₦airaland Forum

sgtponzihater1:
Sharp one. Average cost so far for this project?

Stanleyallen17:
What can be used to service brake caliper pins and piston, without having negative effects like the rubbers expanding after some time. Please help.

2mercy:
https://www.herald.ng/kaduna-farmer-arrested-for-feeding-herdsmans-cattle-poisoned-cassava/

Enyinne:
I need cost per sqm to crosscheck against direct one .

Enyinne:
Nice parapet , pls help me with contact of the people that did it even though my project is in Lagos and what is the cost

1Sharon:
A bit

1Sharon:
Sis I see what you did there

I see you shining

tit:
I been wan say i fine pass am, but make i no spoy her runs

Mariangeles:
We are Africans. Let us be honest with ourselves.

A man going alone to visit his would-be mother in-law empty handed is a red flag. Something to worry about.
What was the purpose of the visit?
Even as a female, it is still wrong to go visit the mother of the man you're going to marry empty handed.

michlins:
Keep up. It's not easy at all

Hotbutt:
How I wish I can travel abroad even if it's for a day.

Johnnyplus01k:
So in summary a guy in abroad should marry akata because they are better than the Nigerian that we thought are cultured and well-mannered.

somegirl1:

A lot of Nigerian men import wives from Nigeria for the wrong reasons.
They pick home-based women over Nigerian women already abroad, foreign black and white women with the mindset that they're easier to manipulate, subdue and control.
Truth is, the only difference between home-based women and Nigerian women abroad is exposure and availability of options, it's only a matter of time before the home-based lady adjusts to her environment.
Rather than bring a poor girl from Nigeria abroad to dictate to her what she's to study and expect her salary as recompense for putting her through school, how about these men invest in themselves, study nursing, medicine etc and make the money themselves.
I would never hand over my earnings to anyone if I had a choice, no one will wholeheartedly.
The moral lesson from these horror stories is for Nigerian men to stop attempting to use home-based women as investments and to stop being delusional about these women remaining subdued in a liberal society.

By the way, Nigerian women abroad also fall prey to home-based men who mistreat them once they leave Nigeria. It's not just the men that have sorrowful tales to tell.

sweetmelanin:
Every now and again, I hear new stories about some men getting "betrayed" by a Nigerian spouse whom they've brought abroad.. however, I can't help but notice that they are often the cause of their own misfortune. As harsh as it sounds, some men have had to learn the hard way that ignorance and hero-complex will cost a man far more than he can ever bargain for..

Category 1: Those with a warped mindset of the " 'cultureless' akata"

My experience:
Let's go back to my uni days some years back.. the dating scene was wild, brutal and exciting.. back then, the disparity was huge between the "freshiees" and UK grown blacks (unlike today) .. but yet, I was opportuned to mix and mingle with so many young Nigerian guys who were in the UK as international students at the time.. some also young working professionals ( of which are still life-long friends of mine up till today)...

..whilst on the dating scene, I noticed that a lot of Nigerian guys seemed to have a mentality that "akata" girls were "too exposed" compared to Nigerian girls back home, so they played games with them, often ditching these girls to marry home-based chicks.. I remember having such a silly and childish dream of relocating to Nigeria back then . Hahha.. and thought I would end up with a "freshiie" who would 'take me back to the motherland'.. haha. though I ended up with someone with a migration story just like mine; we both moved to the UK as kids in the early 2000s.. and my husband is a male 'akata' to core ..with no intention whatsoever of moving back.

Truth be told, a lot of guys who had temporary flings with "akata" girls ended up moving back to Nigeria, and are still regretting their decision till today.. Many returned to find their girlfriends had moved on and married older men. Others attempted to bring their girlfriends here to find out they've been used as a mere stepping stone to "greener pastures".


Category 2: Those who used and dumped white women for papers and then brought their "ungrateful Nigerian wives" abroad.

Men who are desperate for papers often opt for the easy way out: marrying an older white woman (and in some cases a poor unsuspecting black woman from another African country who has papers) ... they do this with the mindset that they would bring their "real wife" from Nigeria.
Now when their 'wife' divorces them.. these men will scream betrayal, forgetting the trail of heartbreaks they've left behind.. Now how do such men think they will use a foreign woman, break her heart, and yet live happily ever after with an imported bride?? how??

In summary,

When I hear stories of bitter divorces and men killing their spouse whom they brought from Nigeria I can't help but think this could've been avoided if they focused on settling with a so called "akata". Yes, she may not feign fake 'submission' like home-based Nigerian chicks, but what makes her less likely to 'betray' or mess you up is the absence of entitlement mentality.
...someone coming directly from Nigeria typically has a dog eat dog mentality caused by an oppressive system of lack. Whereas an abroad based chick already learns not to depend on a man from as early as 16 - 17 years of age.. most already have part time jobs as students and know the value of working for their money.. they won't take crap but at least what you see is what you get.. abroad based girls (akatas) are not angels but are far better than the pretenders back home y'all believe are "wife materials".. but people generally hold on to an illusion over what is real.

Islie:
Afreximbank backs financing deal



https://www.newtelegraphng.com/nnpc-shops-for-1bn-loan-to-revamp-pharcourt-refinery/

MASTAkiLLAh:
sorry for derailing but hypothetically, how much would it cost to clear a '99 toyota rav4 at Apapa. Thanks bro

ately1:
alright bro.. guess you want us to have big issues this new year ba??



just know say na you start am. and you go finish am. dont do what you will regret later Mr man.. seems you dont know who you dealing with..

ately1:
I dont have your time man. you do your biz I do mine. if I ever same anybody here or anywhere. I wouldn't be replying. just know you are enemy of someone legitimate business I feel sorry for you man.


its 2021 grow up and act mature man


like you said. report me to any agency you feel like. .

you do your car biz I do mine. why are you so pain....


abeg grow up boy

damoceile:
There should be a railing on the edge where the man was standing... It's way too dangerous.

RIP to the man tho

tildats:
I wont be dumb to allow you scam me with your petty trick. Perhaps, you need someone to enlighten you of the crime you are committing (deliberately or unconsciously). How do you get your shipping invoice and valuation in lagos with a BOL from the Benin Republic? Please, do something legit while you have your freedom.

schicbanj:
good day NLander's
Please i need location of Quarry site in Abeokuta and it environ's

its urgent pls.

LeJeun3:

One car, 2 different vins tags ....:

LeJeun3:


Bro what's the update?! Sorted out....

ately1:
you sound depressed!! sorry for that. I pray God heal you..

you dey fear say I wan comot food for your mouth. I have sold cars to 30-35 people on nairaland. go check if I was reported for fraud. till today. they still use their cars. and travel with it. with out custom wahala. I do legit business. when I buy car. i still do legit custom document. . you dont know how its done man.


instead for you to find legit business partner to expand your business .. you go about all naira land post looking for enemies to fight.


bad belle.. I can even connect you to someone that likes to ship cars from abroad. if you want.


just change your ways. man. stop hating. you getting older BRo.

no be every body get patience. to wait for 1-2 months for their car to come down from abroad.


they want to see what they are paying for . that why we show them easy alternative...

stop hating. do your business while I do Mine.

I dont defraud people. if not. nairaland for don block me since.


please be a brother keeper. and face your own business.

Mrford:
No sir

kopell:
Smooth finish thanks

Mrford:
Ozuoba port Harcourt.

08136933109