₦airaland Forum

Fashionista01:
The major aim of young people these days is have boyfriend and girlfriend so as to have sex and money.

The consequence is not their problem. It is the society problem to handle when the consequence come knocking. Eg: the news I just read.

exactly. we, the adults aren't even helping . All our songs are based on sex and money. Everywhere on social media is about flexing, babes showing yanch and breast. young boys think about sex almost every day in a year, then money to have sex and be flashing just as they see on music videos. A primary student is already wishing she/he has an iphone. well, i didn't say too much to even notice one of them is wearing a picture of naira marley. What value does Naira Marley passes to people?

gambia:
Develop your continent, that's main point.

Exactly!!! Nothing more. If we have a developed continent, he won't even make such statement in the first place.

Africa. Develop your place

socialmediaman:
Yes that’s why I mentioned in my original post that it was a simple example. But even as your own boss, if you have a presentation to make to a big customer for a contract, that could also apply. On the eve of the presentation, the situation could play itself. Again, that was just a simple example

What of people that have never had any presentation to make to any body. I buy and sell. Men with shorts just ordering and selling . If you like buy.. e no concern them they already have existing suppliers .


How will that work ? I understand that a wife can affect one's peace or state of mind. Yes, I know. As a matter of fact , most of the men who cheat on their wives are successful one's. Men will just find a way

socialmediaman:
In reference to the reset key, a woman could choose not to start an argument with you just when you’re about to go prepare for your presentation, and she could choose to remind you in your weak moment that you have a presentation the next day and should maybe finish that first before sex to avoid getting exhausted.

At the bolded, what I meant was clear, she lives with you everyday which means that you’ll have to consider her in the choices that you make, which could be positive or negative depending on the outcome. For instance, if you get a job that needs some travel but with opportunities for rapid growth, if your wife says no because she’s insecure or doesn’t want you to be traveling for work, that may influence your decision to take up the job or not

Not everyone works in a cooperate environment. This doesn't even apply to people who are traders and business men. People who are their own boss. Most men don't even confide in their wives about their finances.

MCKitchen:
The woman is senseless and instead of finding the root of her husband predicament she wants to create another atmosphere of tension and abuse.
She should as well join the husband in betting, who knows where the luck might come from. First she should return the Atm and ask the husband to teach her the game. See as the man will overturn her request that way he will minimize his waywardness.

NB: betting is no crime (+18)

I fear who bo fear you o. No be every matter una go dey port with werey na .I agree that the woman should try seek solution to her husband's obsessive gambling first . Also, I will also advice she takes part of the money small small while she tries to help the husband combat this addiction

socialmediaman:
Not that the woman determines whether you’ll be successful or not, but your choices can be influenced by her. At the end of the day, they’re still your choices. You made the choice. When you go to the Bible stories for instance, Samson made a choice on Delilah, he was responsible at the end of the day, though Delilah played a big role, which goes back to my original post which I encourage you to read again

I was talking about the bolded .

Read through your comment and you said they both enjoyed the sex, the woman has his reset button(sex). I want to give you reason why this can't be a point with an question. I am sure that you know how we have many children being born in a slum to a parent . How does this happen if they don't enjoy the sex frequently.

bigpicture001:
Ok.. but why didn't he hand the bizness to his wife.. thier mother

Don't u think the achievement he listed is too much..? People change na.. what if he hasn't achieve them and his sister got married.. so her husband would be controlling their bizness..?

If she and the mother are in good rapport. No issue here. The mum at this age should be enjoying and be pampered . Mum shouldn't be working but be an adviser to the children. Amoney should be used to take care of their mum .

Even the woman will will her properties to her children . The mum should just be flexing and enjoying, then giving advices to her children . That's all
Let the children work.

The father is truly a wise man

Ginaz:
you better keep that ego aside. who the ego help? she should give free entrance to the money right ? so the useless son can come chop the money to form big boy ehn?

you are a bad friend , stay away from the family . if you are a good friend , his life won't be this wayward . I wish his sister can see your writeup and drive you from the family .

you can plan with that your friend to do evil .

He even said the sister is older than the boy o. As long as the sister is older than the boy. The boy na still small boy for the sister side. He should respect the sister and mother .

socialmediaman:
You are responsible for achieving one of many possible destinies on your path (based on your choices, decisions, other factors), however, the woman you marry and live with has everything to do with what choices and decisions you make in life. I'll give you a simple example

You have a very big presentation tomorrow, and you need to stay awake tonight to study and make final prep. You're about to go and study, but there's an argument between you and your wife. After the argument is resolved, there is sex to wrap things up, and you're exhausted... till tomorrow morning. You didn't prepare, and your presentation is a flop!

You can call the woman evil all you want, but it was your choice to avoid the argument and sex, knowing you have a presentation the next day. It's on You, however, if your wife had cared about your presentation, she could as well have been supportive and given you a break. That's why they say a woman can make or break you. It's not because she has power over you, it's because she has a reset key you may need frequently

I wish I can agree fully with you on the bolded. Even as I don't see any correlation between success and the choice of a partner, something in me, deep down believes a wife can affect a man's success unknowingly

Slawomir leaves thread

Yahoo is stealing . No cap

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
I concur....
The corruption and criminality in every Nigerian can not be over emphasized

Come to the streets, visit government parastatal....go round public sectors and check civil abi na public servant and see the huge corruption

One thing about Nigerians is that we really don't hate corruption the way we pretend to..we are just angry because we are not the one in office carrying out the corruption

Even you, Brutus? You, a yahoo boy is complaining about corruption?

davodyguy:
Despite this, you just can't compare this chap with Ambode in terms of major infrastructure.

Here's the difference, Ambode actually started projects from 0 level to completion.

114 roads in 20 LGAs + 37 LCDAs.
All modernized Bus stops from Lekki, to Iyana Oworo, to Oshodi, to Abule Ègbá, Ikeja, Alomosho were started from scratch and completed.

The flyover bridges at Ajah and Abule Ègbá were landmarks.

Airport Road, commissioned by Buhari

Oshodi Transport interchange.

I'm waiting for 30 major infrastructural projects started (not inherited) that Sanwoolu has completed himself.

Argue with facts and not sentiment

In terms of infrastructure
1st Fashola
2nd Ambode
3rd Tinubu

Haba na. Should he abandon the good plans and projects his predecessor started? Han han. It isn't a crime to continue from where a former governor stopped. One of the thing that develops a country is continuity. Why should we then be argue who started and completed which?

If he had abandoned the original plan and started his own, you guys will complain . Don't you think Nigeria will thrive on continuity rather than the usual start and stop ? Nigeria currently has tons of forgotten and abandoned projects wasting and decaying here and there

SlyDev:
7 hour? you will see peasant writing rubbish here. Na rich people problem, no dey put mouth

How much is the flight to Abuja that makes it a rich man thing? Obviously, seems like you are the one is the "peasant" you are talking about. Lol. Boarding a plane makes one rich? Lol. Actually funny.

Do you know Beckham would rather travel by road that board a plane ? Infact, he avoids air travel by all means.

Judicial system in Nigeria is gradually loosing it.

Clubs, hotels and religious bodies are dragging numbers

abc115:
Do you know Lagos? Oya
Pic 1?
Pic 2 ?
Pic 3 ?
Pic 4?

What exactly do you want to use it for? Trying to track someone?

Righteousness2:
Brother, as a young man born in Deeper life Bible Church in the Early 80's and Grommed in DLBC until 2004 when I moved to the The Lords Chosen, I must say you have a very Valid Protest!

I Perceive GOD is using you to Pass a Very Strong Message to HIS Church and HIS servant. The ways of GOD ALMIGHTY are not the ways of Men.
The ALMIGHTY HOLY GOD will not change HIS Standard because of a Changing World.

I Pray HIS Servant and one of the Core Holiness Apostles and Generals of this Generation, Pastor WF Kumuyi takes note of this Peaceful Protest.

Why did you leave DLBC for Chosen?

Lagos hasn't been able to eradicate thugs and Agbero. How will Tinubu now eradicate them? As a matter of fact, the agberos will just become more powerful . Just as the Fulani herdsmen have become more powerful under Buhari.

PresidentAtiku:
Buhari= Muslim= 8 years

Tinubu= Muslim= 8 years again?

And we are clamouring for power shift to the south. Why not also power shift to another religious ?

NEVER

Instead power remains in the NORTH than to go to another southern muslim

If religion don't kill us. Ethnicity will. This is exactly the meaning of what you wrote .

MITCHELL96:
Which factory ? And how much will they pay them That will sustain them if they manage to get a factory work ? Think before talking.

These guys are lazy. Believe me, they are. They just want to live life as it comes. Most of them as you see , deep down they wish they aren't what they are but they are already too deep into it to stop. What do you think initiation is all about? Initiation rites have a purpose.


Remember Fashola being governor of Lagos state, he created an opportunity for them by creating rehabilitation centres and places of work for them. What did these guy do? They tore down the fences and escaped . This I heard on the radio then.



Misery loves company. Person wey his life don spoil no dey like advice perso rather he go wan make your own life be like his own at every opportunity. Hence, he can be rest assured that he isn't the only one. Na so this Cult and Thug life be .

How does it feel being the only one that failed a course in school compared to majority of the class failing that same course? Misery loves company

MITCHELL96:
How will they stop when most of them are jobless ?

Create job opportunities for them and see if they won't stop, so if the government can't, they should leave them alone to keep fighting, by the way, Fighting is still someone's profession

This isn't an excuse. I had lived in the ghetto are. Being a thug is a choice . Yes it is. Go to mushin and see what boys and girls are turning into. A father birthed twins. One of the them became a full time thug, the other learned carpentry and earns with it. Everytime they call Taiye to come carry his Thug twin from a fight .

Should i tell you about guys I grew up with? We went to private school from primary to secondary. These guys were so young and yet they terrorised the neighbourhood . Being jobless isn't an excuse m what you make of that joblessness is what matters.

Rahkman:
Damn you are fine and slim ....slim girls sabi for bedroom sha I hope you can handle a nice cucumber .....nice job keep up the good work

The feck is wrong with you? You must be one crazy fellow upstairs. Why will you relate this to sex ? Why? Whyyyyyy? You need help. Medical one .

laiperi:
It is hard not to empathize with this country, no matter which political party or where you belong.

Voracious looter seeking the blessings of bandits, armed robbers of Government, drug kingpins or area boys.

This is what is left of a country once known as a potential Regional Power
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You couldn't have said it anybetter . It is a shame how we practice politics in Nigeria. A bug shame. These people will do anything it takes to get there and when they do, they start paying debts they owe the "seekers".

Englishisamust:
L

L for lettuce.

If you are a thief, scammer and fraudster . It is never too late to turn a new leaf. Walk away while you still have your life. Atone for your sins.

A word is enough

Hehehe. Nigerian governor that said he didn't build bridge for people without cars

Youthful exuberance. The youths are too fixed and obsessed over luxuries lately. No thanks to the Media.

Rachel98:
...., he would be asking me why? As if he's blind, he can't see how rude and ill-mannered his wife is.

His wife has really separated my brother from us, his own family. We don't even know what to do.

Just tell your brother ther reason na.

A joke obviously. Relax. Some people for here no dey know joke when dem see am . Always too serious.

Tufiakwa

This their group ehn

naptu2:
I thought that I had already explained this to you a long time ago.

Chai. Sir Naptu. i don't know you visit this thread o. Well, can list some good old movies to watch?
Btw, you know this guy, groovemonzter on youtube? He is an "archiver' too