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Romance › Re: Only Stupid People Complian About Bbnaija by femi4: 8:43am On Aug 11, 2020
allandutch:
I dont like Naruto but comparing Naruto to BBN is just the height of it. An insult!

I get you though, our society have been fūcked way before BBN and banning the show won't change anything.

Now I want you, SukaBlyat, to explain something to me. What's the point of the show? What do you gain or learn from it? And in what way does it entertain you?

Almost everyone I've asked the questions above have no answer. Those that do have an answer, it's usually too ridiculous to take serious.
You are unintelligent, BBN encompasses everyday life event. Cultural, social, interrelationships know how and much more are imbedded in the programme but SIMPs like you tend to focus on the sex part that's less than 10% of the show

It also serves as an avenue for upcoming artist to discover/rediscover/showcase their talents
Crime › Re: Man Caught Stealing Car Batteries With Shoe Lace (video) by femi4: 8:36am On Aug 11, 2020
Greed! Not even one but two batteries
Phones › Re: Attention ;My Infinix Hot 8 was stolen Pls How Can I Recover It. by femi4: 8:32am On Aug 11, 2020
mubarakyoung:
my 8 month infinix hot 8 was stoten today is one week pls can som1 help me on how to track it...
i am in need of ur serious attention
i am from gombe
You just lost one, it's so silly how come
Crime › Re: The Evil Thing I Just Did Now.. No Insult Pls by femi4: 8:30am On Aug 11, 2020
Quietly:
I just went straight to the food joint in our neighboring area. Bought a half plate of food for #250.
Went straight to the table and start eating, one kind urges come my mind that I should not pay for the food. Just looked at the women again, I noticed one thing, The woman is very confused and busy all The time.

Then confidently I went to the woman and told her that I have change to collect, she furiously ask how much, I told her I gave her #500 so I hav #250 to collect, but if you hav fearless (energy drink) she said yes, then just give me one. And collected #50 kola nut join.


I just feel bad about it And ask God to forgive me
Righteousness89,
Mannabbqgrill

Lala. Mynd44
Go back and give her the money. Your conscience will not let you rest until you do the right thing
Romance › Re: I Broke Up, Should I Call Her Back? by femi4: 8:26am On Aug 11, 2020
BadInflunece:
I'm sorry for the lengthy post. But please make time to read

OK fellas, I've actually been in a state of limbo since yesterday because I broke up with my girlfriend and I still miss her terribly.

I'll just explain a few things so you guys understand my plight.

She and I have been dating for three years now. Believe me, she's a lovely and meek soul. Drop dead beautiful. But then, beauty is only for the eyes. The intrinsic attributes that make a happy happy must be present....

We started dating when I was in school. She was in level 200. Now she's in her final year and I've graduated. It's a relationship I hope to nurture into forever. Ever since I graduated, it's been hard landing a job despite making a 2.1. My only saving grace was my discipline to erect a two bedroom flat, and 2 self contain apartments. I use the proceed to keep life going while trying to grow greener pastures.

When I graduated in 2018, I was to move out of my location which was close to the school, but my girlfriend whom at the time stayed in the hostel came to you pleading she wanted to stay a while with me as the matrons sent her out of the hostel. I'm strongly against cohabiting. Told her to find a hostel space and I'll pay, she said there's none. Also told her to look for a friend to stay with, I'll foot the bills. She also couldn't find one. Couldn't throw her out, had to take her in pending when she'd get a place. It's been months and nothing. At one point, armed robbers stormed my compound and make away with my TV, laptop, and other valuable. I could only escape with my phone and hers.

While staying together, I foot the bills. I do a little forex thing too. I changed her phone even when I knew her parents had already given her money for a new one. It was birthday gift to her. I go all out for her. I promised to get her another phone this August to mark this years birthday cos she said she wanted an IPhone. She's been good to me.

But here is the problem. My girlfriend never changes a bad attitude. For three years I've been complaining. She prefers to come online and ignore my messages while doing her thing. I'm the last person she comes to. Even when she does, it difficult to keep a conversation for 10mins without bn distracted. Schools are on break, she's back home. She never texts, hardly calls. Calls when she sees my messages. Hardly keeps a convo and has made a habit of lying to her. I'm not the strict kinda guy, I allow you some latitude to live your life but I think my girlfriend has learnt to take me for granted because she knows I love her so much and wouldn't risk our relationship falling apart.

Few days ago, I came back from calabar where I had attended a job interview. I'm prepping for another in Abuja this month end. I'm completely depleted financially. I hate asking her for money. But I had to bury my ego and do so, told her my gas had finished. Babe said she doesn't have money. But I knew she had more than 20k on her. I just needed 3k. I left her. The next day I called and told her I had issues and I needed 2500 to sort it. Told her it was borrow so I'd return it. Her attitude was cold but she sent it.

I haven't used the money. I had no need for it again. But I was pained. Badly pained. I forgot to add whenever I borrow money from her, I pay double the amount. She's been giving me attitude, and now she can't support unless I'm paying back. I got fed up with the whole thing. Called her and told her I need a break. She's been callin endlessly. Had to call her, gave her all my reasons and called it quit.

She's been callin endlessly. Apologizing for lying and all. She said she'd change but I know she won't. She thinks I love her so much to let her go. She's 23 and I'm 29...

I won't cast aspersion on her by typing all her wrongs her. But truth is, I miss her badly. I gave in so much and I feel I'm getting so little. How can I be begging my partner for attention. When girls dey beg for my own. Even her friend.

But mehn, I miss her, I don't know how to start over. I don even forget how to toast babe. Should I give her another chance?

Please guys, advise me...... I need it..

PS. Don't insult her cos I know how the energy flows here. Just give your advise. I still love that babe
You want to continue to be her Maga, continue. A simp will always be a simp, they always claimed they are in love and use less of their brain
Celebrities › Re: Bbnaija Tboss Marks Daugters 1st Birthday With Adorable Moana Inspired Photos by femi4: 8:06am On Aug 11, 2020
Where is her private jet
Romance › Re: Wives Who Wear G-strings Are Prostitutes – Man Explains by femi4: 8:04am On Aug 11, 2020
Globad:
Is there a need to hide panty line if the dress is loose and not tight?
Panty line can be seen if the dress is free too
Celebrities › Re: Celine Dion's Dramatic Weight Loss by femi4: 8:03am On Aug 11, 2020
CeLEAN dion
Celebrities › Re: Exposed: Joeboy Didn't Abandoned His Twin Brother (see Details, Video) by femi4: 8:01am On Aug 11, 2020
All man for himself
Politics › Re: When I Become President, That Obasanjo Will Go Back To Prison - Ayo Fayose by femi4: 7:54am On Aug 11, 2020
Dream again
Celebrities › Re: Tacha Over Excited As She Meets Burna Boy For The First Time by femi4: 7:50am On Aug 11, 2020
The Davido on your chest nko
Crime › Re: "Only In Nigeria?"— Truck Carrying Container In Lagos, Spotted With No Rear Tyre by femi4: 7:45am On Aug 11, 2020
That's why our roads don't last
Celebrities › Re: "Ashewo No Be Work" - Mercy Aigbe Says As She Puts On A Very Busty Display by femi4: 7:44am On Aug 11, 2020
Olosho come be your hobby o....ooobi
Romance › Re: Wives Who Wear G-strings Are Prostitutes – Man Explains by femi4: 7:37am On Aug 11, 2020
Illiterate, G string takes away the embarrassment of pant line
Romance › Re: Help! Am I Responsible For This Pregnancy? Please Advice by femi4: 7:33am On Aug 11, 2020
hhaakkeebb:
i am in a state of confusion right now. i dated this girl for few months but i noticed we are very incompatible, shes fine and attractive but lacks the intelligence and sense i want in a girl so i told her the truth, i wanted us to call it quit and just be friends. This is how it happened

on the 10th of june, she came around and we got down, i believe she came because of that cuz she lives in another state a bit far while I live in lagos, later that day i told her my intentions of calling off the relationship because the earlier the better. Fast forward to june 30th, she chatted me, we gisted a bit and I asked about her wellbeing, she told me she was having menstrual cramps that day which means she was on her period... On the 6th of august (few days ago), she chatted me up, telling me she is pregnant, 6 weeks pregnant... When i counted it, June 10 (the last time we were together) to august 6 (the day she confirmed being 6 weeks pregnant) is almost 2 months not to talk of the fact that she saw her period exactly 20 days after we got down. I told her all this but she insisted i'm the one responsible for it.

Please, with this timeline, is it possible I am the one responsible for the pregnancy?

June 10 (got down)
June 30 (saw her period)
August 6 (6 weeks pregnant)

Also, I need to add this, earlier this year, she claimed she was pregnant and was bugging me, when I asked for proof and test result, she couldn't provide any, later it was obvious she was lying and she said she thought she was pregnant and was scared hence why she was bugging me, she apologized and begged for days before i forgave her.

Advice Please!
You didn't use condom, you are now doing unnecessary permutation and combination. You played into her hands, you have yourself to blame
Education › Re: If HIV Is Sexually Transmitted, How Did The First Person Get It by femi4: 7:27am On Aug 11, 2020
Phayzz:
If HIV is sexually transmitted, how did the first person get it?


Nairalanders Share Your Thought
Its not gotten only through sex.

You can get it sharing unsterilized sharp objects like blade, clippers etc
Celebrities › Re: 4 Years After He Was Ordained As A Pastor, See Majid Michael Doing God' Work. by femi4: 7:24am On Aug 11, 2020
Nolly/Gholly wood o jawo mo, pastorprenure ti take over
Romance › Re: Guy Caught His Girlfriend With Another Man In Public (video) by femi4: 7:19am On Aug 11, 2020
Lucier denied my man like peter denied Jesus

"I know you before" grin
Romance › Re: Mm by femi4: 7:16am On Aug 11, 2020
Rotjijatau:
I'm writing this piece with due permission because both parties involved are on nairaland. My friend & his wife had a small issue that made them to keep malice for more than a week. Then last Friday he went to work & she sent him a text message that read "I am going with our son, whenever you are calm & settled, come for us, the key is under the footmat in front of the door" to his greatest surprise he came back home later in the evening & didn't meet her. He didn't call her, next day Saturday no communication whatsoever from them, Sunday which was yesterday same & today too no communication. Everyone adviced him not call her since he didn't send her out of the house neither has he ever maltreated her. Maybe she's trying to show him that whatever happens she has a place to go. I think her mother is suppose to ask her why she came home or better still contact the husband to know why his wife came back but nobody from her family contacted him. On a second thought, the mother shouldn't be blamed since nobody knows what the wife told her mother, but this is not the first time the mother is acting in this manner. He has put all her belongings together in the house so that anytime she wants to come & pack, its fine by him & if she comes back its still fine by him. Anything she wants to do is very okay with him, he just want to keep his hands clean. What is your advice or take on this? One thing has been hindering him from making a move to call or look for settlement is PRIDE & EGO. They really love each other that they can die for each other but right now I don't know what the devil is doing.
A man with ego has no business with marriage. He need to see a counselor. He lacks emotional intelligence needed in keeping a woman
Romance › Re: Who Will You Choose Among This Two Ladies ? by femi4: 7:12am On Aug 11, 2020
nexttag:
My story is going to be a little long

I have this two ladies am planing to settle down with one of them this year December

Lady 1 : she want to keep me as a friend , she is currently not ready for a relationship , she is always cool seeing me with other girls but secretly it pains her

She is open for marriage
Trust me this babe really loves me but afraid of heart break nd I don't want to pressure her


Lady 2 : a long time old friend we lost contact but reconnected last month
She got every I need in a woman , in fact she beats the lady 1 both at height , brain , smartness everything

As we started chatting and gisting she told me that she was single I didnt believe her but I monitored her and she was a little bit hard towards other guys made every guy fear her

I man up shoot my shot she accept infact she made everything easy for me

Now she is no nonsense girl she saw my chats with lady 1 and she got angry and told me to block her and stop chatting her to avoid more problems

Few weeks ago we had our first sex and menh she is still tight , I used no protection and I promised her that I will withdraw but the sweetness was too much I came inside

After the show I game her money to buy drugs on her way home and I escorted her to place she will enter drop , to my surprise she used the money to buy suya 800 and offer me one I kept my cool allow her reach house and called her later , she said that she will teach me a lesson so that next time I dont promise what I can't fulfill I begged her for a full night before she accept to buy the drug tomorrow morning

Since then me am having second thought about marrying this kind of harsh girl or am I the one been soft

In fact am planing to go back to lady one and tell her my plan s , and see how things will go between us

Or should I still try more with lady two
Lady2

You need someone to check your excesses, advice you and help you see things from another perspective.

I don't like all these "its OK" girl. Even when you are wrong, they won't challenge you
Career › Re: My Boss Wants To Date Me. What Should I Do? by femi4: 11:49pm On Aug 10, 2020
rasheedatt:
I am freaking out about this, My boss asked me out on a date which I think is innapropriate but I love my job and i was looking for a loooong time before i found it so I will be damned if i give up.

I was very kind and told him there is zero interest here so i wouldnt want to waste his time. He told me I should quit the job or accept him and he will increase my salary.

I told him to give me a week to think about it.

What should I do?
Quit!
If you give in, after seeing your pant he ll lose interest in you and move on to the next girl. You ll get jealous and eventually get sack.

Unfortunately, you are getting sack either way. Why not get sack and still have your dignity
Family › Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by femi4: 11:39pm On Aug 10, 2020
OluwaLina1:
Is My Sister Doing The Right Thing? Please Your Advice Is Needed

Advice needed
Don't mind my typo errors.

My sister cancel her wedding plans all because her husband to~be insists they are going to be living with his mum after the wedding before they will build their own house.

Now,my sister said she won't go on with the wedding plans if he didn't rent an appartment, even if it's face-me-i-slap-you room,she will be okay with it,she won't even mind if the mother come to spend days with them.

Is my sister doing the right thing?
Gen2:24
For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife; and they shall become one flesh.
Sports › Re: Cristiano Ronaldo Named As Juventus' MVP Of The Year by femi4: 4:27pm On Aug 10, 2020
Ojoro

Dybala being serie A MVP should automatically be juve MVP
Health › Re: 437 New COVID-19 cases, 142 Discharged And 3 Deaths On August 9 - (2,355 Tested) by femi4: 3:32pm On Aug 10, 2020
LilMissRobbie:
I got tested few weeks ago, Alhamdulillah.. I tested negative!
Any reason for taking the test? Were you sick?
Celebrities › Re: Chukwuebuka Anyaduba & Ugochi Ejidoh Traditional Wedding: Nwoko, Others Spotted by femi4: 2:30pm On Aug 10, 2020
Useless man, turning himself to a land grabber
Sports › Re: Victor Osimhen Apologizes To Punch Over "Na Thunder Go Fire Una" Statement by femi4: 2:25pm On Aug 10, 2020
Maxymilliano:
The earlier he retrace his steps the better.

The Press can make or mar his blossom career.
lie!

Tell me which player the press has make or mar his career. Naija press for that matter
TV/Movies › Re: Lucy And Nengi Engage In Shouting Match In Big Brother House by femi4: 12:49pm On Aug 10, 2020
ProfAmaben:
Today is a special day in my life. Happy birthday to me!

BBnaija, well done.
no cake on your profile
TV/Movies › Re: Lucy And Nengi Engage In Shouting Match In Big Brother House by femi4: 12:47pm On Aug 10, 2020
Made4naijaceo:
I think the other girls are jealous of Nengi
jealous of wetin? She cannot even do a power point presentation according to Lucy grin
Phones › Re: Infinix Hot 10 Specs Leak by femi4: 12:35pm On Aug 10, 2020
Ayebaeapretai:
A midrange phone with a G70 processor is what u call dod! o boy dey think before you post abeg.
Ifinix fan boy....we have seen you
Sports › Re: COVID-19: James Harris 'Kamala' Dies After Complications From Coronavirus by femi4: 12:29pm On Aug 10, 2020
paulolee:
bad and R.I.P to one of the sports greats that portrayed African culture to the world back then..
kamala waa born and raised in the states but proudly showed the world the African culture always dressed like an uganda warrior whenever he have a fight and thats why the name "uganda giant"..
really missed his fights back then especially his fight with hulk hogan and i think he paved the way for the other Africans going into wrestling e.g koji kingston and the rest..
most importantly i missed wrestling back then unlike this days of comedy scripts played perfectly by performance artist they called wrestlers..
Yesso, Kamala and Papa Sango were proud of their African roots
Celebrities › Re: Actor Okiki Afolayan Gifts Wife Bimbo Afolayan A Lexus SUV For Her Birthday by femi4: 6:52am On Aug 10, 2020
A low budget Afolayan, not adelove dynasty

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