Family › Re: Norwegian White Woman Living With A Nigerian Man And Having A Child Together. by Farfalla(f): 10:19pm On Jul 11, 2022*. Modified: 12:06pm On Jul 12, 2022 |
Maggi85: Its good to hear different views. Thank you everyone for all the advices you give me. It helps a lot. Your daughter's father is a leech with zero conscience. Nigerian males in general hate females. The hate is worsened if that female is over 26.5 years of age. I don't want to imagine what fate awaits you at 40. You need to cut him off now before that your charade of a relationship gets even more complicated. It will not get any better, you can be sure of that. And by the time he's done with you, you'll be hissing and getting epileptic fits at the sight of sub-Saharan African males. I'd stick to your Scandinavian men if I were you. |
Romance › Re: The Key To Getting Quality Women,my Experience. by Farfalla(f): 9:34pm On Jul 11, 2022 |
cococandy: Young below 25. Preferably 22. Must be financially well to do.
Oh and no sex. Prior sexual activity disqualifies her. Must be exclusively his but also be willing to be subject to his whims. Be tolerant and obedient when he’s exercising his polygamous rights. No questions.
When he’s done with other women, she’ll use her money to buy laundry detergent and wash their scent off him.
What did I miss? She should also be a God-fearing atheist. |
Romance › Re: So Many Men Are Dating Women Who Don’t Like Them by Farfalla(f): 11:57pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
GloriousGbola: Physical attraction can only last so long as most of us Las Las will age, lose our hair, lose.abs, grow love handles and stretch marks. What happens then? What hair loss? What love handles? He's a man and he'll age like fine wine na.  |
Romance › Re: So Many Men Are Dating Women Who Don’t Like Them by Farfalla(f): 11:17pm On Jul 05, 2022*. Modified: 12:29am On Jul 06, 2022 |
Aurielfinizu: I think say if u really love a lady no matter how bad she is u can torolate tolerate. Please just pick the woman with maximum wahala and settle down with her kia-kia. Don't let anyone try to convince you or talk you out of it. Who peace of mind help? Tolerate the bad girl na. If you desire her, follow her to the ends of the earth and plead with her to be with you. Convince her that you're the guy for her. If she looks good, can twerk and slay on Instagram and Tiktok, take her to meet your mama quickly. A rare gem she is. Forget these other homely women offering you love and peace of mind. What you need in a relationship/marriage is glitz and drama. Peace of mind my arse. If logic tells you to love, date and marry the bad lady, please don't let emotional people tell you otherwise. **Damn! And this one will one day hold the title "head of the family".
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Romance › Re: So Many Men Are Dating Women Who Don’t Like Them by Farfalla(f): 10:32pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
kogof51050: Baba I can attest to this.... No call, no text just full black out... e dey pain dem die. This only applies if she likes you. If you like, you can relocate to Alaska and give her total blackout from there. If she doesn't like you she'll be relieved that you're no longer "stalking" her. True story.  |
Politics › Re: Precious Chikwendu And Femi Fani-Kayode Pictured Together At His Home by Farfalla(f): 5:58pm On Jul 05, 2022*. Modified: 12:00am On Jul 06, 2022 |
pocohantas: You can’t slide into my DM because you do not even have the intellect to stimulate my interest. You don’t have money. The picture of your house you posted was a mess. So I reckon you have body and mouth odour too. You can’t live in such filth and not stink. I guess she rides you in that environment before you two roll over to pegs, obituary books and blunt tiger razor blade.
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Politics › Re: Precious Chikwendu And Femi Fani-Kayode Pictured Together At His Home by Farfalla(f): 4:57pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
pocohantas: There is nothing to learn from your babe. I mean, if after riding my man he still spends 11yrs trolling an evening newspaper? Maybe the pussy ain’t got grip. Ewuuu....!!
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Celebrities › Re: Robert Pattinson The Most Handsome Man In The World According To Science (Photo) by Farfalla(f): 7:11pm On Jul 02, 2022 |
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Celebrities › Re: Robert Pattinson The Most Handsome Man In The World According To Science (Photo) by Farfalla(f): 7:01pm On Jul 02, 2022 |
GloriousGbola: I am definitely finer than sparkle boy. Next thing you chicks will be swooning over bare chested wolfie boy too  We already know your gbola is glorious. You're fine as well?
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Celebrities › Re: Robert Pattinson The Most Handsome Man In The World According To Science (Photo) by Farfalla(f): 3:48pm On Jul 02, 2022*. Modified: 4:27pm On Jul 02, 2022 |
I'm I the only one who finds it weird that some men here are rating themselves against Robert Pattinson? "I'm more handsome than this dude", "I fine pass", "I'm 6'7", dark and handsome"... Bunch of attention-seeking beta males. Jeez!
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Family › Re: Having A Male Child by Farfalla(f): 7:35pm On Jul 01, 2022*. Modified: 11:36am On Jul 02, 2022 |
okine4real: You see if you are Yoruba, You would not understand where am coming from. Am not mocking Yourba's but most Yoruba's dont place priority on Male children. Its there culture and an individual thing. Its just like some people, after building just one house, then its okay for them, they will kill there hustling spirit because they are contempted. In my case i have A boy and the Girls. I dont know how i was able to do it the first time, but i want to have another boy. I have tired having a boy right from when i wanted to have my third child, it came out to be a babe, third babe. So when i seek advice, i was told about this Ovulation day of a thing. As a matter of fact, I love my babes very very well. In fact my First Daughter is more Academically sound than my son. I would train all my girls minimum to B.Sc level, but the reality is, in a family setting, there are role for guys and for babes. Personally i dont like putting all my eggs in one basket, having only one son, would result in me spoiling my son, indirectly i would be pampering him because i would be scared because he is all i got. Also when you have more than one son, you confuse your enemy.
Something happened to me on the 1st of this year. i was to load lots of appliance into a Truck on 1st of Jan, 2022, Nor Aboki was avail around 5pm, the truck came early, when the truck driver told he was close to where the appliance was, i woke my younger brother and we proceed to the said location where the items where. It took myself and my younger bro about 45mins to load the appliance, items where gates, AC,Pumping machine etc after loading those items, we then proceed to where i leave again to load the second bash, after loading i followed the truck to where i would be off loading the appliance. While we where moving, something came to mine mind, i have only a son, if it was my son that wanted to move this items, will he start knocking on his friends door at around 5am for them to come help him, then i decided that i really need to have a second son. Besides my son has been begging his mom to give him a brother.
So for you all shouting, its what you give is what you get, agreed, but remember on this same thread, someone said, his father had 6 girls and was looking for a male child, when his father met his mother, she gave him 3 male child because his mother understood the Ovulation thing. So for the ladies dont every tell your husband that, its what he gives he would get, if he then goes outside and meets a woman that understand the way this ovulation thing works, then you would have yourself to blame.
It was my friend that advised me about the Ovulation thing, but i was not sure, so i decided to bring it here. Did you type this garbage with a straight face?  |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: 12 Jobs That Make Your Girlfriend Promiscuous by Farfalla(f): 1:33pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
You forgot school bursars and librarians.
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Food › Re: What's The Difference Between Coca-cola And Pepsi And Which Do You Prefer? by Farfalla(f): 6:23pm On Jun 28, 2022 |
No fizzy drinks for me, thanks.  |
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Crime › Re: Mum & Daughter Raped Inside Car After Accepting Lift From Group Of Men In India by Farfalla(f): 4:36pm On Jun 28, 2022 |
I won't be surprised that after what she's gone through, her own husband will want nothing to do with her (nor their daughter). |
Crime › Re: Catholic Priest Jailed For 30 Years For Murdering Albino In Malawi (Photo) by Farfalla(f): 4:07pm On Jun 28, 2022*. Modified: 1:34pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
Whenever Nairaland mumus read news about a couple getting stuck during sex, they'll start shouting up and down that certain countries are associated with "weird" or "bizarre" news. An albino man getting killed for body parts isn't regarded as weird by these same mumus simply because it's a norm where they come from.  |
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Romance › Re: A Lady Nearly Killed Me Today In Church With Mouth Odour by Farfalla(f): 11:37am On Jun 28, 2022 |
GloriousGbola: He wants to get laid, not so? Let him wear a scented nose mask and be done with it. He should be more worried about why he only attracts girls who always fail the sniff test. Does he pick these girls from the sewers? |
Romance › Re: A Lady Nearly Killed Me Today In Church With Mouth Odour by Farfalla(f): 6:24am On Jun 27, 2022 |
@Aniluvreal, First you meet a girl who doesn't clean her arse. Then you meet others who emit a terrible stink from their coochies. Now you've met another one with mouth odour.
Are the stars always aligned against you? |
Romance › Re: Lady Shares Message From A Man Whose Marriage Proposal She Rejected 7 Years Ago by Farfalla(f): 9:16pm On Jun 23, 2022 |
'Accepting Rejection 101' should be a compulsory course taught in schools.
The "logical" population in particular will benefit from it. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Submission Is Not Weakness - Pastor David Ibiyeomie (video) by Farfalla(f): 12:51am On Jun 21, 2022 |
Cocojambo: I am oyinbo and I have dated different Nigerian girls.
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Romance › Re: My Relationship Just Crashed This Morning. by Farfalla(f): 10:44pm On Jun 20, 2022 |
It's a man's world.
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Education › Re: Nigerian Ashley Adirika Accepted Into All 8 Ivy League Schools In US by Farfalla(f): 11:29am On Jun 14, 2022 |
Nice one. Nigeria amaka.  |
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Food › Re: I Cooked This Strange Food I Found On Jumia by Farfalla(f): 10:19am On Jun 13, 2022 |
pocohantas: Lol. You sabi. Garlic and ginger should always be fresh if you can. Sure. |
Food › Re: I Cooked This Strange Food I Found On Jumia by Farfalla(f): 10:18am On Jun 13, 2022 |
folake4u: Oh nice. So you guys eat more of Indian cuisines then. Very interesting.  Actually we have our own native foods (by the way, we do have our version of ewedu and ugwu leaves  ) but also assimilated various aspects of the cuisines of the people who either colonised, settled or traded across the region. That's how Indian delicacies such as chapatti, moong, samosa, channa, naan, mutton masala, egg masala, chevda and ganthiya found their way into our tables. folake4u: This reminds me of pap. If you miss stirring it correctly, it becomes lumpy. Older aunties around here usually joke that any lump found in a young woman's pap exponentially reduces her chances to be wifed.  I later realized that a woman's eligibility is commensurate with her gold digging skills. The higher your gold digging instincts are, the higher your market value.  That aside, our version of amala or fufu is generally known as ugali/sima in Kenya and Tanzania, nshima in Zambia and Malawi, posho in Uganda, sadza in Zimbabwe, and xima in Mozambique. The stiffness and the flour used varies across communities. Some use corn flour, others millet/sorghum flour, while others use cassava flour or a composite of 2 or 3 types of flour. We however do not ferment our cassava like you folks. |
Food › Re: I Cooked This Strange Food I Found On Jumia by Farfalla(f): 7:53pm On Jun 12, 2022 |
folake4u: Ah. Thank you for this explanation oh cos I was really wondering how someone would eat that. You're welcome Folake. Hehehe. Them Indian folks imported their food to East and Southern Africa, some of which were adopted by the natives. These lentils are usually a hit or miss dish. You miss an important ingredient or a crucial step and it becomes dog food.  |
Food › Re: I Cooked This Strange Food I Found On Jumia by Farfalla(f): 6:54pm On Jun 12, 2022*. Modified: 7:54pm On Jun 12, 2022 |
abbeyloyee: Thanks for the yummy explanation, Farfallá You sabi I like the natural taste + Onions You're welcome. Please use the fresh garlic. That garlic powder will swallow up all your other flavours. |
Family › Re: Are Introverts Born Or Made? by Farfalla(f): 5:25pm On Jun 12, 2022*. Modified: 12:52am On Feb 08, 2023 |
yemmit90: Being introvert is a result of low self esteem, cluelessness or wisdom.
People with wisdom rarely talk anyhow, they mind their businesses and always think deeply before they speak.
People with low self esteem too are mostly introverts, they avoid public or associate with people.
Most clueless people too are introverts. I laugh when I read such comments here. Low self-esteem indeed. Clueless indeed.  I am an introvert because I have a dire need to protect my space, my boundaries and my privacy. I am picky about my associations because I am protective of my peace of mind. Introverts don't avoid people. We only avoid people who have no boundaries because we hate drama. We like to be in control of ourselves, so you won't find us walking around in groups like sheep being led to graze in the pasture. We do have friends. Very few, but very meaningful relationships. Some of our friends are extroverts, while some are just as introverted as we are. I don't know whether I was born an introvert, but I did know from an early age that I hated drama and would deliberately avoid toxic people. I was the kid who would share her packed food with the pleasant kid and not the mean kid. My 2 sisters are extremely talkative and outgoing, yet we had the same upbringing. I have 3 brothers, the youngest tends to keep to himself but the other 2 can't shut the hell up and enjoy being around people. I tend to gel with each one of them regardless. |
Food › Re: I Cooked This Strange Food I Found On Jumia by Farfalla(f): 4:30pm On Jun 12, 2022*. Modified: 10:23am On Jun 13, 2022 |
abbeyloyee: After getting used to Rice, Beans and other common food in the country; I decided to explore more on un-traditional food on Jumia and I came across these three strange looking food. 1. Black Channa 2. Moong Dal 3. Moong Whole Hi abbey? I grew up eating these lentils you consider 'strange'.  After soaking them and boiling them, drain that water completely. Try using lots of onions, garlic and dry red chilies. Some prefer to add ginger paste, so you can experiment with that. I prefer ginger-free moong. You can also toast cumin seeds separately and then pour into the pot for the channa. As for the moong (both split and whole), you can use mustard and/or fennel seeds instead of cumin seeds. If you're a fan of coconut milk like I am, you can add it in your stew. You can also add coriander just after you switch off your stove. Let it just steam inside the food. Turmeric powder will give your food a pleasant colour so you can utilise it. You can also experiment with ghee instead of palm oil, or just try using any other type of vegetable oil (corn oil, sunflower oil, canola oil, etc). This dish can be eaten with roti, naan or chapatti. Just keep experimenting, but whatever you do, don't get economical with onions and garlic. Bon appetit.  |
Celebrities › Re: Johnny Depp Wins Defamation Case Against Amber Heard by Farfalla(f): 5:32pm On Jun 02, 2022 |
GloriousGbola: After the shit dude went through I won't be suprised if he jejely opts for celibacy He won't opt for celibacy. He's likely to pick another beautiful Jezebel. They're usually very addictive.  |