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Phones › Re: My Samsung Galaxy A30 Is Dead by femi4: 6:07am On May 27, 2019
akj26:
MY ONE MONTH OLD NEW SAMSUNG GALAXY A30 IS DEAD. IT IS NOT RESPONDING.
let the dead bury the dead
Romance › Re: How Do I Leave This Abusive Relationship by femi4: 6:02am On May 27, 2019
Missperplexity0:
I will try as much as possible to make this brief and clear(excuse my typos).
Met this guy while I was in my part 1 and we've been dating for a couple of years, the issue is, he's very possessive and overly jealous, restricted me from having male friends, I have to tell him everything and everywhere I want to go, snoops through my phone, read my chats and sometimes harasses my male callers, my last protest was met with series of slaps, everything I try to walk out of the relationship, he threatens to leak my nudes and tapes, also promised to leak my family secret I told him when the going was good..... I really need help and advises on how to leave the relationship because my heart is no longer there and am scared of calling his bluff
Omo see threat....don't you have big brothers?

Leave that relationship now, else he ll beat you to death one day. He's using threat to keep you in that relationship. Anytime he threatening to release your nudes....tell him to go ahead and you ll sue him for blackmail. You know what to do, beautiful girl like you deserves a better man
Celebrities › Re: Lady Causes Commotion In Male Hostel With Her Banging Body. by femi4: 5:58am On May 27, 2019
SUPERPACK:
Improper fraction
Its a proper fraction....the denominator is bigger
Education › Re: Teaching Children How To Write In Calligraphic Letters by femi4: 5:56am On May 27, 2019
Calligraphy is a fancy pen writing
Christianity Etc › Re: Why Do You Sleep In Church Even With The Loud Speakers? by femi4: 5:33pm On May 26, 2019
ITbomb:
Instead of prayers why don't we try this for a change

Do Message before the dancing and praise

Dancing is a body demanding exercise which leaves the body weaker.
Or are we afraid that people won't stay for offering after the message?

Which is more important, message or offering?
When you come to God each day and every day.....the first thing that's suppose to come from your mouth his PRAISE and WORSHIP. Its more powerful than the message
Celebrities › Re: "I Have Forgiven You" - Kemi Olunloyo To Iyabo Ojo by femi4: 5:21pm On May 26, 2019
The fear of prison
Christianity Etc › Re: Will Great Tribulation Take Place Before The Rapture? by femi4: 5:14pm On May 26, 2019
Jokerman:
Some bible passages talked of great tribulation before the rapture.... Even the Lord Jesus Christ... The thing is confusing , the most important thing is to be found worthy at that day whether before or after tribulation..

Quoting the Lord Jesus Christ in Matthew 24:29-31..."29. Immediately after the tribulation of those days.........., 30. And then shall appear the sign of the son of man in heaven............, 31. And he shall send his angels with a great sound of a TRUMPET, and they shall gather his elect.............""
Trumpet to gather ....nothing like rapture there

But 1 thess 4:17 described rapture which means "caught up in the sky"

17 After that, we who are still alive and are left will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air.
Christianity Etc › Re: Will Great Tribulation Take Place Before The Rapture? by femi4: 5:07pm On May 26, 2019
solite3:
second coming of christ is different from the rapture.
In the rapture christians will be caught up to meet Jesus while in the second coming Jesus comes down to this earth with every believer who have been raptured.
Na so you dey fail exam. The topic is about which come first between rapture and great tribulation
Sports › Re: Neymar Arrives In Style By Helicopter As He Links Up With Brazil Squad by femi4: 4:30pm On May 26, 2019
martyns303:
Be the best in whatever u do.
he's the best in showbiz not football
Celebrities › Re: Psychologist, Nkem Outsmarted Ubi Franklin Who Wanted Money From Her by femi4: 6:27am On May 26, 2019
Sterope:
Why are you so desperate to defend him? Are you also a fraudster?
I wonder o....he was everywhere defending him
Celebrities › Re: Psychologist, Nkem Outsmarted Ubi Franklin Who Wanted Money From Her by femi4: 10:06pm On May 25, 2019
andrew444:
Who will beleive such news ?

The ubi franklin we know is a rich guy ,is she trying to be relevant or what ?
rich indeed, yet fighting Inyanya over Tekno's revenue
Webmasters › Re: Nairalanders, How Did You Discover Nairaland? by femi4: 7:19pm On May 25, 2019
2007 job hunting things

From nairaland to Naijahotjobs to ngcareers to careersnigeria to jobberman
Sports › Re: Lionel Messi Wins His 6th European Golden Boot by femi4: 4:37pm On May 25, 2019
Evangkatsoulis:
Google premier league playmaker award and see the criteria. I guess you don't know what playmaking is. Is Hazard not a forward for chelsea this season? Is he not there main playmaker? Who has won la liga foward of the season most? Messi? Has he ever won midfielder of the season or attacking midfielder of the season before?
You can create play for your teammates and your teammates can also create for you.
There is nothing stopping a forward from creating chances, assists etc while finishing chances created by other teammates.
Another daft reasoning. In 38 games this season, how many times did he play as CF

Fyi, being a playmaker goes beyond assist, the assist is just a criteria needed in selecting the winner
Sports › Re: Lionel Messi Wins His 6th European Golden Boot by femi4: 2:48pm On May 25, 2019
Evangkatsoulis:
he is an advanced playmaker. A playmaker can be midfielder or a forward. They are not mutually exclusive.
Playmaker awards are most times gauged with assists, chances created etc.
Has nothing to do with being a midfielder.
you are daft sha, saying a playmaker is not a midfielder award.

Show me a playmaker that's a non midfield player
Sports › Re: Lionel Messi Wins His 6th European Golden Boot by femi4: 12:38pm On May 25, 2019
Preca:
I'm a lady, but I know Lionel is better than cristiano
she go say i be lady o
Sports › Re: Lionel Messi Wins His 6th European Golden Boot by femi4: 12:35pm On May 25, 2019
Ooṣa.....Irúnmọlẹ̀ tó ń là goals bi tom tom
Education › Re: What Should I Do As An Undergraduate To Become A Lecturer After Graduating? by femi4: 11:02am On May 25, 2019
Durentt:
thanks. Excuse me to ask, if somehow I do end up with a 2.1, can I still be retained by my school.
yes, you can but its easier with first class cos you ll have little or no competitors
Celebrities › Re: Instagram Celebrity, Roman Goddess, Shares Sexy Pictures by femi4: 7:46am On May 25, 2019
We are here cos the thead appears in Trending section. The thread is an eye sore, unpalatable and uninspiring
Education › Re: What Should I Do As An Undergraduate To Become A Lecturer After Graduating? by femi4: 7:37am On May 25, 2019
Durentt:
Pls advise, I'm a second year engineering student.
Get 1st class and do your Masters asap. Your employment is automatic especially as a product of the school
Crime › Re: EFCC Arrest 4 Internet Fraudsters In Lagos by femi4: 7:16am On May 25, 2019
GrowYourSales:
Is their laptop the proof tongue


Well, has your business sales dropped? Check my signature
yes, the content speaks volume
Sports › Re: Dennerby Releases Super Falcons 23 Woman List For Women's World Cup. by femi4: 6:57am On May 25, 2019
JasonScoolari:
I still cannot understand the importance of Aisha Falode the veteran Ray Power Journalist in the glass house... She needs to speak more for the women.
She has no say when it comes to appointing coaches for Women national team
Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Qatar: FIFA U20 World Cup (4 - 0) Full Time by femi4: 6:03pm On May 24, 2019
Bunch of uncoordinated overage players
Celebrities › Re: Actress Regina.daniel Become New Ambassador Of House_of_lunettes. by femi4: 3:21pm On May 24, 2019
Open ya contract....lets see if its up to N100,000000
Celebrities › Re: Wizkid Calls 2baba His Father, To Debunk The Yesterday Controversial Video by femi4: 3:20pm On May 24, 2019
Damage control
Romance › Re: Don't Play With Girls by femi4: 3:16pm On May 24, 2019
Poorboy:
Hmmmmm im a living testimony, since I finished Nysc in 2014 I searched for job everywhere till I thought of visiting an herbalist.....

I started making enquiry about any native doctor that can help me get a job because I was very unhappy with myself after I tried Lagos for 3 weeks in search of job, I decided to go back home so I won't die.

Later stayed at home for 3 years, then I was so sad and each time I check my Facebook I will see people flexing life, during the time of my struggle that I had to open this moniker poorboy.

Fast forward I told my girlfriend now my fiancee that life is not easy with me, she then told me to come to Abuja where she is, she then introduced me to one big politician in Abuja that it's job that is keeping us from getting married.

The big politician told me to bring my CV, I took it to him that's how I go a Federal Government job with a starting pay of 103k last year.

Hmmmmm if not for her I no no which level I for dey now..... I'm grateful sha
Rejoice not.....your gf is fvcking or once fvcked or will soon fvck the politician .....quote me anywhere
Celebrities › Re: Lilian Esoro React To ex-husband Ubi Franklin expecting 4th Child with 4th Woman by femi4: 3:12pm On May 24, 2019
Awon bloggers oshi....her post has no link with Ubi's 4/4
Politics › Re: Dino Melaye Shares Ongoing Road Project See Peoples' Reactions by femi4: 3:08pm On May 24, 2019
Why the colour separation
Romance › Re: Please Forgive Me HUNGERBAD by femi4: 3:06pm On May 24, 2019
chenzen:
u people appreciate people when they die... bunch of fake people on Nairaland. Rest in peace HUNGERBAD
Nigerians generally appreciate people when they are no more
Foreign Affairs › Re: Theresa May Announces Her Resignation As British Prime Minister by femi4: 3:00pm On May 24, 2019
TheGiftedOne:
So you mean Theresa May resigned in the month of mayhuh This May just be the news of the month. May be our leaders can learn once more that power isn't a do or die affair instead of unleashing mayhem on their less we start showing may day may day out of the pains of incompetent rule.
Just 17 likes....May we not type in vain
Family › Re: My Younger Sister Disrespects Me Alot - Help A First Born. by femi4: 2:58pm On May 24, 2019
firstbornson:
Haven't done this before, but I want to know your honest, experienced and well thought out opinions. I'm really depressed but I won't take Snipper (that devil is a liar). If you don't have anything serious and reasonable to say, please, just read comments (I know as e dey be for here, sometimes).

Its quite a long read. Apologies for any grammatical or typographical error encountered.

Here is my story.

My younger sister who is staying with me disrespects me alot, and she doesn't take my advice. My parents stay very far away and I feel responsible for her. It frustrates me whenever I tell her something and she will wait to do it at her own time or not do it at all. She even sometimes abuses me indirectly.

She is 19, came to stay with me last year November, for a Predegree program, after staying at home for two years without admission. After the first semester of her program, her result was released and it was very disappointing. She made 51% in only one course of four courses, while others are below that. To be honest, I felt I failed in my responsibilities of giving her the right counsel, motivating her, and all that. All she does is press her phone all night long, that's if she isn't watching a movie with her phone. She'll sleep and wake up the next morning by 8 or 9am.

Recently, there's this guy who happens to be my late landlord's first son in the compound where we stay that she has been spending too much time with in dark corners and I can tell in my gut that he's up to no good. He doesn't go to work, school, church, nowhere. He just seats at home all day, smoking weed and any other smokable substance he can lay his hands on. Sometimes, his friends come around and they smoke and play PES 2011 on a laptop. Lest I forget, he's also a cultist. He has tried on several occasions to make me a yahoo boy, but I had to consciously refuse.

My apologies for the long read.

About a week ago, this guy asked her to cook indomie for him, and she did, using our gas, without telling me. This got me really up set. I had to take several deep breaths. I calmed down and allowed her finish. After she was done, I asked her to seat down and we started talking. While we were talking, she started responding rudely to me.

This made me hit her for the first time in 19 years (I hate hitting them). To my utmost surprise, she hit me back. That singular act made her receive a very hard beating that she sustained lots of injuries. She immediately called home and my parents where now shouting at me on phone. My dad came the next day and said lots of things. My mom said lots of things on phone which just piss me off the more, called me all sought of names. Said I shouldn't allow the devil that is controlling take me close to my sister.

Right now, I hate all of them. My dad, mum, and sister. If I was financially buoyant enough, I would have moved out of this house. I feel really depressed, being having nightmares and I so much hate the fact that am still living here.

By the way, am male, 24, studying Biochemistry, should have finished my first degree last year but I'm having an extra year (3 spill over courses).

How do I move from here? Advice me.
Ignore her, let her learn from experience. You didn't fail her, your parents did. Return her to them and let them have a taste of what you are facing

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