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Travel / Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by fatima04: 7:55pm On Aug 25, 2021 |
Hello Everyone for useful tips on visa application, living in the UK and other information visit part 1 of the thread https://www.nairaland.com/4158866/living-uk-life-uk-immigrant#62102073 For questions on Studying in the UK, please refer to the UK student thread on the below link and try not to derail the thread with student enquiries https://www.nairaland.com/6712649/uk-student-visa-tier-4#105017249. Now let's go make some more memories 3years after the thread was created. Modified Added below link to provide a summary of common questions regarding student visa. Please read https://www.nairaland.com/6719932/living-uk-life-immigrant-part-2#105186938 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by fatima04: 9:08am On Aug 19, 2021 |
TheGuyFromHR: From little research I have done, I believe if its LLM/GDL that allows you to do the Solicitor training course and BPTC course isn't entirely useless, because it allows you to intern and practise here and eventually specialise in those areas. Most schools don't offer the double edged LLM opportunity so best to choose schools that does. |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by fatima04: 9:55pm On Aug 17, 2021 |
Josh121: No matter the bags of food stuffs, e go still finish. I advise just the basic dried fish, egusi, ogbono, crayfish, grounded pepper, and preferred raw swallow. any other thing may not be worth it unless getting it for free from naija. You can add golden Morn cereal and powdered milk if your kids like it 3 Likes 1 Share |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by fatima04: 8:31pm On Aug 16, 2021 |
jtech17: Just explain to the employer your constraint with the company no longer in existence, some will take personal references from a Line Manager or supervisor that you reported to back then. For your second question, references aren't usually that deep (except na CIA or government role), it's largely a documentation process for your file and also protects the employer about due diligence in the event that something happens during the course of your employment. Just present what you have and you will be fine. Some employers will accept references from official email address while others Just fill and sign and others need a signed and stamped references on companies letterhead 1 Like |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by fatima04: 9:51pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
Lexusgs430: Not necessarily, its basically building the account rather than showing an account thats not funded at all. In the past denial experience I had, UKVI stated that they would still like to know the applicant can fend for him or herself incase anything happens to the sponsor. Hence why I always advise submitting the applicant bank details as well as the sponsors, like we know decision from UKVI is dependant on the individual case officer 2 Likes |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by fatima04: 9:46pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
@bronzedigger, like someone advised why not consider IT degrees such as data analysis, business analyst etc. You can get jobs in those as well. Gaining admission into Msc Nursing for someone without experience or background in health care is tough but not impossible. The schools offering admission into those courses are also limited so get ready for tough interview and some RPL assessment before getting admission. Assuming you are going for data analysts for example, you can easily create your SOP and relate it to your experience in analysing data, developing CAD drawings, site works etc. Meanwhile, as someone in construction, I would advise you to consider staying in the profession rather than jumping on the train of changing into nursing or any other career. I would advise you to consider Civil Engineering degrees as there are loads of jobs in the field for Project Engineers that can easily transition into Project Managers etc. Whilst that of mech engineers can be limited. Infact right now, if you have the knowledge of using Primavera software is an added advantage to work as Project Engineer/Planner and a lot of companies will rush to employ you. All the best as you make your choice. 1 Like |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by fatima04: 8:25pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
Lexusgs430: In addition to the above, you can use the next 6months to ensure regular income is going into her account and also print that to show she can support herself as well incase anything happens she won't be stranded in the UK. Generally, older people's application gets approved easily. All the best |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by fatima04: 3:23pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
Lexusgs430: In addition to the above, you can use the next 6months to ensure regular income is going into her account and also print that to show she can support herself as well incase anything happens she won't be stranded in the UK. Generally, older people's application gets approved easily. All the best |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by fatima04: 1:06pm On Aug 14, 2021 |
lightest: You can also start before the ADR, infact sponsors are a lot for such jobs and like someone advised, please make friends. It will help you greatly. BTW I believe UKVI might even have issues with renewing the visa with one parent because of consent letter and custody issues. So if shits hit the fan, all of you may end back in naija if care is not taken as you also have equal power over the kids. 2 Likes |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by fatima04: 10:56am On Aug 14, 2021 |
lightest: Awwww, sounds like you are making improvement. Why not suggest Therapy so you can both have a professional help you work out your issues. And if she still can't overcome it then by all means it's fine. Meanwhile what kind of job do you do? If its healthcare related go check the sponsorship list and start actively searching for an opportunity to sponsor your Skilled work visa. That way you can still be in the country to see your kids. Wishing you the best as you navigate this period 3 Likes |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by fatima04: 10:52am On Aug 14, 2021 |
[quote author=justwise post=104772049] You can see how some people are trying so so hard to come up with made-up excuses to justify why the wife kicked him out? They say maybe.... He is overweight and not attractive to the wife again, he is not developing himself.. She worked sooooo hard to bring her husband here. She is doing 12hrs shift and should not be expected to come home to cook for the husband and kids He is financially irresponsible One asked men to explain why a nice and loving woman will suddenly changed... Remember they are all waiting to hear the wife's side of the story ? SMH [/quote] Because most people like to hear stories and NL is our gateway to such , |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by fatima04: 8:33pm On Aug 13, 2021 |
LagosismyHome: Once one mind is made up and mentally not in that marriage space any more there, there is really nothing that can be done. Just wondering what will change someone with a nice personality in such a relationship to now being mean to someone she once loved? Sometimes I feel if we treat our marriages like relationship with our friends it will be better off. People rarely keep scores in friendship or tit for tat etc but maybe na the oza room changes things sha. |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by fatima04: 8:27pm On Aug 13, 2021 |
Mamatukwas: Agreed with this, bills isn't a requirement for visa renewal but could be for custody fight and as long as paper trail exist from one account to the other, it should be fine. This thing called marriage sha. 2 Likes |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by fatima04: 2:40pm On Aug 12, 2021 |
icon8: Absolutely, and one of those windows is saving his marriage, someone advised involving pastors or imam which isn't a bad idea. Courts and Tribunal na the last stage of dispute resolution oo, first try Negotiation since e don happen, Mediation etc before we now end up for litigation or Tribunal. Even if na naija dey wan divorce they will have to stay together for 2yrs before Courts can even make a decision. Believe there is a similar requirement in Canada as well |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by fatima04: 2:36pm On Aug 12, 2021 |
icon8: But in this case you don't know what led to eviction, and not to conclude doubt he was homeless as well. Leaving the house doesn't mean the end of a relationship. It could actually mean the beginning of saving a relationship. Moving to enemy mode swiftly with someone you share kids sha, someone you probably claimed to love tori torun. 2 Likes |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by fatima04: 2:32pm On Aug 12, 2021 |
icon8: How certain are you the wife is not also contributing. Sometimes being an outsider doesn't mean you have the true picture of how their financial life works. A lot of women are contributing to relocating and it will seem na only the man. At the end of the day it all depends on the strength of the union. |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by fatima04: 2:28pm On Aug 12, 2021 |
Tier4Dependant: Don't be scared, working together as a couple is ideal and forget the noise. There are loads of people doing okay regardless of visa status, financial positions etc. 2 Likes
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Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by fatima04: 2:24pm On Aug 12, 2021 |
icon8: Lol easy to say to go back to naija , when people are marrying for papers. Ish 2 Likes |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by fatima04: 2:23pm On Aug 12, 2021 |
icon8: Depends on the child you want to raise A. Nursery alone for 1 child on the average is £10k per annum; B. Child upkeep, dressing etc depends on if you want designer or asd C. Extracurricular like football training, swimming, taekwando etc D. If you want to save for private school another, thats another story. Not supporting being in abusive, loveless marriage or anything and we don't know the extent of the issues here or who is at fault anyways, but in raising a family 2 100% present is good if that's possible. 1 Like |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by fatima04: 2:18pm On Aug 12, 2021 |
justwise: Just curious if tables were turned would you want the woman to beg to keep her home or just move on. Unions with kids aren't so easy to just pack up laik that oo. 6 Likes |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by fatima04: 2:16pm On Aug 12, 2021 |
justwise: If a couple has a misunderstanding or issues in their union, do you believe in resolution at all or just give up? 1 Like |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by fatima04: 2:15pm On Aug 12, 2021 |
Owlette: It's possible to commute from Sunderland to Newcastle, and houses are relatively cheaper there |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by fatima04: 6:57pm On Aug 11, 2021 |
RalphJean: You are right but hopefully she is able to pick out the positives. Also could be an insight that he won't necessarily suffer visa wise if that was her punishment for a his shortcomings. May we never find ourselves in this type of situation |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by fatima04: 6:53pm On Aug 11, 2021 |
RalphJean: Imagine legal fees on top of child support cost on a £2,500 salary. Lighter note, how do we make our spouse prostrate in the middle of the night oo 3 Likes |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by fatima04: 6:50pm On Aug 11, 2021 |
Mrtruetalk: Uncle true talk seems you know them well oo, abeg help them settle it now and you maybe right as the wife stressing out with working with the NHS. Some hospitals ehn they are hell when it comes to their shift patterns. This is why working together as a couple is essential if its too stressful, assist her with finding a new job and get out of the contract. |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by fatima04: 6:47pm On Aug 11, 2021 |
LagosismyHome: Exactly, those together are still struggling with childcare, bills and breaking even and even having building asset portfolio in a system that is designed for you to be reliant on them. Wish the wife was on NL reading all this sha 1 Like |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by fatima04: 6:45pm On Aug 11, 2021 |
RalphJean: Please how can I get this 1 million pound bayii . Single parenting and dissolved marriages isn't easy on anyone |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by fatima04: 3:26pm On Aug 11, 2021 |
@lightest so sorry you are going through this. Going through your previous posts shows the family just relocated in 2020 to join your wife here and sad to know within such a period things has disintegrated to that level. One thing I would like to add is involving her family as well or someone she listens to to resolve the issues between you guys(caveat as long as its not DV), if she has a good relationship with your family, let them know as well. Asides from the visa issues, please consider your 2 kids who will be affected in this situation. Remember they are in a new/strange land and now loosing their familiarity with their known household unit, and their mental health is also important. Please set aside pride and try and resolve. If possible engage therapist as well to help sort out your issues for you to know what is truly wrong in your union. All the best. 7 Likes |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by fatima04: 6:38pm On Aug 04, 2021 |
profemebee: You get your money back as long as you don't submit the form within the time frame (precovid). You can check if you can cancel as well. For the covid19 test, no idea could be a glitch in the system, if worried maybe change it to a closer location like ibadan or ogun state. |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by fatima04: 6:36pm On Aug 04, 2021 |
Lexusgs430: No one wan die but they wan go heaven ,. How do we know a good provider though if people don't make a claim during their lifetime 1 Like |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by fatima04: 5:12pm On Aug 04, 2021 |
EngrSaks: I think the bolded is what we don't talk about enough. For those with families, please try and get a Life insurance. 4 Likes |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by fatima04: 5:08pm On Aug 04, 2021 |
dustydee: Just to add, the HTB equity loan also enables a reduced mortgage cost because you have a higher deposit and better interest rate for a 75% LTV mortgage. Essentially, it helps people get on the property ladder quickly and start building equity (know a lot of people buy houses within 2years of getting to the UK). In all buying a house is a big financial decision, best thing is to map out a plan and check the feasibility and viability to ones situation.. 3 Likes |
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