₦airaland Forum

tablu:
The current realities on the ground do not reflect the ideal situation In the uk.Even though the young man OP may be a of a spendthrift.I sincerely tink he should slow down considering the fact that he is still a student but the priviledges accorded him are way more than what is available to the GF in nàija.He should slow down on how much he spends on her cos a 21yrs old girl in naija somtimes do not have their priorities straigthen out and can easily abuse priviledges cos they dont know where or how the money comes.

ahaha I meant to type y2k compliant lol

VanOmiyale:
I do not think there's anything wrong with giving someone you care about monthly allowance as long as it is convenient for you especially being a student yourself. You only need to put your foot down that you will not give a dime higher than the agreed amount unless there is an emergency that is life threatening.

student do work too.when I was a student I was working

Ladylaura93:
Also I know a lot of guys who do that and more, it's called responsibility. So while you are there contemplating how far is socially acceptable to go for the good girl you have, another guy is going the whole nine yards for her. If u need public opinion to decide if you are doing too much, you don't have a mind of your own and are definitely not a good choice of partner.

what's sort of responsibility does a bi owe a go rather than love?

tablu:
There is nothing wrong with it especially when it is a serious relationship.If the guy has the wherewithal to do such he is only assumin his responsibility as a man should.It just shows how well he will take care of his wife in future.

wake up . that's old fashioned way of reasoning. Stop it . its outdated be UK compliant

queebeediva:
excertly when I say except if the girl is responisible and good cause I no good and responsible girls won't be so aggresive for money instead they will always pray to God to bless you and inturns aPpreciate you more .

well this what I'm saying.lets face it.no well to do Man want to marry a woman who can't do jack to save her a.

queebeediva:
am equally married and to a lovly ,caring and hardworking man who nos that his family is his piorty and who doesn't give a dame about my take home pay! So what's the point?

we ain't talking salary here . besides.the OPS go ain't working.she is a leash who will dump him if it all goes pear shape if U get me.fact is fact is I will petronise the school of thought where the go gives an indication of what she could achieve and let OP empower her towards that end. Not collecting chicken change here and there.

kingsilly:
It's crystal clear he's from a comfortable family, all U guys ranting his mom or siblings needing his help don't hold much water to him, his family are all fine on their own, they don't need his help..him doing it means he can afford it and dosent really dig deep into his pocket, and the receiver being a girl will take advantage of that especially if she knows perhaps he himself dosent sweat that much to get his allowance that he further decides to part with her, it's all understanding, if OP decides to cut her allowe down and it really cause an uproar then we have issue @ hand, but otherwise its fine...he made it clear she needs it, Pls f**k the idea We have in our head of what does she brings to the table, he just chose to help someone and that person turns to be his babe..it's not his fault.

I get what you are saying but be honest in the Nigeria Context where no money =No love..can't you see she went mad when OP wanted to reduce the money?when that happens it means she got no sense of humbleness. The word is if OP don't give her the cash. Someone else is bound to give it to her and that my friend is fact.sad but true.what do you recon?

queebeediva:
it a pity you are saying this and I hope your girlfriend who maybe is planning to settle with you one day will no how just stingy you can become . God forbid I marry a man who can not assist my family and it is men like you that spoit other good men.

I take it you are not married and to young to understand what marriage is.I am married to the most wonderful woman I can ever wish for.do you know what the proverb teach me how to fish and don't give me fish means?I got married to an industrious woman and I empowered her.her business as we speak is worth more than 15th with 18 staff in PHC.so you tell me what allowance do you still expect me to place her on?I have 4 sisters behind me I available always told them do not be a liability to your be or husband be be industrious let him add value to your life and God will bless your hustle.Not to become paint nails and mouth handbag wadding kinda girl who sit on their broke a and ask for money here and there.Do you in anyway belong to that class?

This is my local polling station in North London. I'm the only official there.no party Agents. No police.no army or thugs. No queue.no fingerprint readers.no rubbish. So when are we going to get to this level in Nigeria?

queebeediva:
My brother there is noting wrong in helping anyone talk more of your girlfriend if the girl in question is a good and responsible girl and you on the other hand feel you can take up the responsibility to assist her then it up to you but I will rather want you to assit her so she could add value to her life e.g giving her money for her education,or establish her to become an entreprenure but assisting her on material things is not good cause at the end of the day the money has not yied any profit in returns. Again the girl in question should not make it a piority that you must pay all her bills . Poverty is a bad thing again I say and I pray God to give me so I can give more out to help.

good advice but from going to school we know the scope.if she is this materialistic and says relationship will end if money stops then she has other options and motive. Not even my wife would ever be on any sort of monthly allowance from me.

adrainuche:
She hsnt asked me too buy her wrapper I occasionally buy her gifts on mothers day ...

how much do you give you brothers and sisters monthly. Abi them nor need money?

umarc19:
God Bless u my brother.., how is mocking somebody's religious leader 'Freedom of Speech' for goodness sake?

freedom of speech means you can talk as you like,freedom of religion means you are free to practice any religion you like, one goes with the other you cant separate them,if you do you would be classed as hypocrite.

aim5:
Guy, I've been around Muslims all my life, and they've treated me better than any Christian has. The propaganda against Muslims is really corny. These rednecks are just looking for an excuse to start problems with others, like they always do.

you dont get it do you, name one thing any religion has done to help man kind,I dey do press up dey wait your answer.

shahydbinaliyu:
na today we dey hear lies about islam? later them go say na lie noni

O dear, you missed the point, the news never said the Dead where Muslims,plz read carefully,this is how people carry actions without cause.Plz read the heading of the News again you hear abeg!!!

lexy2014:
Choi...if na so I no do again. Make I de manage my LASTMA de go small small. Afterall all na uniform

Kolo

masuga:
We need to be fear in our comments on this kind sensitive issues. For the fact that you do not believe in somebody or his religion does not say you should be mocking the religion (Islam) or our Beloved Holy Prophet Muhammad (SAW). Why do you have to insult the Holy Prophet and think any Muslim will stay there and allow it? God has instructed us in His Holy Book (Qur'an) that we should not even mocking any of His creations not to talk of any of His Prophets Including Jesus. For you t be a complete Muslim, you must believe and accept Jesus as a (Prophet Issa) as one of the Prophets. Why must you organize a program about Prophet Muhammad (SAW)? isn't that just to provoke and humiliate the Muslims around the Globe? Neither Islam nor Muslims are violent but those people that keep mocking Islam and our Beloved Prophet Muhammad (SAW). this issue at hand is not about been violent or blooding but we can not fold our arms to see anyone no matter how well placed you think you are to mock our Religion and Holy Prophet (SAW). Keep to your region and believe and let us keep and believe ours. have you ever see any mocking video or programme of Jesus, Jews, and Christians or any other religion or believe organize or mastermind by Muslims? Let us be fear with our comment pls!

People will always Mock, if you like preach from now till the world ends that will always be the case,but wont it be nice to be the bigger man and ignor them and practice what you preach which is meant to be peace.I live in N8 london that's Jewish area, tottenham FC is 10 mins drive from me down N17,do you know how many times the Jewish people have been mmocked in a certain name? now these days they are mocking themselves with the said name and it has turned irrelevant to everybody that was their own way of dealing with it,Not violence, however holy you thin you religion is there is bound to be people out there who will take the pi$$$ and trust me friend these set of people who start these troubles are not necessary religious the believe in Nothing.

speach101:
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shahydbinaliyu:
besides. . . . . if theres any element of truth in the news. . . theres no picture of the shot officer and dead members . . . if they are truly hurt and killed. am very sure we will see the picture and videos everywhere online. . . . always telling lies against islam . . . even if its true they are shot. what is the prove that muslims attacked them. . . aye oniro against islam. jesus.prophet mohammad o.ni da
. . .e no go beta for lairs against islam . jesus and prophet muhammad

Its true, its been on CNN, they wont show fotos of dead people whom where shot on TV, but if you have CNN you will see it on the news there,that and Nepal earthquake are headlines.

ZITRAN:
na lie not evry1 went to missionary schl

na lie abi ok what school teaches English that was not missionary 1960, name one p lz

aim5:
Shame on all the Nigerians who are siding with these treacherous white "Christians".

kia another twist to the drama, you just added colors,all I see is two idiots who got themselves killed and others cheering

shahydbinaliyu:
tsw . . . . go read his profile in wikipedia

I think you should go back and read it and quote where it said he was a christian?early English schools around the world where set by christian missionaries go and check,you as a muslim would have attended a missionary school if you grew up in the 60s

lexy2014:
Ol' boy, c how their police make sense. Dem b like soldier. I de go join

You need to do 400 push ups first then swim under 3rd mainland bridge then waka from Lagos to Abuja,then you are good to go

kolanpas:
it is stated in the quran that do not insult their gods so that they will not insult yor God. That is why u hardly seen any islamic cleric insulting jesus or any other gods. For those of u that was saying that it is only muslims that do fight for their God, i guess u dont know history. When the European countries were governing by church if u hold any believe other than that of d church u will be put to death by burning. Galilieo galile was burnt simply becos he said the earth was sherical, by the church

Was that not the Dark days?you want us to go back 400 years backwards?if you check b4 christ where xtians not burnt alive?did you not read about what could happen to you if you own a copy of the Bible?so bross whats ur point?

shahydbinaliyu:
thats not the answer to my question

I gave you a very simple Answer, HE IS NOT RELIGIOUS ie believe i n nothing , garrittt?

9ousky:
U all can say what u like but I am a Muslim, I am not a terrorist, Islam is perfect but I am not... My religion is my life,the Almighty Allah is my God, the prophet Muhammad (pbuh) is his messenger... Ur views on my religion is ur problem, ur criticism on my prophet is ur Wahala... Alhamdulilah Am a Muslim..

Thank you very much and u shall never lack in ur quest for truth.

shahydbinaliyu:
the question is mel gibson a muslim or christian.?

he is not religious but was he killed? that is the question or did he receive any death threats of any sort?

shahydbinaliyu:
the respect that muslims have for every prophet of God. no religion has it. . . maybe when jews start to make fun of jesus on media. . . we will see what will happen. . . fools wey call themselves christians. .religion wey jesus never mentioned. . . jesus never go church or command you people to go church. . you fools abolish moses law that jesus said he came to fufil, . . you fools believe hes son of God. and he die for your sins. is it possible for God to sacrifice his alleged son just to forgive your sins? where did God command offering by sacrifice/? foolish pagans. . . . am just really so annoyed upon all these conspiracy theories against islam, kilode.
. . when hitler murder humanity. nobody balmes jesus or chriatianity.. if a muslim transgress, you blame entire muslims,
. . if someone is wrong, we should say hes wrong. this film.is wrong and insultive on islam. . . i know only few reasonable christian will condemn this. . . . idiotic fool that knows nothing about islam and yet judging islam, . . always listening to heresay. . never did verify it. . . no worry. . we will all meet on judgement day

Guy you are speaking out of your anus, go and get a free copy of the bible and read it,see if Jesus never said his body was the church,You are angry with the deaths of them two defending Islam fair enough I wont hold you to that but sounding ignorant is taking the biscuit.

braine:
I don't understand how people are like that. Moslems don't like their prophet insulted, yet some people do it on purpose! Its bad.

my guy next time dem insult Mohamed carry gun see where it ends best of all try it in the South if you rely trust to defend what you believe in U hear !!!

shahydbinaliyu:
tell me just 1 anti jesus film or magazine you have read? even though jews hate jesus. they never go this far. you provoke someone. he fights back and you call him terrorist. smh

Don't be ignorant watch Mel Gibson film *The Passion Of Christ*
or did you not see the youtube mock up of Jesus? I mean this one
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9VnTO-2ZBPk,
So stop defending stupidity, these guys are no soldiers of Islam they are plane Dumb A$$ people brainwashed.

teeowl:
why didnt they organise an anti-Jesus protest to balance the equation. must everything be violence with these people?

cos no one will give a damn

simpleseyi:
Deuteronomy 20:10-15
"When you approach a city to fight against it, you shall offer it terms of peace. "If it agrees to make peace with you and opens to you, then all the people who are found in it shall become your forced labor and shall serve you. "However, if it does not make peace with you, but makes war against you, then you shall besiege it. read more."When the LORD your God gives it into your hand, you shall strike all the men in it with the edge of the sword. "Only the women and the children and the animals and all that is in the city, all its spoil, you shall take as booty for yourself; and you shall use the spoil of your enemies which the LORD your God has given you. "Thus you shall do to all the cities that are very far from you, which are not of the cities of these nations nearby.


Exodus 22:18-20
"You shall not allow a sorceress to live. "Whoever lies with an animal shall surely be put to death. "He who sacrifices to any god, other than to the LORD alone, shall be utterly destroyed.


Deuteronomy 32.39-42
“See now that I myself am he! There is no god besides me. I put to death and I bring to life, I have wounded and I will heal, and no one can deliver out of my hand. 40 I lift my hand to heaven and solemnly swear: As surely as I live forever. 41 when I sharpen my flashing sword and my hand grasps it in judgment, I will take vengeance on my adversaries and repay those who hate me. 42 I will make my arrows drunk with blood, while my sword devours flesh: the blood of the slain and the captives, the heads of the enemy leaders.”

Great, but did you see anybody in modern days killing anyone who aint Christians?F00lish is he who thinks his/her religion is superior to others, when you travel enough you will realize there are more religions in the world than you can count.all