Romance › Re: Should I Tell My Bestfriend That Her Boyfriend/fiancee Sleeps With Dead Bodies? by Farfalla(f): 12:03pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
jceetunes: I don't pity women who go for already made men.... Let her cry her cry and carry her cross What is wrong with an already-made man? And why do you think it's wrong for women to go for them? |
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Romance › Re: . by Farfalla(f): 11:35am On Feb 23, 2023*. Modified: 9:01am On Feb 24, 2023 |
I advise her to follow her heart. She should leave her loving husband and go for the abusive ex.
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Romance › Re: If Your Girlfriend Had A Past Like This, Would You Still Marry Her? (Photo) by Farfalla(f): 9:13am On Feb 18, 2023*. Modified: 10:02am On Feb 18, 2023 |
GloriousGbola: Hmm
You can be a ho - just be my ho in my bedroom GloriousGbola and hoes.... 
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Family › Re: The Reasons Why Relationships/marriages Don’t Last - My Opinion by Farfalla(f): 9:10am On Feb 18, 2023 |
KanwuliaExtra: Pure psychology. When people have failed in their own relationships, they start online counseling sessions.  Or they start posting 'Livingston' threads all over the Family section. As kpe consolation tactics. Sounds like an old NL ID I remember that was very melancholic about relationship topics. Always in sifia pains with all her posts and topics.  |
Romance › Re: If Your Girlfriend Had A Past Like This, Would You Still Marry Her? (Photo) by Farfalla(f): 9:05am On Feb 18, 2023 |
SKIBiNSKI: I would marry her, dammm she is so sexy and pretty! look! Most men would marry her, trust me. Men love hoes, only some of them pretend not to santimoniously.  |
Celebrities › Re: South African Rapper AKA Shot Dead! by Farfalla(f): 2:09am On Feb 11, 2023 |
Oh dear Lord, no!  |
Romance › Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Farfalla(f): 1:13am On Feb 11, 2023*. Modified: 6:31pm On Mar 10, 2023 |
GloriousGbola: As you called saga the man from sagamu, it means you mos def were on those fire threads with aloy Emeka
Good times  Was he a member in 2011? I don't seem to recall that moniker. Maybe I wasn't so keen then (I was a "little girl" at the time, still schooling but would log onto Nairaland to unwind). I was kinda active in the 'Literature' section (we would discuss and analyse books and poetry those days, unlike the 'smelly toto' and 'Zimbabwean couple gets stuck' topics which litter the forum these days). The Big Brother Africa topic those days was always like an AU forum -- Africans would gather there. The political section was also a classroom in itself, unlike in the current NL. Speaking of fire threads, I do remember tpia. |
Celebrities › Re: South African Rapper, AKA Reportedly Shot Dead In Durban by Farfalla(f): 11:54pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Oh dear Lord, no!! No! No! No! AKA is dead??!  |
Romance › Re: If Your Girlfriend Had A Past Like This, Would You Still Marry Her? (Photo) by Farfalla(f): 1:18am On Feb 08, 2023 |
siofra: I wonder why a guy will not marry a girl who has a past like this. Like that's her past and you are her future and that's all that matters, dude😒😒😒 What makes you think they'll not marry her? Forget what they say online. They will marry her I assure you. She'll even be the one doing the picking.  |
Romance › Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Farfalla(f): 9:24pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
GloriousGbola: Now I am intruiged and wonder what your old moniker was. There couldn't have been that many endowed Kenyan chicks on NL in the 2010s 🕵️🧐 I wasn't particularly consistent but you'd definitely not miss me on the Big Brother Africa threads.  I do recall this forum having more foreign members around that time though? 🤔 |
Romance › Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Farfalla(f): 8:15pm On Feb 07, 2023*. Modified: 9:41am On Feb 08, 2023 |
Creativity22: The question is not for me, but i will try to answer. No problem. Thanks for taking your time to respond. |
Romance › Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Farfalla(f): 8:12pm On Feb 07, 2023*. Modified: 9:02am On Feb 18, 2023 |
Sagamite: I was in prison jare!....... Thanks for your response. I have captured it and saved it somewhere for future reference.  Good luck in sorting out your child support issues with your 106 babymamas.  |
Romance › Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Farfalla(f): 4:57pm On Feb 06, 2023*. Modified: 9:03am On Feb 18, 2023 |
Sagamite: Do you think women are logical? Oga Sagamite, You still dey? Last time I checked you had gone on hiatus. I can see you're still "grumpy"?  Do you still live in your council flat in Peckham? 😂 Or have you been deported back to Sagamu? I do remember reading your posts (I operated under a different moniker at the time) and I recall with much amusement how you would handle "cretïns", "fuucktards" and "products of a failed education system". 🤣🤣🤣 While I don't always agree 100% with a few of your submissions, I do admire your perspective on many issues (public governance, management, politics, law, policy-making, history, career, education, etc). There are certain posts I'd come across and I'd be like, "I wonder what Sagamite would have to say about this...". I wasn't even going to be a part of this thread (these type of topics exhaust me) but I thought of giving you a mention to pick your brain on one or two issues (unrelated to the topic). I'd appreciate your opinion(s) on you how you would handle certain situations/people; 1. How would you balance disciplining and loving (without spoiling) an emotionally fragile child (5 years 8 months)? 2. How would you generally handle a catty/toxic person who deliberately wants to be in your space for the sole purpose of ruining your peace of mind? Particularly if they are your relatives (so they feel you wouldn't dare cut off your blood) or people with whom you share mutual acquaintances. Your responses to the above questions will be highly appreciated. |
Health › Re: Help I'm Addicted To Carbonated Drinks. by Farfalla(f): 8:45pm On Jan 31, 2023 |
GloriousGbola: unless she makes the lemonade herself.
lemonade concentrate is very expensive
and knowing her son, he will be drinking it up [speaking from experience] Orange juice nko? |
Health › Re: Help I'm Addicted To Carbonated Drinks. by Farfalla(f): 7:22pm On Jan 31, 2023 |
ahnie: I m addicted to carbonated drinks and it's beginning to sound weird and I can hardly do without taking like 3 a day in every meal I take.
It's like there's a force propelling me to always take carbonated drinks.
Pls how do I get rid of such unhealthy habits? Can you force yourself to replace those carbonated drinks with water or lemonade? (Although I still prefer water). Forget about those diet cokes. They're just as bad. |
Travel › Re: Mauritius Study And Work by Farfalla(f): 5:26pm On Jan 31, 2023*. Modified: 8:43pm On Jan 31, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA: To Nigerians, once their population is less than that of Nigeria, and they don't have the flashy lifestyle which Nigerians can claim to have peradventure they get to live there.
Ordinary Mauritius.  "Ordinary Botswana". "Ordinary Namibia". Now it's "ordinary Mauritius". Let me just keep quiet.  |
Romance › Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Farfalla(f): 5:18pm On Jan 31, 2023 |
ItisWell22: Well said!
Like I was shocked 3 months ago when a guy was “advising” me to step down on being nice and learn to be a bit meaner and manipulative with men. He said men most times prefer the women who keep them on their toes. An honest man.  |
Romance › Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Farfalla(f): 2:42pm On Jan 31, 2023 |
Raalsalghul: Did you deem it fit at anytime to warn him on how manipulative women some women can be?
I feel like you owed your brother responsibility or maybe you did and he didn't listen. I talked to him of course, as did most concerned parties. He doesn't listen to anyone, not even my father. These days we just dey observe. Manipulative women are some men's dream women. In fact some of these "Fear Women" crew secretly desire cruel women. I've seen this play out countless times, I can write a book about it.  |
Romance › Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Farfalla(f): 9:06am On Jan 31, 2023 |
GloriousGbola: damn 
i am sorry about this Even more sad is that he never seems to pick any lessons from his experiences. |
Romance › Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Farfalla(f): 12:34am On Jan 31, 2023 |
pocohantas: Oh well, one played out in front of me and I don’t pity the person involved. Na long story sha. But you would be amazed at the choices your brothers make while “avoiding” women that can support them. I've witnessed this with my own brother. First he hooks up with some Southy woman who ate ALL his money. Dude completely forgot he had a family. He spent all his money on her (and her 2 kids) while he threw the responsibility of his own family on us (my father, my elder sister and myself). My dad made noise tire. Used all "threats", including "HIV", to try and talk him out of his affair.  Nothing worked. When they eventually had to break up, he went back to his family with NOTHING. Just a red suitcase containing his shoes, clothes and some toys to pacify his elder son. He didn't even have cab fare to get to his house on that particular day and had to call me to pick him up from a familiar place. It was a very pitiful sight to behold. I found myself holding back tears. You'd think he had learnt some lesson, right? After things had cooled down between himself and his wife, again, he hooked up with another Jezebel at his place of work and even went on to sire a child with her. Land that he couldn't ever think of buying for his wife/family, he bought for this other woman. They had a nasty fight (about her dating other men  ) and broke up afterwards. The girl met another man and relocated to another city while my brother was left servicing a bank loan to offset payment made for a piece of land owned by another man's wife. Same man raising his daughter as we speak. My SIL is a good woman but she mostly lives like a single mother as she has emotionally detached herself from my brother. |
Travel › Re: Mauritius Study And Work by Farfalla(f): 5:32pm On Jan 30, 2023 |
arena07: He is right 5k is huge to spend it on ordinary Mauritius..... What makes a country "ordinary" if I may ask? |
Romance › Re: How Do I Knack This Older Virgin Lady? by Farfalla(f): 7:51am On Jan 29, 2023 |
Burdenbearer: Not me, we can afford children's upkeep if we work together. Does she know you are scheming to get her pregnant? Is this not a discussion you should be having with her? |
Romance › Re: Are other African Women Better than Nigerian Women by Farfalla(f): 10:41pm On Jan 28, 2023 |
SUFFERInSMILIIN: What is happening can't you compete with them. It's all about competition and Nigerian lady today are not even worth it. Please rest. |
Romance › Re: How Do I Knack This Older Virgin Lady? by Farfalla(f): 10:34pm On Jan 28, 2023*. Modified: 6:10pm On Jan 29, 2023 |
GloriousGbola: One of my guys in school chased this chick for 2 years. Babe no gree. It really fked the guy up and I felt bad for him. Anyways he started dating another chick and then like a year later he dumped her. I was like guy? And he was like - I was tired.
That is what really happens in the story when the chicks date these guys who talk as if they are the best thing since sliced bread They come as "suitors" and when these girls accept their advances, they'll be tagged olosho/ashawo by the very same "suitors" after a break up. This "suitor" won't even stop there. He'll go ahead and advise his fellow boys against marrying that same girl and look for a virgin instead. It's like littering a street and thereafter complaining that the streets are dirty. They want a virgin, but this virgin must also accept the advances of every "suitor" that comes her way, otherwise she's picky. They also want to sleep with everyone they date and then they wonder why some girls shun dating. Who wants to accept a "suitor" only for him to turn around and call you an ashawo? |
Romance › Re: How Do I Knack This Older Virgin Lady? by Farfalla(f): 9:49pm On Jan 28, 2023 |
Burdenbearer: I'm compactable compatible with her. Stop these insinuations. The only issue i have is my low income. You don't share similar values, especially concerning her decision not to have sex outside of marriage (probably influenced by her religious beliefs). You claim your income is low -- so how is it that you feel you can afford children's upkeep, but not a wedding ceremony? |
Romance › Re: How Do I Knack This Older Virgin Lady? by Farfalla(f): 9:37pm On Jan 28, 2023*. Modified: 6:08pm On Jan 29, 2023 |
worksmart: That is what happens when ladies are too picky and rejecting suitors upandan, then one day they wake up and realise that they're 40 years old and the stream of suitors have dried up. Then in desperation they allow themselves to fall into the lap of a man like OP who just wants to knack her, break her virginity and make her his baby mama and sugar mama with no thought of marriage. Let this be a lesson to overly choosy ladies in their 20's who are enjoying rejecting suitors left, right and centre  Did you use your clairvoyant abilities to know that she rejected a stream of suitors in her 20s? Some of you guys always sound like losers regurgitating the same tired line about older single women rejecting suitors in their earlier years. |
Romance › Re: Are other African Women Better than Nigerian Women by Farfalla(f): 9:25pm On Jan 28, 2023 |
SUFFERInSMILIIN: Thank you very very much we have moved on from Nigerian girls. Nigerian girls are just like Napa or pure water. We stop dealing with them long ago and are now dealing with the big ladies of Africa. The ones we type pu shes Sit down. |
Crime › Re: Man Beats Cohabitating 22 Year Old Girlfriend To Death In Bayelsa (graphic Photo by Farfalla(f): 12:39pm On Jan 28, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA: Whatever you do, don't blame the murderer for murdering her. No way. Why should he be held accountable when the girl "chose" him? 🙄 The madness continues. BRATISLAVA: That could be the snake killing guy on this forum. Forgotten his username. Mosdii? 😂 |
Romance › Re: How Do I Knack This Older Virgin Lady? by Farfalla(f): 12:24pm On Jan 28, 2023*. Modified: 10:55am On Jan 30, 2023 |
Burdenbearer: Hi, Nairalanders. I just met a lady who is a virgin and over 40. She is older than i am and she is financial independent. She is nice, caring and generous. She has a place of her own. I want to knack her and possibly get her pregnant, so that we can have kids together. She do giving me things for free. The issue now is that, she is this Churchy type and trying everything possible to avoid sex, even when i visited. And age is not by her side. Guys, What do i do abt this? I no wan pour sain, sain for my garri by initiating sex. Note: I have no bad intention against her. I'm not financially bouyant enough to do our human laws of marriage. She is even financially bouyant than i am. The two of you are not compatible. 1. She is a mature woman, while you are a man child. 2. She strikes me as religious, you - a riff raff. 3. She believes that sex is only for married couples, while you seem to believe in random knacking. 4. She's financially stable, while you're not even able to afford resources for basic marriage rites. 5. She's generous, while you are selfish (probably with her because of the free stuff you get from her). She doesn't even seem to realize that she's being manipulated by a small boy who wants to knack her without being responsible for her. I hope she opens her eyes to realize what kind of person you are. |
Travel › Re: Reviving The Travel Section With A Destination Story - My Visit To South Korea! by Farfalla(f): 9:54pm On Jan 26, 2023 |
Following thread.  |
Romance › Re: My Fiancee Jokingly Said She Will Separate Me And My Brother When We Get Married by Farfalla(f): 9:47pm On Jan 26, 2023 |
GloriousGbola: i said get into my egbon's [senior brother] bedroom  are you okay?  i am sending you to do your marital service and you are speaking english  
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