₦airaland Forum

DieselGen:
Fellow Nairalanders no be small thing today oo. I saw a girl looking stranded under the heat of the sun yesterday and I decided to give her a lift. Why i was asking her some vital questions as a stranger like your name, tribe and what she does for a living, na em the babe form vex oo, say my questions are much, and I apologised. Last last I collect number fix evening for first date, but it was a bad experience from her, due to her manners, so I didn't call. Fast forward, today I remembered and called her for a date, she said, okay I should come out quickly, after some minutes she called again that I should make it fast with commanding tone, but she no know say na confirm street boy she dey play with. "My ship, my rules..."
I still coordinate, immediately we saw, she said she's very hungry and she needs to eat first, that she can even eat a full caw, but by 7pm she's gone, and I met her around 6:33pm, meaning she got 30 minutes with me.
I asked her again after she received a call, 'will you still be leaving by 7pm", she said yes and i told her, babe, date councilled, we never met and she got off my car and I zoomed off.
She won use me chop evening food before, idiot !!!

cancelled not councilled

Husband snatcher

Buynownow:
I'll make sure I put his pictures everywhere. What he does is, he'll go to expensive restaurant/hotels to take visitors. He's not lodging nor eating/buying a thing. He's a CATFISH!

you dense small sha, you just dey pay his tfare up and down. If na kidnapper, you would have been a gonna.

Going forward, use your brain and stop being desperate!

Juell:
Shouldn't this be a secret mission?

This is Nigeria ....We announced before we make arrest

BigBashiru:
It's not about igbo or Yoruba men it's about men vs women. This toxic masculinity is getting too much. All men should be castrated; no exceptions!

which specie of homo sapiens do you belong

slowbreeze:
I lost my fone some months back in a similar fashion.Omo na so I stop work immediately & rushed to d nearest MTN office to do d needful.Youd have gone immediately to block ur line once u noticed d fone was missing.Sorry bro.

Why block sim before bank account. It should be the other way round

Raydos:
Has fela ever hit 100,000,000 views on YouTube before? ?


Abeg Davido and burna boy are my favorite and they are the best hit maker in the world

No internet or YouTube in fela era. Internet came into Nigeria towards the millennium

TinaG:
Is your this thing ( male organ ) big? Then use it on for d Tom boys

The V is dominant

1Sharon:
I thought god doesn't make mistakes.

Anyway can't a genetic test determine her true sex?

Your comment is full of mistake

He ll be available for ucl q-final

LisaAnne:
mmm nice

MMM for where

Kimani and Seyi shay now

Ishilove:
Our nature, huh?

its in the gene

sweerychick:
everything he said there was exactly how they narated it! You can check it urself on YouTube, what your earwax say about your health

Alright, good point there

Jealousy kill you both

Awon solo makinde

safarigirl:
Papa dark, mama dark, where the pikin complexion from come?

grandparents

GlorifiedTunde:
Xavier

What is the meaning of the name kwanu?

Why do we Nigerians like forming posh sometimes, giving our children foreign names that bear no literal meaning to us here?

That's Xmen leader....Professor X

sweerychick:
Yes everyone knows that I've seen it on YouTube bright side.. I think that's where he got the message from

Really, how old is YouTube

LadySarah:
What does Oniranu mean in Yoruba cos Thats what came to My mind.
Let the mother bless her son ,biko.
Mourner who wept louder than the bereaved.

useless, stupid, up to no good fellow

Husband snatcher oshi

tohyorsih2:
what is a universal charger

It fits into all/every port irrespective of its make

Zainabhamzat20:
As a guy can u allow it?

yes, my child well being is the priority

tohyorsih2:
ok thankyou

Abeg who get android charger?

I have universal charger, it will fit your port wella

Cynthia vs Cynthia ....The battle of ceecs

sandrayeo:
Hi all

I’m sorry this is going to be long but I’m in so much pain right now and I really need help to make sense of all of this.

I had 3 relationships in my life. The first one was in my early 20s I was madly in love but I moved to the UK for Uni so the long distance thing didn’t work out. He met someone and eventually broke up.

Then I met this guy in my late 20s in my congregation. He was so religious and caring. After 6 months he proposed and we started planning our wedding. That’s when I found out he was an active registered member of multiple gay dating sites. I confronted him about it, he denied everything but the trust was gone. We broke up and he moved on to marry another girl.

Finally I started dating my friend of 3 years or so. We were great as friends, but the romantic relationship was not as smooth as I thought it would be. We fought a lot, at least in the first year.
Eventually, things got better and we started talking marriage and babies.
By that time, I was in my mid-30s with a diagnosis of premature ovarian failure.
We decided to speed things up. We stopped the only contraception we ever had (condoms)
He was 100% on board with getting pregnant but was dragging his feet about marriage.

He wanted to do things backward; I was not OK with that so we had a big fight. I gave him an ultimatum so he broke up without actually saying it. He just stopped coming to my place, started acting distant. I tried many times to have a heart to heart conversation, I asked mutual friends to talk to him. He kept saying everything was fine but kept acting like an ass.
I finally had enough and stopped calling him and decided to move on with my life. I was in the process of getting my last eggs frozen when he came around (at least that’s what I thought). We had unprotected sex again and I got pregnant.

When I told him, he freaked out, pressured me to get an abortion and said I could never ask him for anything if I kept the baby

An abortion was not even a possibility in my book. I kept the baby, he bailed. I didn’t hear from him for 2 years. The first time I saw him since my pregnancy was in family court. We talked, he begged for forgiveness and said he wanted to be a good father to our son but also for me to take him back.
At first I said no but after 2 years of acting like he really had changed, I relapsed…only to find out few days ago that he’s about to get married back home to his longtime girlfriend with whom he has a child, only 6 months younger than mine.

Now I have 2 questions, the first one, I really need a male perspective:

1- Why would a man do what he did to me? Why would you come back and actively try to get back with a woman you obviously never loved when you are in a committed relationship and about to get hitched? But most of all, why would you go back to someone you caused so many pain and humiliation in the past and do the same shit to her all over again?

2- How do I get over this and move on with my life? Because this part of my life is now over, forever ruined. I’m almost 40 and a single mum. I will never be able to find a man willing to marry me. I'm left with anger, bitterness and regrets.

You can't continue to have sex with your guy and think he'll be serious planning to settle down with you.
He knew you don't have any option and with a child linking you guys together, he ll always breeze into/out of your life.

Brace up and accept your faith as a single mother

Bisiebae:
I attend C&S and I tell you, you've nothing to be afraid of. We are just Christians like everyone else.

yinmu....special water and candles nko

coolzeal:
Una no go kill person for NL oooh. But, why people dey fear white garment church na? Their girls dey fine scatter..

Until they put something inside water/food for you

I don't take puna for revenge mission. Using me to get back to your bf is a no for me

tohyorsih2:
you go like yoruba movie oo

I m versatile