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Havesomesense:
If after sleeping with a man, you expect him to give you money even if it is transport, my dear you are a hook up girl, it does not matter if you are in level one or level ten.

Sirchiboy:
It really baffle me that guys still pay huge amount of money for sex.
50k is someone 2-3 months salary and someone will spend it just in a day.
Just like a Yahoo guy that can hit 10 to 20m a day and still blow that money within one month..
That is someone 35 to 40 years salary..
Look there is nothing in a woman body that is worth every kobo you spend.
As a medical specialist in Himan anatomy and microbiology
I vividly tell you that women toto is full of microgerms and
The money you spend is waste.
The breast you suck, who enjoys it (the women).
The sex is also women that enjoy it.
I know some guys reading this are planning to pay huge amount of money this night for sex.
Please use that money, buy chicken and holladia yoghurt or go to the street and share the money among the less privileged.

dominique:
I don't have high hopes for this refinery. Everything Dangote touches quadruples in price. I hope I'm proved wrong.

Jorussia:
I pray and hope the refinery favour Nigeria.I don't like Dangote.I still feel it was an error to give him license to build such a huge refinery. If 5 persons were given license to 650,000 barrel per day refinery,at least 3 would have been up and running by now.GEJ made mistake by approving 650,000 barrel refinery for only Dangote.

lovediehatelive:
This is so terrible. And one hardly notice except it's time to do the do

lovediehatelive:
A friend of mine took one hot lady home and was visualizing how steamy the night would be.

He was really hard and ready, but as soon as she pulled off, he lost interest immediately and his rock hard pen went flat immediately.

He didn't do anything, why?

Because of one fish like smell.

The girl was wondering what could be the cause, and he wondered if she didn't perceive it.

Please does it mean that ladies that have that fishlike smell down there don't perceive it?

Namaster:
1. Francoise Bettencourt Meyers

Francoise is the richest woman in the world with a net worth of $80.5B.

Her source of wealth is linked to shares in the cosmetics giant L'Oreal. Francoise inherited these from her mother Liliane Bettencourt.

Liliane got the wealth from her father Eugene Schueller who founded L'Oréal. Francoise later collected it from Liliane.

The richest woman in the world inherited her wealth from a man.

Fun fact:

After her mother gave the man she was dating about $1.3B, Francoise took her to court to declare her own mother mentally unstable.

2. Julia Koch

Has a net worth of $59B. Her source of wealth is from 42% ownership of Koch Industries.

She inherited her wealth from her husband David Koch after his death in 2019.

The second richest woman in the world also got her wealth from a man.

3. Alice Walton

Alice Walton has a net worth of $56.7B. Her source of wealth is from shares in Walmart.

She inherited her shares from her father Sam Walton who was a co-founder of WalMart.

The third richest woman in the world inherited her wealth from a man.

4. Jacqueline Mars

Jacqueline Mars has a net worth of $38.3B. Her wealth is traced to shares owned in Mars Inc, a pet and candy giant.

She inherited her wealth from her grandfather Frank C. Mars who founded Mars Inc in 1911.

The fourth richest woman in the world also got her wealth from a man.

5. Miriam Adelson

Miriam has a net worth of $35B. She got her wealth from shares owned in Las Vegas Sands, the largest casino operators in the world.

Miriam inherited shares in Las Vegas Sands after the death of her husband Sheldon Adelson in 2021.

The fifth richest woman in the world got her wealth from a man.

6. Rafaela Aponte-Diamant

Rafaela has a net worth of $31.2B. Her wealth is tied to 50% ownership of Mediterranean Shipping Company (MSC), the largest shipping line in the world.

According to the official MSC website (MSc.com), the company was founded by Gianluigi Aponte, a former ship captain.

Also, the top management of the company provided on the website include Gianluigi Aponte, Diego Aponte and Soren Toft. But no mention of Rafaela Aponte-Diamant.

However, Forbes assigned 50% ownership of the company to Rafaela as a "co-founder". Forbes subsequently dubbed her the richest "self-made" woman in the world.

in other words, the sixth richest woman in the world got her wealth from a man.

7. Susanne Klatten

Susanne has a net worth of $27.4B. She got her wealth from 19% ownership of BMW and 50.1% owned of Altana.

Her father Herbert Quandt was a German industrialist who saved BMW at the brink of bankruptcy. Quandt is also the founder of Altana.

Susanne inherited her shares from him.

The seventh richest woman in the world got her wealth from a man.

8.Gina Rinehart

Has a net worth of $27B. Her wealth can be traced to Hancock Prospecting Group, a mining and agriculture company.

She inherited the business from her father Lang Hancock who founded the company in 1955.

The eighth richest woman in the world got her wealth from a man.

9. Mackenzie Scott

Mackenzie Scott has a net worth of $24.4B. She is the ex-wife of Amazon Founder Jeff Bezos.

Her fortune can be traced to 4% ownership of Amazon she inherited from Jeff Bezos as part of her divorce settlement.

The ninth richest woman in the world also got her wealth from a man.

10. Iris Fontbona

Iris Fontbona has a net worth of $23.1B. Her wealth can be traced to Antofogasta PLC.

Iris inherited Antofogasta PLC from her husband Andronico Luksic Abaroa after his death in 2005.

The tenth richest woman in the world got her wealth from a man.

Takeaway:

10/10 richest women in the world got their wealth from a man.

Put another way, a shocking 100% of the top 10 richest women in the world have their fortunes tied to a man.

What that means?

Without a man in the picture, some of these women would be nothing but school teachers, housewives, a barista or a provision store owner. Others would be working 9 to 5.

What do you think?

P.S. Never take a feminist serious. EVER.

Saintinoo:
I never knew that I will one day write about this, because, of all the advice I have been given, I taught it was love in the air.

Some months ago, I created a thread about how I can't get over my girlfriend and another thread where I confirmed that she was a narcissist. But now, I have not only confirmed that I dated a covert narcissist for four solid years, but I have come to learn a lot about narcissism and how to unmask them. Sadly, we have more narcissist both male and female going into serious relationships.
White you are thinking about the problems in your relationship, the fights everyday, the mental abuse etc, you might just be in a relationship with a narcissist and that is the worst thing that can happen to anybody.

HOW DO NARCISSISTS GET THEIR VICTIMS.

Be it male or female narcissist, they hunt for their victims same way. A narcissist targets an empath, they target people who have something they do not have, learn empathy from you just to use it against you.

They portray themselves as the best thing that can happen to you after egusi soup. Yes, my narc ex portrayed those traits, that wife material characteristics, godly and prayerful, dress decent and act same. Do not be deceived, they know that is what you want in a woman so they give it to you for the while.

They will always talk about forever with you, bring so many fairly tails and give you the soul mate feeling, this you will believe you have found a wife or a husband, then you start making marriage's preparation. They have successfully made you commit. Mine always use this word "forever is the goal". All these is to make you commit and when you have committed, they start the abuse stage.

The narcissist common aim, be it male or female is to get you trauma bonded to them. Trauma bond is a situation when you excuse abuse from someone, go back to your abuser because you are afraid to lose them. I cannot count the number of times I went back to apologize for doing nothing, that is trauma bond working for her.

The narcissist will never apologize for their wrong at the later part of the relationship, they will do wrong, and expect you to take it, when you try to speak up, they give you the silent treatment as a punishment. Yea,because they have groomed their victims so much through the various love bombing stages. I was given silent treatment every time, and yes,after going a week of waiting to see if she will apologize for her wrong, I end up saying sorry. I was groomed during the earlier days to not do without her.

The narcissist will love bomb you at the early stage of your relationship, this is not genuine love,it is a tactics to get you used to them and whenever you try to leave and think of the past memories, you will have no choice than to run back to them until they are ready to discard you. In my case,she calls every day to check on me, would spend over an hour with me on phone, gave me pet names and showed the world that she truly loved me. Those were all lies.

WHAT WENT WRONG BETWEEN I AND MY NARC EX.

For me, i thought she was the last bus stop, in fact I had been planning how our wedding even though I had limited funds at that time, I was ready to go against anybody just to wed my soulmate. But then, this problem keep coming. I felt someone was trying to control me, someone was doing wrong and do not apologize. We kept fighting almost every week, and yes, I kept apologising.

Early this year, I called her to discuss marriage plan, she disagreed with everything and went completely mute, I called the next day to resolve and ask for her opinion, she still went mute, the silent treatment increased. I vowed I am done and will not contact her again, went no contact. After two month, I saw her pic somewhere, and since I was trauma bonded to her and didn't heal completely, I went back begging her for over a week. That is was being trauma bond to a narcissist does, it completely makes you their slave.

During the cause of the discard from my narc ex, she knew that I have been trauma bonded to her and the sight of her pic will bring back memories, she used what is called " flying monkeys " to make me see her pics and believe that I will keep rushing back to beg her, because she enjoy all the abuse.

HOW DO YOU KNOW THAT YOU DATING A NARCISSIST; if you do any of those thing I did, you are dating a narcissist.

1. I beg for her attention when she gives silent treatment.
2. I felt like she is just the one.
3. I do not look at any other lady not even a friendly look because all my attention was around her.
4. Her eyes goes dark when she is angry.
5. She shouts and insults to any extent when angry.
6. When she wrongs me and I refuse to call and apologize for reacting, maybe for 5 days or a week, she rages in anger.
7. She belittles me when she is angry, this is a common trait with a narc, male or female.
8. From her story, during our love days, and from my findings her dad is a narc. Pls try and know your lover parent, narc is hereditary.


Did I talk about how I later confirm that my Darling angel was a terrible covert narcissist.

Early this year, I had a neighbor whose 2 years old daughter exhibited the same traits my ex exhibited, the anger, the manipulation, the gaslighing, everything.

Finally, narcissists are demonic, look for these red flags in your relationship and end the relationship the minute you confirm that you date is a narc, there is no changing them, I tried and got hurt. The narc know what he/she is doing.

Narcissism is hereditary and they are born that way, they keep getting worse by the day, so best is to avoid them.

Drops pen.

gigfx:
This type of news will be a common type going forward, those coys even try to be in operation up until now. The day Emilokan said petrol subsidy has being removed, for any fast thinking citizen supposed don know all this will happen and this type is just the beginning, more coys to join and more unemployment will follow. Crime is another think that will increase.

For a govt that removed subsidy and continue spending like say nothing happen to the economy. The shame is on the cizitens especially those ones that will praise govt, on hearing some stupid promises.

Anywhere in the world, people dont praise govt, they are not using their papa or mama money, they are using our collective resources and Tax generated from me and you and coys like this one.

If all these coys close and no enough corporate tax for govt, just know that the burden go still come ontop those managing with the little job they have.

owagbeba:
It is very difficult to do business in Nigeria. P&G import raw materials for their local production. Just like many business including mine, it is difficult accessing forex.

Take this example

You have a shipment worth 70,000USD at Apapa port. You apply for form M, then you pay 300k SON documentation to apply PAAR.

You get a surface duty of 10,500,000 which goes up to 15,000,000 After DTI computation and entry.

You pay your stipulated, only to see on Ascoda system that your import has been alerted by the same folks at Abuja that issued you PAAR for no reason. Then you begin negotiating for the cancellation of this alert. Negotiation equals settlement in this part of the world. You go through the hoop settling myriad of agencies: police, CIU, SoN, DC squad , chief examiner. Etc.

Finally you get an exit note. Customs at Gate now queries your exit note. They say your 20% duty rate is not sufficient. Government has a target to meet. You have to settle or else you get a DN. When you are done with all these groups eager to get a bit off you, you are faced with another group on the roads: FOU and Agbero. The whole process of doing anything in this country is sooooooo frustrating .

The funniest part… don’t ever think the past is gone. There is a new group called customs post audit. They review all previous releases and re-issue DN on these cleared cargos. Every dept has a target to meet. You must cough up or be damned…. Go figure!

Sirchiboy:
You can never succeed if you are too soft, gentle or kind.

Quality20:
I know people in love relationships are expected to trust their partners 100%, but these days that many ladies are smarter than men coupled with the high poverty rates across societies in the country. Many men now find it difficult to trust their female partners. Some would never allow themselves to marry girls from tertiary institutions or allow their female partners go tertiary schools/work. They would rather prefer to marry lowly educated village girls whose eyes haven't opened very well or who are very naive of happenings in the societies.
Many men believe that its just too easy for women to cheat and not be found out. Some Ladies can easily make out, Provided there is enough secrecy. So, guy, how far do u trust ur partners? Do u think she can withstand all those very funny energetic play boys and very rich employers, classmates or market men out there? Do u trust her that if u travel out of the country for months, she wouldn't go back to her old boyfriends?

NBAjunior:
I do spent not less to 16k on my monthly subscription but it doesn’t stilll last up to a month and I only watch TikTok with this data

Omo I’m tired.

Beuberry:
If car no jam you this week, police ll catch you, or make dog bite you.
Except if I no dey on my menstruation na hin my curse no go catch you!

Beuberry:
Evolutionism, I wish you GOODLUCK this Xmas season. Amen.

Blazadenise:
Imagine life of nigeria civil servant ....35k money that cant buy half bag of rice with 2 paint of garlic what a life.

kabanayol9:
We are naturally wicked, self centered and are the most religious in the world, though not all, there are still some good people amongst us.

How can someone that claimed to have won 5million naira the previous day from his fixed game still be asking me Emmanuel wey mama born use showel back to pay 3k before giving me that same "legit fixed game", who does that?

Same goes to people doing yahoo yahoo, you don't want to work but you want to be driving the latest ride, live big e.t.c, using innocent children, men, women and greedy women for your rituals, please use your family if you must do it.

Same also goes to our politicians making life difficult for her citizens, no single basic amenities that is functioning in this country, be it yoruba, Igbo, hausa or any other tribe, they are all the same, enriching themselves, family, friends and associates with the nations wealth, money 💰 wey dem go spend in the year 2024 dey don read am as budget.

My advice to my fellow nigerians who are still good people, be thankful and grateful to GOD Almighty with the little you have always, HE will do more, be a better version of yourself, don't join bad trend's, don't get jealous unnecessarily, pray to GOD Almighty, eat whatever you have with joy, drink water and mind your business.

On a final note, we came with nothing, we are all going back with nothing.

reddingtonblack:
seems you don't have spec

gadgetplanetng:
Jesus Christ didn't get married

Beuberry:
You are a mumuman! You followed advise from rapists, dirty boys wearing one boxer short for one week, sex only brain boys, lazy and unrealistic high expectations boys on this forum. Don't you see that those boys coming here to complain about females have no joy?
They are looking for what their mothers didn't give their fathers and what their sisters didn't do for their husbands. You took wrong advise cos this forum isn't a yardstick to judge all women.

You are still looking for advise from losers. Most of the males here are political jobbers, atheists, antichrists and sex only in the brain boys roaming romance section. They are good at condemning and not offering solutions. They are like DaddyFreeze, Sheikh Gumi, FFK and Reno Omokri. Always eating from pits and defending evil via packaging.

Lol, 😂 you mean you do have erections? 🤣
Stick to masturbation and oloshos naa. Mary both of them or you also get a baby mama. By the grace of God, women are more wiser and I won't tolerate any loser of a man to mess with my life.

See MikeofKd or Michael of Kaduna, you are a joker. You can't receive what you don't have.
Get a well behaved woman to marry. Ignore bad counsels from this site. You sef reason am, go through this thread, have you gotten a good advise except this one I gave you?

MikeofKd:
Good day Nlanders, pls I need the wisest counsels of wise Nlanders. I have a problem which is lack of commitment to women, ive been this way since I left uni, and pls know that this isnt due to masturbation or any sorts, cause I havent done that thing since my teenage years.

I meet a woman today , we vibe, connect and all but i'm just damn too scared to commit any woman no matter how good she is. I'm scared that if I continue this way I may likely find it really difficult to get married.

Seeing and experiencing different complains of men in real life and on the forum as made my commitment issues with women only worse. I'm currently working, fair pay, got my own place, I'm doing quite well for myself. Ive met different women this year that were good women, but I fear if I give my heart to them they may switch up, women are too complicated naturally to cope with.

This fear of commitment is seriously holding me back from getting a serious relationship. My only fear is if I continue this way I may not get married. I need the counsels of wise nairalanders to advice me on what to do concerning this commitment issues cause it quite depressing no lies.

I form hard guy, but deep down I really be craving for a romantic relationship, I'm just too scared to give any woman my heart cause ive been hurt in past relationships . So hurt that even when I had a good woman I couldnt see it and I lost her.

Your Wise advice and counsels would be deeply appreciated thanks.

baralatie:
And the men who patronize commercial sex workers on a steady basis are wise?

efficiencie:
There are other factors not being considered. Many believe only single ladies do this olosho business but many married women are also into this. Married women even seem to be more interesting supplier these days because men expect that married women will be wary of getting STDs considering that there is a high possibility of her being caught and she doesn't want to be caught. Unwanted pregnancy due to sex without protection will only be an issue when the married woman decides to get pregnant for whatever reasons best known to her and this will usually come at little to no cost to those who patronize them.

Plus men also expect that this set of married women already have a fool, their husband, who is providing for her basic needs.

And hence such women tend to substitute more sex work for leisure. So, as the price of condoms and sex rise due to the hardship, inflation and exchange rate depreciation, one of the implications of this is that more promiscuous men may substitute more married women and porn for single women in the olosho industry and remain on their currently satisfactory level of utility. The social implication of this dynamic is too mind boggling to visualize.

codedgalaxy:
(old skool way, lets go!!)
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~ They cuddle each other.
~ They engage in passionate kisses.
~ They call each other pet names.
~ They feel each others private,( boobs,clit,etc).
~ Whem they watch porn, they are more intrested on the gender who posses same attributes same as them.
~ their phones are littered with half naked pics of their own gender damn!
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Dear esteem nl jury, with this aformentioned points of mine i propose the motion that, this gender are all "homosexuals biological" .

Ps....> this thread is not a bashing thread but, a sphere for intellectual exploration.

fineboynl:
Why do Nigerians complain?

What does blaxk race expect when they sell votes both in primary election and main election.

Election are not cheap and in today Nigeria is for the highest bidder. Some Senetor spend over 300-500m to become senator. President spend over 100-300 billion to become president .

Atiku has wasted over a trillion in all his failed bid to become president.

Black people has the lowest IQ in the whole world just after orangutan.

Nigeria is in mess today because of black race and low IQ. Not just politicians but the generality on the people.

Angrigowt:
Idiot
Why would u jump out from a keke. Oponu. Una never see tear gas before .