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blakky97:
if you want to be the person checking people in line: maybe you should be prim and proper enough to change that dp of yours. much emphasis is laid on your as.s. put up a decent dp and then correct people as you please.

CLASSIC!!! I thought I was the ONLY one who's always reasoned in that line. And to think she ALWAYS revels in it, beats me.

By the way, are you in a higher institution? Bros, you write badly!
Well, my advice would be, stay away from "boyfriends and girlfriends" (relationship) when you are in your first (100 level) year and second (200 level) year. And I tell you, you'd do just fine.

Let me not be forgotten please. Let them remember me hatefully all they want; at least I'm remembered and above all, I'm yet alive.

Mine is 2 and 5, Caligynephobia and Chorophobia respectively. Yes, I said it.
And that's just the truth, the fear of beautiful women; and ironically, only beautiful women ever get to come close to me. I have never danced in public before: I dread that thing like arghh!! In fact, I can't even be caught dead, dancing. I always admire guys dancing so heartily on their wedding days. God please help me.

When two (mature) role models refused to act as one.
We all know the elections in Rivers State were flawed just the way we know that of the Northern part of the country were [flawed], especially in the Presidential election; but like Koro rightly said, "for the larger interest of the state/people," at least just like Jonathan did, let him (if he can't congratulate) move on. If he has any grievances, the court is there for him. And you, Mr Koro, please stop looking for or stirring up unnecessary troubles (by instigating a tweeter war that could degenerate into something 'else').
We want peace in Nigeria and not war, be it tweeter, political, nairaland, facebook, street, [or] government war, or even anyone at that.

Ok. But I still get to see some people who start dating straight away without necessarily starting as friends [at first]. But I like the advice though.
And mind you, it is 'courtship' not 'curtship' I guess you modify the post, so many errors.

haryomikun:
I usually made d same mistake before too

We all learn from each other, and that's why we're here for each other.

Bants:
All na same thing tomato and tometo

Lol. Ok.

praxs:
Isis beheading, slaughtering, burning all sort of evil deeds one can think of, are they also Africans? Go to Burma in Asia and see how people's head are chopped off and cooked.. Maybe they are Africans. I am in no way defending what s/Africans did but labbeling Africans as animals is totally wrung. Because of the way other parts of the world detest a black man, they decided to pick on evrytin the black man does, an its so unfortunate that even we the Africans have accepted to be called animals. We have seen how Isis set ablaze a Jordanian pilot, how people are being murder and hang there heads on city gates but hardly u hear someone labelling them as animals. S/A, this is totally inhuman and may this be reciprocated to u in ten folds wen u go to other countries. *those that have hands in that*

I didn't say and I am not saying we, Africans, are animals please. I only said (and if you get my point correctly) that we, 'Africans,' shouldn't in any way tolerate this inhuman act. I condemn it just the same way I condemn the ISIS acts.
I get your point though, and thanks.

Haha, some people nor just get shame sha.
Trying to 'placate' Tinubu just in case Buhari tries to probe him so that the man, Tinubu, would wade in and 'rescue' him. Talking about double standards in politics, there you have it, folks.
Kashamu you're on your own - no Jona to 'save' you again. So he suddenly realise Tinubu's importance overnight? No doubt, Tinubu is now one of the most influential Yoruba men alive today, but Dear Gen. Buhari, in your "fight against corruption" please remember Tinubu o.

I just don't know what to say. One person's problem is another's enjoyment.
There are ladies who would even do anything and try anything just to have one or two of that in a day, even in a week. But here she is, with so much of it and yet, "suffering."

^^ the guy above has said it all. So I rest my case.

They sell [their] bodies more than they sell [their] music. Well, I said 'they' and 'their,' so it's none of my business.
Happy wedding anniversary, though.

Huh? You mean nobody knew she was even pregnant even down to the day of delivery? She must really have a flat tummy and the baby must have been so small too...
Meanwhile, oro tani ki baba magbo, baba na ni o pari e.

blackjack21:
you are very unwise with your words. So westernization is the latest emblem for humane behavior?
Downgrade your phone and upgrade your brains.



00:10:04
Thu, Apr 16, 2015

I have been observing your comments lately sir, especially when you quote people - very rude and very uncouth.

I SMH and I LOL to this, sarcastically so too.

Imagine! Just imagine! Even when you think South Africa is far ahead of the rest of Africa in terms of development and 'westernization' then all of a sudden you get to see this; pathetic I must say!
South Africa, a country that is supposed to be a model of some sort for the rest of Africa, suddenly gets to disappoint you on such a large scale. EPIC DISAPPOINTMENT!
You see why we're still this stagnant and backward in Africa? Because we all have the same mindset and or mentality; we are all still Africa and Africans after all: this is so much of the why the rest of the world never takes us too seriously, after all.
If South Africa, the country the rest of the world looks up to as the model for Africa (in terms of advancement, development and, westernisation) could do this, such barbaric and inhuman act, then I fear for the rest of Africa, especially West Africa, and more importantly, Nigeria! It's quite a shame! And all I can do right now is just, SMH!

South Africa, even you? You mean a king in South Africa can't 'control' his mouth and mind too? This is a simple pointer to the fact that Africa is Africa irrespective of the country. The same mindset/mentality.
With this kind of mentality, I see a stagnant instead of a vibrant Africa. This is why we still get ridiculed by our fellow Western continents of Europe and America. When will Africa truly arise and unite? When?

Will Smith: one of my favourite actors of all time. I love "Hitch" and "I am Legend" with passion. Go Will, go.

Iamsynord:
Expantiate on the term " Self Contain "

Expatiate.

hmm, now let's see who the "young shall grow" and "surulere" ladies are.
#takes a sit with popcorn in his hand.

Klare:
Lols personally, chaiii!!! Daris godu ooh

Lol, ok for saying there is God, I forgive you. Please go and sin no more.

donnypool:
I agree with you, but you mention the word "society" now, who is the society if not we humans and other animals. Who are the men in question if not you and I? If you did not or will not marry a single mom, who are you expecting to marry them?. Leave people with their decision. Sire

Thank you. But just to set the record straight, I have no problem marrying such a woman - depending on the circumstances surrounding her single motherhood. And moreso, if she's a lady of strong character and class and has been able to 'build herself' over time.

donnypool:
Ain't you a guy? Why not marry one and advise your friends, relatives etc to do same. In fact, your dad can get another wife and do the same. Do as you preach, lead by example

I only share [in] the plight of such women and brother, there's absolutely nothing wrong with that.

mikeapollo:
There are various reasons and factors. But sometimes, the ladies find it difficult because they don't see things from the man's angle.
Many ladies give priority to their child more than the man. Many men want to marry single mums, but the problem is most of the men would want the lady to move in alone(without the child), then the child can join and start living with them later after the couple have settled down well or after the lady would have given the man a child. But most ladies would not agree to such. They want their child to be with them everywhere and at all times. Yet, a man would need space to put things right.

My advice to single mums: try and reason with the man and don't use your child against him or blackmail him. Every man needs some space and freedom to enjoy his ''new' wife. He may also not be financially and mentally ready for the child (but not necessarily because he hates or does not like him)
A particular single I know lost the opportunity to marry a guy because she refused to allow her child join them after she might have had a kid for the man....she insisted that the child must be with her.
It is even more complicated when the child is a boy and the father is alive!

I guess you should read my post again: I said even in some cases when the lady agrees not to bring the child into her new home, most guys still turn them down. That was why I used the words, hypocrisy or insensitivity.
But I get your point, though. Thanks.

Klare:
Yeye guy lols

Me abi? I go deal with you, personally.

braintext:
Yh i got ya point ....i was just .....

Thank you.

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