₦airaland Forum

ibkayee:
So she just served him divorce papers for absolutely no other reason other than she wanted to stay in the US?

The guy sounds very possessive and controlling, so whilst I can’t categorically say he did anything or what he did, I won’t be surprised if there are gaps in this story and incriminating details have intentionally been left out.

Something about this story creeped me out

Akwaokukuo:
Thanks so much for your wonderful advice.
I never even see the girl physically, she was recommended to me by a relative.
If I bring her to the abroad without legally marrying her, it is more risky because it means that she can marry someone else and abandon you.
Sponsoring someone to the UK is around 20million naira , I have the money actually but I don't plan to waste it on someone who would abandon me for someone else after investing almost all my lifesavings on her. It could be suicidal.
As for the sex part, it will also be bad because abroad is really very lonely and depriving me of sex is punishment because I have only had sex once since I moved to abroad and currently sexually deprived. Na masturbation I dey use relieve myself here while focusing strictly on myself and on money.
No lovelife, no funlife, strictly hustle and personal development for many years now

franchasng:
Very emotional story, life, sighs



The UK study route is a good move to secure the future of your kids at least, but I doubt the proceeds from selling the car will be enough.



For a family of 3, it will cost you at least 13million with huge proof of funds to secure the visa.


You need to pay around 6million naira first installment for your school fees, are you aware? UK visa fee for you, your kids will gulp nothing less than 3million. Your flight tickets, your accommodation and settling down in UK, have you factored all these expenses?



I don't have a word for your husband, if what you described about him is the truth, you have really tried and deserve a better life free of more dramas and future uncertainties

God1000:
Congrats, you are blessed with beautiful kids.

3 is enough bro, you just have to upgrade her from baby mama, make things legal and official because some cultures don't recognize this.

It is very necessary for the legitimacy of your union.

Nextlife1:
We are married for more than 5 years now and I love her
Reason for me to send her to study.

Asgard13:
Delegates go build House this year if dem com back fro Abuja..

Dis ones Dey online with noise

jimmychang:
Your living yet you are dead inside

Amperes:
FUNFACT:

1) Vladimir Putin is 70 years old .

2) Our darling Jagaban is 70 years old.

Thank you.

9gerian:
It appears only Russia could have successfully pulled of such a dramatic action on the petrodollars, and even then, it took crippling sanctions for Russia to make the move.

The last time Ghadafi suggested something similar, he was taken out.

Now, more nations have been emboldened: China, India, Saudi Arabia, Israel and the list keeps growing.

Jashub:
I dey laugh all these European countries and their sanctions. Anyway, death to all the capitalist pigs out there.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Well she might not go for a long term...might not even go..
A plea in mitigation should be made to the court by her lawyer..

nedekid:
Kai, this UK no sorry for Ukraine and its people come join with the Commedian president.
They really want that country to be in ruins!

seunny4lif:
;DThey said it in March then April and now May again
Russia is the second largest exporter of weapons that even USA ally like South Korea military weapons for air defence and navy missiles uses Russia tech.

Russia already seized almost the size of UK from Ukraine

siofra:
Mtchewwweeeeewwww!!!


You disrespected her privacy and expected to see what

Ntoorrr!!

Lenient001:
Our people go be like.. Are they not trying to enslave us again.. Lol

God1000:
They should vote for him please, he might just do wonders

KingKO22:
You are either too small or chose to be a dimwit as regarding who Jagaban of Africa is

Thats the reason why your pathetic Ohaneze nd Ndi falling sun leaders has been writing letters upon letter to Jagaban to allow your lazy politicians to emerge as party candidate.

Your elders will never underestimate and ridicule the one and only slayer of Ndi cannibalism

President2001:
By the time the man come out and narrate his story, everyone may be surprised

LeoDeKing:
Yes, Nigerians desperately want Tinubu to be their president.

fineboynl:
People who don't drink not to talk of being addicted to drink don't know what God has done for them.

It's difficult to save money or plan if you drink every night and hang out.

If you are a Hangout addict and drinks you will understand what I'm talking about with the current economy in the country.

I know how much I spend a night for normal paging even on a low key.

Thousands will just go like that before you knows it. Couple with all other bills to pay.

LordIsaac:
I've often wondered where such a man would retire to....

Mooh247:




Everyone wants to contest one post or the other even former billionaire like Jimoh Ibrahim


How billionaire go dey drag senate seat


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Wizzy13:
i was invited and i was even to pay for it
am cute, i have rejected many offers from girls to do that with them just because of her
i feel its over between us cos its shows a lot

Dump her quick before she does she doesn't have you in her immediate or future plans she is just cruising you until she finds a better man.

OluwoR:
Good evening my brothers and sisters,

I sincerely needs urgent help/assistance for my Fiancee.

Met her in 2012, started dating in 2014, had our first sex in 2019, but since that 2019, anytime I make moves to have sex with Her, it's always through fight, to cut the story short, she find sex extremely painful that even anything that pass cuddling, she'll start crying, this might sound funny, but seriously it is not.
I talked to Her about it, booked an appointment with a gynecologist, my babe didn't show up, I tried to get her sexual supplements, she said they have side effects, and she disposed them.

Now, the problem is, we're planning our introduction, and we're yet to get any solution to the problem at hand,
please, who have any idea of what we can do about it.

oldienavie:
So I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 months and she is perfect, actually she is a virgin, well behaved and very respectful. The relationship is going very fine but I am starting to really think deeply and I may just break up.
Why ? I have lived abroad for a while and do have a very serious phobia for travelling on Nigerian roads, her parents are a journey of 4 hours from where I am and I understand the area is rife with kidnapping and robbery of all sorts.

I find myself obsessing over having to make that trip to her parents place and also have my family embark on that journey and I always shudder at the thought of it.

I am seriously considering breaking up with her and looking for a lady whoose parents are here in the same city I reside, cos one of the things that gives me serious head ache is travelling on Nigerian roads.

Since I got back to Nigeria I have not travelled outside of the city that I am and it is because of how serious that phobia is.

But how do I tell her I am breaking up with her for this reason, it sounds very trivial but its a serious issue for me.

McOluOmo:
Dead party and would be finally be buried come 2023









Guys wey no get girlfriend get peace of mind

McOluOmo:
Dead party and would be finally be buried come 2023

Don't you want any opposition at all, with what is going on in the country? The country is finished, I can't even go to my village for fear of being kidnapped not to talk of other lows, if PDP managed to get themselves into power they fail to provide the necessary basics of life you can as well throw them out. Don't be scared about voting for opposition, voting for APC means we accepts all what is happening in the country today. I live majority of my life abroad you must learn to creat competitions for political parties or else they will take you/us for granted. Forget ethnics or religious differences this politicians are here to destroy us, we must learn our way of surviving them bros or else we have no country I am here for luv all my 5 children are born and live in London I don't have to be here but for love. Let's give other people chance of life.










Guys wey no get girlfriend get peace of mind

McOluOmo:
Dead party and would be finally be buried come 2023
Don't you want any opposition at all, with what is going on in the country? The country is finished, I can't even go to my village for fear of being kidnapped not to talk of other lows, if PDP managed to get themselves into power they fail to provide the necessary basics of life you can as well throw them out. Don't be scared about voting for opposition, voting for APC means we accepts all what is happening in the country today. I live majority of my life abroad you must learn to creat competitions for political parties or else they will take you/us for granted. Forget ethnics or religious differences this politicians are here to destroy us, we must learn our way of surviving them bros or else we have no country I am here for luv all my 5 children are born and live in London I don't have to be here but for love. Let's give other people chance of life.








Guys wey no get girlfriend get peace of mind

Cutehector:
Still go for the meeting

ETHICALLYrlght:
If I were in your shoes, after her confession, I'd hold her tight, caress her body and kiss guilt out of her mind.

I'd cuddle her and if she wants more I'll give her the appropriate dosage for sexual healing.

You're not romantic, that's the problem.

When was the last time you went to the Cinema with your wife?

When was the last time you sent her a voice noice at work telling her, "sweetie, I wanna sniff your panties right now, pull it down gently with my teeth and worship your body which is the reason I still live".

Do you remember that period when your relationship was younger? When you couldn't stay a day without calling her for minutes if she wasn't with you? When you'd go for dates and tell her you'd buy London for her? When you made her forget there was any man in her life before you and so she accepted to be your woman forever?

Go back to those days. If possible, get her a wedding gown and yourself a suit and remake your vows in your living room. If you have kids let them be part of it. Promise to love her forever and ever and let her be your best friend who will tell you everything including when she uses the toilet.

If you went to the world's best marriage counselor who had saved first year marriages that could have crashed to reach 4 decades of joy and happiness, their recommendation wouldn't be different from mine.

If you follow my advice and it doesn't produce positive results, mention me and I'll deactivate my account.

Born2Breed:


You fall Edo hand. Na you dem just use take play bebeye like this.

Are you sure the kids are yours?

If yes, then go there with full force and collect your kids. Them not dey kpai custom officer?

I swear u be ozuor.

janejjjjj5000:
No, sir. We have not.

This is a good idea.

I just feel so tired and unmotivated to work on the marriage.