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They always like to display their phoolishness when the see Nigerian youth but turn eyes left when they see the real political criminals. You can no longer dress well in Nigeria without being harassed by these agent of darkness. If you buy good phone another trouble, drive a good car, bigger problem.

Dear youths, if any opportunity comes, do not think twice before leaving this country. The country is getting even worse everyday

So FG even know the looters. It seems looting is now legal in Nigeria

AbujaLagos:
make someone help us o

Bro, it's frustrating being a Nigerian at this moment

narite:
Good! You can start from here

https://www.nairaland.com/3430037/what-make-money-online

Okay

narite:
Do you know Domaining?

No sir, but I'm willing to learn

Please apart from yahoo , what other legit business can I do online. Please help before hunger and frustration kills me.

Please don't mention yahoo

Mhen people are rich in this country and I can't comfortably eat 3 square meals day. Is like some of us escorted some people to this same earth as spectators. It is well

Is this the latest trend among youths

Election can never be free and fair until the president stops appointing INEC chairman and State RECs.

He who pays the Piper dictates the tune. You can't bite the finger that feeds you or else you will go hungry. INEC chairman must work for whoever appoints him/her.

He committed a heinous and grievous crime, ran away to another country and still had the effrontery to being partying like a dog that he's instead of to stay low. Thank God he was caught.

If he can do the crime, then he should as well do the term .

Oduduwa republic

xin5:
I have my own house, A good business what source of income are you talking about?

Tell your mum to help you look for a wife if you can't chyke a girl . Having a wife and children will help in keeping you away from such despicable act. You need children to disturb you to take your mind off prostitutes

Hope baba will not use half of it to lodge in a hotel when next he travels

garfield1:
They have

He has been dismissed by court until a higher court reinstates him. For now they don't have candidate

garfield1:
They have

He has been dismissed by court until a higher court reinstates him

They don't have candidate.

Lemme see a photo of the phone. I might be interested

This man is about to loose political value. He should ask Chris Ngige and Andy Ubah how their political career is faring so far .

#show a breast today

They couldn't rig this one like they always do in internal elections . Nigeria is now an orphan in the committee of nations

BiafraAburi:
Your agbado, druggie, certificate forging cocaine sniffer will meet his waterloo first before Biafra's Prime Minister.

Anakhogheri. Anaghi ede nkugheri n'akukwo

Liberation ko libation ni


He will meet his waterloo someday

Just dey play but stake what you can afford to loose

Money must have been exchanged in place of merit before this awards was given. This is perfect example of how Nigeria works.

Nengiraw:
Hello nairalanders, please I need help on this situation. So I’m a lady in her mid 20’s. I’m actually very much set for marriage in the eyes of my family, since society deem it fit to place marriage as an achievement for women, and always bring up your age to remind you to. Anyways, it’s not a priority for me to get married now, as I feel like I’m not ready mentally,and I have a lot of trauma to work on, but I’m also open to it, if it’s in my face and ready. I don’t stay in Nigeria, so my family don’t know if I have a man in my life, so they decided upon themselves to introduce me to a man who is my uncle’s friend that stays in the same country as me. They were more focus on the fact that he comes from a neighboring village from us and that he was a doctor. (Meanwhile he’s actually a nurse, but he told them, that he was a doctor, he also never mentioned to them that he was married and had a child, before they decided to introduce him to me)

So we eventually started talking on WhatsApp, he saw some of my pictures already and he was mesmerized. In fact he was already kind of making me his wife in that moment. So one day he called me and we were just talking,and I heard like a toddler crying so bad and needed his attention, I asked him who was that , he told me it was his daughter, there was this awkward silence for almost five minutes of us not saying anything, so I told him I’ll call him back. I called my mother that day and was mad as hell, that they didn’t disclose such information to me, but from my mother’s reaction she had no idea, and she was also mad and she told me, she will call me back, so she could verify from my uncle, since that’s his friend. Even my uncle too had no idea. To cut the whole story short, he later called me the next day on a video call, and he started telling me about his wife( Yes! She’s still his wife, because I don’t think he has divorced her yet)and how abusive she was, and how he tried to make it work, but she was so crazy and stuff like that. That he’s actually trying to get shared custody of the child. That he’s no longer married to her. I was not really having it, because I just felt like he wasn’t being honest with certain things and on top of that his wife is still in the picture, and I don’t know if I want to settle for that. Also he just turned 40, and I’m 25. So the age gap is too much for me. Also I have not met him in real life, cause he stays in a different state from me, my family still wanted me to be open minded until I see him in person, then I could make a decision if I want him or not. He always sends me pictures of his daughter, and he recently sent me one with his first wife and daughter, I was surprised that he did, and he said he wanted to show me the daughter instead. I still felt like I didn’t need to see a picture of her. I started seeing the red flags of him that I couldn’t settle with. Also the way he talked about the wife was vulgar, and I felt like he didn’t need to tell me about her in that manner.

Now the most recent thing he started doing was sending me random stuff about marriage to my WhatsApp. I usually glance at it,and don’t reply, cause I don’t know why he’s sending me that. The one that gave me a major big red flag from him, is when he sent where Regina daniels( the actress who married Ned nwoko) was talking about marrying her husband a virgin and how it’s important to be a virgin. He then asked me if I was one. Honestly I felt really numb, because I don’t know why he will be asking me stuff like that, when he didn’t really get a respond back from me, he proceeded to send another message telling me, “No mind them sha, virgin no sabi. With a heart eye emoji. I was dumbfounded, I didn’t know how to reply to him anymore. I stopped picking up his calls and I have no intention to meet up with him anymore. Now my family is mad at me, saying that at least I should see him in person, but I don’t want to. In fact I’m no longer interested in him. Please am I wrong for feeling the way I feel? Thanks.

Too many red flags anyway. Remember that marriage is an institution where you never graduate. It's a life time affair, so look well before you leap into it. A broken relationship is far better than a broken marriage.

I might be interested in you if only you let me slide into your DM.

Please where can I meet a white lady. Which site do I register or an app I can download.

I want to serve again and it must be in Taraba

Na wa, some people no get problem for this life sha. See wetin human being dey complain as challenge

Kobojunkie:
You mean prison?

if he goes there and commit crime, then he will do the jail term there

Tetrisbiz:
I never wanted to do this and this is a very embarrassing situation but I need help from nairaland users.

I have an older brother in his early 40s. Since I was a child till this very moment, this person has been a torn on the flesh of my parents and the family in general.

Sometime in 2020, with the help of my elder sister's husband ( the HR) we were able to find a job for him as a supervisor in a factory and then I and my immediate elder brother (another sibling of mine) contributed money and rented an apartment for him in Lagos and then bought some property to furnish the apartment. To our surprise, my elder brother starting forcing his sexual advances on junior female workers and if any of these girls reject his advances he would start threatening the girls that he would get them fired with the help of the HR (My sister's husband). Forunately my sister's husband found out what was going on and rejected my brother's request for the female workers to be sacked. This started a war between my elder brother and my sister and her husband.

My elder brother eventually left that company (note he wasn't fired he LEFT by himself) and went back to the village. When my father heard this he almost collapsed as he knew the trouble that was coming his way.

Since he returned to the village he started assaulting my parents and I had to send money (about 400,000) back to Nigeria for him to rent a flat just so he could leave my parents alone. My brother stayed in that apartment for 3 months then started fighting his landlord and then told his landlord he couldn't stay for the year and demanded some part of his rent back,he took his rent, returned to the village and picked up from where he left by fighting my father ( a very old man). Its so bad that my father sometimes leaves the house (The house that he built as a family house) and stays outside for hours before returning home.

Please do we have restraining order laws in Nigeria and is there a particular police division in the Nigerian police or legal system that can be used to address an issue such as this?

I'm tired and I'm considering taking a drastic and extremely aggressive decision to resolve this situation once and for all.

If there's money, you guys should cajole him into traveling outside the country maybe any of these cheap European country so he can go far away from home. Make him go there make SAPA reset him brain.

No difference between FG and NLC.

victooman:
Hello Nairalanders,

l want to settle down latest next year, l live in Abuja, and the business l do is giving me a minimum of 6k daily.

Though on a good day l can make more than that, my major concern is that l feel it is too little considering the present inflation rate.

Please what is your advice, should l go ahead, or wait and expand my income, l dont want to marry as a man and start suffering abeg.

I'm more concerned about this job that gives you daily 6k. Please can you link me up or throw more light on gje job or business. I live in Lagos. Grant me permission to send a DM please