₦airaland Forum

Nicepoker:
Let's see your pre-wedding pics first

Correct...

For your phone to be hacked you would need to give access rights to whatever bloat or malware that's installed. It's an android policy. No app has access to your phone even when installed tilk you grant them access rights

How much did it cost you altogether the visa and flight ticket

Goodlady:
Mind your biz.
Minding ones biz is the surest way to avoid trouble. And if you wanna be a detective, use another sim to text or snap a picture evidence of him n the co-fornicator, send to your neighbour's whatsapp. Make sure it ll be difficult to trace it's from you.

That's how you people will allow someone to marry rubbish

Reportbutton:
I love this, this shows that he's human, and he's not on drugs, only druggies get their eyes all open..
God bless tinubu, God bless apc, God bless Nigeria...
No matter what is said about him, my vote belongs to jagaban 😍

zombie

mrrobz:
Iwas living outside of nigeria and I returned back in 2015. I rented a 1 bedroom apartment, in the same compound there was this beautiful girl not my type of woman but she is beautiful tought.
She came to introduced herself and from there we started talking , she uses to come to my place to watch movies. I have dstv, she sometime help me in the kitchen. I noticed that she was coming to me more than I needed her anytime I am home she would come , like I said since she was not my type I took her as a sister.
It happens that one time out of the blue, we had sex, I felt so bad and I apologised to her after. She said it was fine she didn't feel bad about the the sex , she did enjoyed it and she is ready to give me more sex anytime I am ready for it.
I asked her about her boyfriend she said she was happily single and I have told her I will think about that, honestly in the country where I was living before friend on benefits is not unusual and I was into it but I had never imagine that we have ladies in Nigeria who are also into it , her telling me she was ready to give me sex anytime without being in a relationship with her came up as a big shocked to me.
I told her no problem and I had made it clear that I am not her boyfriend and she is not my girlfriend we will be friend on benefits only and no emotional attachment , we will stop the day one of us will find true love which she had agreed.
From 2015 to 2019 we were sleeping together no relationship and I stopped sleeping with her when I met my wife to be, I told her I am in a relationship with someone I love and we have to put an end to it.
I wished her good luck and she wished me the same that was how I put a stop to it. I didn't see her much again until I moved out few months later , I still had her number she also had mine . I could see her on whatsapp changing pictures and status, but I had never chatted her and she didn't chat with me too.
In 2021 my babe traveled out of town, she is studying nursing and out of the blue she (friend on benefit )messaged me on whatsapp asking me how I was doing and we started chatting from there , she told me she was now a youtuber she was having some issue with her laptop if I could let her use mine, I didn't want her to know my new adress but I had to help her because youtube was her source of income , the next morning I sent her my adress around 9am I was off work and expected her to come soon but she came around 7pm with the excuse that she was babysitting her friend child she picked her up late , I said no problem I welcomed her inside.
I gave her my laptop she was in the parlour editing her videos while I was in my room, when I came out the parlour she told me she had seen a photo of me and my babe on my laptop wallpaper she said she was beautiful , I thanked her and went back to the room. I was waiting for her to finshed editing so she can leave because it was getting late but he was still at my house at midnight .
I asked her if she hasn't finished she said no she had few more to go. To cut the long story short we had sex that same night and she has even alow me to have anal sex with her , the sex was wonderful but I still had to remind her I love my babe so much that me and her are only friend on benefit which she agreed.
She said she doesn't mind helping me out while my babe is away and I have agreed t we continued doing it from 2021. Her birthday was last year september I bought her a nice phone for her youtube chanjel even december a laptop for christmas so my own laptop and phone can rest.
My babe and I are getting married on february 25th and I have told the girl on 29th of december that I want to stop having sex with her because my wedding is coming up , and I want to be serious and focus on my wedding and wife to be. She started crying saying that I have wasted her life for 7 years, she had rejected so many men that has come to ask for her hands in marriage because of me . she said she had vowed to do anal sex with the man she loves and she did it with me because she loved me and she expected me to marry her instead of marrying someone else .
I reminded her about the agreement we had we were not into a relationship, I had never promised her marriage she was free to accept those men who came to seek her hands in marriage rejecting them was her own faults it has nothing to do with me , she said no she loved me and were expecting me to love her too. She was so angry at me she cursed me over and over again she said I will never known peace, my marriage will fail and will not hear the cry of a baby in my house which I have rebuked her sent it back to her in 100 folds . But I am still shocked because we were never in a relationship and I had never promised her marriage and I don't know why she cursed me. I know her curses will not work because I didn't make any fake promises to her and I am not the cause of her rejecting men that came to seek for her hand in marriage but I feel bad because this is not the way I expected our friendship to end. I have tried to contact her so we can settle this issue amicably but her number is unreachable and she is not longer staying at her old place and I don't know where she is right now. I don't know what to do and what do you think I should do , advice me please and sorry for the long story

Women most times think they can be strategic. Well, you are greedy bro. There is nothing like friends with benefits with Nigerian ladies they put on emotions

defman1010:
My girlfriend uses a fake account to chat with me on Facebook

She even booked an appointment with me for a sex session which I told her am not interested

That I have a girlfriend that is ok with just that I like the way she chats and vibe

Last week my girl came to spend the weekend with me, when the light came I had to help her plug her phone, and behold her Facebook was open I checked the account and my chats, and everything she was the one

I just lost the love I had instantly but I have to keep my cool,

As it stands now I don't have any feelings for her again and I have told her we need to talk am planning to break up with her I hope am not overreacting over this

I just feel like her moves were childish and stupid
One-year-old relationship and she still dey test me to see what?

Trust issues and seems like you aren't giving reasons to be trusted or she got a terrible past.

How are they doing that under your nose... You have malware installed delete them

dniceguy1:
[b][/b]hey guys,
Although, we know that "life goes on " as they say, but some life challenges doesn't seems go with these rules,or let's say it does, but after some hurdles,
So, let's share our experiences as a 3rd class graduate.
.............
Mine is a little bit funny cos after one or two interviews with stories that touches, I think life is about to end,
Although, still in search for job WITH ZERO HOPE but I STILL thank God for his plans for my life.

Create an identity separate from your certificate and you are good to fly

sqlPAIN:
Rent is not the only issue. What of food,clothes, school fees(my mother is currently the one paying the school fee of my first child, my father refused to help me in anyway), furnitures and other essentials? And I'm still currently looking for a job, I lost the last one (security) few months after my 31st birthday and things have been hard.

Hmmmmm you get mind sha.. Marry when e never sure for you. Use parents as backup in case e cast... E sure me say na your dad de feed your wife too and kids ... You dad is truly a man .. and e sure me say na that house you give that woman belle. And people like you that feels entitled are always very lazy to work.

ahnie:
Show her this picture of herself 50yrs from now,I bet she won't be proud of herself.

I don't think so... 50years people will see more crazy things as normal

Nice

Thinkam:
This is a match for senatorial and hoa candidates, Obi won't get 8000 votes in Anambra.

Obi will drop out of the race latest December

Atiku is coming

Na wa o December don finish na

olusledge:
When I say violence and strike action is the only thing this government understand .. stupid of ASUU to call off the strike on the basis of verbal agreement , they are teachers they should know more

They would have died of hunger too. They were looking for pamper as an anchor to call of the strike so they can give reasons why they did.

zumbigbo:
Bros, no wahala. Spray scent wella, look extravagant, tell them you are not interested in women but like hanging out with them.

After short time, their brains will be telling them to test you out of adventure. When they let you in, straff them wella

the less interest you show the more curious they become

Mystic216:
Just imagine
Why ordering journalists out
Last last the tory don come outside
Radarada

Chowder

Pukkalolo:
One of the most steady lies society tells us is that women are smarter than men. Moreover, in my experience, I don’t think women are necessarily smarter.

Many times, when it comes to real life situation where intelligence and critical thinking is needed, they don't really perform better than men.

For example, in a work situation the other day, couple of guys were brought together in a group: they easily collaborated even when they didn’t even really like each other much, but they still got the job done quickly and efficiently.

But when couple of women were brought together in a group, not only that nothing was got done, it also resulted to unnecessary drama where two women insisted that they would not work with some other woman.

Men are smarter that is why many of them go into head cracking jobs like engineering, Tech, Financial analysts, Architects , database analysis. Women aren't as smart as men; Supposedly, this is the reason they run towards jobs such as customer care rep, secretary, front desk, TV show host, air hostess or prostitution.

The only situation where women are smarter is their ability to manipulate and exploit men

Even at that they aren't smarter. Rather mens sex drive are high as a result they try to bid for a partner that seems to fit their taste. And this makes women indulge in more than one transaction at a time. The moment you take the sex drive from most men then most women's relevance will be reduced to less than 10%.

Manoftheyear:
Please what could that be?

You forcing yourself to move on and cut ties. Not easy but it's possible.

Hazlett1988:
Please who ever wants to do business with this guy that calls himself an hacker should be very careful because he is a scammer, He scammed my sister even after i warned my sister not to trust him, Tho the DSS are already working on getting him but I needed to let you guys know abt it so you all be careful and I will appreciate you repost so others will be careful

You did business with someone that registered on December 19th furthermore, id ask about the clause during the dealing cause hacking is a 50-50 chance what I tell people when I make any account recovery deal is I tell them I take 30-40% if it doesn't work. Cause sometimes your efforts might just be futile and time, data is spent.

Thing is all advice to make you stronger will be null and void. Your love will overwrite you senses... You are doing what you won't be doing on a normal day. To come out of this shit is at your own pace and time .. no advice can work on you... The more you try to leave her the more you miss her. But it takes just one thing to end the feeling at an instance.

Devdevdev:
You hardly see Nigerians teaching coding or talking about programming related stuff on on social media, especially on Youtube. This is because this is actually a legit way to be a successful person and it involves a lot of hard work, determination and consistence.

Nigerians only like to propagate get rich schemes and fraudulent stuff like plagiarizing books to post on Amazon or some rubbish Ponzi scheme. The common thread that links all these is that they don't involve much work and all you have to do is just do the little, then sit and wait for money to start pouring into your account. I admit there are a tiny minority of people who make money from these, but it's usually for a short period of time until it crashes or they get banned from Amazon, or get arrested, but the majority of people don't get shit, rather they jump from one get rich scheme to the other until they realize they've wasted their time.

Programming will never be saturated with competent programmers especially in this country because majority of people don't have the discipline and delligence to actually become competent programmers.

For the past month I've not been on social media. I deleted my Twitter, Facebook Tiktok, Instagram and vowed to never check status on WhatsApp because that's a very huge distraction. I only use Nairaland and Reddit, particularly for programming related information. I deleted every movie from my laptop and haven't watched TV for weeks.

How many people can do this? How many people can sit at a desk staring at a computer screen for 12+ hours everyday?

Nigerians are very lazy and are addicted to quick gratification and this works in the favor of programmers who are serious, because it reduces the competitiveness of the job market.

Let's link up... 0.8.1 88 2.6.6 175.. I have just one friend with this mindset.. developers I meet are not the passionate ones just the ones that are into it cause it has money.. no discipline whatsoever.. well what's your tech stack? And your language (s)

Truth is no one is holy... Question is do I fear God? Will I continue to live in sin and be proud of it. But if you don't believe in God at all then you are free to do what you like. Me too get my own numerous ways I de offend God daily. But I can't be proud of sinning

Wagwanbrethren:
Funny how some lots despise the USA cos of the religion they practice. The USA will never support any sort of terrorism, take that to the bank.

As for Russia, it's all talk and no action, like usual. Won't forget when the US army tore them (Wagner shit-boys) into pieces in Syria, talkless of NATO as a body.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Battle_of_Khasham

You invade a country, launch all sort of missile and expect them not to retaliate? Come on, mate!
Only in the masturbatory dreams of Putin and a few of his cronies and trolls. If they can’t win and are, in fact, losing in Ukraine, how would they hope to win against the whole of NATO?
Funny!

not a fan of any party but it's unfortunate Russia is being distracted economically and otherwise and Ukraine it's just the floor for the distraction with the funny president behaving like a fool ... Using Ukrainians as bait to NATOs plight... Russia has allies too you know and many counties are neurtral in the war.

What if it's a cooked up story... If you have two WhatsApp in your phone. Like and share....

udofia234:
Good evening every one!!!

I have an issue at hand, I'm in a serious relationship with a lady, in fact I intend marrying her, she spends her weekend with me, during her working days I check on her at her place of work and she's always there, she's so committed.


Just this Monday! A friend of mine said he saw her come to the shopping mall with a guy and the way they where on each other he's suspecting she's dating the guy, I just waved it off because I still went to her office that day and I saw her myself and that there's no way she could be the one, he felt embarrassed, so I told him anytime he sees them together again he should snap them and call me if I'm around that area I'll come see for my self.

After I got the info I never changed towards he and neither did I ask her about it, she even allowed me check her phone, I read through her msg, watttapp, Twitter, fb and others! guys I no see anything!!!

so I had that confidence that she ain't cheating on me, I mean she would have left a trace for me to know, she acts normal, she never changed towards me.

This time I intensified my checking on her and calls her regularly and when ever she didn't pick up she'll call me back apologizing.

Her movements and phones are crystal clean! I know my friend cannot lie to me cos he recognises her even in the dark! I'm hot on the inside knowing she's doing something behind me and I can't even trace anything. Before confronting her on anything I need to be sure she's really cheating....


To the wise men and women in the house! I wan catch her red handed or how do I unravel this mystery!

Two things here it's either she is cheating or she is not if she is cheating then she knows all the places you check, and she will wipe it clean; She knows you suspect her and she is smart enough to keep a clean track ... Or true your friend saw her with a guy that might be a close paddy and nothing else... Cause relationship is not bondage and a stay away from the opposite sex .. a lady that's dating and not married can keep male friends but she should know her boundaries. Cause what if you pursue all the persons that might have interest in her and you now back out... She will now start from square zero. A bird thats loyal is a bird that lives in an open cage but flies back to the cage to dwell not a bird that's always locked in a cage. And lastly ask your self this question;doesn't it look like your mind is praying to catch her even if possibly she isn't guilty and trust me it will be making you get angry that you aren't catching her in any act cause in your mind she is outsmarting you... I urge guys to hope for the best and expect the worst... A loyal woman will always be loyal but a bitvh will always be one...

Straight to the point... Tell her you ain't used to it yet... Let her give you more time

ElBenny:
Hi guys. I need your comment and advice on this matte.

I got to know this girl from a friend back in July.
She's a 23 year old final year LLB student and I'm 27 years old Lab Scientist.

We got talking at first and I began to develop interest in her.
She's calm, cool headed and has never even bothered me with any financial needs (which I'm still stunned about, very unlikely of Port Harcourt girls).

I'm very selective of girls but found this one to be very decent and maybe different.
I have plans of taking things serious with her.

We've gone out in a date at a bar once and it was all shades of amazing, there we shared our first kiss.

Just recently, on Sunday, a friend celebrated his birthday at a night club here in PH (411). I thought to invite this babe, she was pleased and accepted the invite.

We got there, ate, drank and it was dancing time with the DJ and hypeman.
We danced and she was wild on the dance floor with me. I was quite surprised but kept my cool because of the atmosphere.

The next shock happened, one of the big boys began throwing money up in the air, minted ₦100 & 200 notes and this babe legit left me and began picking money on the ground.

I brought her close, but she would let go and kept fighting with the crowd for the cash, she was almost trampled on.
For more than 15 minutes, I watched her picking.
I was quite embarrassed.

Shortly after, we left and I dropped her off.

I've not been the same again since then, I've struggled with myself to communicate with her unlike before.

I know money is important, but is that a bad sign?
Is this a red flag?
Should I ignore her actions and forge ahead?
I'm really confused.

She de hustle... Next time ask her how much she thinks she can pick... Then bless her with the funds and tell her to chill. You no know her financial status. cause there was a time in my life as a decorator that people hire for work; we pray money hangs in the roof decoration installations and under the dancefloor so we could be blessed with extra funds. As at that time this extra cash surpasses my pay sometimes and more challenges solved.

Obaofaba:
Ofcourse, we know that down south, Atiku Abubakar is not even expecting any significant amount of votes thanks to the so called obidient.

That man will have been a very formidable force to reckon with.

That's why Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu should be very grateful to the so called obidient. They are his number one fans.

Congratulations Sir, but please we should all pray and insist on Mr Obi not to back out at the last minutes just like some of Atiku Abubakar supporters have been saying. We need him on the ballot otherwise our victory might not be straight forward.

Obi must contest, his yesterday's outings in Imo state could be best be described as failure. I pray that doesn't demoralize him.

As blind as a BAT

The person way the plait her hair hand too de tight... Happened to my sister too