₦airaland Forum

Ayooade:
I know pple would say this, but to some extent, the guy is ok and i also have my job, its not abt having money or not. Atleast all my relationships, most of my ex had nothing when i was with them. It just didn't work.

ednut1:
Women who run from one pastor to the other are red flags and not wife materials. They get deceived and manipulated by these so called men of God. If you are wise u better block his number and stop seeing him. But hey na woman we know how it goes. The guy probably has no money too, if he had you would have married him

Slynation:
You just confirmed that they showed you to him as your husband but you said you rather remain single...well seems you have already made your choice, but at 32, I hope you realize your offers are limited instead of nagging like a 21year old lady.

Good luck tho...

grandstar:
But it's underpaid for it as the supply contract was in South African Rand which has lost a lot of value over the years.

In South Africa, it estimated that 1 job is created for every 8 tourist that visits the country. South Africa's per capita income is $6,000. Lesotho with about $1,500 should be able to create a job from every 2 visitors.

If it just aimed to get half a million visitors a year to the country, there'll be an economic boom. The country is very beautiful. If advertised as Africa's Switzerland, it will lead to a rush of tourists. Since the country is within South Africa, package tours can include it.

However, overdependence on tourism can be dangerous. That's a lesson from Sri Lanka. It has a flourishing textile sector. It should do more to encourage more investors. It can also promote itself as a tax haven and introduce policies to achieve this. South African investors would rush in if they've not done so already.

Ayooade:
Goodevening all, i have been wanting to get peoples opinion about something that has been bothering me.
I am a lady in my early 30s, 32 to be precise. I have had like 3 relationships that failed. Among of them is a guy i dated for 6 years but later ended the relationship because i got a job and at the time but he didn't have a job, he ended the relationship due to some certain decisions he took.
I am a kind of person that believe strongly in God and things of the spiritual, i later met a pastor guy that was assisting me in prayers but to my surprise this guy started telling me that God has told him to marry me. I told him immediately that i am not interested, i had a dream once about him where they showed him to me that he is my husband, i woke up and prayed against it. It was this time that i told him to stop any prayers he has been doing for me if his intentions was to marry me.
I educated him of how marriages are crashing this days even the ones that loved themselves dearly, i also educated him about how wifes are killing husbands and husbands are killing wives but i think this guy has refused to listen.
I got a call from his so called " spiritual father " sometimes last month and the man was telling me all the implications of not marrying him that if i want my journey to be fast in life then its him that i should marry.
I immediately told the spiritual father that its not possible and I won't marry someone i am not emotionally attached to, I'd rather remain single all my life than go into a marriage that i know won't last 6 month all in the name of God told me to marry him.
I know there are people who are wiser than me concerning marriage issues, i know there are people who have been in the same issue as i am now, please how do you pple cope, is there a punishment when you don't marry who God wants you to marry?
How am i sure its not this guy that's messing in my head?
For the fact that i am in my marriageable age doesn't mean i should push mysef into what I don't want.
I am sorry for the long epistle �

Cutehector:
Well, i tell people, live with the outcome of every Decision you make. If you go and date another man and he breaks your heart, blame yourself for your decision.

Joseph was not even romantically attached to Mary but he adhered to the instruction of The Lord and became her spouse.

grandstar:
It does export textiles.

GloriousGbola:
is that not what happened? some penis wielding Argentine generals fked around and found out.

this woman who we would be bending over table in our house will be a pushover. we're taking those islands boys! tonight we feast on british tears!

What can that horse faced sex starved woman do anyway. I say this is not very nice of you. I demand you leave our islands immediately. _Please...

pocohantas:
Thanks babe. One person would go down and it won’t be me - ever.

pocohantas:
Babe! You done sabi them finish. I am quite convinced these guys have my profile bookmarked and some follow me with dummy accounts. I could comment in the most dead section of Nairaland and in seconds they would be swarming there.

Later they claim I need their attention. Wetin I dey use these ones do? If they don’t quote me, I won’t quote them. If you quote me with nonsense, just pray it is a good day. In the past I had rules of engagements. But did they? I had some wishing me death and rape. There was one that said my beloved dad would die in an accident. Because say I be feminist and you no like my views. Ment or what?

Come at with me with nonsense and I would descend on you. My reputation precedes me.

GloriousGbola:

thorpido:
Nairaland boys.....you look for trouble and when one of these ladies start to hit you back,you start mentioning home training.
All is fair in war.

Prosperous111:
Yepa

Prime minister is too heavy for a woman to deal with.

begoniaa:
Thank you for sharing your insight on the topic, dear.

bukatyne:
Coupled with the fact that mental/emotional stamina keeps depreciating daily.

BRATISLAVA:
Fárfalla

Lol!

So even if you're just a security guard or a garden boy, when we love you, we love you.

begoniaa:
It's simply about "Soft Life." This trend, the rise of it... I don't think anyone who has been on any social media network hasn't heard of that phrase. (And a luxury lifestyle on the side).

For sometime, though, hearing that term has been rubbing me up in some weird, odd way.

And now I just came across a tweet that spurred me again.

https://twitter.com/NonhleBeryl/status/1579571242914713600?t=oPwgeUenuOfKtKeP2zVDLQ&s=19

Perhaps it might pick up more traction later on, but I would love to hear you ladies thoughts.

GloriousGbola:
Farfálla I beleive I am eminently qualified to give you a breast exam. Come let me check your magnificent mammaries for any lumps.

A thorough examination is required.

Let's do this

Say no to cancer

begoniaa:
I have a kind of *blurry, fuzzy* topic idea in mind.

I don't know how it may turn out, though, it sounds and plays interestingly out in my head... I can only hope the nuances and ranges to it come out .

It's simply about "Soft Life." This trend, the rise of it... I don't think anyone who has been on any social media network hasn't heard of that phrase. (And a luxury lifestyle on the side).

For sometime, though, hearing that term has been rubbing me up in some weird, odd way.

And now I just came across a tweet that spurred me again.

https://twitter.com/NonhleBeryl/status/1579571242914713600?t=oPwgeUenuOfKtKeP2zVDLQ&s=19

Perhaps it might pick up more traction later on, but I would love to hear you ladies thoughts.

cc:
Fárfalla

folake4u:
Please SHUT IT!!!!

Why you nor blame the man? Why him nor dey keep him gbola for one place?

BRATISLAVA:
You need help @bolded. Just like your friend needs it. Because that is the same mindset he used when raping her.

GloriousGbola:
the goods are tainted, but the packaging is da bomb

whats a weak willed man to do

pansophist:
How brain dead women are to think only about the present, and not the future. How brain dead women are to judge a man not by his character but by his money. How of a leech and dumb women are to go into marriage to collect and consume, instead of to give and support.

mirinder:
that is good for them. They are good in snubbing men that approach them on the street as if they are special

GloriousGbola:
Your pipu kuku stubborn

they actually carried gun and entered Bush to fight for independence. Anyhow leaders go remember that the people get small craze.

pocohantas:
Things dey really occur for some of these African countries o. There is this other one that father ruled, son took over, when the son finished - he was appointed a senator FOR LIFE.

pocohantas:
I am yet to understand the kind of government they run in Gabon. Nigeria has her ills, but the citizens get mouth small. In many of these African countries, they dare not speak against their government on Twitter.

This guy’s father ruled for decades until his demise. The son took over. Is it monarchy abi autocracy? Some day I’ll read about that country.