(m): 1:45pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
Lekan239: pls since buhari is jubril from Sudan, should we now say Tinubu is Ibrahim of Saudi Arabia? ahah this is funny |
Politics › Re: Man Dragged Off Flight For Saying Tinubu Must Not Be Sworn In As President by erico2k2(m): 1:45pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
sparko1: I think is a good place to end the argument, BTW I could I have sworn I have never asked you to feed me, I guess your next statement is, I can feed your family, oh right, inflation.
If my explanation doesn't help, you need something else, maybe try the hospital, I am not in the business of self medication. here we go.I choked I'm nit labeled ipob yet as usual.Once there is no logic in their explanation they throw their dummy outta the prawn. |