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Jewessgratitudd:
OK. Good for you.

Tanx. Nice profile

Jewessgratitudd:
Don't count on it.
I didn't mention you of my own accord. Read the title of the topic. It says " mention weird monikers" that was why I mentioned your moniker.
Like seriously.. I still can't wrap my head around why you chose such a moniker or what could have inspired such. So its weird to me.

Stop forming hard to get jhoorr
Well the moniker just popped up in my head n I pinned to it

She's your fiancé and your scared. Why ?

Jewessgratitudd:
Unatoto
Itearhertoto
Fuckdamods
Evil1
Kingsatan

For u to mention me. Pls tell me u already love me

Sexyliciousbri:
Evil1

Lol. Sexy sexylicious.
My babe in schl DAT year was liciuos

Ngozey:
I don’t know how to start, am very scared right now. I don’t know what to do about this pregnancy.

Actually I stay with my sister, her husband, her baby and her husband's brother who is a year younger than me. We have been sleeping together for sometimes now. Am now 8 weeks pregnant.

I told him he said I should abort before people find out. We went to the hospital together to remove it but the money they are asking us is too much. We are students depending on my sister and brother in law. We are both stuck and confused. Am scared if my sister comes to find, out she will send me back to the village. I don’t want to go back.

I need help please on what to do about it. The pregnancy is only 8 weeks, please no insult.

Madam go n buy misoprotocol and mifepristone Though it depends if they will sell it for u n besides there are drugs dat can flush it out based on ur cash

Beauty with no brain.
Women should stop this rubbish of been naked on social media.
One day someone somewhere will use it against them. Either relationship or job.

Happy birthday set. Your sure beautiful and I pray you meet a good man like me

Impostor:
Hello NLders

I just want to share my experience. I want people to learn from others.

So recently I started dating and meeting women with the mindset of getting married as everyone around me keep shouting that I am getting overripe. Some are even wondering if everything is ok downstairs lol. How can you not be married up till now? You know those types of comments. But how could I have gotten married when unemployment no release me until 36? Nigeria is something else. It was at that age that I finally landed a decent job. I am even lucky to be where I am now.

So many youths are underemployed/under paid. Less than a month ago, a good friend who is also my course mate messaged me to express his frustration at teaching somewhere for 50k and he said he's now ready to make money anyhow even if it will take someone's blood . It's just a threat out of frustration.

The problem now is that I don't know if there are still good women like our mothers in this country. I have met so many young girls that I have stopped trying, the quest and hunger of these girls for money is just too much.

You are unemployed and you want me to buy you an iPhone of 150,000 Naira and she was making so much noise about it. Meanwhile I use a phone of 30k lol. Almost all the ladies I am meeting are unemployed and expensive. I met one girl awaiting NYSC, she told me straight up, that I will have to be taking care of her, that she's tired of dating broke guys so she has decided that any man she wants to date will have to be responsible for her completely. It sounded like a transaction. Though she's a very pretty, tall girl but I am not even after all those facial beauty.

Another lady told me she has half of her rent and she's looking for the remaining half. The stories are so many, I could write a book with them. I don't even know how to get working class ladies. But I have now realized that Nigerian ladies are not even the problem, it's the economy. Many young ladies are struggling just like guys and the only way they can meet up with their bills is by dating 3/4 guys.


Advise from my experience.

After my NYSC, over 10 years ago, I had this mind set that I won't get married without a job or funds to take proper care of my family. I think that mindset MAY be wrong, so many people still think this way.

I will advise you look at it again because it may take you 15/20 years after University to become comfortable (not your portion). Let me be sincere with you, this Nigeria is getting worse by the day especially with the type of leaders we have, who think only of themselves and their families/tribe.

For example, you can see for yourself what is happening with the outbreak of Corona Virus in the country. After 2 infection, people started advising that we should stop foreign flights, they refused until so many infected people got into the country, now they are running up&down. If we are lucky to get good leaders after now, it may take another 30 years of continuous good leadership to save Nigeria.

My advise is that after your NYSC, if you have a supportive family and a good/understanding girl friend, just marry her and start your family. You two will Hussle together and God will bless your hustle. You may ask why? Because most people finish around 25. If it takes you 10 years to become stable and get married, if you are lucky, you will have your first child at 36, 37. By the time you are 50, your child will be in junior secondary.

Be wise money is not everything.

I currently have the same mentally.
I'm 26 this year, no job yet, though I'm a graduate.
I have a girlfriend she has good home training and very good but the only problem is that she loves material things and stuffs like vacation with the family kind off stuff. though she doesn't disturb me but I'm thinking she might be a problem if I settle down with her considering if I can't provide what she wants at a particular time.

E no go donate for him country

Meanwhile rich Nigerians and business tycoons in Nigeria are doing nothing

I don't really know how people get to marry unsecure and insensitive partners.
You both are wrong. Sit with him and talk to him about it. Its bad of him if you are truly not fit but wants it so badly.
Health of any person is the most important thing in life

Five months is too long. Just say 5 days she fit no see period that month

Oladayo12:
This is so pathetic., i honestly feel your pain bro having parent that can actually connect you to secure a job but they seems not to bother. i will be 26 october this year and i came out top of my class with CGPA of 4.21 in department of geography & planning and i'm still in search of job

I'm also October

Don't feel pity or sorry for yourself.
You didn't cheat on any one.
You saw an opportunity and took it.
I will advice you go for the masters then when you return, after securing a job throw a small family party, open up to them and thank both and acknowledged them both as your parents that way you will live in Peace.
But the consequences are that your uncles wife will be furious and upset to the point of blackmailing you but the other parent will not see it that way but rather be happy that you didn't waste their money.

One more thing get a hamper for ur people and the other parent who also sponsored your education and do not be in a haste to open up your life issues to them.

Funny enough I find myself in similar situation.
I have parents that can help out with very serious connections but they won't. Every morning I argue with my mum or there is no day that goes by without a quarrel.
I will be 26 this year but Evryday I sit back an think if I was made to live this kind of life.

With the way the country is going people ate ready to do anything.
Few months back a friend went to the hospital to donate his sperm for cash an what the idiot told him was the most stupid thing ever.
He wanted it for a very low price or free so he could sell it at a High price

czarina:
I no be half caste.

Lol.

Tomide007:
A man who can't win his Lg will pull such weight? Oya nah.

Well I don't know much about Edo politics. I only schooled in Edo State.
But my analysis are that Efo State is mainly chararcterised by traditional history and withouth Oshiomhole Obaseki would not have become a governor because the Oba line didn't want him but persuasion made the people accept babas candidate.
But here is a man trying to godfatherism at the very wrong hour just like GEJ, Ambode, Fashola escaped it shaa.
So my take is this if Obaseki is either suspended or not given the ticket to do second term Edo State might loose it. Cos I see so many Edo many are in support of him

Jack500:
Oshiomole going, going.........


Gone.


But if Oshiomole survive this battle, then Obaseki should honourably leave APC.

If Obaseki doesn't get the ticket Edo will loose APC to PDP.
Obaseki will be forced to decamp

Kalatium:
I blame some men. When you tell them to go for paternity test they will say they trust their wife. I pity them
With this kind of cases i am hearing these days eh Forget trust, DNA test is compulsory
Some ladies know they are very guilty. When a man suggest for DNA test They will tell you "If you love me, then you must trust me." Bullshit.

2020 women nothing like trust.
It takes the grace of God to marry a good woman.
I know of a married woman who still has a slight connection with her ex. An the funny part is that her husband is well to do and she is also a working class young lady

Abeg where this life dey go?
Video Bleep for 7k she must be mad

This one na confirmed slay Queen devil

The type of deceitful love nest we men find ourselves in is one that bears a question mark.

Because of the clime we find ourselves, every married couple from 2020 has to undergo DNA test immediately the wife puts to birth

Meanwhile some are looking for partners while others are in stable relationships

I was once in that shoe. Still dealing with it now
It has nothing to do with political wealth.

Now the changes u need to make are:

1: Condition ur body and mind whenever u feel like having sex. Like if u think of those prostitutes, they actually don't feel anything emotional, its just do n go

2: Have a gf that will mean a lot to u... She will give u sex on deserving occassiins not always wen u want itI swear that has helped me.

3: learn how to pray and commit itself to God

4: Engage in activities that will help u forget abt them.

Oga give her space. Simple

Oiza131:
Lol!!
Oya send i.V for the date. I cannot comman start drinking water o. Food is bae

E be like say ginally God wan bless me with bae this year... Oya Send ur contact to belemaokah@gmail.com

darediamond:
High
Now when you do not need her "to have good character or brains or money or a job", then you mean you need her for SEX (used and dumped) alone abi mo pa iro ni?

I Wonder how most men think.
How can I marry a girl without brain? That is the no 1 quality for me sef. She must be intelligent or brilliant not for me but to secure the future of my kids

Oiza131:
He should sha be himself. Because me sef, my brain no get courtesy. No time for pretend mbok. And for the record, should look presentable and smell nice.

I'm here my dear don't look further

Sure its wrong for you to engage in a fight in public.
Everyone has flaws.
But the truth be told. If ur so called bf can say such to u, my dear run because he's not the type that can defend u anywhere and anytime.