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Education / Re: "Nigerian Scam" Used As A Lecture Topic In An American University: Pics & Video by Eviana(f): 3:11pm On Sep 14, 2021
Litmus:


What are Americans type-cast and pre-judged as?

Entitled, spoiled, socially/morally-loose, uncouth and geographically/culturally challenged etc. It's what I hear the most.

Any stereotype/type-cast is based on "some" form of truth....no doubt.
The problem is when the overwhelming majority get labeled in one broad swoop....and one fails to get to know a person individually.
Education / Re: "Nigerian Scam" Used As A Lecture Topic In An American University: Pics & Video by Eviana(f): 11:24am On Sep 14, 2021
The "Nigerian" scam has been listed for years now to make folks more aware and to be cautious.
I've seen it many times.
I think the listing is centered more around the "419" prince email scam.
What needs to be highlighted more is the "romance" scam (that's even more dangerous)....the listing/definitions of the scam should be changed.
It's sad that the majority of wonderful, hardworking, law-abiding Nigerians in the U.S. have to be "type-casted" and pre-judged because of a treacherous, immoral, and unethical minority.
Family / Re: How Will U React If U Found Out Your Child Is An Atheist by Eviana(f): 12:04am On Sep 14, 2021
Uncle,
Aunty is just speaking Aunty's beliefs.
I agree to disagree with your bolded.

Matheusmartin:
.
Anty, forget all these long talks.

A child that will end as an atheist, will still end up as one.

The internet is here. It's the final burial place for most religion.
Family / Re: How Will U React If U Found Out Your Child Is An Atheist by Eviana(f): 7:58pm On Sep 13, 2021
Proverbs 22: 6 (KJV)
6 Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it

As a Christian, the greatest and most humbling honor is to raise up children fit for God's Kingdom.
A child on "fire" for the Lord who grows up to be an adult on "fire" for the Lord...complete with a "heart" knowledge instead of just a "head" knowledge...is the ultimate gift.
Anything other than that would be secondary.
No matter what career....
No parent who truly believes in the Lord God, His Word, and what He did on the Cross, would desire for his/her child to deny His existence.

I would honestly feel like an utterly complete failure if my child became an atheist..
..blaming myself for what may have gone wrong in their upbringing.
If the Word tells me that the child "properly" trained in the Lord won't depart from it, then clearly somewhere I would have to re-examine where I may have made mistakes and nurtured disdain in him/her.
Parents, oftentimes, don't know it, but their hypocritical behavior, strict church attendance policies, knowing only formalism/ritual---all contribute to how the children view "religion".
Not guiding children on "how" to develop a relationship with Christ....is at the root of the disdain for "religion".

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Religion / Re: How Will U React If U Found Out Your Child Is An Atheist by Eviana(f): 7:45pm On Sep 13, 2021
SPECIAL NOTE: I MOVED THIS COMMENT OVER TO FAMILY SECTION (SINCE THE OP POSTED THE TOPIC OVER THERE) DUE TO THE BEHAVIOR OF SOME OF THE POSTERS ON THIS THREAD. THANKS


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Religion / Re: Does The Bible Downgrade Women Or Treat Them As Inferior Persons? by Eviana(f): 7:32pm On Sep 13, 2021
Very well written.....
gideonjeta:
Genesis 2:18 says "Jehovah God went on to say: ' It is not good for the man to continue by himself. I am going to make a helper for him, as a complement of him.' "(The man is not here described by God as being a better person than the woman. Rather, God indicated that woman would possess qualities that would complement those of man within God's arrangement. A complement is one of two mutually completing parts.
Thus women as a group are outstanding in certain qualities and abilities; men, in others. Men and women are equal before God.)
Religion / Re: God Will Never Abandon You by Eviana(f): 1:33am On Sep 13, 2021
A title that I needed to see this evening....
Encouraging and beautifully written....

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Religion / Re: The God Of Distinction by Eviana(f): 7:13pm On Sep 12, 2021
Keyword being "distinct."
Very well written.....

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Religion / Re: Does The Bible Downgrade Women Or Treat Them As Inferior Persons? by Eviana(f): 6:02pm On Sep 12, 2021
xproducr:
There should always be mutual love and respect - one person to another, per the second greatest commandment (Matthew 22:36-40) to love our neighbors as we do ourselves; never "downgrading" or oppressing anyone; whether they are male or female.

Clearly, there are Biblical gender roles, as in 1 Timothy 2:12-15 - yet, mutual love and respect should remain.

GOD has shown His wonderful mercy and compassion to, and has utilized both men and women to accomplish great things.

Examples of women in the Holy Bible on whom the Lord GOD had mercy and utilized:
Mary of Nazareth - gave birth to the world's only Savior (Acts 4:12)
Ruth - in the physical genealogy of the Savior
Mary Magdalene - healed by the Lord JESUS, and served as His witness
Esther - With the power of prayer and bravery, she saved her people.
Miriam - helped save Moses as a baby
Sarah - GOD said to Abraham "And I will bless her and also give you a son by her; then I will bless her, and she shall be a mother of nations; kings of peoples shall be from her.” - Genesis 17:16
Elizabeth - mother of John the Baptist
Priscilla - example of a Godly wife in the Bible, given to ministry and helping those in need
Mary of Bethany - always put the Lord Jesus first
Jehosheba
Jochebed
Abigail
Rahab
Hagar
Martha
Rachel
Hannah
Deborah
The woman caught in adultery (John 8:1-11)
The Samaritan woman by the well (John 4:1-34), and so on...

Very well written...
Religion / Re: Do Not Worry - Rather Trust by Eviana(f): 5:57pm On Sep 12, 2021
Beautifully written...
Religion / Re: “god Is Not Confused, Doesn’t Make Mistakes” – Pastor Adeboye Tells Transgenders by Eviana(f): 1:43pm On Sep 12, 2021
Buliwyf:


Exactly. It's not so black and white.
Most of us have never been in the shoes of these people so it's hard for us to understand why they feel that way. Maybe in the future all they will need is just a drug that cures the feeling. Who knows? Until such a time as that we must be careful not to solve problems with religious arguments. It hasn't worked out well in the past. Galileo is an example.

The problem with your claims about not placing science above God is that we don't all believe in the same gods. In every major really there are schisms and each groups in their religion have their own interpretation of the gods of that religion. So which gods and interpretation of gods should science respect and which should it not? And who determines that?

The best solution is to separate science from every notion of a god until it is established that a particular god is needed for some scientific breakthroughs.


MODIFIED PORTION: You are correct.
My heart goes out to them...cause I can only imagine the struggles.
Thr only hope I can give, which is the best answer, is Christ Jesus.


About "gods", I figured that out in your earlier post.
I am coming from a Christian viewpoint...as you know.

If you are not a Christian, then this won't convict you.
I know Christianity does not hold the view by itself though.

Appreciate the convo.
Religion / Re: “god Is Not Confused, Doesn’t Make Mistakes” – Pastor Adeboye Tells Transgenders by Eviana(f): 1:28pm On Sep 12, 2021
Buliwyf:


I know what you mean. So here's a scenario for you.

We are discovering new human organs daily. So what if in the future due to advancement in scientific knowledge we discover that there is a whole way a woman's brain is wired and that the male brain is wired different. And then we discover that those transgenders have the opposite wiring in their brains which is why they usually want to do corrective gender surgeries, will you be willing to entertain the fact that being transgender is like being cleft-lipped?

PS: I am not in anyway stating that the scenario I painted is actually what is happening right now if anything I doubt it is. I just believe that God should be left out of debates like this or else we run the risk of having an ever capricious god whose rules are shaped by ever-increasing knowledge and science.

Hmmmm.....
Let me first say that I appreciate how you are conversing with me in a civil manner.
Ok....I also get what you are saying.

However, bcause someone "thinks" something, doesn't necessarily mean that it is reality.
We are creating a new world that omits God...."spirituality" or "religion" in a sense.
MODIFIED PORTION: For example, I can say that I believe I was meant to be short in height, and then endeavor to do so by getting my legs chopped down to achieve what I believe I am in my mind. I could find every method available, execute a surgery and put an imaginary height down on any paperwork requesting it, (in at attempt to convince myself), but that won't make it so. It was not my original...

As an adult, I'm honestly having difficulty with all of the terms...."trans-gender", "trans-sexual", "trans-vestite", fluid", "binary", "they" "them" etc...
I can only imagine the children, their confusion and I have an issue with that.

I don't understand how a "transgender's" mind is wired as a male or female (in a "wrong" gender) to the point that he/she would need surgery? Why would his/her mind be wired like that? What is the origin?
I can't, however, liken that to a cleft-surgery because to me, those are two different categories.

You, however, want science and religion to be separated. I understand.
My issue is that I don't know if by doing what you suggested in the last paragraph, that is a good thing.
Placing science above God is what I liken that to...and cannot accept. I do not know how to separate God from science.....in that He is the originator of "true" & "perfect" science.
You're saying, though, that it's not so black and white....
This is one of those respectfully "agreeing to disagree" situations.
Religion / Re: “god Is Not Confused, Doesn’t Make Mistakes” – Pastor Adeboye Tells Transgenders by Eviana(f): 12:52pm On Sep 12, 2021
Buliwyf:


I noticed you circumnavigated the issue of corrective surgeries for people born with both genitals and other defects. Are those corrective surgeries going against your definition of god too? I know being religious gives no room nuances and you just have to put things in clearly defined boxes but I am interested to see your reply to this.

Oh, I wasn't trying to circumnavigate anything.
Didn't think that was the main topic.
However, that (corrective "genital" surgery) would fall under the category of a medical situation. I would liken it to a cleft lip sort of thing.
Gender confusion would be a whole different thing for a hermaphrodite (a person born with "2" genitals) who didn't clearly have other strong features that would identify him/her as one gender over the other.
I have known of a few people who were hermaphrodites who clearly had strong enough features elsewhere on the body to know that he/she was a male or female...

I think he--Pastor Adeboye-- was speaking about people "choosing" to somewhat change their entire gender...
Religion / Re: “god Is Not Confused, Doesn’t Make Mistakes” – Pastor Adeboye Tells Transgenders by Eviana(f): 12:38pm On Sep 12, 2021
The pastor is correct. The God of Abraham, Isaac, and Israel has NEVER made a mistake. Innfact, everything He made was "good".
Genesis 1:31 (KJV)
31 And God saw every thing that he had made, and, behold, it was very good. And the evening and the morning were the sixth day.

Followers of Christ cannot deny what is written in the Word of God...
regardless of how society may try to "re-vamp" it.

Being born a certain way and choosing to change something are two different things.


The problem lies in a sin corrupted world....where
1. A person can be mistakenly murdered.
2. A person can die on death row for a crime he/she didn't commit.
3. A baby could be born with a terminal illness (ex. cancer)
4. A person could be born with "2" genitals as was stated earlier in the thread
5. A person can be healthy all his/her life & still develop a terminal illness....
6. A person can be born into poverty or an impoverished nation....

Now deciding to "change" parts of oneself is a totally different thing. This was what Pastor Adeboye was speaking about....#1. Examples below...

1. Mutilating one's God-given organs (the male organ or female organ) that identify gender. )
2. Enhancing or creating one's breast --except for disease/illness reasons-- or buttocks
(Especially if born of an opposite gender)
3. Changing one's skin color to look more culturally "acceptable" (ex. bleaching)
4. Butchering one's nose to look more culturally "acceptable"
5. Continual dressing in attire that is opposite the sex one is born in etc.,

Sin affects people...because we simply were born into it. Deciding to change oneself in such dangerous and drastic ways, is saying that, "God somehow got it wrong....and didn't know what He was doing." The person then becomes a "god".

Sin covers a broad range of issues....(not just sexuality and abortion...as I always say). However, those "2" above mentioned, are the hot topics....regarding sin.
Clearly, whatever sex/gender one is born of, God clearly designed it to be...and it was no mistake...just as His creation of this galaxy was no mistake.
That is what Pastor Adeboye was saying...is what I think.

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Nairaland / General / Re: 9/11: Photos That People Will Never Forget by Eviana(f): 1:26am On Sep 12, 2021
Will never, ever forget that day.....
Religion / Re: We Need A Revival! by Eviana(f): 1:07am On Sep 12, 2021
...and "reformation" also...if I may add. Heart revival = change/reformation.
Beautifully, beautifully written...and a very timely post.


SonofIsachar:
At a time when the church has become a ground for entertainment, we need revival.

At a time when a music minister competes and compares himself with secular musicians, we need a revival.

At a time when the altar of God is used for comedy, we need a revival.

At a time when a successful minister of the Gospel is measured by how rich he is and not how much impact he is making, we need a revival.

At a time, when passion for souls has been replaced with fashion parades in the church, we need a revival.

At a time when motivational speaking has replaced biblical preaching, we need a revival.

At a time when you really cannot differentiate between a daughter of Zion and a harlot, we need a revival.

At a time when pastors kill each other for posts and higher positions, we need a revival.

At a time when modern preachers now tell us that Jesus is not coming soon, we need a revival.

At a time when packaging and special effects have replaced the beauty of God’s glory, we need a revival.

At a time when sexual sin is referred to as weakness and the grace of God is taken for granted, we need a revival.

At a time when prophets prophesy by divination and profit from false prophecy, we need a revival.

At a time when the church does not know the difference between a witchcraft spirit and the Holy Spirit, we need a revival.

At a time when filling the seats in our place of worship has become a priority rather than raising disciples of Jesus, we need revival.

At a time when sinners feel comfortable in our churches and saints feel no sense of urgency to preach the good news to the lost, we need revival.

At a time when pastors are more concerned about how much money members give than how much the members truly love the Lord, we need revival.

At a time when the word of God is scarce, the fire on the altar is going out, and the priests have become blind, the watchmen sleeping, and holiness is no longer our standard, we need a revival.

We need a revival not a programme. We need a reawakening of our souls and a new awareness of the power of God. We do not need another jamboree, but true repentance coupled with a changed life. We do not need another noise, we need a shaking and a mighty rushing wind. We do not need another movement, we need a reformation.

We need the Lord to come again and restore us unto Himself. We need the Lord to open our eyes again that we may see Him. We want to see His Holiness again that we may see our depravity. We need a genuine outpouring of the Holy Spirit, we are tired of speaking in tongues and not living Christ-like. There is no other desire we have than to hear again the same voice that spoke in the valley of dry bones to bring us back to life.

Our nations are in darkness, yet we are the light. We cannot pretend anymore. Jesus, come again in your power and reawaken us.

We need a revival!

— Author Unknown

Meditation: …that our God may enlighten our eyes and give us a measure of revival in our bondage. For we were slaves. Yet our God did not forsake us in our bondage; but He extended mercy to us in the sight of the kings of Persia, to revive us, to repair the house of our God, to rebuild its ruins, and to give us a wall in Judah and Jerusalem. – Ezra 9:8-9

You will succeed because Jesus loves You!

Also read:

Shoes in Church
Church Football
Why Go to Church

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Religion / Re: An Open Apology Letter by Eviana(f): 12:53pm On Sep 10, 2021
Didn't expect to see a thread like this over in this section...although it's rightly placed.
One of the hardest things to do: show humility (apologize when having deeply hurt someone) & vulnerability (putting oneself in a situation where your vulnerability may not be received or accepted)...

I think "hurt folks truly hurt other folks"...for sure.
I shudder to think how many people may have attempted suicide or actually committed suicide due to cyber-bullying, harassment, false accusations etc.
It's heart-wrenching...they gave up cause it was overwhelming.
The human is a very fragile being...
For me personally as a victim of continual cyber-bullying here on N.L., "If it had not been for the Lord ony side....." Mercy....
Anyhow, extremely mature of you...although we don't know who you are...
On behalf of us cyber-bullying victims, I will at least say, "thank you."
The evidence of an apology though is "changed behavior." Remember that....going forward.
If sincere, the Lord God is smiling...cause see His spirit is the opposite of anything that causes harm to a person.

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Religion / Re: Be Patiently Hopeful by Eviana(f): 12:58am On Sep 10, 2021
Eviana:


........
"The issue is with integrity. Daniel made an affirmative decision and needed to be an example not only to himself, but to God. He had to be a "man of his words"...even if something was seemingly harmless.
You get what I'm saying right?"


"One thing I'm trying to perfect is being a woman of my words...having the integrity of Daniel.
For example, like saying I'm not gonna say/do something adamantly and then switch up and do it anyway because a circumstance (although harmless) may be more favorable...you know what I mean?
Although the circumstance may be more favorable, I still need to keep to my word about a particular stance at least for the time being..
My "yea" has to be "yea" & my "nay" has to be "nay"...no flip-flopping"
...



@Dangerousboy, yes I know you sent a "pm" which I appreciate.
I, however, tried to discreetly reference the "pm" by writing the paragraphs above in my previous mention to you....without saying, "I saw your "pm" notification."
My signature even speaks about my stance on"pm's".
I just had a big, unfortunate situation regarding "pm's" with someone last week or so in several posts. Surprised you didn't see it.
Anyhow, I have to display some integrity and keep to my word...of not receiving or sending any "pm's" from anyone for now.
Sorry about that...not trying to be rude.
Religion / Re: Be Patiently Hopeful by Eviana(f): 7:46pm On Sep 09, 2021
Dangerousboy:
PATIENTLY HOPEFUL

Rom.8.25 - But if we hope for that we see not, then do we with patience wait for it
.

When we have an expectation of a desired end, which is hope, we need to implore the virtue of patience.

Now just imagine if Abraham wasn't patient, or Daniel when he prayed and waited for 21 days to get his expected answer. Just imagine if he gave up. the angle would have returned back with the answer's to his prayer.

Let's implore patience, even as we hope for our miracles.

Although older, this is also a well written post
I was thinking @ the bolded, if also Daniel had said one thing but then flip-flopped and done another.
Like say, hypothetically, Daniel made an affirmative decision to pray for "21" days regardless of anything, yet had an unexpected opportunity to pray for half of the days -- only "11" days-- (without any repercussion and with the same result as if he had prayed for the "21". Would there technically be anything wrong with Daniel choosing the "11" day praying? Some would say "no". But I personally would say "yes" there would be a problem. The issue is with integrity. Daniel made an affirmative decision and needed to be an example not only to himself, but to God. He had to be a "man of his words"...even if something was seemingly harmless.
You get what I'm saying right?

One thing I'm trying to perfect is being a woman of my words...having the integrity of Daniel.
For example, like saying I'm not gonna say/do something adamantly and then switch up and do it anyway because a circumstance (although harmless) may be more favorable...you know what I mean?
Although the circumstance may be more favorable, I still need to keep to my word about a particular stance at least for the time being...
My "yea" has to be "yea" & my "nay" has to be "nay"...no flip-flopping.

Prayer does and can change things though..as you know. I appreciate the effort and this post though...
Be encouraged...as you continue ministering through the Word.

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Religion / Re: Righteous Idol Worshiper by Eviana(f): 2:37pm On Sep 08, 2021
Solemn....but powerful.
Food for thought for us who profess Christ.

SonofIsachar:

I wondered why I was in the queue of the accused at all. I am intelligent, aggressive, young, totally committed to my God. ‘What am I doing here with this sheet of supposed sins in my hand?’ I wondered.

I don’t drink, I don't smoke, I don’t fornicate, I don’t steal, I am righteous. Others should be here not me.

It was finally my turn to face the Man.

I placed my sheet before Him, He glanced at it and sighed softly. He looked at me and calmly said, “Guilty of idol worship.”

Imagine my anger, my fury, my indignation. I jumped out of the chair and said, “Of course not! Check the sheet again, check the name, It can't be mine.”

He sighed again and mentioned one of my names that no one knows.

I would not be stopped. “It's impossible!” I yelled. “I worship only God, the Most High, Maker of heaven and earth, the King of kings and Lord of lords. I bow down to none, I have no talisman, no amulet, no pot underneath my bed.”

“You are guilty of idol worship.” He repeated calmly.

He looked at me, I looked at Him. It seemed like forever. The room was silent. I could hear the clock ticking.

Then slowly I understood.

I am never late for bus/train station or air flight, but I am always late to church. I blinked.

My payments for services I enjoy such as Dstv, phone bills, etc., are never late, but I haven’t given tithes in three months. I looked down.

When meeting one of our local chiefs last week I would not even pick a call in the presence of earthly royalty, but I WhatsApp in church.

I wouldn’t interrupt my performance appraisal with my boss for anything, but I missed church last week because of a series on TV.

I wouldn’t let a day end without talking to my spouse, but today I just said ‘Hi God, Bye God.’ And I didn’t even pray last night. The room began to feel hot.

I would never miss going to the bank because of the weather, but I missed the fellowship on Wednesday and Friday because it was drizzling.

I would wear my party colors to party meetings and not care what anyone thought of me, but I hate to talk to my workmates about God because of what they will think of me.

I always have the latest tech gadget you can think of but my Bible is so worn out. I can’t even find the book of Jude in my Bible anymore.

The last thing to touch before going to bed and the first thing in the morning is my phone, chatting on Whatapp or replying offline messages. And never bothering to talk with God or reading His word.

I felt so hot in the room, a nervous sweat on my forehead. I felt so ill and weak, all of my anger and self-righteousness was gone, leaving immense guilt in its wake.

I slowly got off the chair and knelt by His feet and said, “I am sorry. I am guilty as charged; guilty of idol worship, guilty of placing others, humans, technology, before You. I am guilty of idol worship.”

He smiled gently, looked at me with those compassionate eyes of His and He gave me a fresh sheet and said, “Go and deliver souls! Now I want you to inform others to alert them as I know they are not aware of what they are doing.”

-- Author Unknown

Meditation: ‘These people draw near to Me with their mouth, And honor Me with their lips, But their heart is far from Me.’ – Matthew 15:8

You will succeed because Jesus loves You!

Also read:

How Not to Provoke God to Anger (3)
How Not to Provoke God to Anger (4)
10 Commandments for A Godly Employee

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Religion / Re: Who Do You Trust? by Eviana(f): 2:34pm On Sep 08, 2021
Forgive me SonofIssachar,
I reply and/or quote on lots of your threads because I like reading them, they are powerful, speak to me greatly and I want to have them forever stamped as encouragement...nothing more, nothing less.
I appreciate your faithfulness in posting daily.

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Religion / Re: A Lesson In Humility by Eviana(f): 2:29pm On Sep 08, 2021
Powerful and beautifully written...

SonofIsachar:

I was a freshly minted graduate of a leading B School and wore its stripes proudly on my shoulders. I was to join a British Multinational in one of their plants in Gomia, Bihar, as a Management Trainee. They chose only the best. And I was full of it, all puffed up.

The night train from Calcutta would reach Gomia in the morning. I had a letter that said that there would be a car to pick me up from the station and take me to the guest house.

The coal-fired engine creaked up to the station and I alighted with my canvas hold-all; yes, we had such things in those days. There was not a soul in sight to receive me. I felt let down. I heaved the luggage on my shoulder and came to the exit. There I saw a nice car. The driver in khaki shorts and a white coloured tee shirt was walking towards the car. Aah, my driver, there he was!

I went up to him and brusquely asked him to open the trunk and keep my luggage. He asked me in Hindi, who I was and I introduced myself. All this in a condescending way, and asked him to take me to the Guest House. He said he would be happy to drop me. The driver heaved the luggage in, opened the rear door and had me seated. He asked me if I was comfortable. This was getting better.

Throughout the ride, he asked me questions about my family, etc. in a kind sort of way. I responded in monosyllables, irritated with a driver, who spoke too much.

Near the guest house, he alighted and a couple of the staff ran up to the car and saluted me. I thought I saw some exchange with the driver and they respectfully carried my luggage. I waved out to the driver, who wished me the best in my new job.

The next day was a big day. I was to meet the big daddy of the place- the Chief Executive – Dr S.K. Varma. I was nervous.

I went in early to the factory. His secretary ushered me into a corridor that led up to the room. I knocked on the door and walked into the large office. The big man in his overalls had his back to me and as he turned I recognized the man he was the driver in factory clothes.

I burst out, “Hey what are you doing in this office?”

He gave me a broad smile and in chaste English said he was Shiven Varma, and asked me to take a seat. I choked and could have died in that instant. My feet were all jelly and I apologized profusely for my behaviour and was at a loss for words.

He said that he had come to the station to see off a friend. And he had seen me and wanted to be of assistance. And played along, for he knew I had mistaken him to be a driver.

He offered me tea and had a long conversation. Said that outside of work one should not wear their education, only use them. And never referred to the incident. Almost as if it did not happen.

As I walked away, I learnt the greatest lesson in humility. So, the guest house staff were actually saluting him, not me! My ego came crashing down. Shoulders hunched, weighing heavily with lessons learnt, I exited his office.

Humility is playing a role, any role, sans ego, whatever the role may be. Even if this were that of a driver. Dr. Varma never referred to this incidence ever, not even in an informal chat. He was driving home a lesson in humility.

Author Unknown

Meditation: By humility and the fear of the Lord Are riches and honor and life. – Proverbs 22:4

You will succeed because Jesus loves You!

Also read:

Bring Something Home
Thinking of Divorce? Think Again
Know Where You Are Heading in Life

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Religion / Re: Something Worth Dying For by Eviana(f): 2:27pm On Sep 08, 2021
This one too....mercy.
What I keep trying to tell serious Christians...
Beautifully and powerfully written..

Dangerouboy:
*SOMETHING WORTH DYING FOR*

Philippians 1:21 For to me to live is Christ, and to die is gain.

Recently, the infamous terrorist/ Jihadist group known as the Taliban, invaded an underground church in Afghanistan.

Before the Christians were mytrd, one of the women placed a call to her friend telling her what's going on, and how they and the Children with them are ready to die for the Lord.

They refused to deny Christ. Gunshots was heard on the background, and that was the last that was heard from those believers on Earth.

Is Jesus, Salvation, worth dying for?
Find out next.





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Religion / Re: It's More Than Life by Eviana(f): 2:25pm On Sep 08, 2021
Mercy....I have to quote this one...please forgive me.
Powerful....powerful...powerful.
Beautifully written...

Dangerouboy:
IT'S MORE THAN LIFE

Romans 14:8 For whether we live, we live unto the Lord; and whether we die, we die unto the Lord: whether we live therefore, or die, we are the Lord's.

In One of the Communist country where religious gathering/activity were prohibited, a group of believers held underground meetings.

Their location was busted, and a group of soldiers invaded their gathering. They brought a picture of Jesus and asked that those who are for Jesus should move to the right side where the picture was, and those who are not, should move to where they were.

Now those Christians moved to were the soldiers was, renouncing their Faith, except a lady who moved to where Jesus was, and kissed the picture, standing by him.

The Soldiers thought to themselves; if these ones could deny their Master, then they can join forces with our enemies and fight against us. They killed those Christians, saving the lady who stood for her Faith.

Jesus, your faith, your salvation is worth dying for. Our hope is not only in this world because, the world and it's system will pass away, but those who stand for the Lord will shine like the stars � of the sky forever (please study Daniel 12:1-3)

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Foreign Affairs / Re: Hurricane IDA Unleashes Apocalyptic Flooding Across Usa(Pix, Video) by Eviana(f): 6:52pm On Sep 02, 2021
planetx:
Babylon is under judgement and this is just the beginning.

The entire world is under judgment.....
(But I get what you mean though...due to what's been occurring in the U.S.).
Foreign Affairs / Re: Hurricane IDA Unleashes Apocalyptic Flooding Across Usa(Pix, Video) by Eviana(f): 6:49pm On Sep 02, 2021
These are the signs of the times for sure....just in quicker succession.
Prayers for all states (especially Louisiana) that have been devastated by the hurricane. Also for the people who lost their lives during the storm. Natural disasters (especially hurricanes, tornadoes, and earthquakes etc.,) are no joke and exrtremely frightening and occurrences which I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy.
In that sense, Nigeria, you guys are blessed.
Religion / Re: The Call To Salvation by Eviana(f): 6:01pm On Sep 02, 2021
Very well written...simple yet powerful.

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Religion / Re: The Escape Plan by Eviana(f): 5:58pm On Sep 02, 2021
This was an awesome read....beautifully & powerfully written.
I had even guessed that it had something to do with the caretaker....just not quite sure.
The message is well illustrated.

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Religion / Re: "Revelation NOW" by Eviana(f): 5:51pm On Sep 02, 2021
PeaceJoyLove:

Keep your advice to yourself. I know Jesus and He knows me. It is you who should face the reality. Really, I dont have time to engage in useless talks further. All I will ask is you and your boys back off. King of the boys, just back off. I dont care if you are a Jezebel or the wife of the Wizard from Edom.... I care not.

You using:
1. Greencard
2. Credit fraud
3. Linking me a a moniker begging for money
4. Other linking issues you are away which I decided not to touch (and you know deep inside are lies)

are all disgusting. You think they make you have power, but they made me distrust you more. These are the real reasons I dont like you again. I dont hate you, but I dislike you cos of your style.

There is no day you will ever accept the discussion of the word together. It is always Ellen White articles .... Preach....no way. But it is Ellen white and the great controversy. Even when asked questions about them, still point to like 3 hours video. Cant you explain yourself?

Really, you are crafty. Serpentine spirit. Always trying to slip out when caught right in the act. These are things I saw that made me change. And it disgusts me how you pretend to be Deborah in the Bible.

Anyone who started reading would think I am stalking you. When that didnt work, you used the green card, credit card stunt. I can never trust you again. NEVER. You bully anyone who tries to ask you questions here. And if more than one person ask, they are automatically joining forces to pull you down. Lady, you are sick. I have told you to go to a psychiatrist.

The person who will torture you, the person you dont want to associate with again, the person you dont want to converse with, the person you showed the whole world you want gone is the same person you told knows where to find you in the US. Hyprocrite. You said all like I only want to talk to you privately and you dont desire it at all cos that's how to slam Nigerian girls and boys looking for a way to stay there. If you cannot be truthful in that and honor one in that area by not using that disgusting prank, then, I cannot associate with you again.

We dont need to coexist. I assure you (In President Buhari's voice) that we are parting ways. Why would I want to associate with someone who can pull this here. In real life, you will pull the worst, and will not hesitate to send a Nigerian friend to jail cos you know you will be listened to first. This reason is why I said I dont believe you sre Amerikana. You are exactly toxic and vengeful like Nigerians women. I have so many American friends (men and women) and not in my life have I met a loud and bully like you. You are the one who is commanding and forceful. Yes, I shouted at you. Yes, I bull crapped you. But was I like that from the beginning? I slam who doesnt have respect and doesnt know when to stop, or who tries to play the smartness game. And you are still playing it. But dont you get it that the content if your game dont work for someone like me?

I have tech people looking up to me, and I will not allow you tarnish my reputation. Since you arent ready to change, its OK. Like you wrote up, we are adults. I would not have denied you publicly. I dont deny my friends. But since you are the kind who deny one, it's time I parted and walked away. There is no need to coexist. You are free to post whatever you want to here. Also leave the 50 - 50 and attack whoever you want to...yeah...you are an adult who can decide for yourself. I wont allow you make me an online terrorist. Those who are close to me know I dont deny access to me. Everyone who contacts me I make sure I reply them.

I love the US who made me who I am today, but dont expect me to find you. I am a person of my word. My word is my bond. If I say so, and I dont change my words based on a new circumstance...perhaps you change or apologize, and I dont say it to you....just know that you are irrelevant as from today. To me you are nothing in my world anymore. So, keep hoping I want you to call me. Keep hoping I will find you later. I have even Nigerian friends here enough for me. You arent special a bit.

King of the boys, tell your boys to back off.

You are fired!

The revelation this thread is a wolf in sheep's clothing

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Religion / Re: "Revelation NOW" by Eviana(f): 11:45pm On Sep 01, 2021
PeaceJoyLove:

I need another way to get my message across to you.

.......

And for the first time I will address surrendering to Jesus you always say. You want me to surrender in your way. You want me surrender in the way you believe. Just to accept like a muskie. But it doesnt work that way. OK.

But guess what? I am ready to do it your way. Maybe it's a fake surrendering I did. So, I want to do it your way. But you have to convince me of some things I need to really know. If I am convinced, I will allow you lead me again as you wish. I have many questions which have been bothering me, but I want to ask just 3. And if you can answer me accurately, then, I will allow you re lead me again. But if you chicken out, dont ever in your life attempt to preach the gospel to me again, as I will be the one to. Deal?

Peace,
We are grown adults here.
You are not my child.
I am not your child.
You are not an animal that has to be commanded to do things nor am I.
I cannot "force" you to do anything anymore than you can to me.
"Force" has never been nor will ever be of God..."free-will" is.
The enemy's main tactic is "force by any means necessary". I do not do well with my choice being taken away from me.
You telling me to "remove this or else", "pray for these group of people", "don't talk about this or ask about this", "do this, do that", "call in 30 minutes or else", etc., is really the power of control. I feel like a slave and you the master.
A godly man leads in a way that a godly woman would willingly, joyfully and naturally submit, because he's led by Christ....and ultimately answers to Him.

However, no person has a right to "control" another.
God never designed it that way..."man" did.
You surrendering to Christ has "0" to do with it being "my way". My desire is for you to choose Him, but I could never force you to do it. Only the Holy Spirit can change one's heart.
However, I am sincerely presenting to you the One whom can give you freedom from sin, rest & peace..and I mean the only One.
You don't have to accept anything I say.
As imperfect as I am, I am compelled, though, to speak about my Savior and the peace that comes from a relationship with Him.
You have to "want" Christ for no other reason than you "know" you have a void/need to be filled....and with no ulterior motives. You have to stop running and come to the point where you surrender.
Only the Holy Spirit can water a seed that someone plants.
I am a woman...and actually would prefer to instruct females. I, however, love to encourage people and converse with those willing to converse with me.
Although I am very vocal in this section and excited about the Word of God, I do not "lead" men. Boundaries must be set...
I respect the role of a man and my role as a woman in Christianity... (not the two extremes: Authoratative spiritual abuse by men and feminism--as the U.S. defines it--by women), but a cooperative balance.
There are a few godly, biblically sound men in this section who I'm sure would be willing to further study with you. I try to study the Word, but I know that there are a few godly men here who are more well-versed.
I have "0" desire to usurp a godly man's authority and role given by God to instruct in the Word of God. I know when to step aside.
Presenting Christ to you comes with "0" conditions.
If you feel I am a false messenger, jezebellic, demonic, scamming, "queen of the boys", woman, then of course, my message of the gospel of Jesus Christ will be a problem.
Your belief or doubts about me (I've learned) will probably remain that way no matter what answer I give you. If I answer you in a way that you disagree with, then you will dismiss the entire message... disparage, castigate and character assassinate me to all here in this section.

Whether you and I never speak again after this, your soul remains the most important thing. I am not presenting Christ Jesus to you based on answering (3) questions. I'm sorry, but I am not gonna do that. That is you wanting it "your way". Your soul is so much more important than playing a bargaining game. If you do not trust me, which you have stated a million times, then there's nothing I can do about that. If you don't want to hear anything further about the gospel from me, then I respect that.
However, I am not gonna stop speaking about it to others in this section. I speak about what is important to me.
We will have to peacefully co-exist.
You have a good night and I pray that you will see your need and choose Him who loves you.

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Education / Re: Why Are Countries Referred To As "She"? by Eviana(f): 12:55pm On Sep 01, 2021
Liking "some" of these answers a whole lot.

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Education / Re: Why Are Countries Referred To As "She"? by Eviana(f): 12:54pm On Sep 01, 2021
viyon02:
Just like a love of mother to a child, so we expect a country to love and care for her citizens..,..... Therefore we normally use "she" e,g US citizens enjoy mother like love from the country so it is ideal we use "she" for US. The only exception we have is Nigeria, please don't ask me why.

Well written...
I was gonna ask, but I saw the bolded, so "nevermind" lipsrsealed

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