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Jad1:
is reactive also mean positive?

yes

Risingsun127:
Good day people.. sorry for the long story
I’m in my early 20s
Please I need help .. I noticed this problem in 2017.. I’ve always been a fluent talker.. I can talk without getting tired ,people referred to me as a talkative with sharp mouth ..
Infact when I was little my family even advised me to study law because they saw how vocal and active I was .. But since 2017 till presently my mouth is always feeling heavy.. Whenever I talk my mouth will be gathering spit.. I’m always swallowing spit and most times I chock on my saliva .. I find it difficult to speak cause I’ll just be blabbing and stuttering.. It’s as if my Brain is clogged. There was even a time I couldn’t speak out.. words will be in my mind but to say it out will be so difficult..

I don’t know if it’s because we moved into this environment.. Could it be spiritual problem from this environment I moved into in 2016 or someone is on my case??

Because of the spit issue .. I went to a doctor who told me my issue was worm. I’ve been deworming on a steady still yet I can’t communicate with people effectively.. I’ll just be looking dumb when with my friends meanwhile I’ve lots of things to say in my mind!!
If I say let me open my mouth and talk I’ll just be stuttering and stammering and it has affected my self confidence massively.
Please I need help .. What could’ve gone wrong with me ?? Is it spiritual or medical.. Please medical practitioners come to my aid ..
Has anyone else experienced this issue or know about this kind of problem?? Please I need a solution.
Moderators , Lalastica please move to Front page

You have medical challenge called Hypersalivation

Lorex6:
Hi
Thank you for opening this post. Your contributions will be greatly appreciated!

I am barber, just turned 19 few weeks ago and I am supposed to start my uni education tomorrow but that is not the problem.

I earned upwards of 40... Maybe 60k most of which I aid my siblings with. But it's too demanding, like 14 or 15 hours a day everyday. And I have some skill trading forex but I don't do it now.

Right now I want to drop barbing and possibly school to learn blockchain development. My mom will prolly take me for deliverance. Lol.
I am buying a laptop tomorrow. Already dropped social media, right now its just Reddit and NL.

I am greatly worried about my future and tired of living inna trap.

I remember learning about Bitcoin like 7 years ago but couldn't get in till this year.

My parents can give moral advice but I need you on this one. Thanks

Cc. Tensazangetsu20
Airsaylongcome
Lindner
Ezechidera
Ypeace

You can't survive with barbing, put someone there in your shop to deliver to you weekly/monthly while you chase your dreams

Opexzy:
They are all full time actually...
The issue here is Job security.

Stay where you are...there is job security there

Opexzy:
Hello Nairalanders..

I am a bit confused right now. I have two remote jobs currently, they both pay me 200k and 150k salary respectively. These two companies have been existing for over 3 years so they have built up structure that one could trust a little over time...

I recently applied for another full-time job, it's a startup that is just moving from ideation phase to implementation. And they are offering me 650k salary a month even though I told them my salary expectation is 500k a month. I will be working 2 days onsite, 3 days remotely.

I am enticed by this new salary and at the same time, my current jobs have built structure that I can trust.

Not to even mention that I occupy a very important position in these two companies: though not a big deal.

Please i am just confused... Just finanlized everything with the company’s management team.. I am meant to resume next two weeks.

Nothing beats full time employment

KINGJAJA888:
Good day Nairalanders. I need your opinions please. Don't know what's up with my skin these days
Noticed something like a patch on my hand and Abs last week but I ignored it bcus it wasn't visible.
But Now it's worsening daybyday and giving me great concerns. Pls fam and Experts in the house what's your take on this and how can I make it clear off Pls? Any opinion on this will be greatly appreciated

Buy 7keys or calamine lotion

DSC7:
I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....

We dated from 2012-2016,,,,

During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....

By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....

And we don't have each others contacts again

So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....


Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be

This is Super Story

Nilx:
Well for me, it’s just few minute ago. I was shit scared when they told me to go help them carry him so we can take him in a car to hospital.

I had to wait for my dad before I entered the house. Midway to the car, he lost his life. I was fucking scared..... I’m back alone at home while my mom and dad are still at the neighbor house.....

Not yet

Iyaebe:
Well deserved.Look at how the wife is taking care of him at old age,it's simply because he was good and kind to his wife, men please be good and kind to your wife if you wish and want to enjoy your old age.

Wrong motive
What if a man has more than a wife

Interesting15:
So, one day, a boy asked his father, "dad, what's the size of God?". The dad looked up and saw an aeroplane flying, and he asked his son in return, "Son, what's the size of that aeroplane flying up there?" To which the son replied, "It is so small".

The father asked his boy to enter the car and drove him to a nearby airport, where he saw several aeroplanes. When the dad asked him again, "What's the size of an aeroplane, son?" His response was "It is so big dad"

So, the dad explained, "So it is with God. The size of God you see is determined by how close you are to Him. If you want God to be real and much obvious, then you have to get closer to Him"

My friends, this is a good opportunity to know the LORD much more than ever before. Today is the day you should make the decision to get closer to God so He can become real and much obvious to you.

The first step to getting closer to Him is to accept His free gift of salvation, which is Jesus Christ. Once you embrace Jesus Christ into your life to become your LORD and Saviour, He cleanse your sins and make you worthy of moving closer to a Holy God.

What should you do? Simply ask Jesus Christ for mercy and forgiveness of your sins, and to come into your life to become your Lord indeed.

If you need more information, you can always reach out. Jesus loves you. God bless you.

https://www.sundayakanni.com/2021/11/what-is-size-of-god.html?m=1

Undefined, Unspecified

AntiChristian:
When it's your time to die you die! Even death kill your Jesus.

Train your kids well for them not to become prostitutes. Be adequately involved in their life. Don't delegate your duties to nannies, teachers, family members due to work.

Mumu talk

Who told you prostitutes lack good parenting, most of them are into the field seeking financial freedom

Omooba77:
Are you maximising your talents for God?

Some of us have commercialise our talents, especially guitarists, saxophonists, key boadrists and so on. Is it good to force Church to pay, rather than using and maximising our talents for God.

It is wrong....We ought to praise God with our talents.

Being paid to praise God is wrong

Promzy99:
How Do I Stop This Habit? Help Needed Pls....

I started notcing this recently, each time I want to pray that thought or scene will just pop up and interrup. Immediately I begin to sing" Holy spirit activate" �� funny enough it doesnt works �... Someone should please help me oo..

Your visual controls your mind....Saturate your visuals with the things of God. Nudes, porn, secular music videos is no go area for you

That phrase "nobody holy pass" is an excuse to misbehave over and over again

Folahh:
Let love lead

Yinmu....until the two brothers are shopping together. He has issue with Paul not his wife or children

bigpriik:
I brought up this topic two years ago, it was about a girl i loved so much we were good friends, but she is Just into a kinda flashy lifestyle funded by runs. She always posts twerk videos on her Instagram and whatssap status and of course she is very beautiful and the kind of woman I want to spend the rest of my life with.

Hoestly I don't know why I love her, it's just crazy. Last year I deleted her number and pictures from my phone, because we had a fight over the tatoo she drew on her upper arm so I avoided her..

But yesterday I saw her in my street, meeen this girl don fine scatter and she is looking so fresh like those men are really paying her well. She called me and I answered we talked and believe me all the nuts in my head was loose because I talked to her.. ,i felt all the old emotions back again and it was so strong again. I immediately collected her number and she sent me a hi on WhatsApp so we begin talking again, we chatted all Night and she told me how she missed me so much and all.

Is it sensible iI take her in, i am 29 now and rounding up for marriage and she is the only one i see but i am afraid because i feel runs girls don't really retire even after marriage..

Elders please i need your help..
I need

It will end in premium tears....all those flashy stuff didn't come without back for ground. If you're ready to share her , you can continue

pocohantas:
Annie should include Pero in her Instagram apology o. You can’t drag her finish, you and 2face will na use her to settle.

Ehnehn! Kolewerk.

You have to finish this virtuousness.

Seconded

adetayoonas:
Osimhen won penalty.Musa played it. This is very wrong

The captain decides

Baamisere:
Help Me! I'm Fed Up

I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 years now and she has been a good woman through and through. I've met her parents and we're discussing on the next step. She has been supportive, responsible and caring despite our tribal difference.

However, the problem I'm having with her is that when she's angry she tends to use foul languages and curses on me which I don't like. She end up apologizing after the ranting but I'm tired of going over this. Please how can I deal with this attitude of hers?

I need honest contributions to this thread.

Gutter girl, emotional n physical abuse loading in your marriage....Quit now

Praxtech:
By what criteria?

no be honorary

Impregnable101:
So i decided to take to the kitchen today to treat my wife to a delicious meal, but was stunned by the way things have skyrocked in the market . Assorted-1,000 & beef 1,200

Make i kuku leave kitchen mata for madam till bubu carry him wahala comot office

location

BabaIbo:
This post is for intending grooms.

I made this post because it was one of the major reasons I parted with my ex(it was a serious relationship) few years ago, then I wasn't financially stable as I am now, so my decision was inline with my capability then. She told me she won't move in with me unless I do church wedding even after the trad. and she was serious about it. She wasn't ready to reason with me.

Considering the fact that majority of the men( those within the marriageable age range and above but are not financially stable enough to run everything at once) have the plan of doing the white wedding first, later on do the church wedding when they are more financially stable.

This led me to running a check recently and I find out that in some homes or families, they don't allow their daughters to move in with their husbands even after the men have paid their bride prices, until the church(or white) wedding has been done.

Dear single men, what do you think about this?
Can you cope with it until you're ready for your church wedding?

To the married ones, did you experience this?
How were you able to handle it?

MODs, please do the needful.

It's not biblical, the scripture only recognize traditional wedding. Church wedding is oyibo's idea. Jesus turned water to wine at a traditional wedding

Musa and his 3mins game play time

Is that tactical? Rohr is a big shame

Cape Verde 2-1 CAR

It's going to be war on Tuesday

Winner takes all

Ndidi is not in this match at all

It's 1-1 between cape Verde and CAR... hope it ends like that

AkaraAndBread:
I never said Rohr was the best thing to happen to us. You're probably mistaking me for someone else.

What I said was that the three losses that were mentioned more or less broke up a run of good form for the Super Eagles.

But I will say this. Rohr may not be the best coach but he has been a very patient man who has grown this team over the past 5 years.

There must be a reason why he has lasted that long. When Rohr took over from Oliseh, Nigeria had missed 2 AFCONs.

Upon their return to the AFCON (with coach Rohr), they placed 3rd. They also played in the WC the previous year and had a fairly decent outing (some over ambitious fans were thinking we would win the World Cup).

Nigerians expect too much from Rohr. He cannot deliver what we want, but to be honest he has taken us quite some distance since he joined us.

And all this despite the unfavourable work environment.

You are still missing the point. Judging the team based on competition. If this team is playing attractive football, you and I would be busy with our screen and not keyboard

Onewazobia:
What about Sala Mo countr?

Outside top5

PlayMaker14:
No good pattern of play from the SE... When I call out the fraud called Gernot Rohr, some people will be convulsing on my mention....


Na this kind “anywhere belle face” style we want take win AFCON?

Don't mind the pro Rohr guys, they are only after winning even if the team plays badly

End of first half 1-0

nkiliuzo:
I so much hate the qualifying process in Africa, after all this, we will still play against a tough opponent before qualifying for WC! imagine if they con give us Algeria

Not possible.
Top 5 teams in the ranking are seeded

The top5 are Alg, Senegal, Tunisia, Morrocco and Nigeria