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PoliticsRe: I Will Give Peter Obi 8million Vote- Evelyn T. B Joshua by Farfalla(f): 6:03pm On Sep 28, 2022
GloriousGbola:
don't worry - its not just limited to women - i also have big behind and back in uni some guys in an adjoining room who were beefing me said the same thing - na shit full him yansh
I see. angry
PoliticsRe: I Will Give Peter Obi 8million Vote- Evelyn T. B Joshua by Farfalla(f): 5:59pm On Sep 28, 2022
BRATISLAVA:
LMAO.

Oh lawd. So it's a thing, then.
You can see it is. cheesy
PoliticsRe: I Will Give Peter Obi 8million Vote- Evelyn T. B Joshua by Farfalla(f): 8:52am On Sep 28, 2022
GloriousGbola:
I want to ride unhindered on your glorious expressway. tongue

Leave commissioning to small boys who don't know better.
No problem. But just be sure to enforce (and if possible adjust to) the recommended speed limits. tongue
HealthRe: Kenyan Woman Kills Her Husband Before Committing Suicide (Graphic Photos) by Farfalla(f):
Houseofglam7:
Believe it or not, Kenyans are wired differently.
Those MFs are weird AF!
Sure. Suicides and homicides are vices distinct to Kenya.

PoliticsRe: I Will Give Peter Obi 8million Vote- Evelyn T. B Joshua by Farfalla(f): 8:03am On Sep 28, 2022
GloriousGbola:
Just say you have big bosoms and be done with it tongue
That's a very accurate statement. grin

I like promicious women tongue
You no dey like virgins again? tongue
PoliticsRe: I Will Give Peter Obi 8million Vote- Evelyn T. B Joshua by Farfalla(f):
eddie7:
Peter Obi was said to be the first African to visit Kenya and invest with Naira. That is why the capital city was named after him as "Nairobi"
I understand you were probably making the commentary in jest, but then again, this is Nairaland and someone reading your statement may take your word as God's own truth, retain it, and echo it elsewhere. I assure you.

Afterall, is it not on this same forum where some mammals believe that shît is stored in the arse, taking antibiotics after sex is a contraceptive method, and big bréasts are an indication of promiscuity in women?

For the sake of the zombies who never question anything they read on NL, 'Nairobi' comes from the Maasai phrase 'Enkare Nyrobi', which translates to “cool waters" or "the place of cool waters". It really has nothing to do with the Naira nor Peter Obi.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Whats That One Thing(s) You Wish You Knew Earlier. by Farfalla(f): 2:56pm On Sep 20, 2022
@ topic,
I wish I had ventured into business/self-employment earlier than I did.
RomanceRe: Is It Okay For Girls To Move Around With Condoms. by Farfalla(f): 10:38am On Sep 20, 2022
Magnoliaa:
But here will be a cesspool I am not ready to dive into, I am sure. The guys can go on sucking each others' deeks and getting themselves off by turning the thread into a man-cave echo chamber. I am not reading a single comment of it all.

RomanceRe: "Nu Mumu Dey Love. I'm Getting Married For Money" Bride Shares Pre-Wedding Pics by Farfalla(f): 10:29am On Sep 20, 2022
Bride tweeted "Nu mumu dey love. I'm getting married for money" as she shares pre-wedding photos....
Way to go...!! grin

Nairaland GeneralRe: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by Farfalla(f): 1:23pm On Sep 13, 2022
folake4u:
Nice one.

@No. 5. It's not possible you'd be carrying used sanitary pads upandan na. grin cheesy
For rituals na. tongue tongue
EducationRe: PICTURES: This Is South Africa's New Zulu King! by Farfalla(f): 1:21pm On Sep 13, 2022
GloriousGbola:
Beast is out - sexy daddy idris Elba fighting lions.

All farfálla's boxes checked

Thank me later tongue kiss wink cheesy
Idris Elba fighting lions. Alpha vs Alpha. Perfect aphrodisiac! tongue

That aside, "real men" don't need to run away from lions. See how it's done... cheesy


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QDubMeNlSxc
Nairaland GeneralRe: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by Farfalla(f): 10:04am On Sep 11, 2022
folake4u:
As for me,I can't do without face wipes, Atm card, sun glasses and lipgloss!!
1. ATM/debit card
2. National ID card
3. National driving license
4. Antibacterial sanitizer
5. Sanitary pad (UNUSED just so we're clear grin)
6. Ballpoint pen
7. Mini notepad
8. Mint gums
Nairaland GeneralRe: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by Farfalla(f): 9:25am On Sep 11, 2022
Klass99:
Thank you, he is not even one of the nice or friendly ones we like, like G.G or IZ.
Oooh, so he's one of "them"? grin
Never had any prior direct or indirect interactions with him, as we probably don't even follow the same topics.
Nairaland GeneralRe: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by Farfalla(f): 8:47am On Sep 11, 2022
folake4u:
Thank you. wink
You're welcome young lady. wink
Nairaland GeneralRe: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by Farfalla(f): 8:46am On Sep 11, 2022
Magnoliaa:
I like hotdogs. *inserts a moon face emoji*

(I get this comment now, lol. cheesy I was figuring there what exactly you were trying to say, but anyhow, I decided to say something I liked too.

It was your modified mention to that dude.)
Yes, it was a modified mention. I couldn't think of anything else to write at the time. smiley
Nairaland GeneralRe: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by Farfalla(f): 4:28pm On Sep 10, 2022
Klass99:
Pls unquote him and amend your post.
Done. grin
Nairaland GeneralRe: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by Farfalla(f): 4:25pm On Sep 10, 2022
Magnoliaa:
Soo, have you paid the Initiation Rite fee? Not one of the girls told you? angry OMg, I can't believe this.

From building to marrying to sisterhood groups, as is our culture of billing, you gats drop something for the boys girls.
There you go. cheesy

Nairaland GeneralRe: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by Farfalla(f): 4:22pm On Sep 10, 2022
folake4u:
Na man you quote oh. lipsrsealed
cheesy Really?
I initially thought so but I had my doubts. I guess "Emma" threw me off. Hehehe....
Nairaland GeneralRe: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by Farfalla(f):
@ Persephone1, everyone here knows that Fárfalla has got nothing but love for Naija girls and I'm usually at the front line defending them when need arises.

I am a bit distressed that you imagine I'm deliberately painting a derogatory picture of Naija women while passing it off as a compliment. Cattiness isn't my style at all at all.

Substitute Nigerian with whatever nation you are from in your initial post, read through then judge if you would smile while reading.
My candid opinion? I'd applaud them. Good thing is they are rapidly discarding mumu love for logical love, and it's a development I most welcome.

Lol @ fire. Honestly i'm trying very hard not to do that, believe me. cheesy
I said what I said and my intention was never to bash Nigerian women in any way. How you choose to interpret it is out of my hands.
Feel free to fire but I'm done discussing this particular matter. Good afternoon.
Nairaland GeneralRe: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by Farfalla(f): 11:15am On Sep 10, 2022
Klass99:
I have been told I am not materialistic and most times too independent for my own good, but I will be damned if I ever love a man who is not a provider. I dey ment? All my love plus his combined, will not pay the bills. I didn't find her analogy offensive, even Steve Harvey talks about men being providers and the need for us to let them be providers.

I didn't get the feeling or impression that she put all Nigerian women in a box for some misconception. If anything she had us well pegged down from the moment she said we set certain standards financial or otherwise for our men, higher standards than other African women do (see her earlier posts for this) Meaning we don't go into relationships blindly or behave like other African women.

You and I see things differently with her analogy and that's okay. For me it's like saying in the animal kingdom, Naija women bear a resemblance to the female tiger who goes after what she wants or likes, whereas other African women are more like swans or dolphins who don't, until they realize love alone doesn't cut it.
My point exactly. If she interpreted it as derogatory then perhaps I need to work on my writing skills.
I'm off to the gym.
Nairaland GeneralRe: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by Farfalla(f):
I love Pink.
Nairaland GeneralRe: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by Farfalla(f): 11:00am On Sep 10, 2022
Persephone1:
Pardon me, i really do not buy into this analogy of a Nigerian woman because it is totally offensive to non materialistic and independent women who happens to be Nigerians and so in love with their not so providing Men. Not all watch television because there are places where they don't have electricity, not all families can afford Television, not all are educated enough to understand what Telemundo show but these people get married and love one another. And guess what? Not all Nigerian men can afford to give cars, trips, phones or whatever yet they find NIGERIAN WOMEN who love them dearly.
Before we proceed, kindly put your sword back in its sheath. I'm not here to attack Nigerian women. I've never even had the need to.

Surely without me adding a disclaimer you ought to have known that my post does not imply that there are no independent women in Nigeria. That is not what I implied at all at all.

I used Telemundo as an analogy to describe blind love. Mumu love. The kind of love you find in soap operas and novels. Replace it with any other vocabulary of your own.

And guess what? Not all Nigerian men can afford to give cars, trips, phones or whatever yet they find NIGERIAN WOMEN who love them dearly.
Of course not all Nigerian men can afford material stuff. If they could, this site would not be as toxic as it is. But you should also ask yourself why they're the ones who keep yammering about "hustling so women will come" more than any other group of men in Africa.

Nigerian Women aren't entitled! Hell no! It is not entitlement when you follow laid down rules, norms and culture. Men Provide in Nigerian culture, all the woman needs to bring is her submission, her beauty, her feminity and her womb. The entitlement mentality projected on mainstreams are by men who want to eat their cakes and have it. Men who don't have the ability to provide for their women but still want to Lord over them. Men who want to change the status quo halfway and expect a balance result. And like the ever non accountable being these men are, they would rather blame the women for their own deficiency.
Go through my post again Persephone. Are we surely not saying the same thing regarding this? huh

If a Nigerian woman interprets gifts and acts of service as love, like your 2k , Phone, car, trip analogy, shes not wrong because it is how an average Nigerian man express love and affection. A Nigerian man will not do telemundo love, nah.. He express love by providing and taking care of his object of attraction.
And isn't this my point?

This is what I mean when I say that Nigerian girls (in general) understand this at an early age. Why then does it seem like you are overreacting to something we both agree on?

If a Nigerian woman interprets gifts and acts of service as love, like your 2k , Phone, car, trip analogy, shes not wrong because it is how an average Nigerian man express love and affection.
I also don't remember mentioning anywhere that there's anything wrong with her interpretation of love. Nowhere.

There are independent ladies in lovely relationships too.
No doubt about that.

Putting all Nigerian Women in a box for some misconception is totally unfair! The sad part is guys who sell untrue stories to foreigners like you comport themselves better, let go of a lot of things just to fit in with you. This makes it so hard to correct the misconception about Nigerian Women.
About this. No, I'm not putting ALL Nigerian women in a box. And secondly, please don't assume that I am informed about the Nigerian society from a narrative being sold to me. My interaction with Nigeria and Nigerians is deeper than you know. Way deeper than you imagine.

The summary of my post is this - Nigerian women (whether independent or otherwise) are generally smarter in relationship matters.

That's a compliment by the way, so you can hold your fire, will you?
Nairaland GeneralRe: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by Farfalla(f): 11:56pm On Sep 09, 2022
sisitito01:
The first picture is how my lips have always looked and the second is how they look now.
Did you recently change your lip balm?
Or your face wash/soap?
Or your facial moisturiser?
Or your sunscreen?

Maybe you're reacting to a new product.
Nairaland GeneralRe: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by Farfalla(f): 11:32pm On Sep 09, 2022
folake4u:
Hmmm @the second paragraph. That is very deep. Can you explain further?
A 20-year old Nigerian girl is already attracted to men who can give her material stuff. She will probably not pursue Telemundo love at the expense of wealth/comfort. Whatever gift she receives from a man serves as an index of his love for her.
- 2K recharge = man likes me
- An expensive phone = man loves me
- A big car = man loves me very much
- A trip to Accra = man loves me
- A trip to Maldives = man loves me very much
- Residential property in Lekki = man is my soulmate

Naija girls know who to pick and who to avoid very early in life because they have this dire need to glitter and glitter they will. I guess it's what the other gender refer to as entitlement mentality. grin

But you see the rest of us? Zimbabwéans, Ugandáns, Kényans, Maláwians, Tánzanians (mumu of them all), SÁ, Congolése, Rwandése, Éthiopians, Mozambiçans, Zambîans? We are generally hopeless. A yeye man, let's call him 'Ken', will come with very sweet words and the girls of these countries will fall for him. All he needs to do is hold her waist like one Alejandro or Eduardo in Telemundo, look into her eyes, tell her sweet nothings, kiss her sensitive spots and seal it with mind-blowing sex. That's it. A new pair of "soulmates" are unleashed into the world. No iPhone, no 2K recharge, no trips to exotic locations. Just pure love, devoid of materialism.

As time goes by, reality sets in (at 31) and she finds herself in either of these two situations;
1. Ken is now her husband and she, the breadwinner of her family. They cannot chop love. Ken is now very comfortable being a kept man while she's busy forwarding his unsellable CV to her acquaintances.
2. Ken somehow managed to put himself together in the course of their courtship, acquired some finances, but married some other lady he's "compatible" with. The universe never rewarded her for foregoing materialism, rather, it rewarded the lady who wanted the glitter and went for it.

Either way it suddenly hits the lady that Telemundo romance isn't reality and that financial stability in a man is a crucial aspect in relationships/marriage, despite the demonisation of gold-diggers. However, she's acquired this new-found knowledge at 32, while a Nigerian girl already knew this at 22. cheesy
Nairaland GeneralRe: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by Farfalla(f): 8:04pm On Sep 09, 2022
Klass99:
That wasn't a rhetorical question, hell yes, I really want to.
Well, you always have this way of making me reveal stuff I'd rather keep out of Nairaland. cheesy CIA material.

What do I do for fun and relaxation?
Cure konji..!! That's the first thing that comes to mind. grin (You asked...!!)

Let me just say, fun to me doesn't necessarily involve a crowd or anything like that. Never been a crowd person. Never been a party animal, not even when I was Folàké's age. cheesy

I do go to the gym on some weekends whenever possible (such as tomorrow). Not fun at all at all. Not relaxing either but I sure do get a good night sleep later that day.

I am a very introverted individual surrounded by extroverted somebodies who prefer the outdoors so sometimes they pester me into accompanying them to explore different places and I do it for them, out of love and obligation.

Klass99:
Lol grin, are we not too loud and obnoxious for your taste?
Loud? You mean expressive? grin
Hypocritical and obnoxious people are everywhere Klass including where I am currently located.
I admire Nigerian women because they set certain financial standards for men. Why do you think they claim other African women are "humble"? grin It's because their standards in men are much lower. Non-Nigerian women believe so much in love and romance, and learn very late that love doesn't conquer anything.

Nigerian women learn very early what other African women learn at 38. grin
Nairaland GeneralRe: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by Farfalla(f): 3:28pm On Sep 09, 2022
Klass99:
What's everyone up to this weekend? It's a slow day at work I'm trying hard not to fall asleep at my desk. Fárfalla come and gist us what you do for fun and relaxation in your country.
Klass, do you really want to know? tongue

Nairaland GeneralRe: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by Farfalla(f): 3:23pm On Sep 09, 2022
Magnoliaa:
So Fárfalla isn't in Naija? Ehenn? Mi o mo o.
No sis. I am on the other side of the continent. My initial plan was to remain a neutral citizen on this forum but Klass "tortured" me on some other thread and compelled me to reveal my nationality. grin

Klass99:
Fárfalla is not even Nigerian.
Hehehe. I am one in spirit and I particularly admire Nigerian women. kiss
TravelRe: Why Do Black Women In America Hate White Women & Are So Toxic? (Photos) by Farfalla(f): 9:42pm On Sep 08, 2022
BRATISLAVA:
Why should they imagine what they can't conceive? There's only one way to think and behave, for them
I can't even begin to imagine the age-shaming and slut-shaming that would come her way. I'm 100% sure they'd label her an ashawo who wants to remain single so she can prostitute herself to different men.

Or that she's a bitter old cargo who wasted her youth on irresponsible men and is now misadvising young girls because she can't find herself a man.

They'll even claim she's had numerous abortions for different men and that she will never be able to conceive, hence her bitterness.

There's no story on earth they'll not come up with.
TravelRe: Why Do Black Women In America Hate White Women & Are So Toxic? (Photos) by Farfalla(f):
Parrot69:
I will be 39 this year. Still single and doing fine, looking fresher than a 25yr old. I got peace of mind and do things I like. I'm yet to see a woman that will fit into my circle, I told my family they wont pressure into problem and headaches that will give me sleepless night. I'm poor at managing stress that's why I'm taking my time of it means 50yrs. Besides it's not compulsory to settled down with a woman.
Now, replace woman with man.
Can you imagine the insults you'd receive if you were a 39-year old woman who was single for the same reasons you've raised?

RomanceRe: How To Say "I Love You" In Different Languages by Farfalla(f): 10:32am On Sep 08, 2022
folake4u:
I say "I love you" with my actions.

How I say "I love you":

1. Come here, ode!
2. Big head.
3. Yeye.
4. Goat.


Add yours. tongue
grin grin grin

Folake, as your therapist I need to ask, how was your childhood?
CelebritiesRe: Leonardo Dicaprio And Camila Morrone Split After 4 Years by Farfalla(f): 8:55am On Sep 03, 2022
GloriousGbola:
you are talking about Bleep movies where i knack you after bringing pizza to your house, and where all that is required to bring you to multiple orgasms is an 8 inch BBC

there was a thread on reddit where women and men talked about how porn has completely skewed peoples expectations of sex.

one dude was literally laughing when his partner started porn star shrieking - like c'mon
Whoever encourages people that they can spice up their lacklustre sex lives through pörn should be tried and executed. angry angry

Don't get me started on the föols who do role-playing administering whips and lashes. What nonsense! angry

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