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I want to beleive God'sTime is the best, you should be loved for whom u are . My wife knew me when i was staying with a brother, thereafter, we got married, got employed, have kids, house of my own. Then , i had nothing then...from grass to grace . Girl be of good conduct , dont pretend , you man underway. most guys are gold diggers, be careful.

renewable1:
You mustn't load your inverter completely sir, this is where must people get it wrong. You have a 1.5kva inverter and you want a load of 1200w on it, that system won't serve for long it will crash. With good batteries it won't get drained at all. For better performance and longevity of your system don't load it beyond 50%

overloading the system is a bad management cullture that can damage the unit,.. Am rocking my mtn y'llow box. Managing the load is d rule of the game

At the end of all wicked deed loot, them go say na (maga) yahoo him take blast

The day I asked my mother where babies came from was so traumatic it makes me shudder to recall it”, said Justina, a renowned writer now a grandmother. “It was in 1966 and I was six; a gullible, good-natured soul, a lover of fairy stories who wanted to know if the story of the stock was true. If it was, then why had I never seen a stork when there were so many babies. “My mother could have told me anything. She could have said simply that when two people want a baby, by some sort of curious magic, a tiny little spec is made in the woman’s tummy. I liked magic and believed in it. But my mother was adamant her daughter would be far more liberated than she was. So, despite my tender age, she launched into a full anatomical description of sex, something that would colour my attitude to love and intimacy forever. I grew up thinking it was just a bit of fun, momentary meaningless.
There is no doubt my mother’s liberal attitude paved the way for me agreeing to my first ill-fated marriage being `open’. This didn’t in any way mean we had loads of lovers – in ten years of being together I took only one and my husband three or four – but rather there was a total disconnect between love and sex. Even today, in my second less conventional marriage, where love and fidelity absolutely go hand-in-hand, I can’t help but feel great sex has more to do with my husband’s beloved football team winning a match than a resurgence of affection for me. If my mother had been ore conservative when I came to sex education, would I feel differently? I believe I might. “As a mother of five boys, ranging from 33 to 19, I have very determinedly taken the opposite approach – I pretended sex didn’t ever exist, letting them find out about it in their own time, from their school and peers. And thankfully, not one of them posed the most awkward of questions. I still wonder what my mother was thinking. A little girl does not need to know about her father’s manhood or the fact her mother has a `hidden passage’ inside her. While she chatted away happily, I was horrified – not to mention a little traumatised. `Don’t worry Justina, there’s nothing to be afraid of!’, she said. I became determined I would never experience sexual desire if it made you do such horrible things. “This feeling stuck with me throughout primary school. When I was 14, my mother went further still.
She told me it was important to find out about my own body and not to fear it. I had to find out what gave me pleasure before I could ask someone else to do I for me. Surely, surely, it’s not a mother’s role to say such things to her daughter? But she firmly believed that the more you knew about sex, the better lover you would become, and the more fulfilled you would be. As a teenager, I wanted to be rebellious. I was longing to do things my mother would disapprove of, and make my own path in life. But when you’re faced with enquiries like: `Have you honestly not had your first orgasm yet? Poor love!” you become – what can I say? – anti-sex, a lover of purity, friendship, anything which isn’t about body parts. “Despite her enthusiasm for me to experiment, I was still (much to my mother’s despair) a virgin at 18. Rather than feeling, I should wait for `the one’, I began to feel I’d like to shed off virginity. When a handsome young naval officer home on leave asked me out, I thought: `Oh well, it may as well be him’. Poor man. I may as well have been in a dentist’s chair and when the did was done, felt as empty as could be. I did have a couple of other lovers before I married my first husband, aged 22. He came from a bohemian background but his liberal views on sex and fidelity did not faze me. “Part of my mother’s relationship advice was that all red-blooded men were unfaithful to their wives, so I didn’t bat an eyelid at the idea of infidelity. After all, what did sex matter? Somewhat unsurprisingly, after a decade the marriage collapsed. My husband had fallen in love with one of his mistresses.
Heartbroken, I went on to marry again but with a far more conventional outlook. I had two further sons and that’s when I became determined to put matters right on the sex education front. I was certainly not going to be my sons’ friend and adviser in bedroom matters. Neither parent nor child should know what the other gets up to in bed. Rather, they would find out all about sex from their schools and their peers. My role would be to pretend that sex didn’t even exist. I would neither encourage nor discourage but let them find out about it in their own time. I was always waiting for the question ‘Where did I come from, mummy?’ and tied myself in knots as to how I would answer it, but luckily, it never came. Perhaps, this sex-education business is easier with boys, I hoped. There was one wobble, though. Soon after my eldest son began university, he brought a girl home to stay the night. Her name was Amanda. She wore stilettos, revealing cropped leggings and a good deal of make-up. But she was also petite and seemed a lot younger than 19. She was friendly enough over supper and polite. I kept thinking: ‘This is so wrong! Shouldn’t I be ringing her parents?’ “But my son would never forgive me for interfering. I was beside myself with worry.
I had never even told my son to treat a girl with respect and tenderness, nor to get to know her first before sleeping with her. Then an even worse thought came into my head. I had never so much as mentioned the word `condom’ and I knew my son wouldn’t have given a thought to contraception. If she wasn’t on the Pill, I would be a grandmother to a child I might never know. By morning, I was already envisaging arguments between my husband and my son’s father about who would be paying maintenance for the poor child. And all because of my negligence. “Thankfully all was well. Amanda did not fall pregnant and life went on. Still I was flummoxed as to what line I should take. Should I start advising my other sons? I began to ask around – how did other mothers deal with the sexual education of their children? Some, to my horror, seemed almost as liberal as my mother and said they could `talk about anything’ with their children. Worse was the friend who took the opposite view. `Remember the pleasure of sneaking down the corridor in the early hours and getting into bed with your boyfriend?’ she asked me. `I want to crease the same titillation in my home, and will refuse to let my son share a bedroom with his girlfriend until he’s married’. “Another friend told me with pride about how she knocked on her 22-year-old son’s door one Sunday morning and offered to cook him and his girlfriend breakfast, when a second child shouted out – me too please! God save me from such a moral quagmire.
Can I imagine saying to my youngest now 20: `Remember one girl at a time!’ I’m afraid I’m still going to take the cowardly way out and remain silent on the issue. The others have all grown up now – one is even expecting a baby soon. And as for you, my youngest, do whatever you like – just don’t tell me about it!” Why you should sleep completely naked! 1.Skin: When the nights are hot (not now it’s raining) going naked not only cools you down, it allows areas that are usually restricted by clothes to get some fresh air – lowering the risk of certain skin conditions. 2.Hormones: Being overheated while you’re in dreamland can cause your level of the hormone cortisol to rise, which can lead to increase feelings of anxiety and stress, and make you crave naughty foods! 3.Fertility: A recent study found that men who slept completely nude had a far lower percentage of damaged DNA in their sperm compared with men who wore boxers or briefs. 4.Sex: Sex has a host of health benefits – and you’re more likely to have it if you’ve shed those Pjs! 5.Relationships: Sleeping naked with someone encourages skin-on-skin contact. This boosts the levels of oxytocin in your brain. This makes you feel happy and much closer to your partner. It’s win-win!

Read more at: https://www.vanguardngr.com/2019/07/why-mothers-shouldnt-teach-their-children-the-facts-of-life/

Following the xenophobic attack on foreign national, Chris is yet to return to his homeland, does Airlift forgot him . He has remain mum over the series of attack against his national.

I had a similar experience for 4 yrs+ couple with heat...its been God. Avoid alcohol in totality...chew bitter leaf & scent leaf b4 n after bed daily. keep ur BP in check

Its wolf...a nocturnal animal !

Thank God, I wanted to pay for LCD now....cancelled. okpare

But data sub is too expensive to listen to ordinary radio. I luv online dailies !

Just like a Hollywood movie...what a suspense !

I cant advise nor take side when the matter is glaring...mama has found a new love & luv is blind !

So na kidnapping money u dey chop since, as u look holy reach !

can u build a web application site ,that is dynamic website?

chinavs9ja:
Yes ooo...God is our strength


I am a professional website designer...check my signature

Can this happen in Europe...if it happened to muslim woman in America, you will see missiles from Afghan about the treatment of their sister

When Christ come, would your garment be spotless...happy are those whose garment is without spot nor wrinkle

There is always a reward for all deeds !

Nbote:
Lolzzz... How can d G.O of a miracle church complain of members not paying tithe wen his church is named a miracle church lol

Stop posting this pix pls...irritating & annoying

So there is even Okada in Cameroon too...wonderful !

Na true na

emmanuelpopson:
robbers and night.. they are children of the dark...

Be more hydrated. Consume enough fruits, roughages & vegies. Early morning mix-mag

StUriah:
Please Nairalanders, how long does it take to receive Paypal money in my Nigerian account or Domiciliary Account? What are the procedure?

I need good advice, please. Thanks

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[quote author=Tunagee post=80394471]My wife started behaving strangely immediately I lost my job in April 2017. She leaves home to her mum at the slightest disagreement without even communicating or making to express her feelings; and to worsen it, her mum gives her a great welcome with a room and parlour for her to stay, without even calling me to discuss what the problem. Whatever her daughter says is always the final, and she concludes on that.

She has been with her mum now for almost ten months(my wife is a fully grown legally married faithful woman of almost 40 years)

All these disrespect, probably cos I lost my job two years ago of which I fulfilled all responsibilities to the home.
Now what she keeps telling my family is that her family said she should still hold on at her mum's place. This is the 10th month since October 2018.

Her mother practically told me to go and do something meaningful, and that there is time to marry, separate, reunite and hustle. Her mum is the one controlling her movements and everything about her for now; not even giving her room to give me audience.

Its unfortunate that u are in a messy marriage, without mincing of words,neither ur wife or her family loves you,u got married to someone u dont really know.You mother-inlaw does not want the marriage.Its better that thing happened like this...once a girl is marriage,she must manage any situation she finds herself in the marriage.
If shes not comfortable seeing u,she should go and rest in ur own mothers house.
PLS HUSTLE HARD AND GET ANOTHER JOB,GET ANOTHER WOMAN cos shes a gold digger. dont entice woman with money. Sorry to say there is no love in ur marriage and therefore call it a quite. Stress in marriage is suicidal be guided. Take heart & Move on

Yeah,I have one...Nice ride always

[quote author=jesusjnr post=80036047]What I don't quite get is what you mean by what you hate, for what you hate could be the right thing.
I hate sin yet I found myself committing sin, this means there are two forces (power) operational in man, either of Darkness of of Light which may be yield to..yielding to the fleshly desire is man's unregenerated nature.
We hate fornication/adultery hence we keep indulgence why ?

Dear brethren, why do we do what we really hate, just like Apst Paul writes:

For we know that the law is spiritual, but I am of the flesh, sold under sin.
Romans 7:14
For I do not understand my own actions. For I do not do what I want, but I do the very thing I hate.Romans 7:15
(ESV).
For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church,
Ephesians 5:29

What are the things you find yourself doing which you hate despite hope for heaven !
What is in action in our lives ?
How do we set ourselves for redemption

uncleck:
Because of the terrible situation of light where I currently stay, I've decided to add phone charging to the list of services I render. I have "I pass my neighbor" generator but the popular view here is that small generators shorting battery life. Most people I've spoken to about it advised me against it and told me they won't even patronize me. But is it really true that small generators damage phone batteries?

Consider this:

CONCLUSION
It does not mater the size of your generator, what matters is the output voltage and the stability. A PHCN light of 110V will charge a phone slower than a small generator that produces 200V all things being equal.

P.S. I am not an engineer, I studied History/International Studies in school, but I've learnt a lot from the street. So please don't take my words as absolute. Engineers in the house can correct me.

Pls ignore heresies , AC is AC & DC is DC, the Engr. who produced generator and mobile phones has put everything into test and consideration not mistake . By the way, what is phone that I pass my neighbor cannot charge despite the danyot ...so many fake devices in the market . Guy, run the business that's the way people/prospective customers behaves in a bite to frustrate...God's on ur side go ahead guy kick start ur business ! I run i pass my neighbor and Solar...very good, I also make money from charging devices as well. I rely my info on google not locales

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@Atiku thanks for ur prompt and interesting response to my question.The problem is there is a division of opinion within the PDP Governors on RUGA.Some northern PDP Governors like Mohammed and Tambuwal are for it whilst ALL Middle Belt and southern PDP Governors are against it.❤

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@TopsyAshaolu
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Atiku is wiser than you. Have you seen a northern speaking about themselves? He is playing the card of politics knowing too well he might need there vote when next he decide to run.

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Wiser than me? Is that what you call wisdom? Not addressing the vital questions of the day? Are you aware of the fact that COURAGE is a virtue? You are too dumb to be on my timeline. Pl grow up and go back into the dirty little hole you crawled out of.

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My position on Ruga is the same as articulated by the Governors elected under the banner of my party, the PDP. My position has been well iterated by our Governors & the PDP is one. I will not dignify that threat with a response. There is no North or South. There is just Nigeria.
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Why this question not channel to Mr president? I think he's the only one in the right position to answer this. I have my reason for this...

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You are a legend. Yorubas do not know what they have in you. Twitter is indeed a wonderful tool. From your few words I have read on ur handle, I can deduce the quality of your soul. Top quality.

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@MOribamishe
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Mr Femi Fani I am sure if you’re in the position Atiku is today I am sure you will ignore the questions and remain silent until remember he is not in the position to make any decree...

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aderogba okunlola
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His views at the moment would be perceived to be anti-north. I believe he would speak as a nationalistic man as he has always been.

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Samuel Ngige
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My brother FFK forget Atiku he will not support RuGA as President and he will not say anything against it we know them. He has not said anything against Fulani herdsmen except Bokoharam. In his US visit he mentioned insecurity he called out Bokoharam only

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Samuel Ngige
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Even a voice from background helped him call Herdsmen he did not say anything he jumped it. He will never say do not give them land or not. But Atiku i know will be the last to discuss this kind policy as a president but he will not say anything against his people if....

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Them send you ogbeni?

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Harry Ebere
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The questions ought not to come. He supposed to respond without being asked. Asking him now,will suggest a doctored but not pleasing response. My take pls.

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Emmanuel Akindele
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Aside from @ShehuSani , I'm yet to see or hear any notable politician from the far north criticise the RUGA policy. @atiku needs to speak NOW or NEVER.

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Leave what ever Shehu Sani says. Ever since he was dropped by APC he antagonizies anything Buhari and Elrufai. But before then he supported everything about him

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U lie my dear
Shehu sani has always been a man with a good heart.
Guess that was y it didn't go well for him in APC.

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Stop asking foolish question let him concentrate please in the day time you are Pdp in the night you are Apc

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The most sincere post I’ve seen in a long time

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The earlier you guys realise that every fulani believe and are united in the common vision of fulanization of Nigeria the better. So don't expect anyone of them to condemn that threat. Not even @atiku will condemn it. No matter how they fight each when it comes to that vision ...

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... they are united

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Chukwuemeka eliezer
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Fulani United FC...

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arinze edeh
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This is no doubt the most pertinent question ever asked any #Nigerian political gladiator.And you just proved that all #fulanis have a common stand on RUGA and what it stands

Little wonders why my sister agreed to marry you .You are a great mind, blessed and endowed with reason.

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Egbon mi@realFFK they will plan and shout but it will not stand that's what d bible says. They will form but their formation will be scattered, His Excellency @atiku has not uttered a word because his major concern are the cases in court. Egbon mi relax

Freehuman:
Attached to this comment are screenshots of The Nigerian Evidence Act, 2011.

Under the English common law received into Nigeria by the Supreme Court ordinance of 1914 and Interpretations Act in section 45, Bukola Dakolo would have no case because of the common law doctrine of Res gestae which rendered Criminal cases useless if the evidence was not contemporaneous in time and place.

The law is dynamic and evolves to serve situations like this, thus the enactment of the Nigerian Evidence Act which renders the rules of common law void when it is inconsistent with the provisions of the Evidence Act.

Section 4 of the Evidence Act, 2011, attached below provides to the effect that evidence which occurred at a different time and place related to the fact in issue is relevant and therefore admissible in court.

Thus, the provisions of that section when read in Pari materia with sections 5-10 of the Evidence Act, makes circumstantial and character evidence admissible in court.

This is not an American Legal movie where videos (documentary evidence as defined by section 258 of the Evidence Act) and forensic evidence are required. According to the acclaimed victims story, her brother went to make trouble at the residence of the alleged predator when he became aware and there was settlement. That very act and testimony of witnesses of that act and the terms of settlement after the victim's brother's action, at about that period is enough if corroborated as circumstantial and character evidence to prove the case.

I never knew NAIRANLAND has such eloquent Atorney, with a such a big grammar to consfused, Barrister who is guilty according to evidence Act since u are hired ?

Hey...any ministry you go that's being telegenic ... be careful...so implicating. Shine ya eyes cos 2mro is pregnant. This madam has lost it...its a no go area, her compound people will first woe, shame her.At last, shame to the devil .

The Lord, who is the believer’s light, is the strength of his life; not only by whom, but in whom he lives and moves. In God let us strengthen ourselves. The gracious presence of God, his power, his promise, his readiness to hear prayer, the witness of his Spirit in the hearts of his people; these are the secret of his tabernacle, and in these the saints find cause for that holy security and peace of mind in which they dwell at ease. The psalmist prays for constant communion with God in holy ordinances. All God’s children desire to dwell in their Father’s house. Not to sojourn there as a wayfaring man, to tarry but for a night; or to dwell there for a time only, as the servant that abides not in the house for ever; but to dwell there all the days of their life, as children with a father. Do we hope that the praising of God will be the blessedness of our eternity? Surely then we ought to make it the business of our time. This he had at heart more than any thing. Whatever the Christian is as to this life, he considers the favor and service of God as the one thing needful. This he desires, prays for and seeks after, and in it he rejoices.