₦airaland Forum

val4sure:
Please nairalanders, I need advice on a pressing matter on my neck now, I will try and keep it very short.

There is this lady I have been dating way back during school days, we've known each other for ages, everybody knew us as the perfect couple then, until after our graduation, we passed out together last year from NYSC, after that reality sets in.

I searched for job, nothing was fort coming, I have to change plans and was introduced to an online business which am currently doing, with the business, I have been able to secure a self con apartment as a hustling guy, got it furnished and still doing the same business which has its good and bad times

The issue now is that my girlfriend is not getting any younger, both of us are going to be 28 years old this year and suitors has been flocking around recently to marry her

The issue now is that her family member thinks she is possessed by not accepting any of the suitors that is coming for her, everybody is on her neck to marry, the pressure on her body is just too much that the family members are conducting series of meetings all the time to know if something is wrong with her.

And the reason for her actions is all because of me and am not financially bouyant enough to be able to save her from the pressure by getting married to her now, business just started.

I love the girl so much that I really want to spend the rest of my life with her because she's a rare gem, never seen her type of woman before, but am worried also, no fund for such and I don't think asking her to keep on waiting for me is a good idea base on the pressure on her everyday.

Please nairalanders, am losing it seriously, I have asked so many of my friends for idea, different opinions from different people, please I seriously need advice on this case, what should I do in this situation.

Born2Breed:
These idiots won't stop deceiving themselves.

The said the incident happened on the eve of the postponed election but it actually happened on Monday which is 5days earlier.

Until will speak against the number one enemy of Nigeria vampire el Rufai this bloodshed in Kaduna won't stop.

Those paid fools ayourb and co are paid to always cover up for Rufai but their end is imminent.

bedspread:
John 1:1-3

1 In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.
2 The same was in the beginning with God.
3 All things were made by him; and without him was not any thing made that was made.

TheGreenLand:
Oveturn wetin?!


Make una tell us now and stop speaking in parables spiritual people!

MyVILLAGEpeople:
So there is no other way to assemble, except church abi.

MyVILLAGEpeople:
See anyone who doesn't go to Church will go to hell right??
So one can't serve God without going to church??
Well, Jesus never said we should go to church. And I believe and serve God in my own way. Not until I follow the doctrines of another so called pastor.

jcross19:
you are a kid. can man who owns betting company work as pastor? my question is that did Mathew go back to his post as tax collector ? simple.

bedspread:
The CREATOR of the Inventor of Trousers is GOD ALMIGHTY.....

Troseur is a Male Attire! Let's stop Decieving ourselves.... You don't need to be told about dt!

LiveByNight:
Your opinion is well noted

Lord Jesus loved his mother till death on the cross

He didn't say look after my girl xyz

He told his disciple please look after my mum treat her as your mother

Just saying

femiblaze:
My brother, looks can be deceiving.

Ishilove:
Why are these nasty Nairaland boys so quick to label women Oloshos? Speaks of gutter breeding

Onyi22:
It will not be well with Afonjas

NOETHNICITY:
Poverty is very dangerous

Even nija celebs ve been ravaged by the poverty syndrome

Just look at just how surprise she looks and you will understand what am talking about

jcross19:
how old are you!? I said SOME professions. now Cornelius was never man of God but a devout to God. according to the book of act of apostles 10vs1. can a tax collector be a pastor? when Jesus was calling his disciples he did not call any politician in his time.

emalek86:
Nor be club you meet her. Abeg you people should just leave me alone o. The problem were I get go fit murder una worries

Africanness:
Nonsense. Men can be so stupid.

So she can't have time off for herself, once in a while, but u can go away for months on end partying wt strangers & instagramming abt all the fun ur having. She didn't put u on blast for abandoning them o, but u know how to go on social media to bad mouth a mother dt would die for her kid faster dn u would even contemplate the thought. IDIOT!

jcross19:
tax collector and politician what's different? now one of the 12 disciples was a physician and he still allowed to function his duty despite his called now compare to Mathew that was not allowed to go back to that post again. meaning there are profession that can't work with God because of level of corruption hovering in such profession.

jcross19:
see the way they are mocking God?when God called Mathew the tax collector, he never went back to that tax post again. what's he preaching ! there is on truth in him fraud.

Dronedude:
I just made this transfer on FIFA 19.

It's a spiritual move from me.

bedspread:
An not Angry for any Reasons My sister..

Scotland is Not The Standard!

The HOLY BIBLE IS THE STANDARD..


No body created Himself! We all were Created by GOD and we all will Report to Him...

The Creator of The inventor of Trousers is GOD..

There will be no need for GOD to give commandments about Female and male attires if not for things as these..

It's like a Man who goes to plait his hair on put on Earings under any guise ... it's Abomination....


If I were u, I will seek GOD'S face on dt ! No inventions or Modernization or whatever Exceeds GOD'S WORD

GOD Bless U

chiefqueen:
It's not.

Trousers were made for both men and women.

What baffles me is how someone is still asking this kind of question, when were you born?

rentAcock:
Its not my job to judge anyone because the old and new testaments seem to contradict themselves sometimes so I say just follow your heart and try to do right. But on Judgement day, i'm afraid that many people may be turned away from the gates of heaven because of these conflicting interpretations.

opejulie10:
nairalanders, I am confused and this is the last place I would ever think I would bring my family issues.. I have been married to my husband for 8 yrs with 2kids..he has been caring and all sort..

The problem started 6 months ago when he brought in his friend without informing me to leave with us cos of the distance from work to his home, along the line,I noticed my husband started coming home late, like past 12am,1am or even 2am,he doesn't bother calling me when he is at work, I do the calling and I kept complaining he apologizes and he continues again.
whenever he comes back from work,he would rather sit with his friend and even forget to sleep in his friend room,I have to wake him up to come over and sleep,he doesn't even help with the kids anymore,he doesn't want to go to church anymore,I keep wasting food as he won't eat if his friend his around. on Val's day my husband didn't even call or send a message or buy a gift,it has never happened before. I called his friend and warned that I don't want to see him in my matrimonial home again and I guess he told my husband,my husband didn't speak to me since morning, I even went to meet him about what was wrong and he said he was going to beat me up when I called him gay. he has reported me to my family and I feel so bad,I am so hurt and I don't know what to do,he is not himself this morning because his friend is not around