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Eight years ago, Bella lost her job as a marketing executive when the relatively new bank she worked for down-sized. “The job was a glorified name for prostitution anyway”, she explained in her usually blunt way. “Female employees are sent into the `field’ to solicit for customers for the bank – and we were usually given a set target for the year. In the three years I spent with the `marketing department’, I, along with a few other members of female staff had a list of `customers’ that did more than put their funds in the bank. We compared notes too – apart from one or two goody-shoe-strings who pretended they never sold their bodies. love “When the bank downsized, a few of the affected female staff got together and from time to time, pass on tips on a few of the men we’d got friendly with over the years. Some of them confessed they were squeamish about sleeping with anyone over 40 but I didn’t mind. It made for more interesting `work’ in my eyes. So when a man in his 60s got in touch with me, I turned up at his house as he’s recently been widowed. He confessed, its been years since he had sex since his wife’s illness put paid to that. Looked as if I’d be dealing with a `virgin’ and you’ll be surprised at the number of men I’d met who were virgins. “Mind you, some men liked to pretend they were inexperienced. They get a kick out of a woman teaching them how to have sex. But some really did need educating. I’ve had my fair share of virgins – young men looking to do it for the first time were common, as were religious men before their wedding night. They all just wanted to get that difficult first time out of the way with a woman who could take the lead. And for the hefty fees I charge, I was more than willing to be their teacher. “And there are men who think they’re God’s gift to women. Generally, they are completely clueless. Men who pay for a good time generally want me to tell them I’m loving every second of it. They don’t want to know that I’m really thinking about what I’ll have for dinner that night. Embarrassing Date Disasters! “Over the past six years or so, I’ve seen every side of life in the `sex’ industry – the good, the bad and the ugly. I had a fairly standard upbringing in a small town – lots of friends, a loving family and a very average school experience before my parents came to Lagos. “A lot of people see what I now do as a glamorous lifestyle, sneaking off to lavish hotel rooms to meet businessmen or last-minute dirty weekends away with millionaires. I’ve had my share of rich `clients’ but that experience never delved into the practicalities of the job. It can be messy, dirty and downright disgusting. Other times, it can be boring and monotonous. You can meet the strangest people too who want unusual things done to them to be able to get some sort of kicks. All in all though, the money is good most of the time – and tax-free too! That’s not to say my experience has been wonderful all the time. “A couple of years ago, I was doing really well and making a lot of money. I’d bought a small low-income flat and always had spare cash to treat myself. So when a good friend talked me into joining her in the cat fish business, I fell for it. She’d gotten the business on its feet, my contribution was to help go into marketing the smoked aspect of the business. Needless to say, we’d bitten more than we could chew and competition was stiff. It took no time for the business to bite the dust, causing me to lose my life’s savings. My dream of calling it quits with `escorting’ came crashing with the business. `Escorting is easy money and I’m good at it’. “I have a regular boyfriend and he has no idea what I do. The fish business was a good cover-up when we started it and, to this day, he still believes that’s what I still do. As things stand now, I’d rather wait until the economy picks up before I stop so I can at least have a chance of getting decent pay for a proper job. And I won’t work in a bank if it’s in the marketing department. “If I could change one thing, it would be agreeing to take on the cat fish business with a friend. That was the catalyst to my downfall. But I don’t regret anything else. I’ve lived a rich life – and I’ve got stories only a few people in the country could match!”

Read more at: https://www.vanguardngr.com/2019/06/what-an-ex-banker-spends-the-recession-doing/

Would you allow your young off-springs in the bedroom or bathroom when you’re starkers? If yes, at what age should this stop? “I don’t see any issue with parents letting children up to six years old see their parents starkers”, said Susan, a mother of two and an industrial nurse. “The human body is a natural and beautiful thing and not something to be ashamed of. My six-year-old son sees me naked all the time.
I don’t even think about it, and he never bats an eyelid if I’m walking around in the nude. To us, it’s normal. “My mum who frets about letting her kids see her naked is worrying over nothing. I think it’s good for the kids that age to see their parents without clothes on. Six-year-olds are already in school and might be curious about their bodies. So seeing their parents naked can be educational. It helps them to understand that everyone is different. “When I was pregnant with my other child, my six-year-old then watched in awe as my body grew and changed.
He asked loads of questions which I happily answered. I think being familiar with a woman’s body from a young age will lead him to be respectful towards women as he grows older. He’ll appreciate the differences between the sexes. Added to that, any parent knows full well they never get five minutes to pop to the loo or have a shower. It’s inevitable that kids will see their parents naked anyway …” Recently, there’d been reasons against why parents should let their off-springs see their naked bodies all of the time. One of which is that it encourages young lads to masturbate whilst imagining their mums’ naked bodies.
A couple of years ago, Mide toyed with the idea of being a liberated mum. Her husband was in the bathroom having a shower when she sent her three year old daughter to fetch the toothpaste. “Minutes later”, recalled Mide, “I heard a shriek from the bathroom followed by my daughter running out of the bathroom, frightened that a `spider’ was attacking her dad. She was obviously referring to his pubic area. Since she’d seldom seen me naked, it was new to her. I never encouraged it again”. Our vision is to make MAN, Oron globally competitive — Rector(Opens in a new browser tab) Stella, a no-nonsense school teacher said: “Personally, I think six is little too old for a child to see his or her parents naked. I understand mums and dads don’t get much privacy when their children are very young.
But there need to be a cut-off point as to when kids see their parents’ privates. Otherwise, the parents might still be wandering around in the buff when the kids are in their teens. That’s just a bit weird. “I think kids at that age can start feeling uncomfortable about their bodies too, and feel awkward seeing their parents naked. Sadly, we live in such an over-sexualised world these days. Things like `revenge’ porn never existed a few years back. Kids as young as 12 are `sexting’, oblivious of the ham it can cause.
As parents, we should be teaching youngsters about restrictions and constraint. I don’t think little boys seeing their mums starkers makes them more respectful of women either. I’ve got two sons, aged 16 and 22 and they couldn’t be more gentlemanly – yet they’ve never seen me naked. “Plus, with so many reports in the media about child abuse and child sexual exploitation, parents shouldn’t be teaching their kids to be so free with nudity. I could end up doing them more harm than good”. Dare said he found the top a little bit amusing.
When we were young, about 40 years ago, a lot of us indulged in watching our parents do a lot of things through the key-hole. We’d seen them naked and seen all the shapes and sizes of their anatomy. We’d seen them have sex and we’d watched, amused as our older siblings cajoled their hapless girlfriends into having sex with them either clothed or naked. So what’s new!
I remember getting whipping a couple of times when caught drooling over the sexual exploits of our elders. I’d even seen my randy dad lure frivolous neighbours into the bedroom he shares with our mother to have sex with them! “Growing up, we not only saw naked bodies, we had practical knowledge of how to have sex! Today’s kids can never have it as good as we did.
All they have are furtive looks on their phone to view unrealistic love-making which is nothing but pure porn. In those days, when I ran into any of my dad’s conquests, I smirked. I don’t know if they knew I knew what they’d been up to, but it was an experience I would never trade for what today’s youths call sexual experience!”

Read more at: https://www.vanguardngr.com/2019/06/would-you-let-your-kids-see-you-naked/

Its a bug...ur phone may be lagging. Reset or buy a new phone

enjoy urself behind bar

lesson for prospectives thieves

LarryBee1k:
That's what I did after they hacked my account.

Once u deployed 2FA...hmmm is a no go area. Keep ur code keys offline(jotter)securely, otherwise u may be as well locked out one day as a result of negligence

It would difficult if 2FA either SMS or GA (Security) not enable on the account. Don't log in from other browser than ur browser. My facebook na years ....I can write rubbish on any yahoo boy timelime, nothing dey happened. A lot are not security conscious (don't care) lazy.
Avoid using ur telephone as ur username and password, dont even use ur facebook email to sent others messages. They have tried to hack no way, mainwhile they are those very close to me, after blocking em, they creat another account and send me friend request.
See some attachment for tips

1. UNDERSTAND WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS ABOUT SEX IN MARRIAGE ‘
Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempts you not for your incontinency.’ 1 Corinthians 7:1-5. You must note the following points in this scripture: * The bible made it clear that your body belongs to your husband. * You must not deprive your husband of your body. The only time you can refrain from a sexual relationship is when you are fasting. Before the fast you are to inform your husband, he is to be aware of your proposed fasting before you go ahead. * You are to come together again after your fasting so that you will not give advantage to the flesh over your marriage. Please note that 70 days of fasting is not 70 days without sex except if it is a “marathon” fasting. Fasting is usually From 12 midnight to 6pm, so when you break your fast between the hour of 6:01 to 11:59 satisfy your husband, don’t ever engage in long fasting just because you want to avoid sex with your husband, you may end up hurting yourself so deeply.
2. DON’T FAIL TO SATISFY YOUR HUSBAND
One of the roles of a woman in marriage is to satisfy her husband sexually. You need to be bold and wise enough to ask your husband whether he is satisfied. Ask him what you can do to satisfy him, then go ahead to do them. ‘Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love.’ Prov. 5:19.
3. A SEXUALLY UNFULFILLED MAN IS PRONE TO DANGER.
It is easier to pull down a sexually unfulfilled man. A man who is sexually fulfilled by his darling wife will be more difficult to pull down. A man that is not getting the best of sex at home is a danger going somewhere to happen. Protect your husband from falling. Meet his needs at home and make it impossible for him to fall into error.
4. DON’T GO FOR A DARK COLOUR IN YOUR MARRIAGE.
“Behold, thou art fair, my beloved, yea, pleasant: also our bed is green. The beams of our house are cedar, and our rafters of fir”. Song of Solomon 1:16, 17. Make sex lively by making your bed GREEN. Ensure your bed is always green. Your bed must not be RED. A red bed is a sexless marriage. A YELLOW bed is a marriage where the husband has to struggle, plead, beg and even fight before having sex with his wife. It is a marriage where the wife had made calendar for sex at home. [READ ALSO] Women group asks NASS to strip president, govs of appointing powers(Opens in a new browser tab) Finally, your bed must not be BROWN. This is a marriage that is full of sexual immorality. You must never allow any other man to sleep with you. It is an unrighteous act. It is unholy and unacceptable to God to allow any other man apart from your darling husband to sleep with you.
5. NEVER DARE YOUR HUSBAND TO GO OUT TO LOOK FOR SEX.
No matter what happens, never dare your husband to look for sex elsewhere. Somebody else may cook for him, somebody else may take care of his clothes but you are the only one that is authorized by God to sleep with him. Don’t ever allow household chores to sap you of your energy to do what only you can do for him.
6. NEVER COMMIT YOUR HUSBAND INTO THE HANDS OF YOUR HOUSE GIRL.
If you allow your maid to be the one that cooks your husband meal, washes his cloth, serves his food and generally care for him, you will be opening your husband to temptations in his own house. It may be very hard for him to escape. Your maid should be your assistant, you should not be the one assisting her. Be like the Proverbs 31 woman: ‘She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens’. Prov. 31:15. 6. NEVER EMPLOY A HOUSE GIRL THAT IS MORE BEAUTIFUL THAN YOU Don’t make the mistake of employing a housemaid that is more beautiful than you. She may subtly take over your home. Don’t employ somebody that will engage you in beauty contest. It may look funny but that is one sexual mistake that a whole lot of women are making, please fall for it.
7. NEVER HATE SEX IN MARRIAGE.
If your husband is like any other man out there you will find it difficult to enjoy him if you hate sex. As a married woman please bear it in your mind that sex is part of the package of marriage, you can’t be expecting peace in your marriage and be a hater of sex. Your husband likes it, it is his need and right. You can’t afford not to create room in your heart for it with your darling husband.
8. DON’T COMMIT YOUR HUSBAND INTO THE HANDS OF YOUR FRIENDS.
If you are travelling don’t tell your friends to come to your house to take care of your children on your behalf. It could be the worst decision you ever made, please don’t do it.
9. DON’T DISCUSS YOUR SEX LIFE WITH YOUR FRIENDS.
A woman told her friends ‘my husband is too troublesome, he will not allow me to rest, he is too sexually active. He wants every night, he is never tired.’ That was the information the friend who was sexually starved in her marriage needs to go after her friend’s husband. She eventually snatched the man from her friend. Your sex life is a private life, discus it only with your husband.
10. DON’T ABANDON IMPROVEMENT OF YOUR BEDROOM LIFE
Read good and clean books about sex in marriage and know how to give your husband the best. It will be totally bad not to improve your bedroom life. Don’t have a lackadaisical attitude towards sex.
11. NEVER THINK YOUR HUSBAND IS SEXUALLY WIRED LIKE YOU
One big mistake most women make is to think their husband is sexually wired like them. A lot of women wonder why their husbands are always making a-never-ending-demand of sex. Some women refer to their husbands as sex addicts. A woman said ‘my husband doesn’t think about any other thing apart from sex.’ Another one said ‘the life of my husband is zeroed down to the bedroom’. These women failed to understand that their husbands is not different from any other married man. In every animal group, the male is generally stronger than their female counterpart. Your husband is just being normal by demanding for sex.
12. NEVER FORGET THAT MEN ARE WEEKLY PEOPLE, WOMEN ARE MONTHLY PEOPLE
Most women want sex twice or thrice a month, both most men want sex two or three time a week. So, it is not strange if your husband’s sexual desire is stronger than yours. That is how God made men, that is how it is in most bedrooms, apply wisdom and satisfy your husband.
13. NEVER FORGET THAT MEN ARE VISUAL, WOMEN ARE HEARERS
Men are moved by what they see, women are moved by what they hear and what touches them. Dress your best so that your husband can see the good in you. Catch his eyes so that he will be moved towards you alone.
14. NEVER REJOICE BECAUSE HE DID NOT CALL FOR SEX IN TWO WEEKS
If your husband does not ask for sex in months, how will you feel? A lot of married women will feel happy or indifferent to it. Many married women even wish God will remove the sexual aspect of their marriage. Sex is what makes marriage different from other relationships. Sex is what makes you different from the other women in his life. So, if he does not ask you out in bed for two weeks you should ask questions. If he does not ask you out in the bed for three weeks you should be worried, maybe he has another solution outside. It is not a testimony if your husband does not bother you for sex for weeks, it may have great consequences.
15. DON’T USE PREGNANCY AS AN EXCUSE
Don’t ever use pregnancy as an excuse to deprive him of your body. Pregnancy is not a reason for sexual denial, you are the one that is pregnant, your husband is not pregnant. Look for different ways of having sex as the pregnancy advances.

Read more at: https://www.vanguardngr.com/2019/05/31-mistakes-women-make-about-sex-in-marriage-part-1/

Dear Bunmi, I am in my early 20s and live at home with my parents. My bedroom is next to theirs and I am kept awake some nights by the horrible sounds they make when they are having sex. I know things like that are normal, but I feel so embarrassed when I see them the next day. Nobody is against their having sex at their age, but shouldn’t they tone it down when there are children in the house?

Read more at: https://www.vanguardngr.com/2019/06/my-parents-lovemaking-keeps-me-awake/

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Nezan said, “During interrogation, the pastor with the Mountain of Fire and Miracles Ministries, confessed to have sexually abused the girl twice and attributed the evil act to the work of the devil.

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If he blames the Devil, who would Devil blame ? Where would the agency get hold of the Devil to hear his part of story. OHHHHH Pastor...what a temptation...a moment of silence !

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U no get sense, assault . receive the treatment of hot temper !

Okowa has blessed Jonathan Maviano... is a goal !!!

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You get sense so, am sure u not a human being !

And you happy, see ursself !

Pls Nairalander, a friend wanna send me money abroad, he advised me to create a paypal account so that he wire the money.
Is Paypal safe and secure for transactions ?

felixawe:
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This' the herb pix...It can be way-billed...resident in Warri

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sassygal:
That response is 5years old. It was valid then.

Please don't jump into conclusions just because a lot of changes has happened.

I have pos... Just for the purpose of research , which is inexhaustable. No info is old someone needs it.

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sassygal:
I believe Pos are assigned to businesses alone and not individuals maybe if your savings is for your business but ask your account officer

They aren't for business alone. Make sure ur account must be current

epicure:
My name was swapped on my nysc certificate and when I complained, I was told its not an issue since the 3 names are included and spelt correctly. I need to know if this is true. Please if anyone had similar issue in the past, how did u go about it?

Write to NYSC officially thru mail or tweet...It may worked against u 2mro