₦airaland Forum

Znation:
Hello nairalanders

Some people may say i'm lucky and would want to be in my position, but i really need ur advice..

My girlfriend mum have a very big provission shop, and u all know how it feels (that joy) to have such person daughther as your girlfriend.

She loves me so much that she can give me money, food stuff, all for free from their shop. infact, i don't even spend a kobo to buy anything again. All i do is just go to their shop, & collect whatever i want.

If i meet her mum when i want to buy something, i'll pay her. But if i give her N500, she will give me change of even N2000 and ask me to go. And i don't argue with her so that her mum won't notice. I will just collect the money and go.

If i call her on phone that i'm hungry, only God can tell the things she will bring for me withing just 20 minutes of calling her..

She's spending so much on me, and i think i need advice.

I thought i was a lucky man b4, but the thing is too much 4 me.

nairalanders, What should i do?

This is pure stealing...you better stop encouraging it

jimmynauty:
Some days ago, I read how #200,000+ was stolen via recharge card. Yesterday I discovered #530 was deducted because It was deducted around 1:50am(

Action taken
1. Moved balance to non ATM enabled account.

2. Will change ATM at my bank.

N2000

Make them come take....we have Recee james

DICKstractor:



People are still denying it here on nairaland

Werey po ni Nairaland

MadamVanessa:
Does PVC really work? I don't think so, because assuming it does, there's no way one uselessss idiot, skinny skeletal dullard, low intelligent quotient nincompoop, incoherent bastard , brainless vagabond of a man will preside over millions+ intelligent individuals.

God punish those who pushes this calamity on us.

I was listening to him n Obasanjo read a speech in SA yesterday....I must say Obj that's older was more coherent and articulated than the dullardinh.o

Chuky7:
Does Taking Antibiotics after raw sex prevent you from getting STD

Antibiotics no dey kill virus

inoki247:
He good as dem put am online cause there's nothing the Govt can't edit nd edit to dere taste...


Cos yesterday or which day we ask Fashola where the camera wey e see e say e no know anything abt it again...


we kuku know say nothing go happen las las buh at least there's a record which says the Govt send Army to kill the citizens....


I pray say them sha no send Dss to go carry the guy wey upload the documents....

You're downloading the edited version

Penflame:
Good day!

I am a graduate who just passed out of service last month, I got a Graphic/Web Designer job with an airline ticketing agency in my state of deployment while still in service. According to my employer, the company is just coming up (I saw "Established in 1992" outside the office) and so he pleaded to be paying me ₦20,000 per month. I agreed, because I wasn't done with service and also because I need an extra source of income.

Fast forward to month end, the man paid me ₦15,000 without remorse, he only said the company is not generating much income yet. He paid the same amount the following month, and I complained to the Admin Manager, I don't know if she informed him.

On the third month, he paid ₦17,000 and was even expecting me to come and thank him for the extra ₦2,000.

This is a company that I have laboured so much for just within the 3 months of working there. I designed a website for the company, even though the Director refused to fund the domain, I made sure the company is visible and accessible in social media networks, I put the company's location up in Google map.

He was even giving me tasks that doesn't relate to my role to do, tasks like switching on the generator, typing correspondences and documents, etc.

Just early this month, I worked up to the Director in his office and requested for an offer letter (at least, that will show he really employed me and I will be able to see my job role and how much he will be paying me), he promised to work on it and he has not done anything about it up till now.

Now, I am done with service and the whole thing is becoming worse in the office, but still he will be saying he wants me and my skills.

Please what should I do? Because I am really getting fed up.

1. He's taking advantage of you.

2. He's taking you for granted

3. It's time to quit to show him that you know your worth.

Odewaleadesoye:
Don't mind the ugly creature. God pass am.

The night guard is a liar...how come he didn't tell anybody about the snake till it was found in the morning

Ceremonial president

Oct 1 has been declared for all them together i.e Zik, Awo, n Bello

Super duper story

Juliusmomoh:
Just as the subject above.

What is that particular thing that was stolen from you in school that whenever you remember it, you feel like to cry once again? .

Mine is my laptop.

Share yours....

Nothing...I stole from others

AmericanDad:
Hey guys, I just found out my colleague at work iv been sleeping with is pregnant. We were'nt dating tho we were just having fun together. We both came into the organization the same time and we earn very well like well above 500k per month. I'm 33 and she's 28. Shes having double mind about it and thinking of abortion but I told her No. Her reason is what will our colleagues say and how her family will react to her being pregnant out of wedlock.

The issue is she's from calabar and I'm from anambra. I'm the only son of my parents. Iv not told my folks yet but they definately would prefer me to marry an igbo girl. Also guys, we have started talking marriage plans but now that she's pregnant can the church wed us? or should I just do Traditional and court then after the baby is born I do white wedding Time is ticking oo.

Congratulations..just do trad and court. Church marriage is just paparazzi

philus66:
Mine is 1 4 2 3,I choose 4 before 2 because I don't like sweating while I am eating especially in the morning,when I want to go out..

421

I no get mirror

Righteousness2:
Wow! So Adorable and Beautiful ..

This is how it's gonna be in Heaven!
Joyfulness, Happiness Sweetness, Dancing, Jumping, Merriments and all round Celebrations for Ever and Ever!
No more sorrows, Pains, tears, complains and Death!

Ladies and Gentlemen, Heaven is not a Place to Miss For anybody or for any reason.

Get Ready! Anytime from now, all if is who are Prepared, Watching and Praying will be leaving this Sinking World for the Streets of Gold.

This one no enter, try again. Seems you are running out of rhema

EHoudini:
Dear Nairalanders share in my pain.

I married my wife in 2008 and have three lovely kind hearted kids.

I was away in Kenya that year. I met my wife one and half years prior. Some preliminary steps were taken toward marriage. In the prelim talk, the mother took charge (red flag), even though the father was right there.

When I was away my brother completed all other rites; up to this moment, I do not know how much money he spent. He always tells me, don't worry as he himself cannot remember. Meanwhile, I told my then girlfriend, now wife, to note down everything. But she didnt (red flag)

Preparatory to the wedding she insisted the cake maker must be her sister-in-law and at a very high cost (red flag)

After the wedding, I saw only part of the cake. When I inquired the mother said she shared it into two. that she took half for her family and remaining is for my family! (red flag). I fumed. But calmed down, after all, its just a cake.
That small part that was given to my family, grew fungi and went rancid in a week! Poorly made!

We left after the wedding to my base in Kenya. After 3years we returned, empty handed. She would pressure me to buy worthless and irrelevant things; which we were forced to leave behind: excess luggage

Fast forward, she accused me of sleeping our maid ( one kind hearted well mannered village girl) when our daughter started school and need for a maid was minimal. She unleashed her mother on me. Like a rabid dog, she attacked me with vengeance. That was nine years ago. Later, she said that's was not what she meant.
We stayed without a maid for a while. Eventually one another girl was procured by her mother and brought to live with us. She was in Jss1 then. She lost a year in school because she had baby seat our daughter while the mother (my wife) went to school.
The maid, who I consider my daughter, completed secondary school, wrote waec 2x, with standard results, wrote jamb 3x without success.
I love her like my blood and there's hardly anything I cannot do for her. She's hardworking and never complained.
But my wife would beat and dehumanize her with uncanny impunity and rained all insults and curse on her in the presence of our kids! I told her to take it easy but it is like I added drum petrol to already raging fire. With time I learnt to control myself by keeping quite. And that is another problem. That I was supporting the maid.

At last, my wife did what she knows best; like the unchangeable leopard spot, she once again, sadly, accused me of sleeping with the maid!. Then sent her away. Just like that.

A second life destroyed!

The human heart is unfathomably wicked; can device many evils.

Can forgiving God forgive these, especially that I never once think of such much less execute this demonic act?

Evil is real. I live with one.

This one na curse, no be marriage

#tearsintheeyes

You are nonchalant about so many things in the foundation of your marriage (red flag). You blamed everybody except yourself.

After 14days....hope NLC is watching

Thislifesef:
I came to Ghana October last year.
I was brought by a friend I met in Benin City, he told me his friend owns the hk and me looking for money so bad had to take the opportunity and I came to Ghana with the help of my friend and some other people.
Before coming I had plethora of problems, from being partially paralysed at the left part of my body to having 8 people looking up to me being the first child and only male of the family.
Getting to Ghana it was another ball game, from beating me which is called "welcome to Ghana" by a group of 10 guys I met there despite my pleading of being sick to irregular eating, we eat once a day, and sometimes two days no food at all.
It's been over one year here now, I have not picked any money and I told my chairman I want to leave he said I can never leave until I pay all the money he has spent on me since my arrival.
My health is deteriorating fast and I need to be in Nigeria. I can actually leave here without his knowledge but my problem is transport fare to come to Nigeria.
I'm not soliciting for money here please, I don't want free money but I beg any kind hearted person here to please teach me anything I can do on the internet so I can get money to come to back to Nigeria.
Please, I have a phone and laptop but I can't use my laptop because we are many and they will find out, please any kind hearted person out there can please teach me any skill I can use to make money at least my transportation fare before December ends.
I'm dying slowly, help me please.

G boy... return to ya Country

Candidlady:
I will make this really short

a friend of mine just got off the phone with me and she feels a friend of ours is having an affair with her mum.

How she got to know? She said she saw some crazy chats on her mums phone with the guy.

her dad is late, she's the third kid and only girl outta four. To add salt to injury she's into this our friend

what can she do?

Break their friendship. Find another lover for her mother

Ammishaddai:
Beware of a nymphomaniac

Once dated one, the day she proposed to me "can we be having sex everyday", I knew the relationship won't last.

PhotoComedy:
Marriage is not by fire by force. What will make a couple sleep like this for Christ sake.

Non pharmaceutical family planning method

BachJosh:
Rent is 70k
Properties available for distress sale.
Owner is relocating.

how many toilets?

Vanity

Amotolongbo:
Perverts everywhere.

What if they are siblings and talking about starting something else?

with cucumber emojis

RZArecta:
The Nigerian government through relevant parastatals promised to get this girl back to Nigeria yet abandoned her in Cote d'Ivoire since her story became viral eight months ago. Madam Abike, well done o. You're doing good

Lalasticlala

What killed her? The Nigeria govt isn't responsible for her death

myike2:
We all had that one subject/teacher in school that we didn’t like. We didn’t like the subject because of the teacher, we didn’t like that teacher because of how mean he is.

I’ll get started: mine is IntroTech, and really, this is how much canes my IntroTech teacher moved around with. The day you don’t do his assignment/home work, just stay at home and work for that day

Chemistry....too many laws n symbols to memorize

Recite Avogadro's law:
Avogadro's law lo so wipe,....

CsRockefeller:
I met a lady on Nairaland. She said she can't marry a Catholic. Ok, no problem, I will change to a church both if us will decide on after marriage. She said ok.

Later, she said the wedding must be done in her own church, I said no problem.

Oya nau, can we begin the relationship? Only for her to call and start threatening me based on comments she saw on a front page thread last week about Marriage and Denomination. Not like I made any negative comment there, I was just wondering were all the anger was coming from especially as I have promised her that my word won't change.

After everything she said that night, I decided it was the last straw, I walked away.

If you see this, I'm really disappointed that you couldn't take my word and let everything about church rest. We could have had some beautiful and long lasting, but your fears and knack for perfection won't allow you to see the bigger picture.

Remember the words of Paul; If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. I wish you well

This is where you goof

Though I've agreed to move, not to her church but a neutral church both of us will decide on after our wedding.

greatiyk4u:
Rev. Kelvin Ugwu wrote...


So because both of you are members of different churches, that was the major reason the beautiful relationship that was leading to marriage ended?

Both of you found love, started dating, visited each others families, shared each others secrets. . .called each other everyday on phone, composed romantic-waking-up messages every morning and sleeping pill voice notes every night. . .

Then, just when talks on marriage starting surfacing. . .you remembered that she is Catholic and you don't like Catholics. She too, she wants to marry someone that shares her faith, but she is already in love with you. She found a compromise. . .her priest told her that both of you can still hold on to your different faiths. The priest called it mixed marriage. But your family said, never; over their "dead bodies" will they go to Catholic Church for a wedding. Then, you asked your pastor, he told you that a woman must submit to your "spiritual" authority, implying that women have no spiritual authority that anyone will submit to.

And that was how everything scattered. Christianity that supposed to unite, in the name of denomination, is now dividing.

It is unfortunate that we are products of a fight that was not ours and a disagreement that should not have been allowed to linger on.

The gene is still in us today, we bear the name Christians, but still look at each other with innate hatred, the type that will cause two lovers never to hold hands upon discovering their denominations.

This division, this fight did not start today. For every church that breaks up, and any new pastor created, there is almost a corresponding hatred or a total cutting away from the mother church.

It gets so deep that if one wants to marry and discovers the person is from a certain denomination, they will want the person to follow them to theirs even against the person's will. It is like this: You love me, you admire my values, but you hate where the values were nurtured.

Who says I can't marry you and still go to my church?

But the truth is, all these divisions we have today were not supposed to be so in the first place, assuming the center of our worship is Christ and not about individual charisma or gifts.

It is this "I am for Apollos" or "I am for Paul" that is making us to erroneously push the different 'Apollos' of today that are parading as powerful prophets, to go found churches so that we can be their followers. This was exactly what Paul was against in 1Cor 1:12 and 1 Cor 3:4.

Unfortunately, we have gotten ourselves here, it is so sad that we are stuck. . . It is really a mtchwwwwwww situation.

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=419465962970561&id=100047214812954

Some Churches are not worthy at all cos they don't follow Bible doctrines. Marriage is about AGREEMENT on anything and everything. No love would survive without AGREEMENT. Hence, Church denomination is important. A Bible believing Christian has no business with Catholic and Jehovah witness

Notyourtype:
After i bought a ring and wanted to suprise my girl today after service, i was suprise to walk out of the church and headed straight home like i never had a plan..

i want to do it in a very romantic way, i've watched videos on youtube and thought today was the day, but i have not gotten the courage yet..

I kno very well she will say yes, as this has always being her prayer, but i still don't just know the best way to do it..

I will have to wait again till next sunday, as i told myself i will propose to her inside the church..

please nairalanders, i need a method that will be romantic, i don't just want to propose to her, but rather, i want it to be very romantic..

should i just walk to her and do it, or is there a better way i can do it to make it more romantic?

Please help me reach more people, next sunday is the day.. Thanks

You LL need to beg the Church secretary to include your task as the last announcement to make on that day.
Let the Ushers help you out with the ring while the announcement by the Church secretary is going on

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
Isoright

pussy ass god of men everywhere

Repent before it's late

Mercychen:
That's one beautiful thing about us ( twins). We always have a way of resolving our conflicts before anyone knows it. No matter how bad.

You guys are officially welcome back to the twins association.

Ejirima.

Fake twinkle twinkle