₦airaland Forum

symbian123: Dude stop being myopic... Do you really think it's all about the money? Money last for a while... It's not constant oh... If you show a gal what you made up of, she's gonna stick to that thing like glue... And what happens when the cheddar gets exhausted?? Well you know the answer to that one...

symbian123: 1. CONSTANTLY ASKING FOR FAVORS: You know, this is not even about girls but trust nobody who constantly ask you for favors, they are only taking advantage. In the case of girls, if she constantly asks for your help especially when it comes to finances and buying stuff for her, it’s just clear that she is in for the goodies, don’t be fooled bro .. some even ask for favors that Bill Gates daughter won’t even ask her
father.

2. SHE NEVER RETURN YOUR CALLS: She barely return your text messages and missed calls and when she does, it’s mostly the ‘k’, ‘lol’ ‘yes’ kind of replies after taking days to respond. I need not tell you that she’s not interested in you.

3. SHE ALWAYS COMES OUT WITH YOU WITH HER GIRLS: This is a clear sign to alert you that this girl don’t want alone time, she’s only there to please her friends or make her friends enjoy a bit of the goodies you are offering. Look elsewhere or grab one of her friends if you can. Some girls might even bring male friends just to piss you off, while you foot the bills.

4. SHE NEVER TAKES PICTURES WITH YOU: If you are the guy always taking photos of the girl or if she prefer taking photos of the food, drink, gift you bought for her instead, then my bro, be prepared to move on. You don’t matter like that. Try go through her social media/phone if there’s no photo of you, think twice. Some people might say it doesn’t matter but trust me every girl that loves you will share beautiful moments you share together or want to take pictures with you, every minute you spend together. Don’t ignore this, it’s a cemented fact.

5. SHE INTRODUCES YOU TO HER FRIENDS AS A ‘FRIEND’ : I was once asked why do guys hate when they are introduced as a friend, and my answer was why not? Ladies should know that this particular thing hurts more than being shot, especially when you are so into her and in your head she’s the love of your life. That is clear that she’s not in a relationship with you, at least to her friends or whoever you got introduced to.

6. SHE FLIRTS WITH YOUR FRIENDS OR FIND YOUR FRIENDS WAY COOLER: The worst that could happen is introducing your girl to your friends and she start to get flirty with them. It could be for the fun of it but if she’s usually bored around you but come alive when she’s with you and your friends, try do your homework well or simply leave her to one of your friends, not an easy decision though but it will save you time to move on.

7. SHE NEVER COMMENTS ON HOW YOU LOOK : Everybody like compliments but if even in your best, she never say, "you look good" or "I like what you are wearing" then the answer is simple, ‘SHE DON’T CARE’. It’s straight like that. Don’t sweat it.

8. ACTS FRIENDLY WHENEVER SHE IS NEED : She usually calls you all the sweet names, ‘boo boo’, hun, bla bla … only when she needs a favor. Do you still need to be told bro?

9. SHE FINDS YOU BORING : This is how to tell if a girl thinks you are boring, she don’t laugh to your jokes, she’s constantly on her phone when you are with her, if you don’t break the silence, she don’t make any effort to make a convo, she don’t even shout or singalong to her favorite song when you play it in her presence, bro, you are trying too much, go for someone who appreciate you, especially if you don’t
think you are that boring.

10. SHE NEVER WANT TO GET INTIMATE WITH YOU: If after all this, you are still with her, getting a kiss, touch, sex will be one hell of a problem, you are going to be put on a strict timetable. NO PDA (don’t even think about it). During séx, that's if she decide to give you one finally, might be boring than a couple in their late 90′s trying to have a doggystyle

Aderupoko2: GEJ is a big spender. All these jobless fools supporting him are piercing their souls for Naira. You guys are part of the 1.6 million job scam abi?

twinpapa: If we are serious about keeping nigeria beyond 2015,we should give the southeast d presidency. Lets have Rochas as d president & Fashola as d VP. Its has bin hausa all along & only one yoruba(Obasanjo). Igbos have bin quiet it is not as if dey dont know wat dey are doing. Am yoruba but i beliv d igbos shud b given d chance to b president.

Princess2be: The Presidency on Sunday described
the claim by Governors Rotimi
Amaechi and Rabiu Kwankwaso that
the Peoples Democracy Party would
lose the presidential election in 2015
as wishful thinking.
The Special Adviser to the President
on Political Matters, Mr. Ahmed
Gulak, said this in an interview with
one of our correspondents.
Also, the PDP dismissed the
governors’ claim, saying it was not
known for rigging.
Gulak said contrary to the governors’
claim, the PDP would win
convincingly in the forthcoming
election and again form the Federal
Government.
He described the APC as a bed of
strange fellows, adding that the party
had started experiencing crisis in
some states.
He said, “That claim by the two
governors and others in the APC is a
wishful thinking.
“I can assure you that the PDP will
win the next general elections and
form the government at the federal
level.
“The PDP is the only organised
national party in the country. It is the
party to beat.
“The APC is a bed of strange fellows.
You know that they have started
experiencing crisis. Go to Sokoto
State, they have two offices already.
That is happening in some other
states too.”
The leadership of the Peoples
Democratic Party said it was
unfortunate that Amaechi and
Kwankwaso who it said benefitted
from the party were deriding the
party.
The party said it was weary of
replying the two governors.
It however added that the party was
not known to rigging elections.
Amaechi had in an interview with
journalists in Port Harcourt on Friday
said unless the PDP rigged the 2015
elections, it would not win.
His Kano State counterpart urged
Nigerians to work hard and vote the
PDP out in 2015.
National Publicity Secretary of the
party, Chief Olisa Metuh, who spoke
with our correspondents on the
telephone in Abuja on Sunday,
however, assured the two governors
that 2015 would show the popularity
of the party.
He said, “I find it difficult and painful
to react to this because these were
formidable members of our party that
had benefitted immensely from the
party.”
http://www.punchng.com/news/2015-pdp-ll-win-presidency-tells-amaechi-others/

jomogbomo: Buffoon . Have you ever set your foot in the South East in your entire life? Ignorant Yoruba subhuman

churchmind: dat y u guys r tune to alamajiri .a.k.a modern day slavery

ping pong: I'm interested in knowing those that collected. Ayo Oritsejafor must have collected 10 cows surely...

jmaine: Be more discernible dude . . . .I can barely grasp your gibberish . . .

kglamour: My grouse against northern governors’
As the world celebrated Boxing Day, National President of the Christian Association of Nigeria, CAN, Pastor Ayo Oritsejafor, played host to two Niger Delta governors, Dr. Emmanuel Uduaghan of Delta State and his Akwa Ibom State counterpart, Obong Godswill Akpabio, among others at the 8th edition of Word of Life Bible Church/Eagle Flight Micro-Finance Bank poverty reduction programme where he gave out six brand new cars, 15 tricycles and 100 grinding machines. Impressed by the gesture, the two governors and Mr. Erhuani Godbless donated the sum of N30 million to assist the next poverty alleviation programme. While Akpabio gave N250,000 each to the first four persons who won cars, Uduaghan opted to buy fuel for the six persons who won cars in a process described as a free and fair election. Before the programme that took place on Ajamimogha Road, Warri, the CAN President spoke on the essence of Christmas and some national issues. Our SAM EYOBOKA was there. Excerpts:
This is Christmas, a season of love, giving and the rest. What is the essence of the season?
The most powerful verse in the Holy Bible is John 3:16: “For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten son, that whosoever believeth in Him will not perish but have everlasting life”. Unto us a child is born, unto us a son is given. Basically, Christmas is about giving. God gave His son to man, that’s why Jesus came. He came on a mission to rescue man from obvious destruction. Man had fallen, now God wanted to restore man. But in restoring man, He didn’t just say He wanted to rescue man, He set a precedence—He gave.
So if you are going to celebrate Christmas properly, we must put in focus the main issue about Christmas, and it’s giving. So, first of all, He gave His son so that we may be saved and know that heaven is secure. But while we are in this world, how do we genuinely celebrate what God gave? Wise men came and they also gave. So if we are wise today, what we must do is to give; give to the less privileged, give especially to those who will never be able to probably give back to you.
To me, that is the giving that touches God most. When you give to people who don’t have the capacity to give you back; it shows that you believe that, first of all, what you are doing is right, also you know that it’s only God that can reward you.
It’s very painful and pathetic for me to see what Christmas has become, but that must not stop us from celebrating. It’s sad, because it has become a commercial venture, where people sell this and that.
The worst of it is not just even the selling, it’s the killing and the maiming and destruction. People get drunk and do all kinds of crazy stuff in the name of Christmas. Yesterday, Christmas day, some people died; they didn’t die because they were sick, they died because they were stupid.
In the name of Christmas, people get drunk and have accidents that take their lives. In my own opinion, 99 per cent of people in this world, either they don’t understand what Christmas is, or they don’t want to understand what Christmas is, because when you see the way people do certain things, the extent which they go….People literally don’t go to church on Christmas day. It’s surprising to me that the person you are celebrating is the Church Himself, and yet you won’t go to Church on Christmas day, so what exactly are you celebrating?
The essence of living is to touch lives, and this is an incredible opportunity and season to do just that, and that is why we do what we do every December 26, apart from all what we do throughout the year. The painful thing sometimes is that, Nigeria does not know what we do; I still open newspapers and read where people are saying Pastor Ayo doesn’t care about anybody. I ask myself, are these people normal?
Marginalisation
For example, two weeks ago, the Christian Association of Hausa, Fulani, Kanuri, led by Rtd Gen Piko, visited me in Abuja on a solidarity visit. I didn’t even know they existed, and in the spirit of Christmas, when they shared how pathetic their situation is today in Nigeria, I wept. I had to look for two million naira to give to them to start something like a revolving loan. Some things that certain people do appear on front pages, but 99 per cent of Nigerians don’t even know what happened.
These people came from Jigawa, Sokoto, Kano, Kaduna, Zamfara. They are the real core northerners that we are talking about. They lamented that the Federal Government is spending huge sums establishing Almajiri schools across the North, asking what about our own children? ‘Our children can’t go to those schools. We are more marginalized than anybody else, we are seen as Fulanis, we are seen as Hausas, Kanuris, but we are not treated as such; even by our own people, just for the single reason that we are Christians’.
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And I asked a question, ‘where are the civil rights groups in this country?’ Where are all these groups in Nigeria? What is their mission? Because, sometimes, when I see them go after certain issues, forgive me but sometimes I feel like these are paid events that they do.
‘Bauchi govt illegally altered LGA’
Five days ago, the Sarawa nation, an ethnic nationality from Bauchi State, in the Tafawa Balewa Bogoro local government area, also paid me a solidarity visit. They have chosen their paramount ruler, but the governor refused to give him a staff of office. Why? Because they are Christians.
The headquarters of their local government was removed. That should not be because, according to the 1999 Nigerian Constitution, nobody except the National Assembly can alter local government headquarters. Bauchi State government did it. They moved it. The only girl secondary school in their area was closed down by the governor and Muslim girls were moved to other schools, but Christian girls were left to roam the streets.
People are celebrating Nelson Mandela, do they tell the full story of Mandela? They say Mandela was a man of peace, a man of forgiveness, that’s wonderful. Is that all that Mandela represented?
Mandela didn’t go to jail because he was shaking the hands of white men! Mandela went to jail for exactly the reason I’m explaining here now. Mandela was, at a point, labeled a terrorist. Mandela, at a point, refused to dialogue with these people because he said anybody who doesn’t see him as a human being, he would not sit and discuss with him. He did what I would rather not do; he took up arms.
There was division in his ANC, but his own side opted to take up arms and he did and he was arrested and jailed for treason and other things. He stayed in jail for 27 years. Why did he stay in jail? Because he was fighting for the freedom of the marginalized, persecuted, dehumanized people. Mandela would never have come out of prison if apartheid did not stop. It was because apartheid came to an end that he accepted to come out of jail, if not; he would have stayed in prison. But when he came out of prison, he forgave. Why? His forgiveness shows that what he was doing, he was not doing it because he hated the white man, but because he hated what they were doing.
Discrimination
When I say things like this, people say ‘oh he hates Muslims’ , no! I don’t hate Muslims, but I hate this discrimination which started long before Boko Haram.
I gave the Sarawa people N2.5 million. Bishop John Praise was there when they visited and he added N500,000 to make it N3 million that we gave to start a revolving loan scheme. You can go to the states where these people are, the governors will spend N300 million to build mosques and yet churches are destroyed, and they will not pay compensation or rebuild the church buildings or help rehabilitate lives; widows, orphans.
These governors squander huge sums of money on different things and don’t really care about these indigenous people. These are voiceless people; I have a calling to be a voice for these people who no one else will hear or even know that they exist. The first step to their liberation is recognition. This nation must recognize that these people do exist all over the North. Yes we have in the South, but its a serious issue in the North. These are people who nobody cares about. As we speak, there are people who are refugees in Cameroon and they are from Gwarzo in Borno State.
What is the governor doing? Why can’t he bring them back? Why can’t he rehabilitate them and take care of them? Just because they are Christians.
There are few who are Muslims, but about 80 per cent of them are Christians. They are in camps. I was told that there are some government officials who were even denying that they existed, and yet United Nations are doing their best, going to some of these people and trying to give them helping hands.
Yes, the Federal Government must get involved, but it is in Abuja. There is no voice, nobody is saying anything. I am doing my best to say something but they are drowning my voice! Certain persons want to divert attention by making it look like I’m wining and dining with government and that’s why I sleep in Aso Rock, that is my home.
‘Where are the govs’?
Let’s get back to the topic, this is a season of giving and I’m doing my little best. Now I’m helping Gov. Yuguda to take care of his people, I’m not a state governor. How much do I have? I’m helping Borno State governor to take care of his people.
If you know how much I’ve sent to those refugee camps. I bought grains for them about a month ago worth N1 million; two weeks ago, I gave out money to buy them things for Christmas in four different camps. There was a group that was displaced from Yobe State who are now being camped in Jos as we speak for at least two years. They had to run for their lives. They are in one abandoned hotel. Somebody appealed to me, so I’m trying to look for something to send to them for Christmas. Where is the governor of Yobe State? Does he care? Because they are Christians. So nobody will do or say anything. It’s pathetic. We are doing our best to try and touch people and change lives. This is that season.
You spend so much money every year for this empowerment program. Year in year out, you have refused to disclose how much you spend. What are you giving out this year?
Well, we are giving out six brand new cars, that people who get them will use as taxi. Yesterday, at the Christmas service, a couple came to me and gave me a gift. The young lady said she was the first lady that won a car a few years back. And here she was with her husband, coming to give me Christmas gift. What that tells you is that their lives have changed. I was so touched that tears came to my eyes. I said to myself, it’s worth it. And she kept saying ‘I was the first person that won a car’, now she’s married and their lives have changed, they are living like human beings, because, through that one car, they have been able to do other things. But, basically, they are able to have an income; things are going very well for them now. I am hoping again that six persons lives will be changed today.
Then we have 15 tricycles. Then we have about 100 grinding machines. We have people whose lives have been transformed through ordinary grinding machine. Some of those who won’t be able to get these things, I might be able to share about 100 bags of rice as well. Some people who couldn’t get anything naturally will feel a bit depressed. I can’t help everybody. We have a hundred bags here; probably we’ll share into two, two to one bag, that gives you about 200 people who will be able to share 100 bags just at least to give them some hope and joy that at least they got something out of the process. These are some of the things we are doing today.
It is obvious you are so passionate about the plight of the less privileged. In your interactions with the president of Nigeria and the governor of this state, for instance, do you try to let them know what the people are going through?
I do. I don’t speak for government but I noticed that they have tagged the federal budget of 2014 as budget of employment. I don’t know whether it’s for some of the things that some of us keep saying that has led to this, because the situation is really bad. People are hungry and are suffering. I think, apart from education, unemployment is probably a major challenge in this country today. People need to be gainfully employed.
I threw a challenge at the October 1 service held on September 28 or 29 or thereabouts at the National Christian Center with several state governors and the president were seated. I said I would like a situation where all elected and appointed office holders in Nigeria across the board, from local government to the Presidency, forfeit half of their salaries for one year, and such money should be put into a dedicated account, to be manged by credible Nigerians. The money should be used to create employment.
Do you know it didn’t appear in any newspaper the next day? I’m the only one that has been brave enough to make such a statement but nobody carried it. I wonder sometimes what the media really wants to report. Do you know that if that thing was carried, it becomes an editorial issue, and there was a lot of pressure from the press, public, everywhere, probably by now it would have materialized? Do you know how much that would amount to? It would run into billions and that could be helpful on one side that could be used to establish medium scale industries across the country that would create employment for a lot of young people.
Since no paper carried it the next day, the story ended, because it’s coming from Pastor Ayo. It’s like the press has made a pledge that anything I say or do that will benefit the ordinary people must not be carried. But when they perceive or think that this will put him in bad light, they put it on front page. I’m just giving you an example of what I did publicly, not even privately.
Would you therefore say you are disappointed by the attitude of government to the plight of the ordinary Nigerian citizens, because there’s no reason why the Delta State government, for instance, should not collaborate with you?
There is no reason they should not. But a few years ago, the governor gave us N10 million to assist in what we were doing. This was about three or four years ago. I don’t want to sound like I’m pulling people down, I want to encourage them to be able to do as much as possible, but there’s a lot they can help uswhere just a group of people should not determine the destiny of the nation; I think Nigerians should decide what they want and how they want it. In my own opinion, it is a part of the democratic process and we must do it very quickly. I’m glad I hear that it’s going to take place in February; that, to me, is one of the legacies of Jonathan’s administration and he should make sure it is guided properly so that it takes place in a wide atmosphere for people to really speak their mind. I think it’s the right step in the right direction.
If you look at what is going on in the polity today, there is a kind of gang-up between the Muslim South- west and the North-west that is predominantly Muslims ahead of 2015. What is your concern? Do you think they are up to something?
To be honest with you, I’m very troubled. They don’t like people like us saying certain things. At the end of the day, they look at us and say ‘you are the one that is heating up the polity’, but it is strange because all we do is react to the reactions of other people. What you have just described is exactly what some of us are seeing that is very frightening. Are we aligning along religious line? Because if that is what is happening, it is very dangerous for Nigeria. Obviously, it is not all of the South-west, it is like the Muslim South-w est, the far North Muslims. It is very frightening, it shouldn’t be, and they shouldn’t pretend about this, they should come out and tell the truth because that’s what we see here. I don’t want to comment on political parties because I’m not a politician, I’m not going to that extent, but we should not do that. We should please allow Nigeria be and allow the people to decide what they want. It’s a very dangerous direction if we go that way. The body language we see is not good for this nation, and I think the media must help us to get the message across that this is very dangerous for the unity of this nation and I pray that it shouldn’t go that way so that we can come today and not try to divide this nation. I’m being very selective in my words. I wish Nigeria well. I believe that 2013 was a year of discovery, 2014 for me is a year of recovery. I see Nigeria being able to recover. We have an incredible opportunity to recover and I hope and pray and believe God for recovery.
http://www.vanguardngr.com/2013/12/2015-see-danger-ahead-oritsejafor/
http://naijapolnews..com/2013/12/2015-i-see-danger-ahead-oritsejafor.html

jmoore: I don't understand. Does she walk around n@ked in the public before? Is she allergic to putting on clothes?

jmaine: If i dare you to prove the lies , you will go mute.

tobex_23: You just don't want to reason more than the amount you were paid to use your brain foolishly..! Get a life because of #1500, which lagos-ibadan road is under expansion and repairs, still ply ed it today and it is still bad!! Even had and witnessed accidents. PDP wan kill me, na God no gree for them

Sincere 9gerian: Foul smelling IGNORANCE is oozing out from your post. You need serious tutoring to catch up. Until then, bye!

Sincere 9gerian: Thrash. And APC will not increase fuel price? Pls tell Nigerians what APC did to LASU school fees. Even Ghana has removed fuel subsidy and they'r better for it. Yeye dey smell.

Meanwhile, there is nothing like N900 million food budget. You'r a shameless liar. Otherwise, prove it. All I see in your post is that you STRUGGLED to look for reasons to justify your hatred for GEJ. A hatred based on tribalism. Shame!

Sincere 9gerian: Shameless and stupiid liar. There is no missing SURE-P money. Here is the report that the made the clarified how SURE-P money is shared among the 3 tiers of govt

For want of what to use to justify your ethnic-induced hate for GEJ, you guys have resorted to all forms atrocious and wicked lies. What next now? We'r waiting for the next lie!

jmaine: The Rascal statement was addressed to the ACN and not the SW people before the polls. Guess what happened afterwards ? He still smashed the defunct ACN.

theoctopus: You forgot to also go and cancel out the one on dailytrust site and the users comments there too. Clown!

Onwe101: A former member of
the House of Representatives has expressed
doubts over the genuine intention of members of
the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) joining the All
Progressives Congress (APC), saying they could be
acting as moles in the party.
The former
lawmaker, Dr Haruna Yerima, who is a member of
the APC merger committee, said PDP moles, who
found their way into APC, would be closely
monitored to prevent them from destroying the
party.
“As APC grows stronger, many politicians of
different strength and characteristics are coming
to join the party,” he said yesterday.
“We are becoming apprehensive because these
politicians are going to come in with their own
interest and baggage, particularly PDP baggage.
“Do not also forget that there were some people
who were seriously against the presidential
ambition of General Muhammadu Buhari and even
when we were in ANPP there were some moles
among us that worked for PDP but they were inside
ANPP. These characters are still around in APC now.
“I want to make it abundantly clear to all those
interests that are coming into APC that Buhari
must become the presidential candidate. He has
no alternative; he either becomes the presidential
candidate of APC or the APC will collapse,” he said.
“All those that are coming in from PDP should
forget about their PDP antics. Those moles that we
inherited particularly in ANPP, that are now in APC,
that might want continue to play the role of moles
and work for PDP in APC, should get this message
clear”, he added. Source http//:www.informationng.com/2013/12/2015-buhari-must-become-apc-presidential-candidate-says-yerima.html

theoctopus: Members of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) joining the All Progressives Congress (APC) as double agents will not be allowed to wreck the APC, a former House of Representatives member has said.

Dr Haruna Yerima from Borno State, who is a member of the APC merger committee, said PDP moles who found their ways into APC would be monitored to prevent them from destroying the party.
“As APC grows stronger, many politicians of different strength and characteristics are coming to join the party,” he told Daily Trust yesterday.
“We are becoming apprehensive because these politicians are going to come in with their own interest and baggage, particularly PDP baggage.
“Do not also forget that there were some people who were seriously against the presidential ambition of General Muhammadu Buhari and even when we were in ANPP there were some moles among us that worked for PDP but they were inside ANPP. These characters are still around in APC now.
“I want to make it abundantly clear to all those interests that are coming into APC that Buhari must become the presidential candidate. He has no alternative; he either becomes the presidential candidate of APC or the APC will collapse,” he said.
“All those that are coming in from PDP should forget about their PDP antics. Those moles that we inherited particularly in ANPP, that are now in APC, that might want continue to play the role of moles and work for PDP in APC, should get this message clear,” he added.


http://dailytrust.info/index.php/politics/13020-pdp-moles-won-t-be-allowed-to-destabilise-apc-yerima