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Every woman needs a big brother like this ...

A brother that would encourage you to hustle and make something profitable outta your life rather than going about trying to date a man when your life is still in the mud ...

YINKS89:
well you said your point but as a male you might not really know how they would feel except you are in their shoes

Hahahahah ...
So hilarious ...

That's the problem with the modern man & society at large, we have pampered women to the point where we don't tell them the truth because of how they would "feel" about it ...

And this can be detrimental to them ...
A clear example is what the OP described ...

Imagine turning a man down, not because he is a bad person or he is abusive or something, but simply because she "feels" that he wouldn't see her va.gina as "special" ...

Have you seen where all this have gotten us to? ...

The average lady feels that the hole in-between their legs is "special" and so they believe that once they have that hole, every male out there has to be at their beck and call ...

It is precisely because of this that the modern girl think with their va.gina and feel that just having a va.gina can get them anything they want ...

And until we start telling them the truth, it not going to end anytime soon ...

And the truth is this, there is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING special about the va.gina, nothing ...

And that's not an opinion, it's a fact! ...
And the funny thing about fact is that it doesn't give a mess about how you feel ...

It's so pathetic that the average woman still thinks her va.gina is special ...

And it's even more pathetic that a woman turned down a man all because she feels the man won't see her va.gina as special ...

Women please understand that there's ABSOLUTELY NOTHING special about your v.agina, nothing! ...

It's just a two way hole, shikenah ...

What is easily seen loses value! ...
Everywhere on the internet or on the streets are girls flashing va.gina upandan and you still expect it to be considered valuable? ...

I can boldly say that the average guy in the 21st century have seen more va.gina than a gynaecologist in the 19th century ...

So please go and work on yourself, cause that hole in-between your leg is as cheap as biscuits ...

And besides, what makes a woman special is her loyalty and character! ...

So if you want to be considered as "special", you gotta have something that is rare amongst females in this times and blimey va.gina is not one of those things ...

This guy is mad! !!!!!!!
Please castrate him asap ...

Even if you can't approach mature women, aren't they ash.awo quarters you can relieve yourself?! ...

Why take advantage of minors! ...
Please castrate this guy immediately before he destroys more lives ...

As long as she opens her legs for you whenever you want, respects you, is supportive and cooks and clean, I see absolutely no reason why a man should need another woman ...

There's absolutely nothing wrong in that ...

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I've sent a message to your mail already.

LordIsaac:
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You said your boss was standing by the door, so I'm guessing you were at work ...

In a work environment, your work and by extension your boss becomes a priority over things unless in cases of family emergencies ...

If I were in your shoes, I would've just laughed it off and be like "daddddy you know that you're my priority and my king, but I need the money to take care of you well na" ...

"So make I answer my boss before them deny me my salary, I'll call you back okay?" ...

That should've done the trick

muller101:
Op your are very mean. You could have just got on your knees and re tight it in a way that only a cutlass can be used to get the damn thing loosened.

Hahahahhaha ...
You're not okay o ...

cocolacec:
Nigerian men and comments.Why dont you try to calculate the woman's fertile oeriod to ascertain the probable father in this case.If men can calculate a woman's fertile period and time of ovulation,you can escape Paternity fraud.

A woman goes out and cheats on her husband and it's the man's fault for not carrying calculator to calculate her ovulation & fertile period? ...

The way y'all sim.ps and women just can't take accountability for your actions and keep pushing the blame to men is just mind-blowing ...

So what happens in a case where she had s.ex with both her ex and her hubby on the same day? ...

The hubby should now calculate the time of s.ex ba? ...

Tufiakwa!!!!!!!! ...

I can't even entrust a girl with 2k to hold for me, talk more of saving money with her ...

What happened to a bank or doing contribution or even keeping it in a savings box? ...

Abeg o...
That emotional gender can't be trusted with money - to avoid stories that touch the heart ...

Feminist wey still dey beg urgent 2k, that one na feminist? ...

Tbh, there's no difference between modern day feminism and misandry - none whatsoever ...

Those lots just go about like headless chicken thinking men are their problem, when in reality they are their own problem - bunch of nitwits if you ask me ...

In fact, once I discover that a girl is a feminist, I delete her from my life asap ...

Cause you can't be fighting for equality and yet still want things to be handed over to you on a platter, that's witc.hcraft ...

If you're half as good as anyone out there, then go and compete fair and square - don't come online and be yelling "give women a chance" ...

A girl who still keeps in touch with her ex is a huge red flag for me ...

Once I find out, it's one of two things:

Either you delete your exes from your life or I delete you from mine - there's no two ways about it ...

Juliearth:
Can two wrongs make a right?

Nope, but paying people back in their own coin will teach them a very valuable lesson they'll never forget and give you a sense of satisfaction ...

I dunno about you, but hurting those who hurt me in the same measure that they did, gives me a pleasure that only money and orgasm can rival ...

So it's not about "right" or "wrong", it's about giving folks a taste of their own medicine ...

I agree with this submission ...

If Mr Seun do decide to implement this, I'll gladly be a part of his paid writers ...

Juliearth:
You have raised cogent points dearie, but number 1 is quite offsetting. This may give room for undue favouritism and display of personal vendetta.

Yeah. That's true ...
Any ideas how we could go around that?🤷

Seun:
Ladies and gentlemen, the Romance section has gone to the dogs because of the inactivity of the current moderators.

We need 2 new moderators who are passionate about Romance and Nairaland and can dedicate sufficient time to remove inappropriate content, ban people who break the rules, and create threads on hot topics to ensure that the Romance section attracts more engagement.

Most importantly, the war between men and women in this section must end. Women need to feel safe to participate and share their views in this section without being harassed by men. And vice versa. This requires consistent and unyielding enforcement of the rules every day.

If you know someone fit for this role, please nominate them. Someone who has been consistently active in this section for a long time, and who has not been a habitual rule-breaker during this time. If you're nominated, please indicate your acceptance, and let's talk.

PS: Sorry, you can't nominate yourself. Someone must nominate you and then you can accept the nomination if you're interested.

Good morning Mr. Seun ...

I would've loved to apply for this role because I'm certain that I'm the right man for the job, but since one can't nominate oneself, then I'd like to offer a few suggestions that I believe might improve the romanceland ...

1. Whoever you choose to be mods must be put before the people for scrutiny. You probably don't know the people here as much as the people know them, so it's best you listen to the people's opinions on this ...

So once you've decided, create a poll where people "like" to choose and "share" to remove, and then make your decision from there ...

2. Make sure there is a monthly evaluation of your mods. That way you keep them up on their feet so that they don't become partial in discharging their duties ...

3. If any mod in the Romanceland is found guilty of being biased in their judgement 3 times, they should be removed immediately! ...

I know you may not have the time to enforce all these, that's why I'd like to apply for the position of Romanceland mod coordinator ..

I'll ensure that every mod on romanceland is up on their feet in discharging their duties ..

Thank you for you time.

Women are their own worst enemies ...

All that talk of "women supporting women" is trash! ...

advanceDNA:
True life story

W: I made him....how dare he marry another person.....

M: What did u do that made him successful

W: Well.......standing by his side when he had nothing...

M: u mean just by being in his life and eating the little he had, translated to wealth... What about all his risks, loans, struggles, his decisions that paid off??

W: what do u mean?? standing by his side made it work...without me ..all his struggles won't work.... My head made him successful....

lordnkem000:
Sir if I had come to beg for food I will be insulted and humiliated and called many names but i am begging for help to learn an IT skills because I need to be useful and not beg. Please help me, instead let me work for you after I finish learning

Sincerely man, I'm really too occupied to teach right now (too many projects at hand) and even if I wanted to teach, it wouldn't be for free ...

The best I can do for you right now is give you access to a Udemy course that teaches those tech skill at a very subsidized rate ...

I would've done it for free, but experience have taught me that people never value what is free and so you'll need to pay for it - think of it as a "commitment fee" ...

If you're interested in it, send me a pm and then we'll see how things go from there ...

That's a woman's responsibility na, so why the fuss? ...

I mean, if she can't cook for her family (in addition to others), what's her use? ...

lordnkem000:
Honestly I prefer IT skills, any one of them since I'm conversant with computers

Get yourself a course man and start learning, sincerely that's all you need - a good course ...

If you're interested in getting a Udemy course at something very affordable, send me a pm ...

Little21:
Are you listening to yourself right now?
I never said cheating is good, but doing this because you caught her cheating is below senseless.
If a man can do this because he caught his cheating wife, then a wife can as well do as she pleases when the husband is caught. Not just accepting "I'm sorry" without doing a thing.
Then the equation would be balanced.

I wish you did the bolded before engaging ...

And besides, no one forces the woman to accept the apology of a cheating husband ...

If she chooses to forgive him, then it's all good, if she chooses to act in a way that you describe as "below senseless", then it's still her prerogative to do so ...

Regardless, it is "senseless" condemning a reaction and yet be silent on the cause of it - doing that negates the very foundation of your argument ...

Good day! ...

Little21:
The man is really a senseless adult.
Does catching her cheating really warrant this type of retaliation? Men have been caught cheating by their wives numerous times, and I have yet too see them do senseless things like this. Infact they do nothing just crying their eyes out while he continues cheating.

What if their kids sees it? Very senseless way to go about things.

Don't you think she would've thought about her kids before she cheated on her husband? ...

And besides, you're calling out the man for his outburst, forgetting that it was his wife's action that triggered this - doesn't seem valid in my opinion ...

If I hit you a baton on the head, will you be seen as "senseless" when you over power me and break my arm with the baton in self defense? ...

Come on now, let's use our heads for a sec. Whilst I think there are better ways he could've handled this, but calling out a reaction without first addressing the cause of it is, in your own words senseless ...

Pharaoh4rin:
You seems to be talking out of experience.

My remaining 3 girlfriends are something else: two are
One of them is extremely beautiful but she smokes
The 2nd person is equally as beautiful as Ini edo but she's dirty,
The third one from the north is not as beautiful but has the best shape in the world. She has the character, respect for herself and a thoroughbred but she's not as beautiful as d other two. With what you said, I may have to rethink, cus I'm a cruisechamp and I don't know... I don't know...

A lot of folks quoting me don't get my point...
I'm not saying beauty and looks aren't important, all I'm saying is, beauty as compared to character, doesn't hold so much water ...

And besides, beauty can fade in a heartbeat (skin infection, accident etc), but character usually won't fade way just like that ...

So why pay attention to something that can easily fade away in favor of something that is likely to last almost a life time? ...


Also, children spend more time with their mum's than with their dads. Which means children are more easily influenced by their mum's than their dads (remember the law of association?) ...

So ask yourself, is it beauty that will raise my kids or is it character? ...

Putting it into perspective
If I don't want my kids to be smokers, I don't marry a smoker for a wife or be a smoker myself ...
If I don't want my kids twerking online and showing their bodies, I don't marry a woman who sees nothing wrong in twerking and showing her nu.des online ...

I know kids can go astray and all, but I think you get the point ...

malvisguy212:
she made it clear, she did not love him. of tomorrow she cheat on her husband, you'll be the first to cast a stone on her.

I also made it clear that "if it's a deal breaker for her, she should tell him off and prolly seek the face of God on the matter if she's a believer" ...

I guess you're too "bright" to see that ...

Mayplays:
So bleeping what? Is all you wrote what keeps a marriage together? Attraction is very important, that’s a no brainer
He’s attracted to her, that’s why he’s doing that
She’s not attracted to him so she won’t reciprocate the care and attention
Leaving him to find who loves him like he loves her is the best thing she can do for him, she is literally disgusted with him and you want her to pretend and reap the benefits his real life partner is supposed to

I don’t pray for any male in my family to meet a person with this kind of mentality, no offense but you sound like a user, Abeg advise her to let him go so he can find the love of his life

I don't take offense to what very "bright" people have to say tbh ...

And if you had taken time to read and understand before you came crying on my mention like a crazed goat on heat, you would've seen the place where I wrote the following ...

But IT'S YOUR CALL ....
Since this is a deal breaker for you, then TELL HIM OFF ...
If you're a believer, you should SEEK THE FACE OF GOD ON THIS MATTER ...

But I guess this flew past your head ...
You must really have a "high" IQ ...

This is a very balanced write up ...

I personally don't want a woman to "build" with me ... Let her use that "building materials" to build herself instead ...

akube34:
na y I ask for clarity na

If there's one thing that marriage has taught over the years its that, the things that makes it work aren't physically based - it's character based (majorly) ...

No matter how fine your spouse is...
No matter how good a se.x stylist your spouse is...
No matter how rich or how good a cook your spouse is, their character or a lack of it can make marriage feel like hell ...

This is not say physical attraction isn't important, but in the big scheme of things and in the long run, physical characteristics doesn't hold water as compared to character ...

I'm not saying she should marry against her wishes or her "spec", nahhhh, that's her prerogative ...

All I'm saying is that she pays more attention to what will be the most significant in the long run - and blimey, physical characteristics is not it ...

akube34:
I don’t understand. Should she marry who she is not attracted to? See the first is attraction. Others comes second

Clearly, you don't ...