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Celebrities › Re: African China's New House (Pictures & Video) by femi4: 2:18pm On Feb 04, 2021
Dem burn house, dem steal land o for inside ajegunle
Celebrities › Re: African China's New House (Pictures & Video) by femi4: 2:18pm On Feb 04, 2021
merieam16:
He's looking different....congrats to him


If i say O, u say.....
P, another man say C omo na you sabi
Romance › Re: My Vulnerable Fiancée by femi4: 2:10pm On Feb 04, 2021
Anoymus4u:
Good day fellow Nairalanders.

I don't know if I should ever trust my soon to be wifey. I proposed to this lady last month during the festive period, although I have seen a one or two red flags but I decided to ignore them and forge on because I felt every one had their own shortcomings. Including me.

One of them was, I read her whatsapp chat where she told about 4 guys that was wooing her that she doesn't want to accept to date any of them because she doesn't want to be in any relationship and she likes being single and she wouldn't mind having them as friends. It was a tale of mixed feelings for me cos I was furious with her telling those guys she was single and won't mind keeping them as friends when she was very much in a relationship with me. Why not tell them that you are already in a relationship? I was glad she didn't accept to date any of them. I went ahead to propose to also assure her that I'm here to stay and not wasting her time.

Second was that she had so many exes. She chats with them freely, and wants to hook up with them at any point. She's very vulnerable to compliments. All the chats I saw with her exes, they already know her weak point. Once they start complimenting her beauty, her features and the rest , she will to hear more and more and more. From there they would initiate a meeting. Your guess is good as mine.

When confronted, she begged and begged and promised that there was nothing between them blah blah blah. I chose to forgive her and let go.

Out of my curiosity, I decided to clone her whatsapp at least to get to track her and to know if truly changed because the wedding is coming up this EASTER. I don't want to make a life long mistake.

We had a little issh this weekend, she had to find solace with her ex. She started painting me wrong to her ex, saying that I don't appreciate her, and that she could have chose the ex instead of me. Her ex started persuading her and start complimenting her. Before I knew what was happening. The guy start sending romantic pictures and sex videos, telling her he wish he was there he could have used sex to ease her pain. She also responded by sending sex stickers back to her ex.

They have fixed appointments by Friday evening 4th Feb. They are to meet at a bar/lounge. From there, they would surely want to make out. But it wasn't stated in her chat with the guy.

I don't know what to do at this point. Should I confront before the D-day tomorrow or watch as things unfold? I love this girl and practically done the best I could for her. If she eventually goes out with this her ex. That's the deal breaker right there. She's a gooner.

Also should I be worried because of her vulnerability? She likes to be complimented. I give her tons of it, maybe she enjoys outsiders the most I don't just know. Won't this be a problem if all this storm is over and I decide to marry her? A little compliment she's hooked. I could go on and on.
Wife her at your own risk

Knock yourself on your head three times and say:

"My love for her will not cloud my judgement"

After that, quit the relationship and celebrate yourself for taking the right decision
Celebrities › Re: Harrysong & Wife, Alexer Peres Gopa Pre-wedding Photo & Wedding IV by femi4: 2:02pm On Feb 04, 2021
Better pikin,
E be like say you go sabi the thing
Fine girl!
Celebrities › Re: Davido, Burna And Wizkid Can’t Win Tiwa Savage – Teebillz Says As He Sets N380M by femi4: 7:13am On Feb 04, 2021
Werey dey disguise. Somebody that cannot afford diapers....where will he get 380M from
Crime › Re: Man Slips Something Into Another Man's Drink As They Party Together (Video) by femi4: 7:09am On Feb 04, 2021
That's tramadol not poison
Celebrities › Re: “i’m Going To Marry You Someday” Jessica Devi Dm Iwobi by femi4: 6:49am On Feb 04, 2021
Lol "I don't care about the money"

Guilty as charged
Celebrities › Re: "Why I Married My Husband Despite All The Babymama Rumours" - Funke Akindele by femi4: 6:35am On Feb 04, 2021
You settled for less cos age wasn't on your side...Keep quiet
Phones › Re: Samsung Galaxy A32, A52, A72 - Finally! by femi4: 6:25am On Feb 04, 2021
Overpriced
Education › Re: What Is The Longest Word In English Language That Is Typed With Only Left Hand? by femi4: 6:24am On Feb 04, 2021
I typed with my right hand irrespective of the location of the keys on keyboard
Romance › Re: My Daughter My Son And I In Brand New Photos by femi4: 6:18am On Feb 04, 2021
Tolexander:
Where are their mothers?

Are these the musical albums you promised us since 2010?
shocked Are they not from the same Babymama
Politics › Re: We Will Never Support SW Presidency Again by femi4: 5:55am On Feb 04, 2021
Bornu1stSon:
For threatening us with eviction, No northerner will vote for Tinubu . You people has lost your chances of becoming president in 2023.

Mark my words
Insignificant tribe
Romance › Re: Problems With Being Tall, Lol (Some Funny Pictures I Found On The Internet) by femi4: 5:55am On Feb 04, 2021
Lol.. kneeling before the ATM
Romance › Re: Is This Right Even If She's His Daughter? (photo) by femi4: 5:52am On Feb 04, 2021
EnvelopeUs:
I saw this somewhere and I think considering the time we are living in, it's wrong even though the small girl is his daughter. What do you think?
It's wrong but if it's the mother, it's right
Education › Re: I Want To Know More About This Insect. (pic) by femi4: 5:47am On Feb 04, 2021
Not an insect

Insect has 6 legs not 8

Unlike insects, arachnids have eight legs and no antennae. Spiders, scorpions, mites, ticks, whip scorpions, and pseudoscorpions are all arachnids
Politics › Re: Fact Check: Does Nigeria Have More People Living In Extreme Poverty Than India? by femi4: 5:33am On Feb 04, 2021
Even top 10 isn't an achievement for us
Travel › Re: Woman Climbs On Roof Of Car To Prevent LASTMA Officials From Driving It Off by femi4: 5:31am On Feb 04, 2021
Esseite:
They played the old lastma trick on her... where one tells you to turn, while another arrests you..
Those lastma officials are useless, that's why some people don't obey them when they are trying to control the traffic manually
Travel › Re: Woman Climbs On Roof Of Car To Prevent LASTMA Officials From Driving It Off by femi4: 5:28am On Feb 04, 2021
tsdarkside:
you know the laws and still broke it....no excuse....
nobody can force you to break laws....

in court,she has no chance,no point....
Did you watch the video at all

The lastma official directed them to pass one way only to be arrested by his colleagues
Crime › Re: My Utterances, A Slip Of Tongue - Igboho Begs Oni Of Ife, Others (Video) by femi4: 5:22am On Feb 04, 2021
Bluntguy:
One thing Mazi Nnamdi Kanu will never do. Apologize for saying the truth, naah.
you guys lack respect for culture and tradition now
Celebrities › Re: Divorce: Ubi Franklin And Lilian Esoro's Marriage Has Been Officially Dissolved by femi4: 4:43pm On Feb 03, 2021
Righteousness2:
So what should we do?

It's not a news to celebrate!

GOD Hates Divorce!
Not when life is threaten.

God hates divorce but gave it as the last resort
TV/Movies › Re: TSTV Is Back As CEO Holds Press Conference And Rolls Out New Deals by femi4: 2:51pm On Feb 03, 2021
Always coming back....useless people. Mtel do pass this one
Sports › Re: ‘I Would Rather Die In Battle’ – Anthony Joshua Speaks Ahead Of Fury Matchup by femi4: 2:34pm On Feb 03, 2021
Too much fear in his comment
TV/Movies › Re: Chioma Akpotha Rejoices As Omo Ghetto Crosses N500 Million In Box Office (Video) by femi4: 2:32pm On Feb 03, 2021
manuelfolarin:
Yoruba people are the best in Nigeria when it comes to entertainment aswear!
Even those highly rated movie makers from the east couldn't achieve this feat
Those ones aren't professional film makers
Education › Re: What Is The Opposite Of The Word 'Opposite'? by femi4: 2:26pm On Feb 03, 2021
Ameboperoo:
But you have just said the same thing now. Opposite of WORD is OPPOSITE
you lack understanding

Opposite of the word Not opposite of WORD
Education › Re: What Is The Opposite Of The Word 'Opposite'? by femi4: 11:54am On Feb 03, 2021
Salex007:
what is the opposite of the word "sorry"
Glad
Health › Re: Man Shows His Amazing Body Transformation In Just Two Years (Photos) by femi4: 9:49am On Feb 03, 2021
Candycrushy:
Awwww...if that's really organics...I'm wowed tongue
You wet
Celebrities › Re: Yinka Davies' Son, Jeremiah, Dies At 27 (Photo) by femi4: 7:24am On Feb 03, 2021
Painful exit

Take heart Cissy Bhadmus
Romance › Re: Benefits Of An Orgasm by femi4: 7:16am On Feb 03, 2021
Seniorwriter:
Squirting is not peeing !
Go do more research okay.

Proactivity Leads To Productivity !!!!


@SeniorWriter
It actually contains urine. Do your research as well
Celebrities › Re: Sosoliso Survivor, Kechi Okwuchi Shows Off Her Beautiful Scars In New Photos by femi4: 7:14am On Feb 03, 2021
She should leave social media to avoid depression

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