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Humanoid01:
Guns Akimbo
Onward
Bad boys for life
Maleficent (Mistress of evil)
Black and blue
6 underground
A fall from grace
Accident man.

Nice movie collections
HV all in my laptop.

Maybe I shud just screenshot my movies section an upload to the nigga

Traditional wedding is the deal we know but legally if something happens... E.g maybe u both need to travel as a spouse, or official documents requires both spouse to do something, sharing of property in casenof death or divorce, the truyh is u can't do any of these... U know wh? U can't be regarded as legally married because you don't have a marriage certificate. Until you HV that which is given at the marriage registry or a licenced place of worship... u can't be said to be legally married.

So technically you need both traditional and secondly you both need to go to the marriage registery and do the needful.

If u want more on this issue let me know.

Finished uni in 2016
Did service in 2018
Finished law school....
Hustling for a good paying job presently

Sirvingeo:
My proudest moment is now ? After concluding service 2017 I couldn't get a good job , though I graduated with a wonderful result. I started learning programming (python , javascript, html and css, sql ), postgre, and wordpress. And I also learnt CCTV installation , CCNA and digital marketing . Early this year i started reaping the fruit of mine labor for the past 1 years plus. I got a job online ,I also had clients that I installed camera and created website.
For now I have like three jobs . I am planning to use my IT skills to make education easier.

That programming shit is something I would like to do but my brain won't allow it.
Wat I do is drag n drop stuffs.
Never made enough money form online stuffs

See as the pusssy wide like ocean and long in length

I plan to before the next general election only that I haven't seen someone.
Even tried to woe someone here but she turned down my offer because of my moniker

Phenomenal16:
Anything that wants to happen shld happen tired already

Maybe hes going through a hard time and he doesnt want to tell you.

Don't worry u will be fine

Test something wey u buy for market before u carry go house but ona no go gree.

People are so engrossed with religion and mix it up with reality.

I hate it when someone brings up a sensitive topic and some nairaland kids just jump in.

Staying in a relationship that is so toxic, that is, demands a lot of attention, jealously etc is very dangerous as it may lead to the other person thinking or doing an unspeakable thing.

Back then in Nigeria, a Nigerian will say I can't kill myself because of one useless boy/man or girl/woman but in 2020 people are actually committing suicide because of little issues in a relationship.
Yes its good to be in love and emotional but let it be with sense.

Nobody is talking about there security details or the drivers and cooks of these politicians.
Its always about themselves.

the deceased husband went to a burial..... funny
she might even be innocent who knows

u see that thing called brokness, dont ever undererate it oo

Its never advisable to date a colleague in the same office and location.

medTechworld:
If You Can’t Marry Her Don’t Date Her.. You Can’t Scratch MTN And Load GLO... Ladies Should I Increase The Volume?

Abeg off that radio

peepydelano:
everytime penis,pusy,penis,pusy.Perverts

Small children just full here.
Did u see boyfriends and girlfriends in the write up?

Nice one. Its Educating for married couples.

Jeweltz:
I am just meeting this guy. We've gone out two or three dates. And I have slept in his apartment just once. One thing I like about him is he's cool, calm and doesn't really talk much. It is hard for me to figure him out sometimes.

So yesterday he told me to come over to his place and spenk my holidays since we've been told to go on vacation at my work place.

Is it right to yield to his request judging that we're only just meeting

Two or three dats... Habaa. Pls go n pay homage

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
Hon I won’t want to get married to a 40-45 year old man either because that tells me he is grossly irresponsible and trifling

Same over here. Won't marry to someone in her 30s.
That's why I wnt a partner early, know ourslfs early an marry before we clock that 30.
It will save us so many things especially having to watch our kids grow.
But wat Nigerian women want is an already made man.

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
Do you really think marriage is that wonderful(Especially to a Nigerian man)? The only reason I want to get married is to appease my family and also I want a kid, being a christian I cannot have one outside marriage. Why would I spend a huge portion of my life with someone I barely know and who might not be worth it? You people think you're so important that you believe that every female needs to clinch one of you by the time she's 22. God forbid[s]. In fact, no marriage till I am 35. I need to enjoy life before subjecting myself [/s]to eternal bondage.

See the reason you gave.
There are good Nigerian men out there even on nairaland but the economic conditions won't allow most of us settle down and to make it worst the type of demanding women we have this days worsens the whole deal.
I'm looking forward to settling down next year ending.
I can bet you if u HV this type of idea, ur marriage will be like Telemundo kind of marriage and will end up in divorce.
I would not like to get married either but I found out that with the right person you could enjoy life whether your both rich or poor.
How do u do these.
1) her playing the part of been submissive
2) both partners understand each other
3) apologizing on time and never sleeping till another day with a pain or anger in mind.
4) going on vacation with your spouse - yes I have seen couples do that even with less income.
5) knowing each others flaws
6) assisting each other financially, emotionally and mentality
7) never using the other persons weakness as a defense or against the person.

Yes we have issues with our partner but These are few things I and my partner talk and plan to do when we get married whether to her or someone else.
I guess your not a slay queen and Even at that your not getting married to a stranger except na arrangeee marriage and neither is it not worth it cos marriage to me is good with the right person that understands you, can protect you and defend you likewise same for you.

The truth is as a man if ur 30-35 n I'm 40 or 45 n want to get married I will never marry you cos I would be wondering what you were doing during your youthful age.

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
yes, 30

wow 30.
how old re u now, is that too much ?

RalphJean:
Dear Evil1
This is the thread you need.

https://www.nairaland.com/2575449/uk-student-visa-tier-4

Thanks

imconfused:
Madam the madam,I don't know anything about England at all so can't suggest places.

I heard Chester,Greater Manchester,Kent,Harrogate, Round hay, Ilkley,York,otley,horsforth are good.Most listed are in the North,I'm not too sure yet .I'm looking for correct pointers to the right places before we enter UKIP zone by mistake.

Scotland is beautiful oo.if you go to the suburbs it's better,green and quiet,places for kids to play etc.
Its also cheaper ,houses cheaper,slower way of life.
If not for certain issues I'd have stayed back,don't discount Scotland oo.
Hopefully you settle in well,welcome ma.

Good day. Pls any idea on visa policy, and on Coventry university. I intend coming in as a student to do my LLM

dupyshoo:
I have answered some of the questions based on my experience. If there are any other specific questions, feel free to ask. I will answer if I have the answer.
* Your visa application experience /adjustment status experience - It was easy for me to adjust as I came in as a student. Had lots of Nigerians around me then

* Picking up your BRP (disadvantage of not travelling within the 1month vignette and protocols to follow in picking it up) - Different process when I came in

* Travelling experience (airlines and airport to use) - Came through Manchester Airport first time in the UK. It is usually less busy than Heathrow Airport and faster to get through immigration

* What are the immigration rules to follow? The common one on almost all visas is "No recourse to public funds" - This means you can't claim benefits. Other rules depend on your kind of visa.

* Visa renewals and what you are entitled to after 5yrs - If you are on Tier 2 and you meet the requirements, you can apply for Indefinite Leave to Remain (Permanent Residence) after 5 years.

* Can you open a bank account while still in Nigeria and what bank has the best customer service and plan - Doubt you will be able to open an account while in Nigeria. Services in most banks are relatively the same. My advice is that you go for the one that will readily accept you as it can be difficult to open account for the first time in the UK

* Which State/suburb did you settle in and why? Greater Manchester, work location

* Public Transportation Vs Driving in the UK - Public transport can be a lot cheaper than driving. The public transport is relatively very good as bus stops are many. I will advise you take public transport initially as it can cost over £1k to pass your driving test.

* Driving in UK? How long can you use your Naija driving license before you get a license? I am not sure of this

* Where you live and why you like it or don't like it? Tips on choosing the right neighborhood.(Internet plans, electricity company to use, setting up a house) I live in a small town (not too busy and affordable accommodation but expensive naija food)

*Renting Vs Mortgage (pitfalls to avoid when choosing mortgage) - I will advise you wait until you are stable before considering mortgage. Not even sure any bank will offer you mortgage if you are new as your credit rating will be very poor. You will need time to build up your credit rating and also save for deposit before taking up mortgage

* Using a credit card (things to avoid) - My advice is this - Always pay up your credit card balance every month

* Childcare for kids below 5 (cost and how do you go about choosing a minder) - I have never used minders as I always have family members around. Childcare cost depends on location. You will be given 15-30 hrs free childcare once your child is 3 year old. Then, the child can start school on the next September after clocking 4.

* Business Tips you can do both over there and abroad - I am not involved in any business but a lot of people are

* How do you send money home (without much loss) - Several people do the business and will give you good rates

* What does the NHS fully cover? - Almost everything except your medications, dental care, eye glasses (these are the few I can remember)

* Tips on raising kids in a western environment as an African - Hmm, it is not easy. No specific way to go about this. Try to teach the child while the child is still young.

* What culture shock have you experienced? I did not know that English people have accents too. It was really a shock to me

* Tips on how to cloth and cope with the cold weather - Wear thermal wear and layers of clothes before wearing your wool jacket

* Nigerian restaurants and market in your location - No Nigeria restaurant, only 1 Naija shop. If you live in London, you will find loads of Naija restaurants.

* How much does your family survive on in a month? - This depends on the family size, where you live and way of life. If you live in London, it can be close to triple of someone that lives in Manchester.

* Developing Nigeria from Abroad (How to go about it) - No idea

* Nigeria Community in Glasgow - Don't live in Glasgow but I have visited and I know there are a lot of Nigerians there.

* Fun things to do This depends on your interest.

Hello good day.
Pls I will like you to help me out on several issues concerning travel and other stuffs.
I intend to do my LLM in UK this year

Full blown Travel restrictions should be placed on China

Preciousgirl:
My senior colleague at work has bought me lunch consistently for about a month now. He is just too good to me. Now he buys me airtime. This afternoon, he brought me a brand new hand bag. Now he knows very well I am married, is he after something? What must I do? Thanks

Ur married and collects unsolicited gifts from the opposite sex.
Are you sure u want to stay married ?

No 2 is the most preferred choice

Jewessgratitudd:
Yeah I know. But I'm done.
Thanks

OK.

Jewessgratitudd:
With the evil one?
Naahhh...
I'm done with nairaland guys.
Thanks though.

Its just an offer of friendship

Jewessgratitudd:
With the evil one?
Naahhh...
I'm done with nairaland guys.
Thanks though.

Wow. Really ?
I dont care How many nairaland guys u tried.
So moniker is now a criteria n reason to turn down a kind offer from a gent.
Well I feel bad that u turn down my offer

Jewessgratitudd:
Thanks.

Don't you think it will be better if we had our own private discussion

Jewessgratitudd:
Thanks.

Don't you think it will be better we have a private discussion