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Romance › Re: I Reported To Access Bank I Was Scammed See Their Nonsense Reply PHOTOS by femi4: 8:00pm On Dec 17, 2020
StacyO:
How do people get scammed?

I still don't get it. Lol

Is it gullibility or greed.
I remember a scammer called me then,made him waste all his call subscription, he even got another one. Lol

I guess he got tired and gave up.

I still don't get how someone can possibly fall for such sweet words.
It's Greed. 20k to 40k, patronizing money doubler
Romance › Re: Ghanaian Lady Gets Her Best Friend Pants Down With Her Husband After Set Up by femi4: 7:54pm On Dec 17, 2020
Ghanaians and infidelity
Romance › Re: HELP! Please I Find It Hard To Stop Looking At Girls Ass And Panties by femi4: 7:43pm On Dec 17, 2020
tayeloveme4rel:
pls help a friend,brother,son,and also nairaland lastborn to quit his wierd behaviours and actions
Pervert.... tendency to rape: very high
Celebrities › Re: Remember "Ble-ble", The Orphan In Nollywood Movie "A Cry For Help"? See Her Rece by femi4: 7:39pm On Dec 17, 2020
Ble ble grabbed political appointment few yrs back as special assistant to former Governor of Imo state, Rochas
Phones › Re: Lost My Phone To Robbers This Morning How Do I Retrieve My SIM by femi4: 7:37pm On Dec 17, 2020
377:
I lost my phone to pick pockets this morning please how do i do a sim welcome back. I heard mtn is suspending any welcome back for now. please what can i do will i remain without phone till when the ban is lifted.
Urgent advice
Thanks
go to mtn office, they are suspending new sim reg
Romance › Re: Can I Ever Fall In Love? I Am Confused by femi4: 7:34pm On Dec 17, 2020
BaddieFreak:
I was molested as a kid when I was six by a grown man 45-50 years. Before that incident, my father had left my mom when she was pregnant with me.

So I grew up without a father. I only grew up with my step dad who also harrased me sexually and regularly beat my mom to stupor. I got disgusted by any male, regardless of their age, after that. When I was in secondary school, a boy had a crush on me and confessed, and I hated him for that.

Anyone who confessed his love to me would disgust me. As I grew older and reached my teenage years, my friends would start talking about boys, and I would get left out since the topic wouldn’t interest me and I would walk out of the conversation.

As time passed, my desire to be in a relationship grew, but I couldn’t find a stunning guy I’d like to be involved with.

So I tried to start a relationship with men. I met this entrepreneur who made a decent living, had a 10/10 personality, is accepting, loving, responsible, initiative, young, rich, works out, has a six-pack, eats healthy food, travels but I couldn't feel any thing for him so I left.

I met another guy like that. He was arrogant and proud and was used to women chasing after him. I liked his carefree personality but disliked his irresponsible ways. He was more like a typical hooligan, too immature and irresponsible.

Even though I liked him, I decided that I wouldn’t date him since I thought being in a relationship would force me to be vulnerable and I wasn’t ready to be vulnerable with anyone, so I left him.

I met one or two handsome guys who were extremely rude and arrogant, self-centered, and expect the world to revolve around them. I immediately dismissed them.


I am surprised by women who fall in love with every single guy they meet all the time. Does anyone have a similar experience? How do you treat my case?
Unfortunately, that guy you didn't have any feeling for would have been perfect for you. Hope you meet another guy close to that.

Mistakes women make in their youth can be costly later in life
Celebrities › Re: Korede Bello Surprises His Manager Of 10 Years With A Car On His Birthday(pixs) by femi4: 7:26pm On Dec 17, 2020
If you give me chop I no go talk
Mi Casa Su casa
Celebrities › Re: Omah Lay, Tems, Others Arrive MMIA Lagos by femi4: 7:25pm On Dec 17, 2020
NobleAngell:
Bad publicity for such a young career.
No bad publicity for musicians e.g Naira marley became more popular after his ordeal with efcc
Celebrities › Re: Omah Lay, Tems, Others Arrive MMIA Lagos by femi4: 7:22pm On Dec 17, 2020
Bornsinner7:
New music loading!!

Omah ft tems - Uganda
Damages/Try me remix
Education › Re: ... by femi4: 6:46pm On Dec 17, 2020
yungz:
pls who knows the name of this instrument?

i was given a school project to build this.

Celebrities › Re: "You Are My Passion", Banky W And Adesua Get Romantic On Instagram by femi4: 6:14pm On Dec 17, 2020
DaddyRochie1642:
What should I do with this news sad sad
find your passion
Family › Re: Advice Needed On My Late Dad's 1st Remembrance by femi4: 2:27pm On Dec 17, 2020
soulstalker:
Good morning romancelanders, this is not right section, but i need more opinions about this thread.

December 27th will complete one year in which my dad was buried, and according to friends and family, i was told we should have a remembrance party in his memory.

I am the 7th born in the family, but the closest to my dad before his demise(none of the kids have access to his properties except me).

Now the families are tasking me big, i mean a whole 500k from me alone for the remembrance party(despite the fact they know my financial state, which i was scammed a huge sum of money months ago and i also just ventured into some business, and the registration for my 2yrs old son school by january). So my question is, why are they planning so much for the remembrance? Why did they bill me that much? Or are they possibly passing a message to me because of my dad's properties? But fact is me i don't have such amount of money on me talkless of contributing that amount? Pls ur sincere advise is needed..
Is it by force? Ignore them. The dead is gone....I ll rather spend money on the living and remember their good deeds while they are still alive
Sports › Re: Edinson Cavani Charged Over Instagram Post by femi4: 2:20pm On Dec 17, 2020
Ever8090:
Where is the post he made that is causing all this wahala?..
"Gracias NEGRITO
Sports › Re: Lewandowski Reaches Bundesliga Goal Milestone by femi4: 1:53pm On Dec 17, 2020
internationalman:
Most of these retired legends have way less goals compared to nowadays players considering how we hold them to higher esteem..

Imagine Eric Catona of man utd just scored only 64 EPL goals and we are all singing his praises and tagging him a Man Utd legend.

Now ask yourself this question, will any strikers be called a legend today if they just happen to score just 64 league goals...

I think we are not fair in judgment of current players.. The standard is raised too high for them..

Maybe we'd appreciate them more when they are retired .
It's easier to score these days with so many changes to the rules favouring attackers cos FIFA/fans want to see goals.

E.g Now gk have to stay on line for PK

GK cannot handle back pass with their hands

Any tackle from behind is now punishable with cards

Almost all hand balls in the 18 by a defender is now a PK

Change in the offside rule: Now you can be onside even if your team mate is offside or you received the ball from the opposing team
Sports › Re: Ronaldo Misses Penalty As Juventus Draw Again Against Atalanta by femi4: 12:31pm On Dec 17, 2020
Bomboiy:
If he scores two penalties y'all will be shouting GOAT!!!



Now baba don miss "him self he be human being o"
he was terrible yesterday along side Morata
Politics › Re: Why Cant Victims Of The Escaped Katsina Kidnap Speak English by femi4: 12:07pm On Dec 17, 2020
Paretomaster1:
You served one year In the whole Northern states? No Northern University is dominated by Southerners, you can research that....
I have always been in and out of the North

I ll leave the research to you
Politics › Re: Why Cant Victims Of The Escaped Katsina Kidnap Speak English by femi4: 12:01pm On Dec 17, 2020
Paretomaster1:
I laugh, people like you attended University up North, and struggle to graduate with a pass...
I served in the North, they don't like school. Most Universities in the North are dominated by southerners

They formed ANA when they couldn't pass ICAN

Pushed for NECO to compete with WAEC

That's what they do, to lower the standard.

In my place of work, only few of them can defend their certificates yet they love power/promotions
Crime › Re: 'We Will Rape Omah Lay If We Catch Him' - Nigerian Slay Queens Threaten by femi4: 10:12am On Dec 17, 2020
Wahala be like bicycle
Romance › Re: Strictly For Virgins, Nairaland Men Please Stay Away by femi4: 7:53am On Dec 17, 2020
Zzor:
It's not easy keeping one's virginity. As a beautiful and attractive lady it's a hell of a task, sometimes you so much want to have sex and know what it feels like, you begin to get all clingy and chatty with a particular guy and sometimes you want him to just go all the way and demand sex from you, but at the end of this crazy feelings you can't help but remember the vow and promises you made, thank God for days like Sunday, it's a day that makes it easier for us to go into the Lord's house and cast all the spirit of temptations away. Praise God for capturing our hearts even though we get crazy and go astray most times, we keep keeping on. Virginprincess, fati2001, dorin how has the journey being?
A virgin and romancelander in the same sentence? .....Dream on
Family › Re: My Sister Has Abandoned Her Son by femi4: 7:47am On Dec 17, 2020
Chinyerelove:
My 17 years old sister become pregnant after being raped , it was so difficult for her because our elder brother chased her out of the house she went to stay with my other brother in his one room. She gave birth November 27 and yesterday my brother called to informed me that my sister had left the house since Saturday telling him she is going to buy her baby diaper and she hasn’t returned since. She doesn’t have a phone and nowhere to contact her , my brother has reported her missing but the problem we are facing is the baby my brother alone cannot take care of the baby he is also working he can’t deal with work and the baby at the same time , even myself I can’t take care of him because of the nature of my job I am a live in nanny. I want to know if anyone can please direct us to any motherless home where we can take my nephew until we find his mother.
you didn't support her enough while pregnant. Go to hospital, they ll direct you to motherless baby home
Celebrities › Re: Khalid Al Ameri, Family Bid Ugandan Nanny Farewell (Video) by femi4: 7:37am On Dec 17, 2020
So touching...xoxo
Celebrities › Re: Comedian, Crazeclown, And His Fiancee, Jojo, Expecting Their First Child by femi4: 7:36am On Dec 17, 2020
shashaperry:
He for marry am before he knack am belle na
She for wait till marriage before she opened her legs
Celebrities › Re: E-Money Reacts As Prophet Odumeje Speaks Of His Numerous Spiritual Powers by femi4: 7:33am On Dec 17, 2020
Indabosky
Celebrities › Re: Naira Marley Sends Vee Flower Bouquet With Note “my Heart And Soul For You” by femi4: 7:30am On Dec 17, 2020
Marlians don't date
Romance › Re: Nigerian Lady Is Depressed Because People Insulted For Having Big Saggy Pawpaw. by femi4: 7:25am On Dec 17, 2020
fati2001:
BODY SHAMING WILL NEVER STOP...


YOU SHOULD TRY AND DRESS PROPERLY.
Exactly, exposing those jugs is not helping the matter
Career › Re: Oil And Gas Industry Salary: According To Positions by femi4: 7:18am On Dec 17, 2020
Fake news
Politics › Re: #EndSARS: DJ Switch To Speak At International Criminal Court Today by femi4: 7:14am On Dec 17, 2020
Missed her on the turnedtable....Buhari succeeded in turning my girl to an activist
Romance › Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by femi4: 7:12am On Dec 17, 2020
olabosipo66559:
This mentality of leaving every load with the man is obsolete and therefore should be done away with
That stupid culture should be done away with asap
Romance › Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by femi4: 7:10am On Dec 17, 2020
Anoymus:
I have a girlfriend I am meaning to propose to during the festive period, she's everything I want in a woman except few exception which might be a hindrance to the proposal.
Gist is, my babe is a graduate but lack of work made her to learn fashion designing, she's done with the training and she's very good with what she does.

After marriage, I have told her that I'll assist in her business, I'm planning to get a bigger shop space for her and equip it with modern day machines, tools and tailoring materials goods to help make her work lucrative. I'm budgeting about 1.2-1.5m for this.

The issue now is that, 3 days ago, I asked her what her role would be if eventually after marriage she gets the shop, equipments and all, where she would come in in terms of responsibilities in the house. Her reply was she doesn't want to assume any responsibility and that it's my duty to cater for the family and she can only help & I shouldn't make anything compulsory for her. So many thoughts came through my mind. One of it was that, where the proceeds of her investment would be going to if I should shoulder all the responsibilities in the house knowing fully well that she makes money.

I rang my mum and told her of her response, I was shocked that she backed her saying that I shouldn't have asked her to foot anything in the house that it was my sole responsibility as a man to cater for my family my wife inclusive. My dad too, same thing. Even told my gf mum about it too , she giggled and said I shouldn't have asked her n that it's my duty to provide for my family. They all sounded foreign to me. Or am I the one not understanding?

My question now is, why invest that kind of money in her when I'm not sure of getting little or nothing in terms in return help to run the family. That sum of money could get me 4 brand new bikes and 2 neatly used Keke Napep for transportation business. I'm sure I'll be getting returns from these investment weekly or monthly basis.

I don't want who wouldn't have any sense of responsibility at home after investing in her, even if she's covering 10% or 5% I wouldn't mind. Mere helping doesn't go down well with me, she might have and decide not to give out. I rather not invest at all and expect nothing from her.

I don't know if I'm the one over thinking this things or my parent and her mum aren't seeing things from my perspective or am I being inconsiderate?

Criticism, Insults and bashing are welcomed. Thanks
1. Money spent on woman is not an investment

2. Money spent on your wife is a GIFT

3. To avoid pains and wanting ROI, spend only what you can give her as gift on her business
Education › Re: Ede Poly Rector Clears Air On ‘suspension’, King-size Bed In Office by femi4: 7:02am On Dec 17, 2020
Freestainworld:
which air is he clearing, having a king size bed in any office except you are the owner of the company is pure unethical, you want to be sleeping in the name of resting,abi?
What if the bed is for another purpose

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