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daretodiffer:
They will dish out advice they can't offer their fellow men because women have thick skins, they are supernatural, they can't get hurt, they will be the only one affected if they leave their homes. yet these are the same women that are tagged weak and emotional.

They are always quick to blame them when they are victims and will not spare a thought before derogating them when they happen to be the perpetrators.

Na me and you for this Nairaland

Bunch of sexist pigs!

Lol! My dear, pick your battles wisely jare

I've come to realize that it's of no use dragging issues with most of these guys on nairaland. Most of them were raised to see nothing wrong with some of these behaviours. I actually cringe when I read some comments. In the end, it's a matter of upbringing and it's fundamental.

It is well sha. Going forward, we can only do our best to raise better families

Lol! Ebonyi state governor should take a cue

Eketem:
But she was here last time shouting that Beverly is a liar and her husband is not violent when Beverly accused him of the same thing.


https://www.nairaland.com/1391187/2shotz-wife-reacts-beverly-osus/2

This life na turn by turn. Even Dino Melaye's 2nd wife defended him too until her own “leaked" in a text message as well. I’m waiting for Mustapha Audu’s wife’s testimony soon in an email, since that’s their favourite mode of leaking info

aguiyi2:
Lady, your reasons sound unreal.

Reasons for what?

softvio:
you think its that easy? Well go read much about seccession, everything requires due process.

Due process that involves vandalizing property and killing people??

Tell us more

E383:

Any problem?

softvio:
then how can biafra be achieved?

Let them go to the UN like civilized human beings and seek for a referendum

Pomzy:
..

Lol! This cracked me up sha

Lol! Welcome to the madhouse!!

They had better start building more prisons cos the ones available will not be enough. Plus, I’m not willing to share a bed /space with murderers and thieves. My stay in the prison has to be dignified (as someone who just yabbed a govt in power)

Why you dey beg them na??

They think Biafra can be achieved by protesting on the streets, shutting down shops and crippling people's businesses at Onitsha and Aba.

JoeCutie:
I trust you have.

So...what about me?

You're a figment of my imagination

Same way the B.sc was handled?

JoeCutie:
My Favour! Awwww. Your level of intelligence speaks for itself. Kudos.

I bet you've experienced those things you said in the both scenarios. Tell me it's not true and watch me do the unthinkable to you.

So I'm also a figment of your imagination, eh kwa? Well, I hope it'd let you marry me sha?

I have experienced something close to scenario 1, but I realised the futility of it so I didn't let it happen. And of course, I have experienced scenario 2. Twice

JoeCutie:
Thing is, there's always a first day. Right now, you may not have seen your eventual husband or have you? but then it doesnt mean he doesn't exist. Those people you see everyday - friends, course mates, colleagues at work, etc - all came around one day. Someone you met online could still fall into that category someday.

So you don't believe that love does forgive?

Case scenario 1:
I meet someone online who's based in Akure or Abuja. We talk over the phone for weeks and he professes his undying love to me. He then tries to convince me it'll work by trying to bridge the distance between us. If he can afford it, he may offer to come down to see me in Lagos every weekend or something fairer than that.

Case Scenario 2:
I have a family friend who I have known for years or possibly since I was in diapers. We're talking one day and he tells me he really likes me, and then I realize that the feeling is kinda mutual.

The difference between these 2 is that, scenario 2 guy is more real to me. He can't bullish!t me because I probably know almost every important thing there is to know about him. If I need to run other low-key background checks, I know who to talk to. But for scenario 1 guy, I only know what he deems fit to tell me. He could be anything, and i wouldn't know

And that's what I meant when I said it's easier to deal with everyday people. Honestly, i think everyone I see commenting and posting online is just a figment of my imagination until I see them in the real.

And yes, my love forgives but it doesn't forget. So it definitely wouldn't let me marry such people

JoeCutie:
Lmao! Quite right. Do not forget though, that from among those "cat fishes, fake people, misogynists, fraudsters, etc" one finds love. Sometimes, love forgives all those.

Lol! Really? Love forgives those? Or desperation?

It's just easier to deal with people we see everyday jor

JoeCutie:
Well, it's good you rightfully pointed that out cos many have found lasting friendship here, some of which have really taken theirs to the 'next level'. While some catch fun, others catch love. Na so e be for all the other social networking sites.

Yes I understand that overtime, friendships or relationships are likely to be formed. Of course, we cant really say never. But I think that's different from coming here with the intention or mindset that you're looking for a husband.

I think that's just sad mehn. Too many catfishes, fake people, misogynists, fraudsters, etc, are roaming these NL streets.

Whoever comes on here to look for husband don miss road seriously

Well, I cant speak for everyone, but NL is just fun and games for a good number of us. When the thing tire us, we deactivate

Ain't nobody gat time

What the hell is this?

Tamakay:
Let me also add this, u can never get the true character of a woman until three things happens to u. They are; 1. When a man is broke 2. When there are issues(children). 3. When u cheat on her. When all these happens and she is still with u then know that her character is stable and the marriage will last. Don't forget also character is made up of so many components. She might have a good xter in respecting u but she might have a bad character in preparing ur meal not on time.

Really though??

olowoba:
I need advise from the married folks here.
There is this lady that i have been dating for over 3 years. She's pretty, her character is almost flawless, neat, domesticated, hardworking, respects and loves me a lot. In short, she will most likely be a good wife. However, I like her but do not love her from the depth of my heart. I have tried hard to love her because shes is a good gal but it just isn't there. However, I am still considering her because she has the best character i have seen amongst all the women I have met. My greatest fear is if i will be able to endure a loveless but relatively peaceful marriage.

On the other hand, I am beginning to fall in love woth someone else that i hardly know. She appears friendly, maybe not as pretty as current girlfriend but her smile can melt my heart. I am very fond of her and I just tend to like eveything about her. I have only known her for a short time and I am almost ready to go ahead with marriage. She's nice but not as loving as my gf. My fear is - what if she turns out to be a lazy, nagging and hateful wife. Will i be able to endure a bad wife that I love so much?

So which is more important to a successful marriage? Love or character?
Which should be the foremost in choosing a wife? To marry a good and loving gal, or to marry a girl I love that may turn out to exhibit some very bad characters?

Only for the married folks please....they have the experience.

If you marry your current girlfriend whom you do not love, it's obvious you'll cheat on her at some point

This is not an IQ test

If this is true, then i guess we can also say that smart men are scarce

Ko kan aye mehn!

E383:
Loool.
You!

There's nothing funny about this issue o

E383:
Loool.
You!

There's nothing funny about this issue o

Davidovinci:
Drug/rape her? Wtf is wrong with you? Bloody sociopath!

As in! I'm just so appalled that he felt so comfortable putting it out there on a public forum, like it's a normal thing

johnomotayo:
I sincerely love her otherwise I should have moved on All the same I don't want another guy to disvirgin her That's if it has not happened cos she travelled We agreed 2 weeks and she ended up using 3 weeks and 2 days I scared or should I drug her and rape her Or I should just force her

WTF is wrong with you??
As in, what the actual fvck??!

ednut1:
Painting perfect pictures . We know as he dey go for reality

No, you don't

eyeview:
Very sad advice coming from a woman. Vey sad indeed.

Yea, I agree. Very sad

Na wa o

robosky02:
you will know by there fruits

Lol! Keep on deceiving yaself

robosky02:
you will know by there fruits

Lol! Keep on deceiving yaself