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udoka2: good morning lovely ladies. make una no wounjor me ooo . this is 5 months journey how l go share am in one day now

concluding part of PartA(i) is that i rejected the 350k test, how my blood go first me travel abroad mbanu!!!

PART A(II) OF CDI


ME, MY GOD AND MY DREAM
In December my church requested we write five prayer points for the New Year, I didn’t know what came over me, l started listing all the unimaginable good things God has done for me, after l told him HE can hold on and this is my time for children, l cant continue carrying over the issue of children year in and year out. After of life and good health, I asked Him for ONLY children in 2013! Also every Sunday this year was declared holy communion day in my church, the first for the year, l took it with every seriousness in me, I told him to flush out whatever that’s causing my the miscarriage.
The night after the first holy communion of the year, l had a dream, l was using the rest room, then l felt something came out of me but l didnt mind whatever it could have been. A shadow entered the rest room and asked if l didn’t know that something came out me. I was like but am using the toilet now, so something should come out, the shadow instructed that l get up and check what came out. I stood up looked into the toilet behold it was filled with blood. In my mind l was like am l having another miscarriage? A voice told me, but you are not pregnant how can you have miscarriage, and ordered that l bring stick to check what fell in. I was reluctant, the shadow took a stick, deep into the toilet and brought out what look exactly like lizard, that was the end of the dream, when l woke up l woke up with the dream and the meaning in my spirit – its says, what came out is what has been causing you miscarriage!

To be contd later today, i wish to conclude this part so we can enter part B tomorow. abegi no beat me ooo, i still be una sister, whatever we go hear the end soon.

God is faitful, there is nothing like deliverance in the dream. I remebere vividly one i had in 2004 and since then that issue (i was delivered from) never plagued me again

we seal your testimony with the blood of Jesus

Ticha: Amazeballs, I totally understand how you feel. You can make it dear. We dey your back gidigba! You have some time till August so start slow and remain constant and the weight will shift off.
This year is our year of pregnancies and babies.

All the weight I lost has remained off. I'm just waiting for ET and as at yesterday, I weighed 70kg so I put on only 1kg throughout the one month of DR and stimms. Last time, I put on a whopping 7 kg and its the same protein rich diet I had.
My sisters, we can do it! Our BFP is round the corner!

Yay! 70kg is perfect. Good luck with the ET

[quote author=AmazeBalls]Hello my wonderful sisters,favourgal,iyabetajos,mamattwingals,ticha,I say a big thank you,u guys hv been inspiring Me.I just had a failed ivf cycle in march,my weight was around 88kg,my sisters I was so depressed,I felt dt it was becos of my weight,I lost control,started bad eating habit,thank God for u guys,and stories like monique's weight loss story(u never know who u are inspiring)
Infact it is time to start,because we are planning for our 2nd cycle,by His grace in august/sept
I want and need to loose 20kg[/quote)


Hey, welcome. I pray God grants you your heart desires. 20kg is a big goal but totally doable. Just remain disciplined with your eating

Iyabetajos: come favouredgal u don join twingalz n d rest abi?y una dey do lyk dis nw?i go vex buy 1cow chop alone oh.make i kuku resemble d cow sef.pls nw i don vex oh?hope u galz r all okay

Sorry jare:
Sunday: 2 oat bar for breakfast
2 indomie for lunch
Vegetable soup and fish for dinner

Monday
No breakfast (forgot)
Lunch: rice and beans and fish
Dinner: 2 oat bar.

I upped up to 1500mg of metformin and i still got 40 day cycle and 43 day cycle. I dont even know if i can stand 2000mg. I don tire to dey pop pills. After my vacation. Il tell my dr im ready to move on to injectibles

Beetle: @ Udoka, all this part A, part B of CD1, I no like am at all. This one no b Naija movie na. Anyway this is my conclusion you were depressed for 2 weeks max, actually depressed is a strong word. You were down cos you lost your baby. Na in Valentine reach your area, result came back from abroad, they gave you Ehmmm Clexane, Steroids and now you're 3 months pregnant.

My peeps I don conclude be that o. We no get time for part B, before u say NEPA don strike for your area. Congratulations!!!!!

Liked and seconded. Lol. This post made my evening

udoka2: Hmmmm, this outpouring of welcome and reception don too mucho oo, l know say na red carpet welcome una give me for una hearts.
THE LAST MISCARRIAGE
Its no longer news that l lost the last pregnancy on Dec 6, at almost 7weeks. It was the worst miscarriage of my life. I was in pain for three days without bleeding , they took blood to check my hcg level, it was only 300 – when it supposed to be in thousands at that stage. Doctor concluded that whatever that’s causing me the miscarriage starts as soon as implantation takes place. On the 4th day l started bleeding and lost the baby finally on the 6th of December. During those days of agony and pains, l said lots of unimaginable things, l told God to kill me instead of allowing me go thru any other miscarriage in my life, my sisters l said a lot that DH was almost closing my mouth. But l kept on and on. I went into DEEP depression, life meant nothing to me any longer. I stopped praying and decided never to go anywhere any longer for prayers , because l felt it doesn’t work.
After the miscarriage, my doctor decided to run a comprehensive check to see if the actual cause would be found. I did the following tests: T3,T4,TSH (thyriod level) OGTT, HBAIC (diabetes I and II) and urine analysis, all these came back good. I did HVS outside, it showed moderately growth of candida and e-coli, DH sperm showed moderate growth of staph, we were given antibiotics.
The gynea was tired of the situation when all the results in his office came back normal, according to him I have done all possible tests l needed to do, except one, l can’t remember the name; he said can only be done abroad and it will cost 350k.

TO BE CONTD TOMORROW

All is well that ends well and i know in my heart this story ends well

weaseloo: Hello ladies I'm TTC #2. My gynae has recommended I get an HSG. I am very skeptical about it because I heard it is a very painful procedure. But it looks like I am going to go ahead with it.
My questions are can anyone recommend a good center in Lagos where I can get this done. My gynae was going to give me a referral. But I will like to get referral from you guys based on your experiences and successes. And how much it will cost as well.
Also what should I expect after the procedure. Were you given antibiotics? And what product and dosage? Did you have bleeding, were you in pains after the procedure? How long did it take to resume BDing.
My email is weaseloo @ rocketmail . com
Thanks ladies, looking forward to your advises.

I paid 19k for mine at premier. I was given an injection before the process. Il say it was more uncomfortable than painful. The pain is when you have partial or full blockage. I spotted for like 3 days after. Just go with a pad to use afterwards.

Bd resumed in 2 days in my case after if memory serves me well

Iyabetajos: hia my sister no go over indulge before u cm back n we dnt even recognize ur 'handwriting' ohh LMAO .me if im lyk u am okay sef.i wan reduce before i break my bed abeg

Lop. Its just patience. I remember weighing almost 80kg as at feb but now im under 70kg

shithapuns: dear fruitful mummies in the house, how do you cope with poor er,ection from dh during ovulation window?, my dh brain is a mini pc, so that style of saying dont let him know ur cycle wont work, cos he knows my cycle, since its regular 29/30 days every time?......the poor er,ection doesnt happen all the time, but when it does..i feel kinda depressed and feel he might be finding me unattractive or something

some1 suggested using lubricants n attempt to self service him...

Your profile is a bit confusing as you were posting as a man initially

Anyways as per ur question, this one hes got your cycle memorized isnt too good as it puts unnecessary pressure on a man to perform. So i dont think its a case of him not finding you attractive.

You can try the lubricants if that works for him but il suggest oral...works for most men

Iyabetajos: hehehe no kill me oh.u just make me hungry sef.i weghed myself today n i've lost 3kg so am nw 91kg so17more ohh.me i skipped breakfast n for lunch i had yoghurt(dunno if its gud for me)no dey cheat again ohhh

Youghurt is healthy. My dear i don hear. I really shouldnt be indulging cuz im going to france and italy next weekend for two wks and i know il overindulge then

Congrats! 3kg is a huge achievement

Iyabetajos: @favouredgal ive been on met since january bt only saw af in march.dunno wat else to do.my log today breakfast-smoothie with 1boiled egg.lunch-3slices of yam n cow intestin(i don commit) dinner oatbiscuits.also went for a jog.lots of love dear

Seen. Iv stopped metformin too cuz its making my period cycle over 40 days.
Today is mycheat day jare

Breakfast i had pizza

Lunch: barbeque chicken and potato wedges

gabrieli: Congrat, we hope to see more of such good news from nairalanders that have, about to or planning to apply

thanks

nodawa: Congrats to you @ favour gal

thanks

i see. well, i think the hormmones in pills make women put on weight, but if it is prescribed by your dr carry go.

Why birth control though, i'd'v imagined he'd'v prescribed Metformin or something.

Today's food log
Breakfast: 2 oat bar (Nature Valley)
Lunch: 1 Moinmoin and fish

Picked up my visa, was given 6 months, multiple entry. Cheers

omonikiba: @Godsent, thank God for your testimony.

@Berrybass, thank God you have decided to stay off drugs, stick very tight to your decision I beg, but make sure you take fruits, eat avocado pears well, thank God we are in the season.

@MamaT, how things? @AlwaysT, aka pastor in the house, well done, God is looking through your file now., aha, I love the TTC, Trusting Totally in Christ, He won't fail you.

@Safe, thanks for remembering me, waoo, I bow @ your true life story, God confounds doctors's report, yes, He does.

@Heknowsmyname, thanks for still coming up to encourage pips, hope u are better now? Where is @Nictos? Finish your testimony na? Y you run away? God dey oooo.

@CJ, I hail thee. @ Chi my friend, happy aniversary, this time next year, you will be with a child, Amen.how is hubby and you? @ Pink, how family? One sister for my church wen dey expect #2 don preggy, immediately I was told I remembered u, God will visit you dis season.

@Bettle, thanks for those infor for those who would need them, but I beggy, let's say na d time I still dey buy buy medicine, I for don write down if not all but most of those drugs to buy, kai, my head won kpai for drugs that time, I beg if anyone must buy them not all ooo, they are so plenty, I think just few good ones will do, and do your own reseacrh to make your selections.

@all new mums, you won't stay here for long before sharing your testimonies. Amen.

Welcome back.

Iyabetajos: so my remaining update for dinner i took oat biscuits with water n a tiny piece of chicken.pls@favoured gal do u know if d pill causes weight gain cos i intend taking it for 3months whiilst watching my weight

What pill? Birth control?
I also had oat bar for dinner

Iyabetajos: attagal way to go .me ehhn breakfast-skipped dunno y lunch-efo with cous cous n pomo .hallelujah i was offered chips n egg with a bottle of coke n i refused.thank God oh it means nothing is impossible oncedetermined

That's the spirit

gabrieli: Actually, i am attending a childhood friend`s wedding in France and the couple made a case for me at the embassy. That made my case to be categorised as emmergency.

Other types of visit the embassy will probably categorise as emmergency will be business meeting trips and on health grounds.

ok cool

just got a text, pick up tomorrow

Iyabetajos: @favoured gal abeg no de motivate oh.wil start postin asap.d others go comot soon.u rock gal

Mwaaaahh

Well today
Breakfast: 1 Moin-moin
Lunch: beans and fish

gabrieli: @FAVOUR GAL
Wish u success too.

thanks, i havent even tracked it online, will do so tonight.

Meanwhile, was your case "Emergency" how come it came out so fast?

Iyabetajos: ahh sisters make dis thread no cm die nw oh.i went to c my gynae on tuesday n she was virtually begging me to lose weight in order to increase my fertility.she said even if i conceive dere is tendency of high risk so i think am gonna put off ttc for a while n work on my weight.missin u guys oh

una no dey post na! thats why i am unmotivated to post

gabrieli: 1. Go to VFS with your all docs with their photocopies, U will get a tally number at the gate
2. The will call u in when it is your turn
3. U will get your docs pre screened at the first port of call, next u go for visa fees payment(within the same hall)
4. Finally u do biometrics.
T hey will give u your instruction date, meaning that your docs will be dispatched to the embassy, but, will not be processed until the date on your instruction sheet, from the instr. date u will still need to add 10 days before your decision from them.

Note: If you had planned to travel in may or june 2013, don`t bother to go their because the ealiest intruction date is already at earlier july 2013. This is realy crazy, french embassy will hold your docs for 2months b4 u get thier decision.


I was there to submit on 29th April, the instruction date given to me is june 24th, i had planned to travel by 1st July, see me see wahala oooo.

ok, i have my answer there, I submitted before you!

gabrieli: I thank the GOD almighty. By HIS devine intervention, wify, daughter, son and i got the french visa yesterday, just within 2 weeks of submission. Paris, see u in summer

Really,? 2 weeks after submission or 2 weeks after biometrics? cuz i submitted on the 2nd of April and it is expected to be out this Fri or next monday

Chi16: @alwaystrue...i
was thinking since morning dt tomorow is my 4th marriage anniversary
with nothin to show. ur post av strengthen me as if u ar ministering to me
face to face. tnx for those inspired words. u really made my day. as u av
watered me dis morning so sha God water u and ur family. greetings to
all my wonderful sisters and bro Santagelo. it is well wit us.

Happy anniversary in advance, i pray God will visit you in this new year of your marriage

@Always true, thanks so much for that word

holluwai: Ultimately what one needs is FAVOR when it comes to US visa. 5 of us were ment to attend the conference. We all do no have past traveling experience but 2 of us were granted the visa and yes the conference sure is related to my work so I will just insist it was the dude at window5 that just did what he felt like doing.

Maybe all 5 of you should have applied together

well-done babes

Jummy4real: Dear fruitful ladies,

Jummy4real(f): 9:06pm On May 08
ear fruitful ladies,

I must confess u guys are doing a great job and my prayer is that may God answer our prayers as soon as possible. I'm a long time member and silent reader.

Pls I need your help concerning Asherman Surgery Procedure.

Pls has anybody done Asherman surgery/Laparoscopy here in Nigeria b4, if yes, which doctor did it 4 u, what was d procedure like, what was ur experience, were u able to go home same day after d surgery and lastly were u able to give birth after †ђξ treatment? Hope to hear from you.
Baby dust to us.

Hi babe, if you look at the top of the page, you will see a search button, just type in asherman syndrome and all the posts its been discussed in on this forum will come up, then you can contact anyone that was discussing it to shed more light

Cheers

tzetzefly: You need a valid credit card to book an accomodation in western countries or you can get in touch with genuine travel agents.

Few good ones abound in Nigeria....

you ccan use your debit master or visa card from any of these naija banks.

twingirls: Iyaibetajos, tank God U̶̲̥̅̊ are к̲̣̣̥ now, never heard of foreva weightloss combo, maybe U̶̲̥̅̊ shld google it, but do be careful, remember U̶̲̥̅̊ are ttc, so U̶̲̥̅̊ must mind ​ђã†̥ U̶̲̥̅̊ are taking I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ .

@Ticha, are you supposed to remove d bromelain enzyme? I tot that's wat helps wt implantation?  are U̶̲̥̅̊ not to be eating only d core?

@favoredgal, how was fruit diet? ​ђã†̥ do you weigh now?

@all, I'm not doing fine o, i eat anything now, frm icecream to cake, to rice, doughnut, i even drank coke yesterday, not because of hunger o, Ĵüڪ† always feel like eating, eating a̶̲̥̅̊₪d̶̲̥̅̊ eating

i lost 1 kg, but it ended on Friday and o boy yesterday was my friend's birthday, she bought us shawarma for breakfas, chinese for lunch and pizza for dinner.

I was afraid to weigh myself today self!

sashacoleman: I was denied last year when i applied through the French embassy even though i have valid visas in my passport, i decided to apply again dis year becos i wanted to go on vacation in Europe. After i heard that it would take about 2 months before i get my passport back from them, i decided to try the German embassy, since ive heard nothing but good reviews about their system and i like the interview process, atleast then i can explain anything that needs to be explained. I picked up my passport few days later with my Schengen visa. I'm looking forward to my mini- tour around Europe. If you have your complete documents and you have a good job here, try the German embassy.

Wow, that was fast! kai! we that submitted since march are still waiting for our visa...well, noted for next time